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Janet Ripley Demotte, IN — Wed, 17 Oct 2007 22:55:23 GMT

I too was diagnosed with breast cancer in March. I was fortunate to just have one lump and a lumpectomy. My heart broke when I read about Hoda having 3 lumps. However, when I read about her taking her Tamoxifen every day for 5 years, I felt she was being very selfish worrying about perhaps not having children. I don't have children and I'm just grateful that the cancer is GONE! She should be too. There's always adoption like so many other people in the public eye seem to be doing these days. Thank your lucky stars that the cancer is GONE!

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Denise Chynoweth, Caldwell, ID — Wed, 17 Oct 2007 22:58:01 GMT

Hoda, I admire your strength and your willingness to share your story. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in March of this year. I went through surgery and did the chemo and radiation thing. Like you I also am taking Tamoxifen. I am a single mom of 40 with a daughter who is 17 and thought maybe someday, maybe if I got married I could have another child, but that is not an option now. I know it's for the best and that God has a bigger purpose. I applaude your strength. Keep up the good fight and know that we are all in this together!!!

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JOHN BROWN — Wed, 17 Oct 2007 23:43:16 GMT

HI HODA I LIKE SEEING YOU ON THE SHOW YOU ARE AND VERY PRETTY LADY I HOPE YOU KICK THIS CANCER BUTT KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK YOU ARE DOING JUST FINE ON THE SHOW GO HEAD GIRL WITH YOU BAD SELF .

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Beth Waggenspack, Blacksburg, VA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:00:50 GMT

Hoda

I'm beyond proud (again) to see you tackling this latest challenge. I always am bragging on you, and now I have another reason to do so. Please know you're in my thoughts.

Beth W (AKA Dr. Waggs)

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Ray, Alta Loma, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:04:51 GMT

Hoda, my wife was diagnosed with NSCLC-Adenocarcinoma (lung cancer) on September 18, 2006. She passed away September 20, 2007. Now I miss her.

She never smoked a single cigarette in her life and the doctors did not think to check LC because she did not smoke. In the cancer center all the stage 1 & 2 LC patients were smokers, but half the stage 3&4 patients were non-smokers.

All the experts told us, "you need to worry about breast cancer", "You need to get a mamogram", "if you don't smoke you don't have to worry about lung cancer". They lied. The experts also told us that they can control pain, but they lied. Pain killers do not fix coughing, constipation, incontience, weakness, nausea, spitting, not being able to breath. The experts lied over and over again.

My question to you is, since lung cancer kills more women than Breast cancer, Ovarian cancer, Cervical cancer, and Uterian cancer combined, why all the fuss about breast cancer? I know it is the most common cancer.

P.S. November in Lung Cancer awareness month.

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Dobby Banks, South Orange NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:30:42 GMT

Hoda,

I've been a big fan for years, and I too am a breast cancer survivor. I was diagnosed in November '06 and had a lumpectomy in December. Lymph nodes were clear and I am currently on FEMARA for 5 years. Fortunately my children are grown, but don't worry too much about not being able to bear children of your own, adoption is always an option and you will love them just as much.

Good luck on your journey, always remain positive and God will surely bless you!!!

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Jolie Jamison, Westminster, CO — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:33:18 GMT

Hoda,
Hang in there! You are not alone.
Here is the short version of my life. =)

Why do I write?

Why DO I write?

I tried to talk.....no one listened.

I tried to yell.....that irritated people cause they did not understand.

I tried to call people on the phone. They did not “get it.”

Then I e-mailed people, they normally did not reply.

Then I wrote letters, mailed them....and got no reply.

I figure I must be doing something wrong.....missing something. Research...more research....and I yell!! Then, I write because I am trying to find help - as an American Citizen, born and raised. I have worked since I was 12. Paid taxes, been a good honest citizen...had two kids....am a wife .....a sister, and a daughter. I thought I did everything “right.” I am not sure I will live to see my Grandchildren born. That is not right.

Diagnosed with Stage 3-4 Breast Cancer 7/18/06. Double mastectomy 8/21/06 and started 18 months of chemo 8/31/06. I told them all....slice and dice me...but do not take my sense of humor. That, along with my family and friends is what has kept me alive. My family has ‘held me up’ and kept me positive.

I had a great job. I used to be very smart. I still have my sense of humor.... The company I worked for closed it's doors 4/2/07 and since they filed bankruptcy, there is no COBRA. I am trying to get through chemo without health insurance and the bills are HUGE. I have filed for SSI, SSDI (been denied) written to House Representatives, State Representatives, Newspapers, TV stations, Cancer care places, and have found that I have fallen through the cracks. There seems to be no help for me. I don't understand how that can be. I was not diagnosed at the “correct” place??? That has got to be a joke. They are turning me away since I was not diagnosed through CWCCI. SSDI says Breast Cancer is not life threatening? I wonder if they would change their mind, if it were ‘their’ Mom or wife or daughter going through this.

How am I supposed to heal from cancer worrying about how to pay the bills, and since I have severe short term memory loss, (chemo brain) neurothapy, fatigue, and had a heart attack too.... now my heart is functioning at 43% - damaged from chemo. Where is the loophole I have obviously missed?

Where are the Federal Assistance programs I should be approved for? I have 4...yes 4 of the 3 ring binder notebooks filled with contacts, information, groups, support groups, groups of groups, groups that pay bills, groups that pay for prescriptions, groups that connect you to other groups, financial assistance groups, and my life and my history and my numbers and my name.... and I am going to gather that and put it all in one book. I have got to believe that I am not the only one that has/is going through this.

I know there is a reason for everything....I can't remember what the reason for this is....only to help others who are afraid, worried...don't know where to turn when their tires have gone flat and their hair blew off.

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jb royal — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:36:09 GMT

As a proud breast cancer survivor AND a proud member of HOKIE nation, There is No Why me? There is only Why not me?

We are strong women and in your case, you have many stories yet to tell and I have too many students to irritate!

On the 25th our high school will hold a Locks of Love day with a great deal of haircutting going on......... I will be donating mine locks for my sister's good friend who is battling cancer, our mom who is a survivor and will add you to my list. It is only hair and Dr Giovanni proclaimed last April........

WE WILL PREVAIL! to borrow her phrase.

MA VT '85 and an 11 year survivor.

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TARSHIA, Houston, TX — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:47:58 GMT

I was diagnosed with an aggressive stage 2B invasive breast cancer June 18, 2007 and I know that my life will never be the same. The tumor was originally over 8cm long and was first triple negative receptor. Miraculous, the tumor quickly shrinking, the cancer is estrogen receptor positive, and I am about to complete my 12th chemotherapy treatment (Pacitaxol). I will then have four rounds of the three drug therapy known as FAC, then surgery by mid-January. I find it encouraging that Hoda is choosing to discuss her private journey with breast cancer publically. I appreciate her candor in regards to fertility issues associated with treatment. Being single and childless, although I have tucked the probability of being permanent infertility in far recesses of my mind at the moment, it's a painful likelihood. Having cancer is not a "death sentence," there is life not only after but during cancer. I have made more of a difference in the lives of others in these few months than the 36 years prior. My life will be changed forever, for the better. I am able to use my experience to reach out to other people facing cancer. There seems to be even more awareness about this disease than ever. I eagerly await a cure so that no one else will have to endure cancer drama. Also, I pray for heightened awareness and advocacy for those without access to care due to inability to pay. There is a time and season for everything under the sun. This is the time and the season for cancer and for a cure.

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Renee Singleton, Avon, IL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 01:57:43 GMT

I know what you're going through. I have family with different kinds of cancer. One of them I believe has breast cancer. It's scary to have someone with cancer and never know if they are going to go into remission or not. I'm always worried. My great aunt had two bouts of colon cancer 11 years apart and survived them but passed away back in November, 2004. So I know what it's like to have someone who has cancer.

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LA Hamrick, Marion, Arkansas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 02:07:44 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Please share and educate with us all. I hear so many people share their stories and it's those stories who bring us all courage and give us all the strength we need to prepare for our own future. I am 31 and always keep up to date on my annual visits; however, I still have the raging fear like so many women of will I be next?
Also, please discuss the ecomonical and physical strain that this disease like so many puts forth on each and every survior's family. During my mil's battle we were forced to learn about the usage of steriods to reduce swelling around the spinal area as well as the brain during here chemo and radiation period. My dissatisfication began there with most physicans. So many refused to discuss the amount of mental trama that is caused by these meds that are so necessary in order to reduce swelling but all the doctors and nurses act like they have never seen this type of behavior. Thanks to the internet I learned alot about the effects of steriods that are given to cancer patients. I am not sure if doctors do not want to admit what happens or what but it is not pretty and would be nice for them to educate and spend more than 5 minutes with each patient. My mil has been battling breast cancer, stage 3, HER 2 positive,that metastized to her bone, needing two vertebrae to be removed, and then onto her brain area. With her faith in God and prayers, four years later she is battling everyday but doing well. She was diagnosed at age 61 and never smoked and always ate properly, took herbals, and exercised. She is of small build and never been overweight.
she is a fighter just like everyone else who has and is battling this disease.
We will win this war but we can only do it by early detection and education!

We love you Hoda and keep up the GREAT work at NBC.
I think the determination that began on your long journey of finding a job is the same determination that landed you this success with breast cancer!

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Rose — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 02:08:32 GMT

Yoda I love... I mean Hoda. That's a good laugh.

I love hearing about courageous stories about breast cancer (or any kind of illness). They're always inspiring. Hoda's story touches me. Hope she could talk more about it.

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Drew Taylor, San Antonio, TX — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 02:27:17 GMT

Thank you for sharing your incredible journey. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
One of many in the Fort Hunt Class of 1982

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Cynthia, North Carolina — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 03:01:46 GMT

Hoda,
I applaud your courage and candor in discussing your breast cancer. You are a breath of fresh air on The Today Show. Keep up the good work. I'm there in your audience every morning and you shall always be in my prayers.

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Pat Kelly, Wakefield, R.I. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 03:13:27 GMT

Hi Hoda,
I immediately related to you after reading about your breast cancer. I too am a breast cancer survivor, but what so touched me was your experince with the 'experts'. Three different physicians, three different opinions. That happened to me & I am still incredulous as to why that is. This is my life; I wanted to scream at them, why can't you agree on how to make me better!
I also relate to your experience in Central Park, the day you saw the women who were all survivors. I remember going to a talk on breast cancer and just crying uncontrollably while the presenter spoke about the disease. The sorrow was so great.
Thank you so much for telling us about yourself, somehow hearing it from you makes me feel not quite so alone.

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Nan P. Wilson, Petal, MS 39465 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 03:30:13 GMT

Hoda, I was diagnosed with breast cancer June 1, 2007, and had a bilateral massectomy on June 21. I have completed my chemo,begun taking arimidex, and will have reconstruction next week. My faith in God, my family, and my friends have carried me through this ordeal.
I am grateful to you for going public because I think you can be instrumental in finding the cure with your very public place on the Today Show.
I am fortunate that I have children. My heart grieves for you that cancer has robbed you of this. I admire your positive attitude. You are in my prayers.
I enjoyed reading that you worked in Mississippi!
Nan P. Wilson

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Alayna Schwartz, U.S. Navy Nurse, Guam — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 04:04:54 GMT

My heart goes out to Hoda and all the other women (and men) whose lives have been changed by a diagnosis of cancer, whether it is breast, lung, or another type. I do not have cancer, nor has anyone in my family ever been lost to a cancer diagnosis. But I have been touched and my life changed by the lives of my oncology patients and their families. I am a 26 year old registered nurse, and during my short career, I have already encountered many amazing examples of hope, faith, determination, and strength in the men and women I have cared for during their battle with cancer. I will never forget how they changed my life for the better and helped me to be grateful for each God gives to me. Thank God that cancer is not a death sentence, and that everyday, people like Hoda are speaking out and telling their extraordinary stories of survival. I continue to pray for those who are currently fighting against a cancer diagnosis, and for the families of those who have been lost to cancer. I, too, sympathize with those men & women who are unable to pay for their treatment because of inadequate health insurance and rising health care costs. I identify with the women who may lose their ability to bear children because of their cancer treatment regimen. As a young woman in my mid 20's and as an L&D nurse now, I understand even more how important a woman's fertility is to her identity. I wish I knew the answers for all of these difficult questions…
What I can say is that we are all in this together: individuals, families, and those who care for them, and we will prevail someday. We’re going to win this battle. Thank you to Hoda and all the others who've shared their stories and continue to believe and have faith—there is life after cancer.

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Jackie Johnson, San Diego,CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 08:42:16 GMT

Dear Hoda,

What a great job you are doing on the Today Show.
Thanks for yuur story about breast cancer keep the faith.

Thanks for

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Janet Lawver, Canton, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 11:16:47 GMT

Dear Hoda, I am a 2001 survivor. My faith got me through.And still is. my family and friends are the best. Use support resources any time you can. You have the ways to get information out there to everyone. God is with you and your family. Good Luck, and don't forget to laugh. Janet L Canton, Ohio

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Pam, Philadelphia, PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:18:55 GMT

You are so authentic. You inspire me. Always have.

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Meg, Shreveport,La. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:20:51 GMT

Hello Hoda ,
You hang in there. We like to see a home town girl on T.V. I did meet you back in the days when i lived in Mandeville ( 95-99 ) you came over to see the first internet cafe. I was the one you interviwed then we just sat down and had coffee. you were so real. Just seemed to be a down home girl.

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S. Miles, South Haven, MI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:21:03 GMT

My Aunt Jane was diagnosed with breast caner at the age of 36. She had surgery and went for 16 years before it returned in her lung. She then went through radiation treatments for a better part of a year and again it went into remission for 5 years. It returned in her lymphnodes and she fought it for another 3 years until it finally took her life yet she always had a positive attitude. She said she was very blessed to have lived 25 years after being first diagnosed and be able to raise her daughter (she was a single mom) and watch her grow up. She always had her family and friends for support. She live life, kept a positive attitude even through all the treatments. She was a Hair Dresser and spent time at the cancer center fixing hair for other cancer patients'. Gosh, I really miss her! :(

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Karen Hall Orlando Fl — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:24:04 GMT

Thank you, thank you, thank you! I just finished watching your interview. You touched my heart and opened my eyes to the very real possibilty of facing breast cancer. I am scheduling my very overdue mammogram this morning. You have helped more than you will ever know.

God Bless

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Patti Richmond Virginia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:24:51 GMT

I celebrated my 5th year in remmission this past August. I was diagnoised at age 35 I'll be 41 in November and happy and (cross my fingers) healthly. What got me thru it was friends and family and the saying "God never gives us more then we can handle". I was given a second chance at life. The biggest thing I've learned is to smash my own spiders and get on with my day. There will be another !! :)

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Lisa, Dacula, GA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:25:17 GMT

Hoda said she focused on the word "FORWARD". She would love the song Moving Forward by Free Chapel. You can download it from the ITunes store. It's all about leaving your past behind and focusing on moving forward. You will notice it's very popular.

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Doreen, Brookline MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:25:33 GMT

Dear Hoda:
This is my FIRST time every responding to a news story! Your journey touched my heart with overwhelming gratitude and I needed to reach out to you- you are a life warrior. I am sure it was not easy for you as a journalist to be the story; however, you have inspired so many. I've had my own journey and near death experience that has made my life feel so much more meaningful. Thank you, thank you for sharing your story!!!

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Sue Clark Cassopolis Mi. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:25:42 GMT

Hoda,
Your story touched me beyond belief. Thank you for sharing a very personal and private thing with the world. I admire and respect what you have done and what you are doing. Your are a great role model.
May God continue to bless you.....

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Kathy Spence — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:25:51 GMT

I had no idea you have fought this fight! Thank you for your courage in coming forward with your story as you can reach so many people. I am a 7 year survivor of a rare form of breast cancer--adenoid cystic carcinoma of the breast and had a mastectomy. I was fortunate not to need chemo, radiation or medication. So many people have a much longer recovery than I had, but the quest to survive is the same. God bless all of those who are forced to take this journey and God Bless you, Hoda.

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Veronica Masters Wareham, Ma.02571 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:26:45 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I know what you are going thru five years ago I had my left breast removed, now five years later they told me my cancer came back this time in my right breast so I just had my right breast removed now I have to go thru it again. I try to be strong but it is hard, but I am determined to fight it again. Hang in there.

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Mary Jo Steele , Lafayette, In — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:26:49 GMT

My mother is a two time survivor of breast cancer, as is my sister-in-law. Despite this, I have too busy to make my mammogram appt. moving, changing jobs, etc. When I saw your segment, I jumped up off the couch and ran to the phone. Staying alive needs no excuse. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

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Januaira Almanzar, NYC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:27:09 GMT

Hoda I know what u have gone through has been trying but i have to tell u that ur story has prompted me to act and be a responsible woman and take care of my body. I have been feeling a small lump on my left breast but haven't gone to the doctor bc i think "well I'm young, i'm 25 its not gonna happen to me but the truth is that cancer doesn't discriminate. I just want to say thank you for waking me up today. and please Know that everything happens for a reason and truly u have touched me deeply. thank you

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ronda finkelstein-ft lauderdale, florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:27:25 GMT

Dear Hoda,
thank you for sharing your personal story-i am so sorry you have been touched by breast cancer but your speaking out speaks volumes.the world listens when celebrities share that even when you seem to have it all, no one is immune-i think it helps with the why me? i can touch anyone-the message is that there is hope and life after cancer and everyday you are showing the world that this is true.
may you now be touched by good health.

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Stephanie Foster Hickory, NC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:27:26 GMT

I was always a Hoda fan but I was extremely impressed after seeing her on the Today Show. I think she showed such courage and strength by being vulnerable and by sharing her story with the world.

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Eileen Savona, Clifton Park, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:27:53 GMT

Hoda:

I am also a survivor and when I saw your interview this morning 10-18, it rang a bell. Compasion is what you will have in your heart for women with or who are survivors. It has been 9 years for me. Keep up the good work and you are our VOICE, being with the media. Today, I have a new grandson, he is 5 months and he is my hope. My husband was very supportive during my time with the doctors. My daughters are in their early 30's and I keep reminding them about mammograms. Stay well and live well.

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ronda finkelstein-ft lauderdale, florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:28:15 GMT

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Deirdre Rategan Fredericksburg, VA. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:30:20 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I watched your interview with Ann Curry and I have to tell you what a courageous woman I think you are. I can only imagine how hard this has been for you and yet you are still able to share your journey with others to give them hope and strength That in itself is a gift...may the universe bless you with many more.

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Jane Doe, Springfield, MA. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:31:12 GMT

Hoda- thank you for sharing. I was diagnosed three years ago w/malignant invasive melanoma and have had about 30 surgeries so far (I wasn't a tanner or anything; it just hit me out of the blue). I am 37 now. Thank you for sharing that young, seemingly healthy people can be struck by cancer. Many people think it is only a disease of older age and post-menopausal women. You will inspire many younger women to be screened I am sure. And thank Ann for pointing out that cancer does change your entire outlook, I am glad you concurred with her. When you could be dead at 30 or 40 or even 50 which is young these days, you suddenly become immediately aware of what the priorities in life should be, when everyone's focus in society is usually work and money. Everyone always thinks there is a tomorrow and doesn't realize there may not be. Your youth and apparent health will encourage others who don't realize they could have cancer too be tested. Thank you also for sharing and for the personal details, the disfigurement part of our disease is a huge part of the battle. Thank you for saying if they are the scars to be alive, then great! That's a new way of looking at all my scars when I just feel so ugly because of them.
Best wishes!

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helena greene — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:31:36 GMT

I suppose you get funny nicknames. I wish to add mine... Happy Hoda. I just saw you w/ Anne Currie. In your interview you said"just flush it down the toilet". Amen sister!! What a great short saying that says a lot!
Flush the crap out so it can't return and hit you in the butt! That helped me w/ my personnel struggles. You lifted me up. I hope you receive as much love as you are giving. Thank you for being YOU!!!!! Helena Greene
Ipswich, Mass.

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Jody Abbey, Clifton Park, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:31:47 GMT

Hoda,
You are a wonderful Woman for coming forward with such a personal story. I praise you for talking about it and sharing your story. I lost my mother when I was 18 (1994) and I know am dealing with my father being diagnosed with Myeloma. It is an incurable form of cancer and I am having a hard time with it. I was in tears listening to your story this morning but at the same time I was tearing in happiness. YOU MADE IT THROUGH IT! Just be thankful for everyday that you wake up and are still brething. Live everyday to it fullest. You of all people know after this terrible experience in your life...take it one day at a time but do all you can everyday...
Just keep on going like you are and you will be around for a long time to continue touching our hearts. I am a faithful "watcher", we watch everyday. I am glad that you are on the show everyday. You are a breath of fresh air...

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Nancy Collins, Lyons, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:32:07 GMT

Hoda,

You are one brave lady. My mom died of cancer and many of my friends have gone through what you have gone through. I'm always scared in the back of my mind that it may come to me eventually. If it does, I will remember your strength and very human side feelings you showed us today. Thank you and good health to you for the rest of your days. Nice 2 step also.

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Carol Stoddard Tampa Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:32:45 GMT

Good Morning
My sister and I both had breast cancer not once but twice.I was cancer free for over 5 years and had a mammo every year and had to have my left breast removed.And had to have chemo. My sister was cancer free for 13 years and just 5 months ago had to have both breast removed. But she opped for reconstruction where I didnt.
Now we are going through genetic testing and found out we have a mutated gene.BRAC2.So now we are high risk.But we will get through this .Now I worry about my children and grand kids. But we are a strong family.
Stay brave and strong we will get through this and I know in my heart they will find a cure.
Sending you lots of prayers and love.

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Marlee Carter, New Gloucester, Me — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:33:57 GMT

Thank you Hoda Thank you!!!
After 15 years i just found out I now have bone metastasis and am starting treatment. It truly does change your life and I feel for the best. You get your head on correct after many years of following "rules" that really are not important.
Thank you for your courage.
Marlee

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Dionne, Atlanta, GA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:34:14 GMT

Koda,
I do not have cancer and it is not in my family. But I am a survivor of rape and today thanks to your words, I can go another day. You said that someone on a plane told not to be selfish with your journey, I immediately started crying because my journey has been painful, at least I thought so before today.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, it gave me courage to share mine. Women survivors are a special breed, I love you for what you did today!!!! God Bless You.

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sandy Boggs,Jupiter,FLorida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:34:32 GMT

Hoda and the Today SHow what a moving story about Hoda. I need make up crew also i was so touched by your story today, My mother passed away just before her 52 birthday from ovarian cancer. She was the perfect picture of health. The doctore first thought it was acid reflux then gallballer and so on and so on After a year they decided to do a hysterectomy and found late stage 3 /4 cancer. She fought it for 3 years with many surgeries. I miss her everyday and if I can save one person by knowing what I know now I feel I have accomplished something for her.. You look great and you are a great inspiration to all. Maybe we can also focus on the "SIlent Killing" Ovarian Cancer one month.

Sandy

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Maria L. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:34:49 GMT

Hoda,
You are a beautiful and talented woman!!
Thanks for sharing.
Love what you said about moving Forward!!

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R J A Young — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:34:58 GMT

Hoda: You have joined a sorority that none of us want to join, however, we are connected for a lifetime. we are sisters and our energy helps to support those going through just as you have gone through. Our spirit and energy gave you the strength to share with the rest of the world. Yes, life is different and so much clearer and you will be able to share that with others who come into the same position as we have. I celebrated my 10th year as a survivor and my doctor told me I was cured. Cured is a word that the medical field doesn't like to use, but I accepted the cure. I share with those I can share with and it is my testomony to enjoy life and celebrate every day. I never awaken unhappy because I am just happy to be here. I keep anger to the lowest form because I cannot feel good when I am angry. It is important to feel good every day. Praise your God for the blessing. I had chemo and radiation at that time. I had no hair and didn't wear a wig, too defiant. I too thought I took care of myself, but stress is a big part of our issue. Lots of luck and blessings.

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sandy Boggs,Jupiter,FLorida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:35:14 GMT

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Cindy Morr, Kokomo, Indiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:35:22 GMT

Hoda, thank you for coming forward today! I cried with you this morning. I've always ignored my breasts, sometimes even wished them gone; I just let my doctor worry about examining them. Just recently, a lightbulb clicked on in my heart...I AM vulnerable! Just earlier this week, I've started a new regimen to keep those nusances called "breasts" healthy and to examine them myself daily. While they don't define me either, it finally sunk in that if they could be diagnosed cancerous, what other places in my body could also be at risk! You are the epitome of class and grace, my friend. Thank you for making me cry...and making me feel vulnerable for just those few moments. Those moments are the ones that keep me aware and human!

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Pamela Sumner, Sarasota, Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:35:40 GMT

Hoda (and Ann, too)...The conversation you shared with us this morning was very beautiful and powerful...reminds me of how significant television can be when viewers are privileged to access such a moment. Thank you both.

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Kristen, Lynnfield Massauchusetts — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:36:49 GMT

Thank You Hoda, Im 39 and will schedule my first mamogram TODAY because of YOU... Your so brave.
Thank You Thank You
Foward!!

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Patricia Knutsen — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:36:53 GMT

Dear Hoda,

I just watched your interview about your breast cancer. I admire your upbeat attitude because I believe in the power of positive thinking. I too had breast cancer.
Today I am celebrating the fifth anniversary of my being cancer free!
My prayers are with you!

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jane, s.c. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:37:16 GMT

Goodness, I would never had guessed you have been through such a life altering time. You are so stoic to immediately share this with the world and for that thank you so much. I've got a little problem I've been putting off but will make an appointment today. (same type problem 2 yrs ago - biopsey ok)

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Suzanne Farmington Maine — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:37:25 GMT

I applaud your bravery to put your personal life into the spotlight. I just learned my sister has found a lump in her breast last friday, so we are just starting or journey to determine what it is. I will carry forward what I learned from your courage this morning. You should be proud of yourself for sharing a piece of you that is going to help a lot of woman who watch you and respect you everyday. Best wishes to you

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Jane Burke, Elmira, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:38:11 GMT

Hoda. God bless. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Watching you and Ann, sitting on your couch, talking frankly together, was such an intimate look into your journey. It was made more powerful for me that each of you were stripped of your make-up; you were down to the bare bones, as it were. A metaphor for paring away the protective layers and getting to the guts of your reality. Thank you. Thank you.

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jeannette maltais — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:38:22 GMT

Dear Hoda,

Thank for sharing your story. While I watched I allowed my self to cry for the first time since I received my diagnosis on October 2nd the day before my 47th birthday. My husband is in denial and keeps saying that I don’t have cancer; it’s only a caners mass. I am going today to see a surgeon and like you I just want life to go forward. Fast forward so I can get past this and on with life. It is comforting to know that others have the same feelings. Best of luck to you and thanks once again for sharing your experience.

Jeannette

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Christine Valcich — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:38:24 GMT

Hi Hoda,
Thank You for your story. I to went through the whole mastecomy it will be 5 years for me on May 1st. I still have not told so many people but I am working on that. It does help to hear other people tell their story. You helped me take another step with going forward with my story. THANK YOU

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Marianna Renfro — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:38:43 GMT

Hoda,
Thank you for not "hogging" your experience. It is SO important for women to put a face on this terrible disease and hearing your story will surely ispire others to get checked! My mother and my sister (43yrs old) are both currently being treated for breast cancer so I know it's not easy. I will include you in my prayers for a full recovery. Stay strong~

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Sandy Rose, Columbus, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:40:01 GMT

Dear Hoda,

I have been putting off getting my mamogram but after watching you this morning I am going to call today and make the appt.
Thank you for sharing with everyone.
God Bless.
Sandy

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S. Tilley, Lewisville,NC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:40:01 GMT

I just saw your interview. God Bless you for being brave enough to go beyond the "professional" barrier being unafraid to reveal the most human parts in us all. As you said, it really isn't just about the victim of this horrible disease, as I learned first hand. My best friend was diagnosed in 11 out of 13 lymph nodes. She was painted a very gloomy picture. She has now been "clear" for 8 years. This is good news for those with little hope! New discoveries are being made in our medical community! With God and our faith we made it through! I am thankful for her good health and our journey together.

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Brenda Keefe, Tampa, Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:40:41 GMT

Hoda, Thank YOU! I had my modified radical mastectomy at age 38 in August 1979 and it has been quite a JOURNEY...So much to say but words fail me right now, so many memories of that experience, so many joys and tears since then - LIFE happened since that day...I relived so much watching the segment...but that is wonderful part that I am here to "relive" it 28 years later...God bless you now and in the years to come...and they will come...

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Cindy Calendine,Columbus ,Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:41:51 GMT

Dear Hoda, I am a 13 year survivor. After the chemo and mastectomy I told my Dr. "the healing process is 90%mental & 10%physicial. He said "and don't you ever forget it" This year I made "pink "applesauce" and gave it to my friends with a reminder "get your mamogram! Love you!! Cindy

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Ken Silva, Brownfield, ME — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:41:52 GMT

Breast cancer destroyed our finances, our marriage and finally, my wife's life. She had a lumpectomy and her lymph nodes, which were clean, were all taken on that side. It didn't get all of it. The cancer came back. The last 2 years of her life were horrible. Just when it couldn't get any worse, or any more painful, it did. In retrospect, having a mastectomy and being sure that all of the cancer was gone would have been the better choice. If you had to experience what metastisized breast cancer does to a person, you would not think twice about, or ever regret, your decision to have the mastectomy. I hope this is helpful to those considering their options or like Hoda, have already made their decision and done the smart thing.

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Sandy Rice — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:41:54 GMT

I have lost many Loved ones and I got to the point I just can't go to the Dr. for my self. After hearing your story and cring for you, I realized I wasn't just cring for you I was cring for myself, because of the fear of just knowing I could hear again YOUR GOING TO DIE but not for a family menber, but for me. You gave me hope and you are so BRAVE.

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NS, ME — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:42:02 GMT

Hoda, thank you so much for sharing your story.

Last week I found lumps in both , then my doctor confirmed, and I am waiting another week for my diagnostic mammogram and ultrasound. I can only go on my days off since I don't have paid sick days, so I have another week to go (no appts. available today or tomorrow).

I have only shared this with my close friend and he hasn't replied to my e-mails since our phone call. I think he is afraid to call or e-mail, not really knowing what to say to me.

I haven't even told my mother because I don't want to burden her without me knowing all of the information.

My husband's mother overcame breast cancer eighteen years ago. She was strong and continued helping with our wedding plans throughout her struggle.

I lost my father three years ago (he was 62) to testicular cancer, which metasticized and filled every organ in his body over a month. It was very unusual for someone of his age to have that form of cancer, as it usually strikes between 20 and 40.

Even though this next week of waiting will be tough, after hearing you on the show today will help me get through it.

Thank you.

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Kim — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:42:32 GMT

Hoda-I cried with you this morning as you shared your recent journey with breast cancer. I was diagnosed in March of this year and have a sister undergoing current treatment as well. It can be heartbreaking. Thank you for making the decision to share yourself with us. We have to get the word out regarding mammography and early detection. The best to you. You are an awesome woman!

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Janine Erickson, Hillsborough, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:43:12 GMT

Hoda, I just want to say THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for sharing your breast cancer journey with your viewers. It really hit home for me, as my mom is currently battling breast cancer. She had a lumpectomy two weeks ago at Mt. Sinai in NYC, and we thought all was good. Yesterday, she found out she needs more surgery - which will be next week. I was not accepting of her situation and only held positive thoughts during her first surgery. This upcoming surgery has hit me differently. Watching your video gave me an understanding of what she is facing; the emotions involved and the uncertainty of what lies ahead. I cried through your entire segment. I plan to accompany my Mom and my Dad for her surgery in NYC next week. I will bring along with me a card to give her with your words inscribed inside, "Forward," because as you mentioned, those are powerful words and the only ones that matter.

Thank you for "not hogging your baggage" and sharing your experience with me, you don't know how helpful it was for this viewer! I wish you (and my Mom) many years of AWESOME, KICK-BUTT, NEVER-GONNA-GET-ME, CANCER-FREE health!

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Steve Faith, Hamilton Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:43:24 GMT

Hoda:
Great story and very relevant comments about sharing your enthusiasm with others on coming through the other side of treatment with a renewed outlook.
I agree, you definitely carry a mixed bag of emotions from day to day even after successful treatment, but despite the physical changes you are stronger and breathing!! Continue to share your story and touch people. As with any cancer, early detection is a key factor in survival.
Best Wishes,
Steve - Oral Cancer Survivor, completed treatment 1 year ago today and now cancer free.

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Lisa Merrill — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:44:00 GMT

Hoda, I was so proud of you speaking about your breast cancer on TV today. You moved me to tears. I just love the part when you said you are fearless and nothing scares you anymore. You GO girl! Keep up the great work you do every day on the today show. Best wishes to you and your family. God Bless you.

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robin madron rising sun md — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:44:45 GMT

who would have known. i to am a surviver. i to can remember thinking maybe they have the wrong labs, maybe it's someone elses. then remember thinking oh my god that's like wishing it on someone else. i wasn't wishing it on anyone else but anyway, so many emotions. i had a lumpectomy, chemo then radiation and all i want is for others to know IT'S DO-ABLE!! and that's your message. how wonderful you have that ability to tell that. so proud of what you've done but still three years out and i sat here and cried with you (with not for you that's key) keep on keep on

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Gerri White Shelbyville, Indiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:45:02 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I am an 18yr suvivor! I'm 67, I work out everyday and enjoy life. I love the sign I saw. Life isn't for the cautious. I want to live life to the fullest and at the end slide in sideways yelling, Woohoo what a ride. We don't have to be defined by Breast Cancer. Hang in there and good luck.

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P.Thorpe,Warwick,RI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:45:21 GMT

Hi Hoda, I do hope you read this. I am 42 years old and haven't had my mammogram yet. This is the third year I had an appointment to go and didn't because I am SO afraid. My best friend had her breast removed and I saw first hand everything she went through and that made me scared. I know that having cancer is even scarier. How did you do it? I can't even bring myself to have a mammogram because I am so scared. I also do not have anyone to go with so that makes it even harder. I have heard that mammograms pinch and are uncomfortable. Please tell me anything you can that could help me and my fears. My mother, who has passed away from lung cancer 5 years ago, had biopsy after biopsy and it was never breast cancer. It was very painful for her just to know she didn't have it. I am so scared and confused and I need some words from someone that knows to help me. I am so happy to see you are OK now. I am trying not to miss your video diary on TV but I do homeschool my son and might be busy with that. If I do decide to have the mammogram, I'll be thinking of you all the way to give me strength!! I'm glad you told your story, I think it might have helped me. Thanks so much for sharing.

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Sharon Denitto, Sarasota FL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:45:26 GMT

I just finished watching your amazing and brave message and I turned to my husband and said - she has just said what I have felt and didn't know what to say. I was 53 when I had my first mastectomy and 60 in May when I had my second. You said three things that forever speak for me - Go forward, I never look back and say why me - I have a husband and 2 great wonderful daughters to live for. 2. You said I don't let the little things bug me anymore - I speak what is in my heart and mind and don't fuss on things that are just for whiners. 3. I have gone through the worse and nothing can scare me anymore. Hoda,you are an amazing role model for me and I wish you the most beautiful life because of your spirit to share. Hugs are really important and my mental one to you includes all the hugs I have received these past 7 years. I will live each day with all the special contributions I have received including your words that truly spoke for me today. Thank you for sharing today.

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Scott Kramer, Jackson Heights, New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:45:28 GMT

Thanks for your brave segment this morning. You are helping more than just breast cancer survivors and those that need to get tested. You are helping those who want to come out about other things as well. By telling your story you are doing so much and I thank you and applaud you for that. Also, you said you didn't even remember the intern's name who was in the room with you when your doctor called. It may be empowering for you to find her and thank her. Seems that she was there for you at such a pivotal point in your life and she knew just what you needed. Maybe the world will be lucky and she'll be a social worker. Thanks again and I'm looking forward to seeing you on TV for many years to come.

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Tess Bommarito — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:45:40 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I am an 18 year survivor who was recently diagnosed again, and am scheduled for a mastectomy with reconstruction tomorrow.

What I really want to emphasize is how important it is to share your story . . . My first diagnoses came at the age of 38, and because I was so open about it (and worked at a large organization) not only did many of the women I know get checked, but many of the men made sure that their wife/girlfriends approached their doctors as well. They realized it doesn't just happen to others.

I also feel that my willingness to share allowed all to understand that the battle could be won and that a positive attitude makes it much easier for all involved.

I wish you the best, and remind you that approaching this or any illness with a positive attitude is key. Fretting doesn't change anything, but smiling changes lives.

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Maria Toro, Warwick, RI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:47:34 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Thank you for sharing your story with courage and grace. As soon as I watched it, I called and scheduled my overdue mammogram. You are making a difference. Stay strong.

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anne L Schuch Naples, FL. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:47:45 GMT

Dear Hoda,
As I watched this morning I was taken back to 14 years ago when they said"I'm sorry Anne but you have breast ancer. My response was no response as I drifted also to that space up above someplace. It was then a series of events that consumed my life as well as my family until there came a time when I knew I had to do something. I believe it takes a village so
I started Bosom Buddies of Southwest Florida and after counceling close to 500 women., with 3 support groups It is always just as you described what happens in your life. IT CHANGES BIG TIME!! We are strong and after I allowed a pity party I asked that they reach down to their toes and grab that wihich makes us strong as women
I to can say breast cancer made me a better person
We than formed Bosim Buddies Breast Cancer Support Inc. I think the only not for profit group dedicated to paying the bills
. I support all the runs walks that go to researsh, but we need a national awareness to pay the devistating amount of bills. CANCER IS EXPENSIVE ! Who will hear the cry!
Contact me if you would like to know how we got DRs. Hospitals, and all the related costs reduced to a managable level. WE NEED A NATIONAL ADVOCATE!!!
Please help to address this often unadressed factor.
Bless you and know I admire your sharing publically this dreful experience.
Anne L. Schuch
Pleas excuse my grammatical errors and spelling. I just need ed to write fast and from my heart

!

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Judy Werner, Charlottesville, VA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:47:47 GMT

Dear Hoda, I, too, am among the ranks of what is called a "breast cancer survivor". I did not have a mastectomy. I elected to have a lumpectomy although both options were offered. I endured a year of chemotherapy, took part in a clinical trial and then received 12 weeks of radiation. Hoda, you touched my life this morning. I am about 4 years out from my initial diagnosis and it's hard not to think that the cancer can return. I want you to know that if my cancer should ever come back that your strength and your courageous story empowered me and I no longer carry that fear should I get a mastectomy. When the man on the plane told you not to hog your story he certainly knew what he was talking about. Hold your head up high, Hoda. You have been chosen to bring comfort to many others diagnosed with this type of cancer. Through your unselfish act of letting us into a very personal part of your life, many, many more people will find the same courage to "move forward", as you stated. Those in this special club laugh and cry with you, but more importantly we stand beside you every step of the way. Hoda, consider yourself hugged. Peace, my Today Show friend.

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Jacquie Williams, Cape Coral, FL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:48:54 GMT

Dearest Hoda! For women who get to see THE TODAY SHOW and especially those who watched and hear of your journey with breast cancer are truly blessed. You bless us with opening up and for letting us see that breast cancer knows no color, no job title, no job salary and no martial status. It affects us all and it is only by education, education and education that we will beat the odds. At my 25th Class Reunion in 2005, we lost 4 women to cancer (2 of which were breast cancer). One of those we lost, I had kept communications with over the years. It was when I had my breast biopsy that I got a call from her husband informing me that Lisa had died. She was 40. I was 40. It struck me hard that we were young women, young Black women. My eyes were open that cancer can get anyone. I rmember Lisa in maany ways (donating to Breast Cancer research, supporing those who run, and by telling everyone one the importance of breast exams, mammographs and checkups. So, Hoda, I thank you for sharing who you are with us. Seeing your tears will humble us all. I pray for good health for you and that God will continue to use you for the benefit of womankind.

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Tess Bommarito, Ann Arbor, MI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:49:48 GMT

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Antoinette.Peele, Baltimore, MD — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:50:55 GMT

Thank you Hoda!!

Your story was touching and encouraging. Having been recently diagnosed (7/20/07) with early stage DCIS, the emotional rollercoaster at times gets to be a bit much. Watching you this morning through the tears reinforced my need to "keep it moving" and not wallow in what's happening to me. I always try to stay positive but gosh I want it over. Scheduled for a second surgery tomorrow, that will hopefully be the last time,I'm nervous but I'll keep it moving. I needed to needed to watch your story to know that these feelings I feel are ok and this brief episode in my lifes journey is simply to strengthen my testimony for all the other good things in it, like my wonderful friends and family.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

For everything you do and for sharing this very personal story.

Diagnosed with COURAGE!

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Beth McCabe, Irwin, OH — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:51:47 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Typically I would be working this time of day, but I am home post-mastsectomy surgery and now going through chemo treatments. I just finished watching your segment. I've always loved you but now have a special place in my heart as we have something in common. Good things come out of a bad situation, and I've experienced this many times since my diagnosis. It is so difficult to put into words what this is like, but you have done it so beautifully through your tears and triumph. It stinks having to put my body through all of this, but at the same time cancer has changed my life, changed my husband's life, and changed my children's lives forever. I am grateful to the folks I know who run in races for the cure, or make purchases where the money goes to cancer funds. I am also grateful to you for having the courage to share with us your story. God bless you each and every day.

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Patty Gerleve, Conowingo, MD — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:51:49 GMT

Hoda, I am very proud of you for going public with this information. I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer on 09/12/07. I just had my 2nd round of chemo and have 6 more to do. Because the lump grew so quickly (it was found 8/2) they are trying to shrink it before surgery. I also have it in a lymph node under my right arm. I am sharing my news with everyone I know. I figure the more people praying for me, the better off I am. I'm also hoping to help others become aware of their bodies and go to the doctor for a checkup.

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Lias Armstrong Lenoir City, Tenn — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:52:43 GMT

Dear ms. Kotb, I thank you for sharing your ordeal with the world. I hope you will check out some herbs that Will Help with side effects naturally. Like chamomile tea for upset stomach,restlessness,ect. Acidophilus that you may get from yogart ,helps add good bacteria to your body that treatment kills off the bad bacteria.Saw palmetto to help prevent hair loss .aloe for body pain. Please check it out and let us ,the veiwing audiance know ,because GOD made Herbs for us all with reason behind it. You are a beautiful person ,and life is ment to be lived every day to its fullest love life live life God bless and keep you.

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Christine McQuillan, New York, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:53:12 GMT

Hoda, How brave you are! No doubt it was difficult to share your story but you did it with courage and dignity and that is brave! Having just undergone my second lumpectomy I cried as I watched your story this morning....I admit I cried tears of joy rather than sadness. You are so thankful for the gift of life and that is the best take-away anyone can get from hearing about your journey! Being thankful for the "awakening" is the most important lesson we survivors can learn.
You have the inner joy and the positive attitude to get out there and live your best life.
Go get 'em Hoda! Thanks for sharing your story....it WILL have an effect of thousands of women..you are wearing a special badge of courage.
I'm sending you a BIG hug and all good wishes, Chris

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D Fortier York, Pa. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:53:13 GMT

Hoda
I watched your segment and I just wanted to say how much I admire your courage and your unselfishness by sharing your journey with others. If only one person is touched by your personal experience then that is one less person who may have to suffer alone. I feel that it is the choices we make when going through the unimaginable in our lives that makes the difference in the path we continue. You have given the GPS of life to others who may have felt there is no way out. I am a friend of survivors, a wife of an Oncologist, a Radiation Therapist who has treated and met the most amazing people in the world because of this horrific disease but it is because of people like you that will make the difference in the outcome. Research is so important but I feel just as important are the stories and successes of individuals just like you that embrace the challenge and continue life's journey with hope and faith. I applaud you!! It is not our breast that are important. It is what we do with or without them after this diagnosis that makes the difference. You go girl.

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Tara Soldano Pembroke Pines Fl. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:54:10 GMT

Dear Hoda, I have been watching you for years. I love your work. Today I was captivated. I was in my room stretching and my world stopped. I realized I was hung on the T.V. unaware of anything around me. My focus was you. Your story slapped me on the back of my head. I am 42 and being lazy about getting my mammogram. I had my 40 year old baseline and haven't been back yet. I discovered today because of you I am avoiding my mammogram for fear of the results. You know the stats and I guess in my head if I don't get the test I won't have the cancer. Thank you for the slap. You are right, fear is low energy and I love life so there is no room for fear in my life. I am scheduling my mammogram today. God bless you for your strength and good health. I must mention one thing if I had something this personal to share Ann would be the one I would want to hold my hand. Her spirituality oozes from her. She is a blessing to all that watch her work. I can only imagine her energy must be more intense in person. Ann you are a necessary component in this team at the Today Show. I know they poked fun at you about praying before the news. I'm thankful that you do. Please continue to live closer to spirit we need you in the t.v. business. I'm seeing a trend emerging in your industry. Donnie Dautsh (sp?) was on your show and stated it clearly we are tired of the negative, hate shock news. Our lives are full of this energy and it is a pleasure to see our entertainment is turning to more the positive high energy vibe. God bless you Hoda and Ann. I felt as though I was there holding Hoda's hand during this story. Thank you for the slap on the back of the head.

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Diane Lambert, Chagrin Falls, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:54:14 GMT

To the entire today show staff but especially to Ann and Hoda,

I have been watching the today show for at least 30 years. The interview between Hoda and Ann this morning is the most touching, heartwarming, honest and authentic display of emotions between two people that I have ever seen on your show. Not only did Hoda and Ann connect to each other but to the thousands of people watching. I had tears rolling down my face as Hoda spoke so eloquently about her experiences. I know she touched a lot of people and I congratulate her for her courage to "face the dragon" Hoda will remain in my prayers and I wish her continued good health. God Speed!

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Judy Bartram, Clarksville, Indiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:54:31 GMT

Hoda, just saw your first interview about your breat cancer. You used the word "hope" and "forward" several times. These are the words that have gotten me through the last "15 years as a breast cancer survivor". Yes, it was 1992 and those words "you have cancer" turned my life upside down, and sometimes I think for the better. Things that were important befor BC aren't as important anymore. My personal therapy has been to talk about my situation and then get involved with people. Tell them about breast cancer. Just wanted to let you know that "we are a strong group of women who know what family, friends and co-workers mean to us and what life in general means. Live, Love and most of all Hope and moving forwad are our words to live by. Thank you for sharing. I will share as much as I can with others, including you if it would help you to know more of my story.

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Liela Hamori, Amesbury, MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:54:37 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Thank you for speaking about your breast cancer to the public. As a 2-year breast cancer survivor, I, too, have made it a point to speak openly about my experience in the hope that it will help someone else. My reconstruction was a DIEP Flap, a procedure that not many doctors perform at this time because it is relatively new. Having this procedure available made it much easier for me to get through the surgery. The mastectomy and the reconstruction was done at the same time. If you, too, had this procedure, please speak about it; many women do not know this option is available to them. Thank you, again, for educating the public.

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Shari Gilbert-Dean,Old Bridge,NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:55:17 GMT

Hoda,
I cried with you today. Your courage is inspirational. You have given hope to many people who are struggling with being diagnosed with breast cancer. Your response to your diagnosis, and the plan of action you chose to embrace, to go forward living with hope, is a sign of strength, and that strength will give you the determination to be a survivor! Sharing your journey will surely give others hope to face their journey ahead.

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Jackie Becker Siersema, Naples, Fl. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:55:27 GMT

In 1980, at age 45 and single, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I had a bi-lateral mastectomy and later reconstruction. At age 51 I married and come this November, I will celebrate my 22nd wedding anniversary and my 73rd birthday. A positive attitude plays a major role in survival. P.S. I have had two other cancer outbreaks which were due to the medications.My best wished to you and all my other "sisters".

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Lenore Eckhardt Stone Ridge NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:55:27 GMT

God Bless you, I truly admire your courage..I love just watching you. Thank you for your openess.My daughter had a scare with breast cancer and when I hear another person talk about it I always cry, but I cry because all of you have had the same fright..I thank you and god bless you..

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Victoria HIngst, Rochester Hills, Michigan — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:56:45 GMT

Hoda, I have watched the Today Show for years. There have been many touching interviews but yours this morning touched me the most. The story about the intern that hugged you, the man on the plane and the shot of you and your Mom and sister heading to the hospital all brought tears to my eyes. It showed me that every human contact makes a difference in someone's life. I will go have my mammogram because of you but I will also remember to reach out to every person I come in contact with. One never knows how a kind word, a smile or sharing our journey will change another person's life. Thank you so much for sharing for so many reason.

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Karen Curcio, Toms River, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:58:10 GMT

Hoda--you did an excellent job in describing the fears and thoughts that run through your head from the time of diagnosis through treatment. That is often the hardest thing for people to understand and effectively communicate. Getting the diagnosis IS mind numbing. Gathering all the information necessary to make life altering decisions in such a short period of time IS daunting. Getting your mind around the disfigurement can be an obstacle and the FEAR...the underlying FEAR...there simply are no words.

This October 27th will be ten years since my diagnosis and nine years cancer-free! Let's cure this horrid disease and spare women the experience of this terrifying disease.

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Terry Krieble, Bristol, TN — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:58:47 GMT

Hoda, WOW! I am so proud of you!!! I have a friend right now that the doctors have found lumps in her breast and it has hit her hard. I haven't known what to say to her, but after what you said this morning, I know just what to say and how to offer support to her. Thank You and God Bless You!

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Dede Wirth, Mystic CT — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:58:51 GMT

Dear Hoda, I had a mastectomy 31 years ago, so I know what you are going through. May I pass on some advice? I ,too, felt really "up" after the mastectomy; then it hit me. In a nutshell, I had therapy and it helped me deal with all the changes and new emotions. I hope you consider it. I feel that all cancer survivors would benefit from some therapy. On lighter note - I, too, looked in the mirror and thought "yuck." And every morning when I put that prosthesis in my bra, I was reminded of the whole mess again. Someone told me that one day I wouldn't even think of it and that I might even forget about the prosthesis. I didn't believe that would ever happen! Well, one day I arrived at work and realized that I had forgotten to put it in. My husband had to deliver it to me - he carried it in his pocket! Also, don't wear it while you are working in the garden and bending over -it always falls out! My husband once asked me if I was planting a crop. I wish I could; those things are so expensive. Take care.

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Marilyn Brown, Lithonia, Ga — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:00:45 GMT

Hoda,

I was diagnoised this year myself, lumpectomy and then radiation and tamoixifen. We are now "Sisters in the Fight".

Hang in there and God Bless

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Cynthia Sagosz, Red Bank, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:00:54 GMT

Hoda you are fabulous! Thankyou for sharing your story. I think you will make one of the most important contributions of your news career by sharing your story with such a huge audience. This is about saving lives! After seeing your story, I called my two best friends. We decided to all go together to get our overdue mammograms. Your story motivated us.

Thanks Hoda. We wish you continued good health. Here's a huge hug from all of us.

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Nancy Stemper Philadelphia,PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:00:59 GMT

Thanks for sharing your story. Although we don't always know the cause, we do know how chances for breast cancer increases. Dr Nancy S. had a great opportunity to relate the increase chance of breast cancer to the pill when taken at young ages. She actually said there were no draw backs to giving the pill to young girls. What will these girls say when the incidence of breast cancer increases when they are older and were told the truth. Please be honest in your broadcasting.
Thanks

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Kathleen Kennedy Cincinnati Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:04:34 GMT

Back in 1973, my Mother died of breast cancer. I was 27 years old and she was 61. In 1988, I had breast cancer at 42 years old and at that time the odds were 1 in 11 women would get breast cancer. I was blessed that I did not have a complete removal (just 1/4) and that I did not have to have any treatments. God has been good to me. It was hard to tell my family and make the decision to have surgery before Christmas or after
and I elected to have surgery on December 14. This year is my anniversary of 19 years. Keep your faith.
The survior rate is much possitive for you. You will survive. Remember the song by that title.

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wendy kennel, parkesburg. pa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:06:53 GMT

This message is for Ann .....i was so impressed with your interview and how sensitive you were and genuine.
I believe God is using you in awesome ways in your profession. Hoda ...i loved your realness in this interview. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless each of you and your families. You go girls!

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Sloane Denning — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:07:19 GMT

CELEBRATE SURVIVORS! My Katie, A dear friend is a SURVIVOR, she has said if not for cancer we would never have met.

We hear medical reports every day of the most important tests we should have. For those that have unparalled access to up to date medical treatments, insurance covering tests and doctor visits, there are also those that do not have the same access to medical care.
I watch with awe every time a celebrity tells us their story and level of care ... this sentence is written with a deep sigh.

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Nancy Whelan, Canton, MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:07:58 GMT

I was diagnosed in December 2002 and started treatment for 1 and 1/2 years in January 2003. You have now joined a club! It is amazing how many women you meet. Just be aware you are just starting your recovery - mentally. It takes a long journey to accept in all ways you have lost a breast. Didn't seem a big deal at first and am very greatful I am alive. I had no clue how many stages the acceptance would take me through. Sense of humor and as you said, there is a strenth afterwords for most of us. In fact it encourages us to be in the best shape of our lives. Thank you for your story, remember your beautiful smile and sense of humor when things and thoughts get tough.

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Kathleen Kennedy Cincinnati Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:12:23 GMT

My mother passed away in 1973 of Breast Cancer. She was 61 years old. In 1988, I has Breast Cancer at age 42, but I lucky that I did not have to go through any treatments. I had I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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Diana Pearson, Columbus, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:12:27 GMT

Hoda: As I watched you this morning on the Today Show, I relived being 6 months out from treatment and crying at the drop of a hat. Please know that it will get better every day - especially now that you are sharing your journey with others. I want to let you know that it is perfectly normal to look in the mirror every day and wonder who this body belongs to. I had a mastectomy last October 31, and an immediate TRAM flap reconstruction. My body looks better than it ever has. I got a tummy tuck and a boob job - something that some women pay thousands of dollars for - but it wasn't my body! I now am one year out and I look at my beautiful body and I totally embrace it. I have even had a tattoo placed around my new bellybutton, and a pink ribbon design tattooed on my reconstructed breast with my diagnosis date and my surgeons' and oncologist's initials. It might sound odd, but with that tattoo, I feel now that I am finished with this stage of my life and it is now my time to support others. Hoda, I wish you every success in your life and your health, and keep the faith. We are sisters now. Congratulations and welcome to the Survivors' Club!

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josephine kissoon, Carlisle,PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:13:49 GMT

Dear Hoda,

I know just how you feel.I,m also a breast cancer
survivor of 2 years.I had a total mastectomy at the age of 43.I just want to share a quote from a article I read while waiting to see my doctor.

"Cancer can take my breast,my hair,but it can't take my spirit". This is what keeps me going.Keep your spirit up.

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Allyn Rishel, Hickory, North Carolina — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:13:53 GMT

Hoda-
I saw your segment this morning and think you are wonderful. Thank you for wearing your heart on your sleeve and being so open. I want you to know that this past year I danced at my 22 year old son's wedding and he was 2 1/2 when I was diagnosed. My other son is now 30, the father of my two grandsons and in he was 11! My jounery began in 1961 when I caught a virse in the hospital as a child...10 years later hodgskin's disease, the radiation caused breast cancer in 1988. After many reoccurences and all those "ecomies" here I am living and I mean living in 4th stage since 1999. I love life, my family and I am trying to tell my story.
Hope you read this and know what you have done has helped and I am proof that the many $$$ raised for research truly make a difference!
Allyn

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Dan Piper Jr, Annapolis, MD — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:14:45 GMT

Dear Hota,

I had no idea about this latest challenge you're facing that so many woman confront. I have total confidence that you will kick it, and be better than ever. You're a very strong woman. Thank you for sharing your experience with this challenging situation. You give us hope and power with your inspiration and understanding. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

My mom is battling skin cancer. She was diagnosed four years ago, and had surgery to remove it. She's on chemo, and a new experimental drug that is so new they don't even have a name for it, just a number. I will share your story with her, and maybe she can see that she's not alone, and think more positive like you. I'm thankful that you both have good doctors, and modern science has come so far with cures.

I'm watching your story NOW, after reading the story, and I'm really touched. Your stories have really touched me in the past. I met the Madere family before you did the riveting Dateline story. I turned on the tv to see the Medere's AND YOU, MY NEIGHBOR on Chartres Street in New Orleans. YEP! We always waved. Over the years, I've been very proud of you moving up to MSNBC and NBC. But TODAY, I'M MORE PROUD THAN EVER.

You rock! The newest Video Ipod doesn't even rock as much as you... and nothing is as cute and beautiful as you. I wish you the very best. I want you to consider acupuncture and complimentary holistic treatments. And btw, I think you are most whole. Again, THANK YOU FOR SHARING. Best wishes, Cher!

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Cheryl McBride, Beltsville, MD — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:16:41 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Thank you for your courage in sharing your story. I watched this morning's interview and cried with you. I do not have breast cancer, instead I am home recouping from my 5th major surgery this year. I wanted you to know that your story is helping others even without cancer, as I certainly related to the details of your prior healthy life, and how vulnerable you felt when this terrible disease was diagnosed. I am trying to get emotionally strong again, while physically still healing, and I appreciate your "forward" remarks and plan to concentrate on that specifically! My problems started with an elective surgery in January this year to remove my sigmoid colon due to severe diverticulitis diagnosed the previous year. Six weeks into recovery I ruptured, ending up with a temporary descending colostomy. Four and a half months later, the colostomy was removed, then two months later I was told I had four hernias that must be repaired. That surgery resulted in a mesh screen being placed through laproscopic surgery, which became infected and my body began to reject it, so the fifth surgery was to remove it again. Each time I could not believe what was happening to me, why me, was I not a good enough person since this was happening to me? I now have a large wound opening that is healing well with a wound vacuum, then stitches, and I still have a 25 to 50% chance of having additional hernias that will require surgery in the future. I am very lucky to have a wonderful husband, family, and friends who have prayed and provided the care and support I needed to get through this year. I truly recognize I am blessed for my husband, my best friend, who gives me the strength to keep going. Thank you for sharing your story, and I will remember to continue "forward" to get beyond this year's setbacks. God Bless you.

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Michelle, Amsterdam, Oh — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:17:09 GMT

Hoda,
I think it took a lot of courage to come on and speak of your journey. My sister died of breast cancer and that makes me high risk. but its good to know that in the event of something happening to me there is hope. She passed away several years ago and now today there is so much more.
I thank you and Anne for the interview. Even though I don't have breast cancer myself, I know you have already touched so many people.
FORWARD

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harold gordon, mattituck,ny — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:17:22 GMT

Watching your segment brought thoughts of my mother and tears to my eyes.In 1955,My mother, Rose Gordon (an "ordinary housewife and mother" with a high school education) became a widow with 3 children at 45. Three years later she had a radical mastectomy. This was a time when cancer was refered to as the C word.there were no groups,few peoople to talk to. She had no one to help her, my sister (10) and I(13) had to help her change her dressings, we saw her skin slough off after radiation treatments ,,but we never saw her cry or complain. She had to go back to work sooner than she should have, her left arm retained fluid and was twice the size of her right arm .. We never heard her complain. she was a heavy woman...there were few options available to her as far as reconstruction, and 'falsies' were concerned. she couldn't afford weighted prosthesis, she used foam ones,some tissues and sometimes her wallet!!. We used to joke when she looked a little lopsided when her "falsie' shifted. She always had a great sense of humor and survived cancer . She passed away 20+ years later from a heart attack. We never saw her cry.

She was more than brave, she was a surviver. We never saw her cry.

Oh, yes . we saw her cry when she was happy....go figure.
I enjoy your reporting and have watched the today show for decades.I wish you a speedy recovery.

(please don't think this is a rebuke of your tears. I think you did a great job..and (most certainly) have the right to cry)

Please send my love to Ann Curry!

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Maureen Andersen, North Myrtle Beach, SC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:17:23 GMT

Hoda,
A great big hug goes out to you from North Myrtle Beach. You're a brave woman who, as of this morning, has adopted an enormous family of sisters who were reduced to tears at her story but swell with pride at her courage and forthrightness. You go, girl!

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Warrenton, VA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:17:30 GMT

Hoda,
Your're part of the Virginia Tech family, and as such make the rest of us proud. Keep up the fight. Here's a HUG for a HOKIE!

Joe Dempsey, Class of '68

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K. Mann, Massachusetts — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:17:33 GMT

Hoda,
I thank you for sharing your story in such an honest & positive way. You do a great service to so many by associating your bright, beautiful, healthy face with the word "cancer". The face of cancer is changing & I feel it is important to show the broad range of the disease, & the broad range of treatments available. Cancer is no longer a death sentence or an automatic round of grueling chemo. If we can help eliminate some of the fear of our generation & future generations with accurate information, perhaps there would be more willingness to participate in early screening. I am energized by your positive spirit, you bring great hope for all of us to not just survive but to live richly after cancer.

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Pat T, Garner, NC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:18:36 GMT

Hoda, I was so moved by your story this morning, especially your decision to go public even though you are a very private person. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Your story excited me for another personal reason. I taught aerobics to your mother (and your sister briefly) in Crystal City Health Club for many years and have been trying to re-connect with her for years. Seeing them featured with you in your story brought back good old memories. If you would please forward my email address to your mother so she could contact me if she wishes. Best wishes to you in your recovery!!!

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Susi, Bristol, TN — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:21:02 GMT

Hoda,
Your documentary brought tears to my eyes, as I've been through all your emotions. My cancer was found 5 years ago on a mammogram. I underwent lumpectomy and 33 radiation treatments. Then the proof was in that bilateral mastectomies greatly reduce chances for another cancer in women with strong family histories. Six months after completing my radiation therapy, I had bilateral mastectomies with no recsonstruction. I'm a very active person, and I wanted to get back to exercising ASAP. I feel great, and definitely do not miss my breasts.

My family history is scary-my mom has survived ovarian cancer, and now 8 years later has had a recurrence of her breast cancer. Her sister died of breast cancer, her sister's daughter has it, and my mom's mother also had the disease. Like you, I did everything right. I never smoked, I have 4 glasses of wine a year, I'm lean, eat right, and am a competitive athlete. Those factors don't seem to matter when you have bad genes.

Best wishes for a full, joyous life. Having a diagnosis of cancer definitely forces you to put your priorities in order. I appreciate every experience in life so much more now.

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Brenda Rogers, Silver Spring, Md — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:21:02 GMT

Thank you Hoda for sharing your story. You are so brave. Your story has touched me deeply. I'm very scared of cancer. One of my closest friends from high school - I'm 50- is a survivor. Your story has given me more empathy for what she has also gone through. I'm scheduling my exam.

Thanks So Much!

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Lorraine Wright, East Rockaway, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:22:49 GMT

Hoda,

I to am a breast cancer survivor. I had a mastectomy 25 years ago and "I'm still here." Thank you for sharing your story and I hope it is a wake up to those women who say I don't want to know. A mammogram isn't the most pleasant thing but think of the alternative.

Don't know if you are aware that many breast surgeons now prescribe, not only your mammogram, but an ultrasound and MRI of the breasts for women who have had breast cancer. Just as a preventative measure.

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Sharon Dickerson, Franklin Township, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:23:31 GMT

Hoda-
I noticed that you were wearing the pink ring some time ago. I think I noticed it because I have been wearing one since January 2007. This is when I decided to do the Breast Cancer 3 day in PA. I did the walk in memory of a friend Carolyn Capehart who lost her battle 7 years ago at only 26 years old. I felt that I needed to do something because this could affect me or my children. I am so proud of you for sharing your story. People like you are the reason that so many people get checked. I am so emotional over this cause since the 3 day. I cried with you today. I heard so many stories over the 3 day. I also learned so much. I now know that women and men of any age can be affected and that it is not by any means just a hereditary disease. This experience had made my life so different. I am so grateful for what I have. My team Carolyn's Crew raised $10,000.00 in memory of Carolyn, it is so wonderful how people gave. The best thing at the 3 day was to see just how wonderful perfect strangers are. There was no lack of support, not for a minute. Hoda, I think you are an inspiration and I pray for your full recovery. Thank you for sharing your story. Stay Well.
Sharon

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Sally Love - Hudsonville, Michigan — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:24:01 GMT

Hello Hoda,
I was just watching you on the Today Show and could not help from e-mailing you.
Almost 13 years ago, when I was 34 years old and had my 3rd child who was 1 year old, I had breast cancer. It was a total blow to me as I thought it happened to other people and not to me. Our family did not have any history of breast cancer, but here I was with this horrible thing growing in me. I had a massectomy on my right breast and reconstruction as well. This did not turn out for me as the reconstruction caused so much infection. I was started on chemo.
For almost 5 years (lacking a month) I was what I thought free from cancer. However, it had traveled to my bones and diveted the outside of my lungs. I then went on chemo again. It was determined that I was Her 2 Positive which meant that I was able to take a drug called Herceptin. At this time I was also placed on a drug called Arimason, which helps stop all estrogen.

I was "good" for a few years until I started having pressure in my head which I thought may be a sinus infection. I was scheduled for a routine Cat Scan for my cancer at that time and my chemo nurse Carol told me to ask the technition if he would scan my head for sinus infection. Well they scanned my head and called my doctor who told me that I did not have a sinus infection. I did however have 2 tumors in my brain. I would have to be ammitted right away as the risk for siezures were high (I had already had one whitout knowing what it was while on vaction in Florida).

I had surgery a few days later to remove the 1st tumor and 10 days later to remove the 2nd one. This was a very hard thing to deal with as it happened so fast!!
One year later while doing a regular MRI screening of my brain another tumor was found. They operated
however they could not reach the tumor because it was so small.
One year later the tumor had grown and they performed my 4th brain surgery and removed the tumor.

At this time I am getting Herceptin and having MRI's every 6 months to keep a check on things.

As of today I am doing VERY well and living a completely NORMAL life raising my family.
I have three reason of why I am here today to to be able to tell you my story, Our God who has given me a GREAT husband and family and also VERY supportive friends!!!
I wish you all of God's love and healing Hoda!

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Sue, Saint Louis, Mo — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:25:28 GMT

Thank you for sharing your story this morning . . .you were so real and as a Breast cancer survivor myself I appreciate you coming on and not making it seem like it was "no big deal". Cancer changes you and I although I am a different person, I am a better, happier person because of what I went through! Hugs Hoda and thanks!!

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Sherrill C., Schenectady, New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:25:36 GMT

To Hoda and the Today Show Staff - After reading some of the previous messages, it's amazing how this monsterous disease has touched so many lives...You were poised and articulate in your video journey and I cried out of happiness that you are here discuss this and not "hog the journey". I also cried out of sadness for the loss of a beautiful woman in my circle of acquaintances this time exactly one year ago. I was motivated by her death to go for my first mammogram and will continue to schedule myself every year. You're so right when you say "I didn't think it would happen to me" because I think until it does happen, you will always believe that. But one never does know, and I will continue to be grateful that I have not joined the sisterhood that all cancer survivors share, yet maintain and test my body in the event that someday I might. God bless and thank you for your courage.

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Jill Henry, Danvers, MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:25:38 GMT

To Ann Curry and Hoda,
Thank you so much for the courage it took to put your personal life "out there" for all of us to learn from. I will carry with me the message, "Don't hog your journey," because there is so much wisdom in that one statement! Thank you for learning the lesson and passing it on to the rest of us! As humans, the one thing we aren't sure of until it happens is, that we are at our very best when we are not thinking only of ourselves, but when we are there and help other people! Thank you for getting that important message across this morning!

I have had a slip of paper from my doctor to get a mammogram for too long, and today, I will make that appointment!

Ann, your sincerity during this interview came through my tv and touched my heart. Thank you for being so "real" with such a brave woman and tackling an incredibly important issue.

You are both in my prayers!

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Pam Kutz Waterloo, Iowa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:26:02 GMT

Thank you for telling your story! I am a six year survior and had a double mastectomy. The scars are a true sign of courage. God Bless you!!!

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Sarah Ables, Youngsville, LA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:26:11 GMT

I just wanted to thank Hoda for coming forward with her story. She was so brave and strong to open up so candidly. I really admire her.

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PK, Scotch Plains, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:26:32 GMT

Hoda,
As a fellow runner, I have often watched your broadcasts in the very early hours of the morning as I geared up to run. Your positive reports of leading a healthy life often sent me off with plenty to think about as I ran for miles through the predawm mornings in New Jersey. This morning, I was inspired by your courage to share your most personal journey with us. Be assured that your courage to share your story has done far more to help others than you will ever know! I smiled when you used the word, "Forward!" Hitting the wall at mile 20 in both the 2002 and 2004 marathons, that was the word that got me to the finish line each time. Keep moving forward, my friend! You are truly and inspiration to this runner! May grace and peace be your journey.

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Shannon, Paducah, KY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:27:39 GMT

I have been watching the Today show for a long time and this is one of the BEST interviews that I have seen. It was raw and it was real and that is what people need to see in order to be aware of Cancer but not so scared that they won't take the proper steps to be screened! Fabulous job Hoda and Ann!

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Sandy Weaver — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:28:41 GMT

Hoda
Good Job for sharing. You have help so many people. You are such an example for folks to go and get their exams, because the is treatmemt.

Thanks for your story

Big Hug

sandy

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Alison Leah, Madison, Wisconsin — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:28:51 GMT

Hoda,

There I was, getting ready for work, my daily routine, with the Today Show on in the background. Then I hear your story. Your story. It stopped me in my tracks, I put down the iron and I cried. I'm 26 years old, embarking on my adult life, with quite a daunting, vulnerable feeling. Somehow, as odd as it may sound, hearing about your experience made me feel like anything that comes my way, it will be ok. Thank you for that.

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Tami Reynolds Watertown WI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:29:00 GMT

Dearest Hoda,
Thank you for sharing your story! It show your true beauty! You are very inspiring! Sending you hugs!
Wishing you rainbows after the rain,
Thank you! Thank you!

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DeDe Lovett, Sour Lake, Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:29:58 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I wanted to personally thank you for your brave message this morning. My precious momma died of breast cancer that metastasized to her brain three long years ago. If only she had not delayed seeing her physician until the holidays were over! Your message will make a difference! May God continue to bless you and bless your life's journey.

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Juli Palmer, Michigan City, In — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:31:07 GMT

Hoda,
I'm a 2 year survivor. On my youngest son's birthday I had my biopsy on Sept 27, 2005. I was only 37 yrs old. I'm married with 5 kids. I had my right breast removed on my 16th wedding anniversary. I understand when you take a shower. I'm very strong so don't get me wrong but...the first shower was awful. I cried and sat on the shower floor and just cried. I am fearless...I do move forward...peace be with you! It's a long road but we are strong!

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Linda Long, Bismarck, North Dakota — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:31:08 GMT

Hoda, I just watched you on television. I can so relate to everything you said. I am a young woman of 42. I take excellent care of my body. I eat right. I exercise. I don't drink or smoke. I did everything right. I was diagnosed during my yearly mammogram. My tumor was in a place that noone could actually feel it. As a result I had to have a mastectomy. My cancer was infiltrating ductile stage 2, with a dcis next to it. I will be starting chemo within the next 3 weeks. I have delt with everything pretty good so far. I agree with you that I don't identify with my breasts. Losing a breast was a little disturbing but not as much as for others. However, the thought of losing my hair during chemo has given me more anguish than anything. I don't like for people to feel sorry for me or pity me. I am afraid of how people will look at me. I am afraid of the whispers. I am afraid for my children. They are having a difficult time with how I will look. I hope this does not seem vain, but those are my feelings.
I feel like my whole life has been put on hold. I had taught school for the last 10 years. We had just moved to North Dakota and I had just entered college to work on my masters in occupational therapy. As a result of the cancer, everything is on hold for now.
Having cancer has given me a new outlook on life. I am still trying to find a way to navigate thru the next few months. If you have any suggestions I would love to hear them. Thanks again for sharing your story. I will follow it as I make my own jouney thru this myelf. Thanks again, Linda

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E. Garrett, Lewisburg, Tennessee — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:31:12 GMT

Hi Hoda. Your story touched me so deeply. I had a family member with breast cancer who was a survivor. She never let it get her down.

I've lost 2 close friends within 4 months of each other, both from cancer although not breast cancer. My best friend passed in May, 2007 from lung cancer. Our sisterhood spanned over 40 years and I miss her so much. My other friend passed in September, 2007 from the same thing. They both fought a hard fight but unfortunately lost their battles.

You look wonderful and beautiful!! May God bless you and watch over you as well as all others who will or are fighting the fight!! We also love you too Ann!!!

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Heather OKC, OK — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:31:17 GMT

Hoda,

Wow......if you wanted to inspire to move to encourage to give hope you did it today! I am 28 years old so just know you hit a very broad range of individuals. My mother and grandmother have had a masectomy, so knowing my chances are that much greater are disheartening, but hearing your voice and the strength you showed have given me a new breath of fresh air that it is going to be okay whatever the outcome! I know it was difficult to do what you did but you have gained the respect of so many individuals. I just wanted to say thank you!

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Anita Maggard, Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:34:14 GMT

Hi Hoda,
I am a 36 year old mother of two who has always had very fiberous breasts and I have had many false positives at my anual exams as well as during my bi-yearly mamograms. My biggest fear is that I too will be diagnosed with breast cancer. I have had 5 biopsies over the years and all have come back negative so that is reassuring but I still can't shake the fear. I have been diagnosed with Ovarian and Uterine cancer and am presently cancer free and have undergone a hysterectomy. I can't bear to lose the only other thing that makes me a woman. After seeing your story on the Today Show this morning I busted out crying and my heart went out to you. You are a courageous and beautiful woman and such a wonderful advocate for women. I have always enjoyed seeing you but now after letting America into your life, you have brought me in even closer. I hope that you can look in the mirror everyday and know that no matter how bad of a day you are having there are a lot more breast cancer survivors out there because of wonderful women like you. You are truly an inspiration! Rest assured that when Ann was giving you the hugs, there was a woman in Northern Wisconsin that was a part of that hug too! God Bless You and never give up!!!

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Allison Faria Cumberland, Rhode Island — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:34:19 GMT

Hoda,
I watched your story this morning and cried. I haven't suffered from breast cancer but I am fighting but most of all living with my 4th brain tumor. Being through 2 brain surgeries awake for both I have gained an inner strenghth that I didn't even know I had. I am a hair stylist and I tend to share my story with many and my one message to everyone is Have faith in something!!! I see GOD every day now and it's in the simple things in life such as a kind gesture, smile, maybe someone even just opening the door for me. I cried this morning because I felt your pain and your numbness to it all.We are all fragile and should live life to the fullest. Your an inspiration to those who in my family have suffered breast cancer within the past 2 years. Your an inspiration to me because you believed in HOPE! As I sat through radiation monday through friday at Mass General Hospital I observed and journaled my whole expeirence. Their I was one of many suffering from 3 brain tumors at the time but having the time of my life because of the people around me. GOd was around me in every chair whispering... HOPE,BELIEVE, HAVE FAITH! I am a living miracle right now! So when people say I am so sorry I say I am living with my 4th brain tumor not dying of it. Call it my Guardian Angel! GOD BLess HODA your in my prayers forever now and maybe that's one gift I can give you from GOD! Your an inspiration to those who don't even know you!

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Mary Barker Rodrigue, Covington, Louisiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:35:02 GMT

Dear Hoda,

Just finished watching your story. I live in Covington, La. We miss you here so much. Even though you are not a Louisiana Native, you know that we consider you one of us. I attend St. Peter Catholic Church and every Monday Morning I go to the "Adoration Chapel" to pray. I just wanted you to know that from now on you will be on my prayer list. Come home for a visit so we can comfort you. You know,...with Chicken and Dumplin's, Red Beans and Rice, Greens and Cornbread, Gumbo and of course, lots and lots of hugs. Consider this email a great big Louisiana hug.

Love you,
Mary Barker Rodrigue
Covington, La.

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J.M. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:35:11 GMT

You are strong and you are brave. May you live a long, healthy, happy life and know that your story has touched everyone who saw it without question. You have already helped countless people by not hogging your journey.

Thank you Hoda and GOD BLESS!!

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Richard Dennis, Rockford,IL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:35:14 GMT

Hoda,
I feel your pain from a man's side, Feb.19th this year was radical prostatectomy surgery, I'm still feeling much less a whole person, but it does get better. It's a wonderful thing that medicine can diagnose so early, that total cancer cure can be realized.
The one I always think about is should I have kept searching for someone that could have told me, your biopsy was wrong. But the second opinion was exactly the same as the first "At your age just take the prostate,lymph nodes and seminal vesicles totally out and be done with it".
Hoda you're a beautiful,vibrant person and you'll come out the other side being even stronger, it just takes time.
Best Regards,
Richard Dennis

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Jeanne, Grafton, Wisconsin — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:36:17 GMT

Hoda, Good Morning, just saw you on Today Show. Thank you for sharing your story. I just had surgery yesterday, lumpectomy w/senitnel node biopsy and had the glorious news that there was no cancer in the lymph nodes. I found the lump about a month ago and now it is gone! I am encouraging everyone to check themselves for any lumps and get a mammogram. A mammorgram is the very least of your worries!!! I didn't get one last year.....thank god I gave myself a self-exam. Hugs from Jeanne

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Debbie Gripp, Davenport, Iowa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:37:01 GMT

Hoda, I sat this morning with my coffee and wanted to hug you after your interview with Ann. I too was diagnosed with Stage III Mestatic Breast Cancer and had a double mastectomy with chemo and radiation. It's been one year that I'll soon never forget but yet a gift, that I believe, like you addressed has given me clarity. I sit at the table with my coffee before anyone is awake and thank God for 1 more day and know that I must take this day and give everyone around me hope. At 44 I never thought this would happen to me. I always excercised and ate very healthy and had no prior family history but that didn't matter. I know my kids and husband are scared that mom won't be around for the graduations, weddings, and child births....but I will!! I know that with your interview everyone is going to work harder for a cure and one day we'll have it knowing Hoda that you were part of that! God Bless you and I've added you to my prayers. Your survival sister.

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Julie Balke — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:37:20 GMT

Thanks, Hoda (and Ann),
You may not realize it, but your piece this a.m. is probably helping those with other illnesses, as well.
I've had the MRSA staph infection since spinal surgery last Feb. On Mar. 13, I came out of debridement surgery with a wound the size of a brick that went all the way down to the spine. Today, I have to schedule another surgery, because the MRSA is back. I'm allergic to the only antibiotic that has a chance to kill it, so I may be in the hospital for quite some time. I may also not make it this time. Your thoughts and just your "forward" attitude this morning, gave me an extra boost of determination to keep moving forward. You and Ann both give such good hugs...I wished right then that I could have one from each of you! Thanks Again...Forward, march!

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G.M., Upstate NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:38:08 GMT

You should do a story on what it is like to really live with Breast Cancer, how it changes peoples lives(not always good), what happens when you don't have insurance,when it returns after years of thinking it is gone and then it's inoperable and incureable(mets),after you had all the mammograms but weren't given the right infomation to protect yourself.The doctors that just don't listen. How about the emotions that go with it. Why is it in October we only see the stories that sound like they came from a fairy tale book. What about the cold hard truth.

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Debra Davis, Dallas,tx — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:38:28 GMT

Hoda, Good luck with your success and health. I am a b/c survivor as well. Comination 3 lumps,in 1992, only 20% chng survival 5 yrs. Well heavy in family history, I approached it very aggressively, and thru treatment combined with a spirital healing, still here today. I made it thru 3 kids thru high school,college,8 grandkids,divorce,and am truely a survivor. Yes, its not roses going thru it, and yes it gets very lonely,and yes, you too will survive. There is truely a sense of safe,and security that you can never feel the same, but it will definately open your eyes to a whole new definition of living and how you choose to do it. My motto is "everyone has choices, choose to accept it and deal with it accordingly,or choose not to and dont". I find life is such an adventure, I even changed careers at age 48 became a Truck Driver,over the road. I believe that is something i would have never ever done, but i just wanted to see if i could do it physically, emotionally, and i did. So good luck and will keep you in my prayers.

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Dana Terracina, San Antonio, TX — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:39:15 GMT

For the second Thur in a row, I have been brought to tears. Last Thur it was the info re: Taxol, the chemo given to many women with breast cancer. 7 yrs ago it was offered to me as part of my chemo choices. I elected for a more potent mixture of drugs. I did not have enough info re: the long-term effects of Taxol and went with the tried and true course of drugs. While I prefer not to look back at choices made as there is no way of changing these in particular, I always wondered if I had made the right choice. Last Thur confirmed that I had.
Fast forward to this Thur and Hoda's story brought me to trasr again. It was Ann's summary of the picture of the survivors that she has interviewed that Hod alao illuminated- survivor's are changed for life. Having breast cancer put me in an exclusive club that I had no desire to be in. Cancer has taught me so many things while also changing me for the better. It made me look at some very difficult life choices. It brought about significant change in my life. And the chages were very necessary for me to pursue being more of me. Difficult as breast cancer was and as much as I do not want it to return or wish it on anyone, it is a very strange gift!

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Chelsey, Chesterfield, VA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:43:39 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I watched you this morning as I pack my last few things in preparation for my bilateral mastectomy tomorrow. I beat this diagnosis 9 years ago, at age 24, and found another lump this summer. I have a bag of personal items to decorate my hospital room and have added to that a frame with the word "Forward". Just because I've walked this journey before doesn't make it less scary. Thank you for putting the gift of life back into perspective, as this morning has been more of a "why me" than a "I'm a surviror" morning.

Your sister in survival,
Chelsey

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Laurie Bowen, Columbia NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:43:41 GMT

Hi Hoda-
I just have to tell you that I too am a survivor of Breast Cancer, it's been a long 5 years. I wouldn't trade a minute of it. You are so right when you say cancer has made you fearless. I know I asked myself, "why me", now I say "why NOT me"...I really believe it made me stronger, as a mother of 2 I knew I wanted to fight, I wanted to be here for them to watch and enjoy them grow up. God bless you and all of us who have to endure this disease, but we all must remember we can win and beat it with early detection.

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Jan Inmon Springfield, Missouri — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:44:16 GMT

Thank you Hoda, I watched your interview this morning and made my very late (8 years) appointment for my mammagram. Again, Thanks.
Jan Inmon

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Connie, Anthon, Iowa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:46:44 GMT

Hoda:

I applaud your courage in bringing your very private story into the public eye. Breast cancer has also touched my family as I have a first cousin that is now a two year survivor. Like her, you seem to have a very positive attitude about your situation and that positive attitude will give other individuals something to aspire to. Thank you so much for sharing your story. You, and other other breast cancer patients, are in my thoughts and prayers!

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Becky Clontz, Dallas, Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:47:07 GMT

Hoda,I have not had cancer but I'm at home recuperating from a hyterectomy (and enjoying time off from work!)and felt a real jolt when you said your mantra was forward. Two years ago my husband suffered a head injury (he's doing well now)and our operative phrase was 'forward motion'. Whatever springs in our path, forward motion is what we hope and pray for. Now I want to add another word - resilience. It has become my personal favorite because it proves to me that forward motion creates reslience, the ability to forge ahead when it feels like you just want to cover your head. I say it to myself and I feel strong and although I'm afraid, I know I can get through. Best of luck to you and thanks for stepping up for others.
P.S. LAW AND ORDER RULES!

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Melisa TX — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:48:13 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I can't believe I'm responding, this is the first time I've done something like this, but your inspiring story came just at the right time. I have been battling OCD and it has made me feel hopeless. Your comment about "forward" gave me the courage to not give up. Mental illness is so hard to fight,especially because of the stigma attached to it. I pray I will be able to "not hog" my story so I can eventually get better and be able to help others. I'm trying so hard, and I can't express how much your story has given me a will to press on.
Thank you and God Bless You!

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Kim Divis, Prague, Nebraska — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:48:59 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Thank your for your story on breast cancer. As a person who has just finished with her last chemo therapy and now looking forward to radiation because of a lump found on a routine mammogram, I am still here,fighting. One part of the whole breast cancer situation is that there are many of us out there who do not have access to the help groups out there because of distance from the help support groups. I live in a very small town and it takes one hour (one way) to get to the hospital/support group. When you are not feeling well and just want to rest your tired body, it makes it difficult to attend a support group. My family is supportive, but at a lost of what to do. I am a nurse and they all expect me to know what to do. Well, being a nurse does not mean I know what to do. There are times, when I am alone, I cry and want to know why me? But then the strong part kicks in and I know I will beat this, for I am strong. But that does not make going thru the treatment any easier. When you get the call saying that you have cancer, your mind does go blank. When I search the internet for information, there is no simple answers out there, if anything it is confusing and so many different treatments. I placed my trust in my doctors and follow their advise. But sometimes it would be nice to talk to someone who does not say, "I had cancer and it was no big deal" and "how are you sure that you will lose your hair and be sick?" The hardest thing to face it those who act like it is no big deal and expect you to deal with it and go on and do your work. They do not understand the fear of going into large groups of people for fear of catching a cold or an infection, not understanding that will make me sick and could be dangerous for me. They think it is being paranoid. I think someone should do a show on what a cancer patient limits are and what supportive things could be done for them, no matter how simple. Thank your for your show and encouraging people to get checked on a regular basis, even if there is no family history, It could happen to them, it happened to me........
Take care and keep fighting, for we will win!!

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Pattie McKenna Toronto,OH — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:54:33 GMT

Hoda bravo for you talking publicly about your breast cancer, I saw it today on the show, you are a beautiful,strong and intelligent woman. I am a nurse and know that there were tons of women out there that got strength and the courage to get a mammogram from you today..I said a prayer for you and all cancer victims...you are certainly doing the right thing not hogging the journey. God Bless and HUGS xxxx

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Laura, Tulsa, OK — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:55:14 GMT

It's been 13 years since my diagnosis at the age of 32, with treatment that followed. I still cry when I talk about it in public - to a group or bigger audience than one. It's because it's still such a part of me but I don't necessarily want to be identified by it as there is much more to me than cancer. But, the hard reality - breast cancer (or any cancer) is a life long journey that has many turns and twists. By the way, my doctors told me that I'd never have children after treatment. Thankfully, they were wrong. I have four kids - all healthy and precious gifts from God.

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Lynn C Buffalo NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:55:34 GMT

I got choked up this morning watching your story. You look fantastic and your outlook is so positive and encouraging. Keep being real !

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IRENE FLORES, SAN ANTONIO, TEXAS — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:56:39 GMT

HI! HODA GOD BLESS YOU FOR COMING OUT WITH YOUR STORY. I TOO, AM A SURVIVOR. 2YEARS AND COUNTING. I'M A NERVOUS WRECK WHEN I GO FOR MY MAMMOGRAMS. AS I SAT LISTENING TO YOUR STORY I REMEMBERED WHEN I RECIEVED MY PHONE CALL, ALL I HEARD WAS YOU HAVE CANCER AND I BROKE DOWN CRYING AND GAVE THE PHONE TO MY HUSBAND. LISTENING TO YOU TALK MADE ME CRY AND I WANTED TO HUG YOU. ONLY WE KNOW HOW THOSE WORDS FEEL. I FEEL THAT I HAVE BEEN GIVEN A SECOND CHANCE IN LIFE AND I'M NOT GOING TO SIT AROUND AND FEEL SORRY FOR MYSELF. I'M GOING TO LIVE MY LIFE HAPPIER AND STRONGER THEN EVER. I ALSO SHARE MY EXPERIENCES WITH ALL MT FAMILY AND FRIENDS, IF THAT WILL GET THEM TO GET EARLY CHECKED. WE ARE STRONG..................IRENE

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Carolyn K. Purple, Veedersburg, In — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:58:23 GMT

Hoda, I am so very much impressed with your interview with Ann about your Breast cancer. I also am a breast cancer survivor. I was diagnosed in 1997, with Her2 breast cancer. There was two tumors,and I opted for the mastectomy. All I knew was that it made me very mad, because I was not going to ever get breast cancer, and that I wanted it off of me and out of me. Five years to the day later, it had matastisized to my right lung. With the help of my ongologist, the drug heraceptin, and the blessing of God, I'm still here and doing very fine. There is no sign of the cancer in my lung now. And I just turned 64. Keep the faith and you are right. IT DOES MAKE YOU STRONGER. God Bless you.

Carolyn K. Purple

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JoAnn W. Buitron, San Antonio, TX. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:58:25 GMT

Hoda, I was diagnosed with breast cancer in August 2007 and I haven't had much time to grieve. This morning I cried with you. Thank you for sharing your journey. After my six series of chemo I will be having a lumpectomy or a mastectomy. I take each day at a time, I praise God every day, I am truly blessed to have my husband and my children and my family and friends with me on this journey. I am proud to call you my sister. I am a strong advocate for more research to provide less harsh treatment options for people who have breast cancer. We all need to use our voices and our vote to find a cure. Hang in there!

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Cindy Sweeney Schererville, Indiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:00:37 GMT

Hoda, I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer at 44, 6 years ago. During treatment, my mom was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She is still surviving. My older sister was diagnosed 2 years later. We do not carry the recognized breast cancer genes, but are involved in a study to find other genes. God bless you for sharing. I identified so much with the words you spoke. I too feel fearless and empowered by breast cancer. I survived cancer, I am not going away quietly!

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Ronni Jacobs — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:02:55 GMT

I too am a member in "the club".I was diagnoised in july, 07 and honestly, i never missed a beat. I am an upbeat, positive very young spirited 61 yr old. i watched you intently on TV this morning and besides from looking wonderful you are an inspiration to all of us. all of the women i know who are survivors have an inner glow. you included. i worked at a local curves for women for a long time, where i am loved and i loved the members. they have treated me like a "star" with all of their support and love; not to mention the gifts.i have received religous charms from every walk of life. having support from loved ones and friends never leaves me. my daughters sleep over on firday nites after work and we laugh all nite. I also have Hep C (1972),treated with meds unsuccessfully in 1994 and i am doing great. at that time i decided that i was a survivor in life and never looked back. I am the "poster girl" for good health, never ever expecting to get breast cancer....who does. i know hundreds of survivors, for years i have volunteered at the races, made jewelry and donated money for breast cancer. i have a wonderful team of doctors and i am doing well with chemo. 6 more to go and then radiation. i too will be taking meds for years. i think that is such a good thing. i was driving when i got THE call so i pulled over...when i heard the words ( which i really knew in my hear) i literally "pooped in my pants". i was laughing to myself. the minute i got home the dr was on the phone calling me. now, i too am a suvivor!!!!! Best of health to all of my sister out there. we are special. live your life everyday and be happy. A Breast Cancer survivor has a life....not a death sentence. I am also going to become certified in Dance Therapy for breast cancer survivors created my a friend of mine who travels all over world teaching this amazing program...Sherry Lebed-Davis who is also in the club. Excellent success. book: Thriving after Breast Cancer. thanks for letting me get this all out. love to all...ronni

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Debbie Carroll 2934 E. Avon Road Panama City, Florida 32405 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:03:37 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I was off work today and had the opportunity to watch your interview. I am a health care worker,I do echocardiograms for 23 years now. I work closely with many oncologist and follow their patience before, during, and after chemo/radiation so I see many with breast cancer. However fail to do my part with myself personally. But after watching your interview and the many cases I see daily I plan to follow through with diagnostic testing for myself. You are brave and I know you coming forward will make a lot of us more aware.

Thanks And Good Luck To You
Debbie Carroll RDCS

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JoAnna Bartle, Batesville, AR — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:06:50 GMT

Fists up Hoda....never give up!!! Forward forward forward.....fantastic!! I am a almost 2 year cancer survivor dx by Mammo at 39 NO LUMP....very agressive stage 2a cancer!!! Mammo's are so important!!! After 1 1/2 year of chemo, 35 rads and about 5 surgeries I just had the first of my 3 reconstructive surgeries.....DIEP.....all from my own tissue no muslce used.....my little boy whom was 2 when I was DX now is 4 and his first statement when he saw me after surgery was..."Mommy, your boobies are coming back and cancer does not have them anymore" that is right....but Cancer never had me!!! I am a single Mother and when diagnosed was newly divorced and in a new state...it also has been a very tough road in many ways with such a little one and no mate, no second income it does take so much time and energy to find assitance if you are able.....in my particular situation I desperately needed it!!

Monday I had full ct body, brain and bone scans NED...my anatomy was UNREMARKABLE.....no cancer.....after my first few months without any treatment.....fists up!!! Hoda great of you to use your forum to bring awareness.....!!!

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Debbie Carroll 2934 E. Avon Road Panama City, Florida 32405 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:06:51 GMT

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Diane Monahan, Amherst, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:07:46 GMT

Hoda,
I was really not familiar with you before Today. (sorry, I don't watch that much news tv.) But I love your take on things and sense of humor. However, today I cried. I have several friends who have gone through what you're going through now. They have courage. They are the strong ones and so are you. Thank you for sharing and keep up the positive thoughts and prayers. You are truly a beautiful person..

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Sherley Lawrence, Huntsville, Alabama — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:09:09 GMT

Dearest Hoda,

I listened to your testimony this morning with Ann. You have truly been tested and allowed this test to become a testimony that WILL encourage others to tell their cancer just how big God is! You are a very strong lady and I am praying for you and God's healing on your life. These are the same words I speak daily to my (only) sister, Janice Marie Fields. She has been battling breast/bone cancer for two years now. It was caught in the very late stages...but it was CAUGHT and just like your manager said, (about those with breast cancer that he knew) My sister is still with us, fighting that bully (cancer) with every ounce of courage and energy she got in that very small frame body of hers. You, my sister and so many others stand on the shoulders of an Almighty Giant..The Lord Jesus Christ. He said in His word that He will never leave you nor forsake you. Prayer is indeed the only answer, through prayer all struggles will fall to Christ. You touched my heart and I pray my sister was watching this morning, if not, I will share your encouragement with her. I leave this with you and the many powerful women (and men) who are battling this disease..."Humble yourselves under the Almighty Hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:6-7). God Bless You Hoda and God Bless my Dear Sister, as well.

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Suzanne, Muscle Shoals, Al — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:09:36 GMT

Hi Hoda,
I am coming up on my FIVE year anniversary!! I had a mastectomy,chemo,tamoxifen. Thank you for sharing your journey. Never hold back! I bet someone goes today and gets a mammogram. I am now involved with the American Cancer Society and the Reach to Recovery program. I go and meet women in the hospital and provide them with information about the programs the ACS has and also give them support. I have received thank you notes and phone calls thanking me for sharing my story. Stay positive and and keep up the good work on raising awareness because early detection is the key to survival! Thanks,

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Ann, Lexington, Ky — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:13:31 GMT

Hoda, Thank you, Thank you....I also was diagnosed with Breast Cancer stage 2, her2 neg. not hormone driven Feb 07, lump removed March 07, started chemo 4/07 through July 07, then radiation August - Oct 07...Had the last radiation treatment Oct 1. Thank God it was not in my nodes, and I do Thank him every day not only for that but giving me life during and after cancer. Thank you also for being strong and speaking out, because a lot of us just can't do it yet, my doctor's, family & friends have all encouraged me to go to a support goup, but I just don't want to be a member of that group, I don't want Breast Cancer to define who I am, but even though I have the best support system ever, (really, they are the greatest, that has been one of the blessings of this situation is that I have learned who loves me the most....it really is surprising..)I still find the loneliness overwhelming at times, and I had never been lonely a day in my life prior to this. So Thank you for saying that you had felt that way also. We often tend to think in terms of it is just me, although we know it isn't, it sure as hecks feels like it. So, you have helped, I could see the pain in your eyes and the pain in Ann's eyes, she truly cares about you, it showed, as does the rest of the Today show I am sure. Stay Strong and God Bless you.

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Barb, Quad Cities, USA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:14:42 GMT

Hoda,
Your friends who welcomed you into their homes everyday with a warm smile a few years back just want you to know that you are in our hearts and prayers. With your emotional preservation the journey that you currently face will bring you much inner peace and happiness. It will be my honor next year to walk in the Race for the Cure adding your name on my back as a survivor. Keep the faith and positive attitude-you are a fighter! Be safe and be well.

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Joy Scott Belvidere, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:14:43 GMT

Hi Hoda,
Thank you so much for speaking out this morning on the Today Show. I have always enjoyed watching you and was saddened to hear that you had breast cancer. I have been there myself and feel great. I firmly believe that each step we take in life makes us stronger and more understanding of other people.
Keep that beautiful smile on your face and a positive attitude.

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Anna Crabtree, Summersville, Missouri — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:15:30 GMT

Hoda
I am so proud of you! You can do anything! And just think you will have saved a life today! Someone will have a Mother, sister, daughter that will survive because of you. I just got home from working the night shift at a small rural hospital and had to stay awake long enough cheering you on.
I have been a Licensed Praticial Nurse for a number of years, I have help women look at their surgical sites, emptied the drains, heard their anger and felt their tears, then went to work in surgery and saw first hand the biopsies, the lumpectomies, the masectomies, port a cath placements, saw the tumors laid bare in bright lights of operating room, and was silently glad it was not me.
Then 2 years ago(I was 43 at the time), I had just gotten accepted into a Registered Nursing program, and the news I had breast cancer. I found the lump myself in the shower. I too got the news over the phone, it is the cruelest thing to hear in the world. Every one thought I should slow down, I stayed in school (full time), I stayed at work (full time), did the surgeries (6 in all), the chemo, the radiation, bald, fighting and laughing. I lost friends for they didn't know what so say or do, I gained friends for they stepped up to help me and my family. You are so lucky to have Ann. I was never so humbled in my life as when cancer humbled me, I have never been so free as when cancer freed me.
I graduated in May 2007 with my ASN in nursing, work full time as a Registered Nurse, still go every 3 months for check-ups, take my meds (Arimidex and Zolidex), preach do self breast exams and to get your Mammograms, and hold hands of other cancer patients. Be proud of your scars, do not be afraid of your tears.
We small band of warriors in pink, united by fear and hope but most of all courage and love.
Keep your head high, share you journey, for you a light, a candle in the dark for some other woman that is frightened and lost.
You are a Survivor, you are a Hero!

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Denise O'Sullivan, Suffolk, VA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:18:16 GMT

HODA and Ann,

Thank you so much for that interview! Breast cancer has always scared me. I pray that I never get the disease. Your candor and interaction on the show today has made me feel that IF it happens to me, there's hope and I can be strong, like you are being today!

You have given all us women hope and courage! Stay strong and may God Bless You.

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Diane Evans, Delray Beach Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:18:28 GMT

Hoda,

God Speed, you are truly a Hero in my book. Keep on trucking girl.... You are in my prayers everyday.

Diane

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Angela, New York, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:18:29 GMT

I was diagnosed with breast cancer in March 2006 and got the call in my office. Yikes! I was 38 years old at the time and no family history of breast cancer. I found a lump during self-examination. I too am taking tamoxifen for 5 years and received a wonderful piece of advice from my oncologist - nothing can stop you from having a family. It just may not be the family you thought it would. My prognosis looks good and I just keep looking FORWARD.

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Barbara and Jack Howay, 1912 Rocky Pointe Dr., Lakeland, FL 33813 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:18:37 GMT

Hi Hoda (Although you will always be Hodie to us!) We remember you from Fort Hunt High School in Alexandria, where our son, John, and daughter, Jenny were students with you. We have enjoyed seeing you on the Today show and just wanted to tell you how proud of you we are, and how grateful we are that you decided to share your journey through breast cancer with your viewers. You are living proof that there is life after cancer, and I'm sure you have inspired women of all ages to be more vigilant concerning their health. Our best to you always. Barbara and Jack Howay

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Carole Diaz — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:18:44 GMT

Hoda, I am sitting here watching your story. You are simply amazing.....your strength gives me strength. Thank you for sharing your personal journey. Wishing you health and happiness. Thank you. Carole

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Shirley Jellins, Salt Lake City, Utah — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:23:31 GMT

Dear Hoda, First let me tell you how beautiful you are, not just your face, but your spirit. I enjoy you and the fourth hour on Today. Please keep up the great work. Also know people are keeping you in their prayers.

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Shirley Cancienne, River Ridge , LA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:24:03 GMT

Hoda,

Here's a BIG, WARM HUG FROM NEW ORLEANS. Thanks for sharing your story with us. Now I know why I did not see you on one of the floats during Carnival. I have a picture of you with us holding my great nephew by you as you prepared your beads for the ride. This was in 2006--a very special Mardi Gras for the people of New Orleans. As one reporter said it was the first time he saw smiles on the faces of children. One day I hope you ride in a parade with NBC cameras with you--let people know that Mardi Gras is family time. Most of the "junk" in the French Quarter is from visitors who think this is what is expected of them--NOT!!! As I said, Hoda, a big warm hug is coming your way. I hope to get to New York one day and I promise that if I see you on the street, I'll personally give you that hug! You will be fine and will get strength from the women you help by your story. Love Ya!

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Mary Phila, PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:25:59 GMT

Way to go Hoda. Your courage inspires all of us who are touched by this terrible disease. I was diagnosed in March with metastatic breast cancer at age 42. I am still fighting and your strength in sharing your journey has helped me face the next stage which is a mastectomy. I am ready to move forward in my life and you will be in my prayers.

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Lynne Smith, Portsmouth, Va. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:26:19 GMT

I don't have breast cancer, but my husband has just been diagnosed with renal cell carcinoma. Just watching you has made me realize what I need to do for him as he goes through his journey with cancer. I won't keep asking him "are you okay?". I will just let him know that I am here for him and ask him what he needs from me. It is a devastating thing to have the diagnosis but attitude is the key.

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Jeanne Keys, New Orleans, LA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:26:37 GMT

Hoda,
I met you in New Orleans in December 1990. You were covering the New Orleans Cancer Society’s Christmas tree lighting ceremony. I had just lost a son to cancer in January of that year. You did a feature on my son’s cancer and my pregnancy. At the end of the interview you gave me a hug which has stayed with me all these years. I wish that I could be there to give a hug today. But here is a cyber hug to you from me. Hang in there and you are in my prayers. By the way I had another son who is now 16 years old and healthy

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Patti, Littleton, Colorado — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:27:18 GMT

Hoda, I have never written in a blog before, but could not resist in this case. Thank you for sharing your journey! I'm under-going a monumental personal struggle myself and I too can say that it has changed me for the better! I am stronger and you are an inspiration to all of us going through our own tough times. I applaud the gracious choice to share your personal journey! You go, girl! God bless you!

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Eleanore Neal, Boynton Beach, Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:27:53 GMT

Dear Hoda Kotb, I deeply empathized with your discussion regarding your recent breast cancer. I was diagnozed 32 years ago andunderwent a radical mastectomy, removal of pectoral muscle, and 24 lymph nodes. I was 50 years old and in the midst of a wonderful career. Ultimately I became a facilitator for a support grroup whick I called YANA ( you are not alone.) It helped me immensely and it helped so many people over the years to allay fears and share with others. It lasted for 20 years, with help from the ACS untilI moved to Florida. Three months ago a mammography of the other breast revealed a tiny, early detected cancerous nodule. My doctor performed surgery to remove the nodule, and I was on radiation therapy and now, because it was estrogen positive, and I am post menopausal, I am now taking a daily pill called arimidex. Prognosis is excellent. Your disclosure to the public was a brave and compassionate move. I found that by helping others I helped myself and since you are a public figure, beautiful, and healthy, I know it will be the same for you. Remember we are much more than breast tissue, and will always retain the beauty which is uniquely ours. You will be FINE and just think wellness and life. Today the cure for breast cancer has come a long way from the drastic measures of 32 years ago. My wonderful surgeon of today apologized for needing to make my incision a bit longer than he had anticipated, At the age of 81 I find this to be actually humorous. Hoda I wish you God speed, a wonderful spirit, and a happy and healthy and long life! With affection, Eleanore Neal

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Jim McLaughlin — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:29:41 GMT

You've always been a star...now, you're a hero. Thanks for not "hogging your journey". My life is all the richer for having known you since the old days at Wink TV in Ft. Myers. I will keep you in my prayers.
Jim Mac, Bokeelia, FL

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Laurie Flak, Jacksonville, FL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:32:53 GMT

Hoda,
How wonderful and inspiring you are just like all the other "survivors" of breast cancer. My mother is 81 years old, don't tell her I told you, and is a 43 year survivor of breast cancer. She is an incredible lady who was widowed twice, raised 3 children, and survived breast cancer and had no chemo or radiation. She never let this disease bring her down or run her life. My brother was only 4 months old when she got the news and had the surgery, so she then had all three children under the age of 5 when going through all this. This woman is still going strong with no slowing down anytime soon and works as a part time volunteer at one of the Navy bases for the retirees and just recently stopped bowling after 50 yrs plus of being in bowling leagues. I, myself, am 46 and have been getting mammos since I was about 26. Certainly not thrilled about these exciting tests but I know that they are needed. So far, so good for me. I have had some lumps and bumps but so far they have all been benign and fibrocystic. My own two daughters are in their 20's and I have impressed upon them the importance of the mammos. Keep your chin up and be very proud that you have won this battle and you won't let this get you down. Take care and stay safe.

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Dena, Falls Church, Virginia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:32:54 GMT

Hoda,

I normally am at work during the time that your segment was on, but today I was sitting in my doctor's office and was fighting back tears. My dad's sister died from breast cancer in the 80's and she was only in her 30's (around my age now). My mother was diagnosed 3 years ago and had a lumpectomy with radiation and did great with her treatment. However, they just did a lumpectomy on her other breast because they discovered a new lump there. We are awaiting to hear what her next steps will be.

I loved your pink ring and would love to find something like that for the women in my family to wear. Is there a place that I can find the ring you wear?

Thank you for being so brave and coming forward with the tough journey you have gone through.

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Robert Gayer 1490 Briard Street ,Wantagh ,NY 11793 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:33:14 GMT

Dear Hoda ,
First I am real happy to see that you are doing good .I lost my mom from Cancer.BUT I must tell you that I am real sad to always see pink and more pink .I know that breast cancer is is linked to a lady.Hoda one of my best friends this monday went to the hospital and had his left breast taken off.He was told that he had breast cancer.i did not know what to say to him ,Because of how he told me.I feel so bad for him because all you see is pink and every body looks at breast cancer as a thing a lady gets.I need you to reach out to all the men that get this and help them feel like men.Not a person that got lady cancer.You do not know how that makes them feel.My hart broke for my friend.He als lost a part of him BUT is looked at different.Does he wear a pink think or should he wear a pink what ever with a little blue in it.I wish you all the best and a long clean life.
Stick up for the men in this world with breat cancer.

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Melanie Tyler, Joplin MO — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:33:24 GMT

Your show caught my eye, and `I had to watch, you see, in Jan. of this year my 31 yr. old son was DX'd with Leukemia. AML. A huge battle, then on June 21, my 26 year old daughter was DX'd with 3rd stage Breast Cancer. As a family this has just devastated us, but made us become even closer and totally Transplant, while my daughter is going through months of Chemo and then radiation before they will do surgery. So we have a very long way to go yet. But we SHALL overcome.I believe in them both. We are in the process of having my youngest daughter 24, tested for the gene. I wobnder how many other families are trying to deal with multiple family members with Cancer are trying to fight them both at the same time? I am a single mother caring for both children at the same time as well as my youngest grandson to help my daughter and her husband. How are other caregivers taking care of their families? Just wondered...

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Tim Ray,Springfield,Tennessee — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:34:38 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Two words I have come to dislike after a 15-year ordeal with cancer are Survivor and Battle. People think of cancer the way they do because we call them survivors as if most people don’t survivor so of course if you get the call you lose your mind. You and I both know that getting that call from your doctor is the one most feared thing in the world. I truly believe if we could lose the terms Battle and Survivor we might make it a little less scary. Sure in your case you no longer have a breast and in mine I no longer have a bladder or prostate but what has replaced those things is strength that can only come from a test, this thing called cancer really shows us and everyone around us what we are made of. It will make so many positive changes in your world, It is seeing a sunrise or sunset in the way God intended, it is showing compassion when others won’t, it is living each day full of love and not being afraid to show and tell it. I go down to my hospital and sit with people that have just gone through the operation I did to show them they will be all right. It is amazing to see them change before my eyes going from uncertainty to hope and then knowing they will be OK. Please do more stories on the positive side. In closing how about a national week of” vacation from cancer” if you have it or know someone that does let’s take a week off from worrying about it. It might be nice to know it’s OK to take a break.

Good luck

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Dana Effron, Lagrangeville, New Yotk — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:36:30 GMT

Your piece this morning moved me. I applaud your courage. I am a 12 year survivor. With my friend, we started a breast cancer foundation dedicated soley to supporting the patient in treatment and their families. Miles of Hope Breast Cancer Foundation is 5 years old, we have raised over $1,000,000, have given out over $300,000 in grants and established an endowment to carry our mission forward. We are located in the Hudson Valley and invite you to join us.

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Kathie — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:38:02 GMT

Hoda,
I suppose I should thank you for cleaning my tear ducts today but I wish it were not necessary. I had just sent my husband out the door with our daughter to begin his second round of chemo for prostate cancer and and jumped back in Elizabeth Edwards "Saving Graces" when your story came on the show. I put my book down and picked up the tissues!! Even as a caregiver I know the pity look all too well and, like you, I hate it. I just want people to ask how things are going but pity is something I can certainly do on my own. I think your courage,like all cancer patients, is amazing and please know you and all the others are receiving lots of prayers. Keep up the positive attitude and it will serve you well.

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Elaine Smethurst, Terrace Park, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:38:32 GMT

Please tell everyone that if they think something is wrong, there is! In February of 2005 I had a "dent" in my left breast but could not feel a lump. I had my yearly mamogram which was "suspicious", my breasts were extremly dense. My doctor requested a second mamogram on just that suspicious area. It took two weeks before I could have the second test. It was negative. I was re-examined while I was laying down, and still no lump could be felt. But while there I talked to the nurse and showed her the dent while I was standing up and asked why did I have that, is that how we age (I was 61). She called in the doctor, he immediately set me up for a ultrasound of that breast. After the ultrasound I sat in the waiting room and watched woman after woman being released and sent home. I was the last person they called in...I was told I had cancer, no ifs ands or buts. They gave me the name of a surgeon. The surgeon said it was stage 2. Two weeks later I had a 2.5 cm lump removed along with 5 lymph glads. I was told the cancer had estrogen tags. Chemo, radiation and more chemo. I still see the onocologist every 3 months and so far so good. Keep laughing.

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Mary Lina Garcia, Belen, New Mexico — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:39:28 GMT

I lost my life-long best friend last year to Breast Cancer. She felt symptoms but didn't tell anyone. She kept it all to herself until it was too late. Everyone tried to cure her. She had surgery, Chemo, radiation, medication, whatever they offered. She went into remission twice but it kept coming back as a different form. The last time, in the bones. We are 45 years old. Plese tell people to check themselves, tell someone if you feel something is not right and do something before it's too late. Think of your life and of the lives of the people who have to live without you. Thank You Hoda.

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Elaine Baum, Mount Gretna PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:40:50 GMT

Hoda, I was diagnosed with stage III breast cancer when I was 39 years old. I went through rigorous chemo and radiation. I am 46 yrs old now and alive and well. I like you did and DO NOT want people to pitty me. I live for today and because I looked the Grim Reaper in the eye and said "NOT YET" I live. I look at my scars and view them as my battle scars. My friends all say I was so brave and I did it with such grace but I feel like I had no other choice I like you hated the pitty I saw in peoples eyes when they see you without hair they know something is wrong but I know they just don't know what to say. No one can measure the effect of positive thinking and what it can do for your health. At the time I had a big dog (a Bloodhound) I walked him everyday he was aging at the time and I said Cletus if I can do it so can you. I would talk to my body and tell it to do what was right. Today my doctors are always amazed that I am still here. I guess my Mother was right I am quite stubborn. Cancer is not a death sentence and in as much as I thought why me? It is almost a gift that makes you less afraid of anything life gives you. I has made me more aware of the changing seasons. Look outside, you will notice colors more intensly. Its true isn't it? You will notice everything with a much higher intensity than ever before. You will take nothing for granted, even a bad day because you are alive and vertical. So Hoda, LIVE, LOVE, and most of all LAUGH. Take care and I wish you the very best life has to offer.

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Carol Shannon — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:42:41 GMT

I'm sure you don't remember me but I met you on the subway about 5 years ago when we were going to the US Open. I asked you if you worked on TV and then you refreshed my memorylapse. But I immediately connected with you - you were just so nice! I felt likeI wanted to invite you to dinner with all my girlfriends. I tell so many people about that day - and whenever I know you're doing Dateline spot or whatever I am there watching you - because I
know how genuine you are!

Well anyway I've never e-mailed anyone on TV but I saw your story on the Today and cried. I didn't know you had cancer. I am also a survivor (non-hodgkins-lymphoma); I was able to relate to your story from being healthythen hearing that word to the feeling of getting through it. But you used two words which I never was able to say so succinctly (spelling?) - those words "forward" and "fearless". You are so right - I never realized how thse words fit me to a T. When I was in the hospital "forward" was exactly what I wanted to move through this awful process as quickly and graciously as I could. I now really am not afraid of anything for myself. I'm a mother of 4 and always seem to be worried about 1 of my 4 but I really can't think of much I'm afaid of on a daily basis. Thank you for your story and your words of wisdom.

Hoda, I will pray for your continued good health and I thank you so much for telling your story. Blessings to you!

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W,F, Panama City Area Fl. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:42:45 GMT

Hoda,
Yesterday, my wife of 20 years had her first mamogram, at 40+ i worried about her and she finslly did it. Thank god she came out with a good exam. I saw what i thought, trepidation about going and then the smile when she coame out. I hope everything is going good for you. I saw the piece on the Today Show this morning and I hope for you to be cancer free I wouldn't know what I would do without my boog(my nickname for her,

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Lorrie Cooper — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:44:26 GMT

Dear Hoda, I was the lady in pink who saw you on the sidelines on the day of the race. You were in bike shorts and had your bike, no makeup, and I thought to myself, wow, you are beautiful! I came out of the huddle of my daughters friends and clapped along with you. I had no idea that we were " sisters: . I was one of the ladies you connected with. It was an extraordinary experience for me. I had no idea you had faced the same battle. All your word on the today show were mine also. I had the connection I felt exactly as you did. I love what you are doing. You inspire me. Thank you so much, sincerely, Lorrie ,, a major fan!!

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Barb Hillebrand — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:45:22 GMT

Congratulations Hoda for having the courage to share your story. I recently had emergency colon surgery and I am dealing with a temporary colostomy. "This can't be happening to me" were my exact thoughts when I was in the ER. Your message of going "Forward", your health and vigor today, gave me a boost. I will be "normal" again, with a few ugly scars, and I hope I can be as positive about all of this as you are. See, you are touching more than just people with cancer.

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Tanja, Kuna, Idaho — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:46:24 GMT

Well, I was going to address this to just Hoda, but after reading these comments, I have to say this to all of you: I applaud you all. I have not been diagnosed with breast cancer, but you need to know I check my breasts EVERY SINGLE DAY! I cannot speak for all women, but for me you all have made me aware. Thank you for sharing your journeys with us. You have touched my life more than you can imagine. God Bless you all.

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Carrie Roe, Caledonia, Michigan — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:46:35 GMT

Dear Hoda,

I am a 35 year old woman who is 18 weeks pregnant. I am a 4 week breast cancer survivor and counting! I am facing chemotherapy in the coming weeks, but am looking forward to a healthy child this March. I am blessed with outstanding care for me and my child. I also have two other beautiful children ages 5 and 2,who help me keep going through the difficult times. Thank you so much for sharing your story and feelings. You gave me strentgh today and I hope by sharing my story, that I can give hope and encouragement to others. Stay strong one day at a time. God Bless You.

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Dixie, Columbus OH — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:52:00 GMT

Hi Hoda and Ann
Thanks so much for sharing your breast cancer story. When one of eight women will experience this, it's important for all women to hear personal accounts from those whom have battled breast cancer. I have a question: Is your chances of developing breast cancer higher if you have not had children? Or, if you have not breast-feed a child?
I lost my mother 30 years ago to lung and liver cancer. She was only 44, I was 22. Question: Is breast cancer and cancers that develop in other parts of the body, related? In other words, would I be at a higher risk to develop cancer? I do not smoke or drink.
Thanks again for sharing your personal story...just keep looking forward! God is an Awesome God!

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Lorrie O., Andover, MN — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:52:25 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Thank you so much for sharing your unexpected journey. Cancer is an unexpected journey that none of us want to take, but unfortunately we have no control over that. Believe me you have touched many women and I'm sure many men today-probably more than you know- by telling your story. When you have cancer, are recovering from surgery and/or going through treatment, we tend to feel so alone and isolated. Sometimes the T.V. is the only connection to the outside world, so through the T.V., you have given so many people today hope and inspiration. Everyone who has cancer has to remember that it is nothing to be ashamed of. I have also been going through the cancer journey. I was diagnosed with lung cancer and had thoracotomy/left lower lobectomy last November 6, followed by chemotherapy and radiation. I am only 41y.o. with two young children and have been a lifelong non-smoker. I had stage 3a lung adenocarcinoma. The statistics aren't very good for lung cancer, but I don't allow myself to think about that. It will be 1 year in Nov. since my diagnosis. I love hearing stories of people surviving cancer. I consider myself a lung cancer survivor. I will have many years of follow-up to make sure it doesn't come back, but I am in remission and surviving. I would also like to say, that after my surgery and I know women with breast cancer experience this, the scars from the surgery make you feel less of a women or less attractive. Someone said to me after the surgery jokingly, "now you can't wear your bikini". (I never wore a bikini anyway), but I said and realized at that moment, "oh yah, I will wear a bikini and show my large scar loud and proud!" And I never thought any differently. I would like to tell you another story- I am a nurse at a local hospital here and I work in the surgical admissions dept. We had a older gentleman come in to have the same surgery I had. His tumor was even the same size and location that mine was. I happened to take care of him before he went to surgery and could tell he was extremely frightened about his diagnosis and the surgery. I told him my story. He thanked me many times and told me that my story gave him comfort and he was much more relaxed going into surgery. I felt so happy that I was able to share my story and maybe give some glimmer of hope to someone in their time of need. And you should feel proud that you did that today. A quote from Lance Armstrong, the man who gave me my initial hope-through his book-"Its not about the bike"- "Any of us who have experienced the cancer journey-and survived it-have an obligation to make the path clearer and aid those that come after us." Thank you again! I love your take-away from your experience- "you can't scare me". We, all of us who have had or are having the journey through cancer, remember we are all cancer warriors. Take one day at a time and never, ever give up hope! Take care Hoda and I look forward to seeing you on T.V.! And thank you again!

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Christine Miller Lancaster PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:52:56 GMT

Thanks for sharing your journey, Hoda. I am also a brest cancer survivor. I went for a mammagram (not having gone for several years because I was too busy, etc.)after getting out of the shower one day in November '06 and--not even touching my breasts--thought, "Something is wrong." In two weeks I was in for a mammagram and over a three week period of test after test, my cancer was detected. I was one of the lucky ones since, while I had a bilateral mastectomy due to microcalcifications in both breasts and confirmed cancer in two spots in my right breast, once I had my surgery, I needed no additional treatment. I am better than ever before, have a whole new outlook on life, am extremely grateful to be alive, and have already helped others in sharing my journey. We do need one another, esp. at times like this, so thank YOU, Hoda, for sharing your journey and your courage May we continue on our way--healing, supportng, and loving one another.

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DEBORAH BYRON MINNESOTA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:56:17 GMT

HODA, THANKS AGAIN FOR REMINDING US CANCER SURVIVORS
TODAY THAT WE BECOME STRONG. YOU HAVE THE VOICE.THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR PERSONAL STORY YOU
ARE VERY BRAVE. IT WILL GET BETTER. I AM A 3 YEAR
SKIN CANCER STAGE 2 SURVIVOR OF MELANOMA. THEY CALL US WARRIORS WE ARE. BE STRONG.

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Pat Spf'd, Dora, AL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:59:21 GMT

Thank you, Hoda and Ann for making your story public. You are very brave for doing so. Our local newsanchor, Brenda Ladun, here in Birmingham, AL is fighting breast cancer for the second time. She too, has made her journey public and has been such an inspiration for all of us. She continues to work (wig and all) and has such a fantastic outlook on life and her battle. We look forward to more updates on your journey. Forward!!!

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Lois Ferrari, Scranton, PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:02:04 GMT

Hi Hoda, I just watched your program. I am a 43 year survivor. I was only 28. I cried with you and laughed with you. I was so glad I watched. You are an inspiration. Keep it up.

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Nancy St.Onge, Baldwinsville, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:02:17 GMT

Sharing our stories is so very difficult-yet so very necessasry. My breast cancer has metastasised but I am still healthy and sharing my story with anyone who will listen--that is the way to help others do preventative screening and get early detection and treatment. It is also the way to get increased funding for cancer research. That is the way I can continue to live.
THANK YOU for sharing. It is our story.

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M.C., Little Falls, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:02:24 GMT

Hoda, thank you for sharing your experience. There are SO MANY of us SURVIVORS out here. My tears mixed with yours watching you this morning. You thought you were healthy; so did I. And my first reaction to the news was how my body could betray me? I take care of myself. But cancer doesn't discriminate, as we know too well. And we know too that it makes us STRONG! Thank you again for sharing with us. Every good wish for your continuing good health.

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Teresa M. Cool — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:04:16 GMT

Your message was true--to see tears is real--you have not made so many people feel normal--because tears are part of the process--tears are the rivers that carry us forward--I thank you from the bottom of my heart for making life real---God Bless You

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Joy Hoover Greenfield In. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:04:25 GMT

Hoda, I was so moved by your story thank you for having the courage to speak about something so private. I'm 55 yrs old as a teen I watched my Mother go thru breast cancer in 1968, back then they couldn't do all they can today but after a double mastecomy and treatment she turned 83 this year. I'm so blessed, & so our you. Keep going forward and God Bless. I have a mam every 2 yrs now because of the history, so far I've been lucky. I'VE ALWAYS ADMIRED YOU AND EVEN MORE SO TODAY, dance girl dance.

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Heidi in Simi Valley, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:06:29 GMT

Thank you Hoda! I have always admired your work, and as so many people have already mentioned, "you are the real thing!" Keep the faith and strength and thanks for sharing.

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Julie Sochacki, New Hartford, CT — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:06:34 GMT

Hoda,

I'm truly inspired! Thank you for your bravery and positive attitude! I am a mom of two small boys and an attorney/teacher who is getting her first baseline mammogram tomorrow. Because of your story, instead of dreading it, I am blessed that I am getting this life-saving test done at 36 years-old.

Natalie, Ann and Hoda....I somehow find a way to watch you from 10-11 a.m., my only t.v. watching all week long! You're that GOOD!

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Carolann Boos, Highland Beach, Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:07:24 GMT

Hoda, I was right there with you during your show this morning. I was diagnosed in January 2006. I also had a mastectomy and tram flap reconstruction. Just this month, I discovered another lump in the breast which had the reconstruction. I am beside myself with what to do next. I have the love and support of my husband. But am very confused about my next step.
I realize I would not be the first person to have two lumps within two years. But it pains me to have to relive the trauma of surgery and recovery again so soon.
You are such an inspiration!

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Bernice Lippitt, Brandywine, Maryland — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:07:39 GMT

Hoda: Nineteen years ago tonight I lost my one and only sister to Breast Cancer, she was 39. So, I celebrate your "victory" of going "forward." I am sad today, but, so happy in my heart because I see a vibrant, beautiful woman with such a magnificient spirit. May you be happy and well in all your "lives" (TV and personal). You are whole because you are HERE. Thank you Hoda for bringing joy this day in my rememnisicent day of losing my best friend. May God Bless You, Hoda and Thank You So Very Much for "lifting" my day.

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Kathleen, Turnersville, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:08:13 GMT

Hoda: Wow, your story was so emotional to me this morning. I have to admit that I'm 53 years old and have not had a mamogram for probably the last 5 years. My excuse,taking care of my sick mother, who just passed away in August from lung cancer. I think it's time to take care of myself and go for an exam. Your story has given me the push I need. You truly inspired me.

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Juliet McGlinch, Farmington Hills, MI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:11:53 GMT

Hoda: I too had the very same feelings that you had prior to surgery. I also thought I had dreamt this horrer and I refused to tell anyone about my surgery except my boss, husband and children. Thank God that after my surgery, the biopsy came back negative. My scar is small,the surgeon did a wonderful job, however my scar is a constant reminder of what may have been! You certainly delivered a very powerful message this morning. God bless you.

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Sharon Thorp, Rocky Mount, NC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:13:05 GMT

Hoda,
Thank you, Ann and Natalie for the breast cancer segment today. I have been a TODAY fan for years. I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of a few months after my 40th Birthday. It was a defining moment for me and my family. Being very healthy, with two children, I never thought it was possible, but one day I found a lump in my breast and called my doctor who immediately sent me for a mammogram and ultrasound. I had only had one mammogram in my life, about one year earlier and no sign of cancer. I was blessed to have found my lump so early, it was only 1.4cm and I had a lumpectomy and radiation and now on tamoxifen for 5 years. I still get caught up in the WHY? Then have to move on with my life and do those things that matter...my husband and two young children. Exercise and diet are a priority, becuase it gives me a sense of DOING something to prevent reoccurrence. Thanks again for your courage in being so public with your diagnosis and surgery. Breast cancer is such an epidemic and the age of those diagnosed seems to get younger and younger. I was just called by a young mother age 34 who was diagnosed with breast cancer. Please continue doing more episodes with prevention and empowering women with information so we can take charge of our health and wellness, both emotionally and physically. Thanks!

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Rene' ,Cincinnati, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:15:22 GMT

HODA, You brought back so many memories. I am a 16 year survivor. I can tell you with confidence that your life is far from over and just beginning. Since my surgery, I have for the first time found true love with a wonderful man. I have enjoyed and valued my children. Cancer taught me to enjoy and treasure life.
Thank you for sharing your story.

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Pam Cowan, Littleton, CO. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:17:34 GMT

Hoda,
I saw your story this morning and I want to say that I admire your courage and willingness to be so candid. I have been an oncology nurse for 20plus years and like Ann, cancer patients are incredible people to work with because of the way they choose to live their life with cancer and/or after cancer. I always feel so privileged to be a part of their journey.
So often trials happen in our lives and we wonder, Why us??? The answer is not always obvious, but when we embrace it as part of our journey, that's when we discover how precious each moment can be in our life. When we are willing to walk through our trial rather than deny it, so much is gained on the other side of it.
The gentleman, on the plane, I think , said it best, "Don't hog the journey". You have been given an opportunity to share with others, and time and time again, I have seen the impact it has on others.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Lastly, like the intern, I will often give a HUG to a patient because it can be so comforting when words can't be found to do this.
Best to you always! You are truly a gift and blessing to many.

Sincerely,

Pam Cowan, Oncology R.N.

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Marcy, Prattville, Alabama — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:17:42 GMT

Hoda, I truley admire you. You are an inspiration to all women. This cancer took my mother and has myself in constant fear. You are so brave and absolutely admired.

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Beth, Holden, MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:18:10 GMT

Thank you for sharing your story. I'be been putting off getting a mamogram since my last one which was in 2006. The reason for putting it off, I'm afraid. But after watching you, I just called and got an appointment.

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Connie, Athens, GA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:20:53 GMT

I sit here writing this morning with tears running down my face.....what an absolutely wonderful show this morning. I lost my mother to breast cancer 21 days after my 21st birthday.....my birthday is in 3 weeks and I will be 45. She was only 42. I have 3 sisters and a daughter and I live with the fear everyday that this disease is again going to strike my family. HOWEVER, as Hoda so eloquently stated, you must go forward and keep moving in that direction. Congratulations Hoda on your "clean bill of health" and what an inspiration all 3 of you class act ladies are in many lives.

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Carol S., Gloversville, New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:21:34 GMT

Dear Hoda, I think today's show has been the best in a long time. I was very moved by your ordeal. It shows the general public that you are just as human as we are and can feel just like us. Thank you for sharing your most private moment with us. You are an extremely brave and strong woman. Thank You! God Bless!

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Brandi, Dallas,TX — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:22:42 GMT

Hoda, your story touched me and I applaud your bravery in sharing your experience. You are an inspiration and I wish you well.

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virginia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:24:25 GMT

Thank you Hoda. It took a lot of courage to share your story. Thank you.

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Margaret Young, Langhorne, PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:25:00 GMT

Hoda,
I saw your story this morning on the Today show as I sat in my family room - 3 weeks after a bi-lateral mastectomy. I'm 41 years old, married, and the mother of a 5 year old. My family history with breast cancer runs deep. A brief summary goes like this: grandmother, Florence - survivor (1950's unheard of!);mothers first cousin, Betty - died in 1975; mother, Pat - died in 2000 of inflammatory breast cancer; sister, Patty - 50 years old - 9 year survivor; sister Chrissy - died in 2005 at the age of 32. The loss of my younger sister Chrissy was really tough. Her first diagnosis was at the age of 29. She had a bilateral mastectomy but her cancer was very aggresive. It came back 2 years later and took her in 8 months. I have been so very diligent about my testing for the last 7 years and now my surgeon, my angel, Dr Beth DuPree, has guided me through this last passage. After an MRI in August and my 4th biopsy I was diagnosed with breast cancer on September 4th. I had my surgery on September 25th and I feel like I have a new lease on life. I FEEL different just like you said. When I was diagnosed I didn't even cry. I have cried so many tears for cancer, I refused to give it any more unless I was willing. Actually, I finally felt in control. I could DO something about it. I was in control for the first time in 7 years!!
My sister and I have been genetically tested for the BRCA1 and BRCA2 gene. We are not carriers. My surgeon swears there is another gene out there called the "Slater" gene. (Slater is my maiden name). If not for the dedication of my doctors, I would not have seen my cancer on a mammogram for about a year or two!!! MRI was my answer. I'm currently going through the reconstruction process. This is the tough part I think. I just want to go forward like you said.
Everything you and Ann Curry said hit home. I just want to get on with LIFE!! Cancer if very clarifying. I know who genuinely cares and loves me. I know what I'm willing to tolerate. I don't sweat the little things anymore, because they really are so little.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your journey. It means so much to so many.
My best.
Live, Laugh and Love

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Sybil Longinotti, Grants Pass, Oregon — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:26:17 GMT

I am a 20, almost 21, year survivor of breast cancer. Keep your spirit strong and realize that you are not your breast and your breast is not you. It is just a piece of meat. Live each day with joy and the knowledge that there are a lot of longterm survivors out there that can help you get through the initial mourning period. I know the absolute terror that comes with the words "you have breast cancer". Join your local Relay for Life Group. We are very effective in raising money. I think we raised $400 million this year for breast cancer research.

Best wishes.

Sybil Longinotti

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Sandra, Southington, CT — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:27:20 GMT

Throughout this horrific ordeal, Hoda has been surrounded with such special people in her life....from the intern who offered a simple hug, to a complete stranger on the plane with his words of wisdom...to her loving friends and family.
Hoda, your life is truly blessed! With all these wonderful people surrounding you, i have no doubt your recovery can be no less than a complete success. In my heart,I believe you have come away from this experiece with something more precious than your cure!

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Cynthia Shannon, Huntsville, Al — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:28:00 GMT

Thank you Hoda for sharing your story. My 25 year old daughter had her breast removed in April and she is going throught the reconstruction process now. I really appreciate you being so honest because it is ugly and a life changing experience. As her mother it has been so hard because I can't take away the hurt and pain but I have tried to be her biggest cheerleader. Thanks for being so public about a private matter. Cynthia

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Maria Luisa de la Rosa (Lulu), San Juan , Puerto Rico — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:30:13 GMT

I was going thru a anxiety attack when I tuned in and I cried during the whole program. Not because of me but because of who you are, your strength, your beauty and the desire & courage to share for others. THANK YOU! Thanks to your co-anhors to be there by your side and specially to Joo Dee Messina for being there for you. I am here for you and you are my HERO. God bless you.

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S Moore,Beaufort, SC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:30:21 GMT

Hoda,

Bless you for sharing your story. When my grandfather died, the message board outside the church read "Be not afraid, go forward in faith". You seem to be the epitome of such a statement. Thank you for sharing your experience.

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Mary Woodward, Woodward, Iowa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:31:52 GMT

I think that I have moved on, until I hear a story like yours. It has been 5 years last May since my mastectomy. Thank you for sharing nothing has touched me before like your ordeal! Just hang in there and take each day as it comes. Will you're video be for sale? I think it would be a great asset for Oncology departments and cancer centers

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Carolyn Sertich — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:32:07 GMT

Hoda,
I am a breast cancer survivor. As with you, I was completely in denial that it would ever be me. I am thin & fit & eat well.
I am such a fan of yours. My daughter in law speaks of you so glowingly. She knows you from her retail job in Rehoboth Beach, De.I You are so brave to tell us your story. I wish you much good health and happiness. Carolyn Sertich Lafayette ca

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Marlene K. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:32:28 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Thank you for your courage and generosity in sharing your story with your public. As my father was deceased, I helped support my mother through two mastectomies with no reconstruction (her choice). I will never forget either day that the bandages were removed. She was a very brave lady, as are you.
G-d bless you.

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Elizabeth — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:36:17 GMT

Hoda,
KUDOS!!! I am so proud of you! Cancer can take so many things from us but our courage to pursue OUR REMAINING life is not one of them. I was so glad to see you take the stand against this horrible disease...it may take our tissue but not our life. I am a uterine cancer survivor and I am only 36 years old with 3 wonderful children and since watching you I will now take more time to prevent having to battle with it again. I can't thank you enough for your bravery and grace in which you have dealt with this...you are an inspiration and I can't thank you enough. I saw my mom battle it twice in 6 months as well as my 2 sisters then myself with uterine while my kids watched and I know it is not easy so stay strong and remember it can only overtake you if you give up. Thank you so much for your honesty. You are a shinning star amongst the darkness cancer plagues us with...keep shinning:)

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Sarita J, Philadelphia, PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:37:07 GMT

Hello Hoda,
I am an avid Today Show viewer. I watched you tell your story this morning and was filled with tears and had goose bumps all over. I felt your journey and relived mine. I am a breast cancer survivor also. I was diagnosed 9/05 at the age of 36. I just celebrated my 39th birthday on October 8th. What a time to celebrate LIFE, then during breast cancer awareness month. Hoda, stay informed about the decisions you need to make regarding your treatment. You are in in control! Lastly, I would like to share that I am a single parent of NOW, 4. I had to stop taking tamoxifen because of side effects and refused to continue hormone therapy. I recently gave birth to a healthly baby on July 12th, 2007. Go figure!!! My ovaries should of been damaged after chemo. I should of been pushed into early menopause. Needless to say there is LIFE AFTER CANCER.
Like you, I would like to share my story for other women.
Please read below:
The Story of a Breast Cancer Survivor
Two big, bulging eyes, long, apparently big feet, size 11 to be exact, spotted, scaly, acne-prone skin and feeling "green". A single mother of one, by the age of 21; but, on my way to being the first college graduate, ever, in my entire family.
After graduation in May of 1990, my life was full of upsets and disappointments. I felt like I had no supoort from my family, was unemployed, recovering from a failed relationship and living day to day with low self-esteem. Nevertheless, those adversities became the "lily pads of my life, hopping from one lesson to another, always searching for happiness.
For the next 15 years, I experienced many "lumps and bumps". By this time in my life, I expected to have landed. However, when I didn't, I accepted the reality that it was another opportunity for GOD to show me His goodness. My feet planted solid when I realized that life's challenges were reminders to fully rely on GOD.
One fall day, in September of 2005, a "lump" appeared that was unlike any trial I had ever faced. It was not painful. It was just there. The size of a small pea, big enough for me to see. I was later diagnosed with the big "C" - breast cancer. "Ribit"! I never questioned GOD why? Shortly thereafter, there were tests here and doctors there, like a fly. I had to undergo surgery, chemotherapy and radiation with no hair, Oh my!
Today, at the age of 37, I finally realize that I didn't have to kiss sooo many frogs trying to find my prince. All I had to do all along was fully rely on Him and I would be convinced. I survived the metamorphosis only to start life's process all over again.
F.R.O.G. (F ully R ely O n G od)

Hoda, you ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lori Brown (VT class of 86) Tampa, Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:40:00 GMT

Hoda, You have always been an awesome, inspirational person. My heart goes out to you and all other victims of this terrible disease. Thank you for sharing your story. You are truly something special!
Sending you a long distance hug and Delta Love,

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Pat McAfee, Franklin, TN — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:41:28 GMT

Thanks for sharing your story. As you do future stories on breast cancer, please do one on breast cancer in men. My dad is 80 years old and just diagnosed with breast cancer. Though less than 1% of breast cancer is found in men, it becomes really significant if you are in that 1%.

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Jodi Turner — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:42:18 GMT

Thank you Hoda for your story!
I'm a 2 time breast cancer survivor (double mastectomy). I had a terrible time find satisfactory prosthesis! I was recently fitted for CUSTOM prosthesis and love them! It's a great alternative to the nasty things you can buy from specialty stores that slip around, are heavy, and don't fit your body. If any of you survivors are interested please feel free to email me at jpogue56@hotmail.com and I'd love to tell you about them. I want everyone to know there is something out there that can make you feel good again! I feel pretty again for the first time in 6 years!

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Laurie Wooderson — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:45:46 GMT

Hoda, Hang in there, you look strong and beautiful. Thanks for sharing your experience with all of us, it really helps. On another subject, I love the white dress, piped in black that your wearing on the show today 10/18 can you tell me where I can buy one?

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Ilana Minkoff, San Francisco, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:46:43 GMT

Thank you Hoda for speaking out! You have no idea how many lives you will be able to impact with you story. I woke up this morning to your segment. I get to sleep in because I just recently finished radiation for breast cancer and am not working, just recovering right now. I'm only 37 and am a 4th generation BC survivor. I know far too many young women in their 20s and 30s who have battled breast cancer. Please have your producers look in to the staggering numbers and do a piece on it!! 1 in 229 women between 30-39 will be diagnosed with BC in the next 10 years (according to the Young Survival Coalition). Please help shed light on this. Thank you.

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Kathy Morrow Vail, Colorado — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:47:10 GMT

Dear Hoda,

Your conversation with Ann this a.m. was soooo heartfelt it really hit home (my Mom had breast cancer). It takes a boat load of courage to share your feelings about a subject that is extremely personal and yet common. I don't know a single person that hasn't been touched by breast cancer in some way...keep strong and couragious. You're the coolest for having the guts to air your personal battle in such a public forum...thank you for sharing your strength and beauty.

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Charlotte D., Arlington Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:53:31 GMT

Thank you so much for sharing your story on national television, Hoda! You are truly an inspiration to us all!

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Sandy, Little Rock, Arkansas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:53:38 GMT

Ms. Hoda . . . I know this small note is but a drop in the bucket of all the e-mails you're receiving, and for that I'm grateful. You are a part of so many people's lives and I believe the love and support coming your way is so important on the journey you're currently on. I am a social worker in Little Rock, Arkansas and I'm coming to New York City for the first time on November 8 for a 3-day visit. I just want you to know that, at some point during that visit, I plan to stand outside NBC and pray specifically for YOU. Among other things, I will pray that God will continue to place His Hand of healing on you. You go, girl!! That sense of humor is one of the best coping skills there is!!

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Evelyn Lowery, Willis, Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:54:33 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I saw your story today, and I was so impressed with your courage and positive attitude. A positive mental attitude is a major key to successful breast cancer recovery.

I have a slightly different story. I had a prosthetic mastectomy in July, to PREVENT developing breast cancer. There is a strong history of breast cancer in my family, and when my oldest sister was diagnosed with stage 3/4 breast cancer, the other 5 sisters all made a pact to have mammograms and to inform their health care providers of the history. My oldest sister has also tested positive for the BRCA1 gene.

My mammogram indicated a site of micro calcification, which led to biopsy, MRI, ultra-sound, more biopsy - fortunately all biopsy reports indicated benign. I did not have breast cancer. However, like so many women, I was advised to have mammograms every six months, and biopsies if deemed necessary. I have a wonderful life, and decided I have better things to do than watch my breasts, so after a long discussion with my doctor, and some genetic counselling, the decision was made to take control of the disease before it could take control of me! It was much easier to face the loss of my breasts, because it was MY decision, MY way of fighting the disease. It was the best decision I've ever made in my life.

My surgery went quickly without complications, and I asked to go home the following day. I never took the pain medication perscribed. Extra strength tylenol and ice packs were all that was necessary. The second day home from the hospital, I was able to move around and do light housework!!! I was looking forward to a life free of worry over "when" I would develop breast cancer.

I'm very fortunate that my insurance company and my medical providers are PRO prevention. The surgery and my reconstruction are fully covered by insurance, the prevention is much more cost effective than the cure.

I don't have to worry about chemo, radiation, and the emotional burden that this disease could have caused me and my family.

Please let women know that this option is available to them, also. It's a tough decision to make initially, but - it's so much easier when you choose to do it, instead of being forced to do it.

Best wishes to you
Evelyn Lowery

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LA Bohanan, Knoxville,TN — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 15:57:52 GMT

Hoda,you are such a brave woman to share your personal story with America. I cried with you this morning while watching your interview with Ann. I am a new Registered Nurse working on the Oncology unit and my patients are some of the strongest people I have ever met. Hang in there. Forward!Forward!Forward!

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Donna Niederstadt Harbor Springs MI. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:01:13 GMT

Hi After reading all of the above messages I can only add that they have said it all- you are an amazing woman . I do have one question or request-could someone e-mail me the name of Jo Dee Messinas song-I thought it very powerful and would love to get it-but can't seem to find it in any of the Today blogs. Thanks and god bless you-

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Norma Newman, Hot Springs, AR — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:01:41 GMT

Hoda,

I have watched many shows on different subjects that have affected television personalities and celebrities but this show today was ons of the most "HUMAN". It was honest and compelling. Thank you Hoda. You are the best!!! I hope NBC now knows what a treasure you are.

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Linda Putnam Fountain Fl — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:01:58 GMT

Hi Hoda, I am a Breast Cancer survivor I had Breast Cancer back in 1999.I am 59 now.When I was 50 I had a Massectomy on my left breast I know how you feel your whole body changes you look and feel different, I never had reconstruction on my left breast I just wear the heavy bra. It does not bother me now but I will not take my clothes off in front of my husband. I just don't look the same anymore. I had chemo and Radition. I hope I do not get it back but you never know. My sister went 20 years before she lost her battle with cancer. My Prayers are with you and your family.

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Megan B, Madison, WI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:06:20 GMT

Hoda,
I am inspired by your strength and courage. Thank you for sharing your story and giving the nation something so positive. I am a nurse and deal with cancer patients frequently, not breast cancer, but taking what you said about just being there for them and asking what I can do for them will help me take better care of my patients. Thank you so much.

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Tracy Gordon Syracuse, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:07:19 GMT

Hoda,
You made me cry this morning while watching you on the Today Show. I am a 38 year old breast cancer survivor who finished treatment in March. I could totally relate to your thoughts and emotions, and also feel that you are so brave for coming forward and telling your story. I kept an online journal to keep family and friends up to date on my treatments and progress. I felt it was rather liberating, and when I go back and read some of the entries, I realize how strong I actually was-even though I didn't feel it at the time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope you know now that you really are not alone on this journey.

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Marie, Austin, Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:07:21 GMT

Hoda, I watched your interview this morning and was filled with tears of sadness and hope at the same time. You are a courageous woman, and yes, you have a following! You were admired before you told us about your personal battle with breast cancer and you are an inspiration now more than you can imagine. I'll keep you in my prayers . . . you will get through this tough time! You were blessed to have found it when you did and having access to good medical care is a big part of the recovery process. Although you don't know many of us who write these comments, we are supporting you and pray for you.

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Lyn Solomon, Springfield, Missouri — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:10:15 GMT

Hoda, thank you so much for sharing your story. You are a beautiful person inside and out. You're an inspiration!!

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Selena Cotten, Kingman, Indiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:11:52 GMT

Hoda,
I first want to start out by telling you that I have loved watching your reporting. And I love the Today show...it has been my lifeline to the outside world for years, but today it REALLY hit home. It just so happend that I was off work today and watching the Today show, like I do every day, while getting ready for work...or maybe it was fate...I don't know. Anyway, I have been struggeling with a decision that noone wants to deal with. I was told last week by my doctor that a test that I took showed that I have a mass in my breast. I was just going to go on about my life and ignore it, in hopes that it would just go away, but today, I watched you on the Today show and I laughed with you and cried with you and you gave me the inspiration and courage to schedule my mammogram, like my doctor told me to do. I am VERY scared right now. But, I am alive and I want to keep sharing that life with my children and new grandchildren that I have. Therefore I am taking your advice and doing somthing about it. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I will let you know in the weeks and months to come, how things have turned out. Again, thank you!
Sincerely,
Selena Cotten
Kingman, Indiana

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tricia carey, nsouth hadley, ma — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:12:12 GMT

thank you Hoda and Ann!!! please tell me the Jo Dee Messina song and where I can find it, I LOVED IT!!

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M. Moscoe, Austin Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:12:44 GMT

Thank you for your message and story this morning. You said so many things that are never discussed. I am 3 years out and still have a hard time looking at myself in the mirror. I have never thought of myself as vain, but a loss of a body part/parts can be psychologically damaging. I consider myself very lucky, but it is good to know other women feel the same way, even if we can not talk about it.

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Donna Brunig, Clifton Park, New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:13:44 GMT

Hello! You are truly an inspiration and I will remember your story. I am sure there is a Reason I tuned in to watch Today on the day your journey is airing. We never know about the future, do we! so maybe for myself? or someone I love? Thank you for having the courage to talk about yourself to the whole world.

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Debra Hutchinson, North Ogden (Willard), Utah — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:15:00 GMT

What a wonderful interview, I had to laugh at several segments as I realized I was not alone in my pain and my struggle through breast cancer the last 4 months. I was amazed to hear the words I had only felt, come from you. You are so Brave. I was diagnosed with two types of breast cancer in the right breast 6/6/07(mastectomy my only option) but due to significant changes in the left breast as well, we decided to remove both breasts on 8/6/07. I have started my reconstructions, all of which is very uncomfortable but I am getting through it. I am 53, with no family history of any cancer. I never even knew anyone with it, where were they all hiding? It was at my 1st mammogram in more than 10 years (I always had some excuse, it hurt, too busy, blah, blah) that we found the mass snd the DCIS. I had three biopsies, 15+ mammograms, the skin sparing surgery, lypmh node biopsies (which were negative) and am recovering nicely. But not without the scars, the tears and the benefits the cancer has given me. I LOVED that I heard in you that we have less tolerance for what does not really matter, more focus and determination and will not HOG our Journey. I feel grateful and blessed that I did not have to have either the chemotherapy or the Tamoxifen. I laughed when you said that you had not really identified with your breasts and it was your hair you were more concerned with. It's True!. I am so happy I get to keep mine. I had an Ocotype DX analysis done on my tumor which ranked it a 13 (out of 0 to 100) which puts me at low risk for recurrence. The one thing I hated about my experience was all the waiting, the terror of the unknown. I spent days - weeks researching. Now armed with the information, I feel more in control. We will forever be optimistically vigilant. God Bless you. You are a Hero. I am going to put the power of my company (I am a Broker in the Salt Lake Area) behind the need for alternatives for those without insurance, or the money, who need Medical procedures they have no coverage for to save their very lives. I took my insurances (my husband is retired military) for granted. I never will again. If we can make a difference in someones life, it's our duty to do so.

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ASGHAR AFSARI, WEST BLOOMFIELD, MICHIGAN — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:21:40 GMT

Thanks Hoda for your courage and foresight to come out and tell your audience re your breast cancer.
As a gynecologist and Repro Endocrinologist, I deal and unfortunately have to breake the bad news to some of my patients, face to face. Your emotion when you heard the news on the phone, was exactly how you expressed it( empty feeling, and blank, blank and blank)
I always tell my patients, that look at it as a "DISEASE" and not as a cancer. You can face up to a disease, and approprietly treat it, with confidence.
Remember, it is a "DISEASE".
Best Wishes,

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Mary Lou, Scotland Neck, NC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:22:03 GMT

Thank you so much for speaking out about your breast cancer. I just had surgery to remove my right breast on 9-20.....and still have the chemo and radiation to do. I DO NOT want to do chemo and radiation, but guess it is necessary. My scans were all fine last week, but they still insist that I do the chemo. Keep up the good work......and I love your idea of just moving "forward". Thanks to the Today Show for allowing you to share your story.

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Kathy, Bridgewater, MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:22:27 GMT

Hoda and Ann,
What a touching and true discussion of something so personal! You could feel the love and strength come through! You are both such vibrant and inspirational women. Thank you for your honesty.

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Virginia A Schumacher-Cadieux, Eureka, CA. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:23:03 GMT

You go Hoda!! You brought me to tears, I was so inspired to keep bushing forward everyday. I'm the single parent of a son who has Autisum. I was recently diagnosed with Hep.C that I evidently aquired with a blood transfusion. I'm Ok I live with this. However, four years ago my Mother came to visit and said she found a lump. I took her to my Dr. and she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She's 85 now, and a four year survivor. But, during that time I realize how much of this was in my family history that I was unaware of. With my current health situation, I kept thinking what if I have to deal with this also someday? After, listening to your story today I know, whatever happens I'll be OK. Thank you,
P.S. I've never sent an e-mail to a TV show before.

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Elaine Strauser, Goshen, In. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:24:22 GMT

Dear Hoda, I felt compelled to write to you, after seeing your story. I too was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in Feb.2004. Then in Nov.2005 It mastisized to my bones and Liver. At that time they gave me a death sentence.They gave me maybe 9 mo. I decided THAT wasn't going to happen. I beat it! I've had 2 clean P.E.T. Scans. Yippeee!!!
You are so fortunant that they built you a new breast at the time of your Mastectomy. I wish they would have done that for me. I was in the middle of reconstruction when I was rediagnosed. I had to stop reconstruction immediately. Now I have to watch what I wear. I won't go thru that again, it was more painful than childbirth!(For me,anyway!)
I applaud you for talking about your journey. I also have a hard time telling some people about my journey, because of their look of pity. I always tell them,"I'm fine. I will continue to be fine. Be happy for me that I've beat this thing twice." Not everyone is that lucky.
I'm on Herceptin, will be for the rest of my life. So I had been told at the time of my rediagnosis. Hopefully that won't be true. Like you I look forward and not backward.
My song was and is by Martina McBride-Anyway. "No matter what happens dream it anyway." I love your song too.The bottom line for us Survivors. Is to ALWAYS look at the positive, not the negative!!!! Always look up too.Our higher power will always get us through!
I've always thought that there's a reason for me going through this. I havn't figured out why yet, but I'm glad it was me. I've learned so much about life and myself through this Cancer.
May God bless you and watch over you through your journey. All of us,(survivors), are sisters in the pink. Best of everything to you, Elaine

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RUSSELL CLARK ERIE PA. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:27:12 GMT

HODA AND ANN WHILE SITTING AT MY DESK THIS MORNING I LOOKED DOWN AND THERE WAS A PICTURE OF MY DAUGHTER IN LAW AND HER FRIEND SITTING ON TOP OF A FEW PICTURES MY DAUGHTER HAD GATHERED TOGETHER YESTERDAY.HER FRIEND COULD BE HODAS TWIN.I LOOKED UP AND THERE WAS THE TODAY SHOW WITH HODA AND ANNE GOING THRU THE CANCER STORY OF HODA,ISTOPPED WHAT I WAS DOING AND FOR THE NEXT 2 HOURS I STAYED WITH YOUR COUREAGEOUS FIGHT.THANK YOU FOR TELLING YOUR STORY ON THE TODAY SHOW YOU HAVE WITHOUT A QUESTION SAVED LIVES BY GETTING EVEN 1 PERSON TO GET AN EARLY DIAGONISIS.I LOST MY WIFE OF 45 YEARS DUE TO BREAST CANCER BECAUSE SHE DID NOT GET TESTED WHEN SHE FIRST NOTICED HER LUMP .THANK YOU AGAIN HODA AND ANNE AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU R. CLARK OF ERIE PA.

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Sally, Nellysford, VA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:32:02 GMT

Hoda-
I just finished watching the 4th hour of the Today
Show. What an insiration you are.I had to do an errand but raced back to watch.
I was just (2 days ago) diagnosed with DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ, which is supposedly a non-invasive cancer located in the milk ducts. I was surprised to hear Dr. Susan Love say that the milk ducts are where cancer begins and that it can spread.

The mammorgram was a digital this year and that is when they found a surprise. Unfortunately the DCIS is rated as a 3 which is the most severe. Had I nsot had this type of mammorgram, the results would probably would have not shown the problem.

I will be using a tape recorder on my next visit with my surgeon. What a great suggestion. I agree that even though I had my best friend and love with me, he did not remember everything and I remembered less.

I could continue on with my concerns, feelings, etc. but I will wait and see what is next.

I go in next week to discuss the suggestions of my surgeon.

If you have any suggestions as to web sites I would appreciate it.

I am scared, but thanks to your videod experience, I am ready to "GO FORWARD".

MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPENESS. Does Dr. Love have a website?

My thanks again. Stay strong

Sally - soon to be a breast cancer survivor

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Jean Penny, St. Augustine, FL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:37:25 GMT

Hoda--hang tough & carry the light for all of us BC survivors. Thanks for choosing to be so up front & candid re: your personal journey--each choice in life is a chance to grow in new ways. Surely some of life's choices we'd NOT have selected, so it is a true blessing to watch you meet this unexpected challenge with such determination, grace & innate dignity. Thanks kiddo & always remember you're fighting the good fight for the rest of us too.

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Dallas Southard Colton, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:40:28 GMT

October 18
I have had cancer in my life since I was young. My father died of cancer. My mother and her seven sisters have all had breast cancer, then some matastized into other areas. Being aware of this, I was tested for the BRCA1 and 2 gene but nothing was found as they did not know the exact gene they were looking for.

Due to this, I did under go a preventative mastectomy with reconstruction 2 years ago. Best thing I could have ever done. I now have no worries. I was previuosly advised that my risk of cancer was 85% plus and now it is about 2%. And my breast are fantastic!!

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Diane Bates, Amelia, Virginia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:41:22 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I haven't looked yet. I had a segmented mastectomy two days ago. Nothing compared to a full one, but I just don't want to see the scars. I had a hysterectomy three weeks ago and looking at that scar didn't phase me. Go figure. I cried with you and related with you so much this morning. I,too, just wanted it to be over. Forward, forward, forward! I have too much to do. My husband has stage 4 lung cancer, my son has schizzoaffective disorder, and I have a grandchild with a 4p- sydrome. They need me to help take care of them. Also, I have been teaching for 33 years. Who has time for breast cancer?! I was so relieved when the surgery was over. All went well! I need to move on. Thank you for not hogging your story!!! I'm going to shower now and take a look. I said a prayer for you today and praise God for working through you to give me courage!
Love, Diane Bates
P.S. Learning to let go and accept help has been a huge part of this journey for me. I've come to understand how much it means to others to be able to do something.

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Susan Frear, Johnstown, PA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:45:30 GMT

Oh, thank you, Hoda! Even though I am not a breast cancer survivor, I could really relate to some of your comments. Because my multiple sclerosis has affected my ability to work, I had to quit my job as an elementary teacher. I was heartbroken. But, you reaffirmed how I feel--share the journey! Tears came to my eyes when you talked about how you feel now. I thought, "She knows! She gets it!" That is so comforting to those of us who battle a disease daily--to know that someone out there really understands. I, too, am "sharing the journey" by starting a support group to help others cope with MS. God bless you for your bravery, candor, and heartfelt comments that have comforted so many of us.

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Dorothy Robinson, Heathsville, Va. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:47:26 GMT

Hoda, as a physical education teacher at Ft. Hunt High School way back when, I am so proud of you. I knew you were special with lots to give. I am a 13 year survivor of overian cancer. You go girl. Dorothy Robinson

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olivia marquez, peachtree city, ga — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:53:33 GMT

Hoda, Congratulations to you & Ann Curry for a truly uplifting, empowering story. Thanks for sharing your journey with all of your viewers this morining. It was a very powerful message & will benefit so many women. Sharing experiences is a wonderful gift that we should give each other.
I have reached my 20th year as a breast cancer survivor on October 20th and have learned so much from my journey & made so many new friends along the way. Keep your positive attitude. Thank you

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PATSY, THAXTON MISSISSIPPI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 16:57:07 GMT

THANKS SO MUCH HODA, FOR ALLOWING US TO BE PART OF YOUR STORY TODAY ON THE TODAY SHOW,I AM A 42 YEAR OLD FEMALE, FOR BREAST CANCER RUN'S IN MY FAMILY ALSO, MY OLDEST TWO SISTERS HAD BREAST CANCER AND BEAT IT. I MYSELF AT THE AGE OF 36 FOUND A LUMP IN MY RIGHT BREAST AND HAD IT REMOVED, IT WASN'T CANCER. THEN LAST YEAR ANOTHER LUMP WAS REMOVED FROM THE SAME BREAST IN THE DOCTOR OFFICE. IT TOO WASNT CANCER. SO THIS DOES SCARE ME TO DEATH. IT HITS SO NEAR TO MY HEART THIS COULD HAPPEN TO ME ALSO... LIKE MY SISTERS... I AM LATE ON MY MAMMINGRAM THIS YEAR... FOR THE FACT I AM SCARED TO DEATH WHAT MIGHT BE THERE NOW.. ANY ANSWER FROM YOUR HEART TO HELP ME DEAL WITH THIS FEAR GOING BACK FOR ANOTHER MAMMINGRAM?

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Claudia Brookover , Kingwood, Texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:05:02 GMT

Hoda, I am a 23+ year survivor and really appreciated your story today!
A few questions:
Where does one get one of the pink rings?
I missed the title of the song (and the artist)that seemed to be your 'theme' song. Please repeat it for me.
Thanks again!

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Donna West, Morrisonville, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:14:19 GMT

Hoda,
Please accept this as a virtual hug. You are a very special person. I loved YOUR TOTAL HEALTH WITH HODA KOTB. Now I get to see you even more on the TODAY show. I'm glad that you have such a wonderful support group at NBC and now all around the world. We are all there for you, Hoda. If you need to "talk", e-mail me.

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Sandra Jennings, Kingsport, Tennessee — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:15:44 GMT

Hoda,

How brave you are to come forward & talk about your battle with breast cancer. I lost a friend last year who had went into remission & lost her fight with breast cancer. Your braveness will always be a reminder of my friend. Thank you

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Dolores Stoia, New York City — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:18:04 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I was so shocked and saddened when I heard about your breast cancer. I wish you all the best and hope you remain cancer free. Please know that by sharing your story, I truly believe you are helping many others with their personal battle. It is very important to share your story since you have the power to do so. Stay strong and positive. All the best to you !

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gaël Mustapha, Coos Bay (Charleston), OR. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:20:24 GMT

Hoda, good for you. I'm a 14-year survivor and truly, for me, breast cancer was a blessing in disguise! I thought it was a death sentence because two high school friends had died a decade or more before of this disease. I changed my life totally, retired from a great but stressful job, moved to the mainland; visited all 50 states, Tahiti, Europe--made my dreams come true. Have written kids' books. Humore is the best medicine....after the biopsy with the yellow-blue-green-black boob, I told my sis I had the best rape prevention device in the world. After the mastectomy, I told the doc I felt like I had fleas under my arm. Without missing a heart beat, he said, "Oh dear, we need to get you a flea collar."
Go forth! Life is wonderful every single day!!!!

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Linda LaBier, Albany, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:23:25 GMT

Dear Hoda,
Many hugs and kisses to you. My heart went out to you this morning. You are a wonderful and brave woman. I thought about you all day. Even though we do not know each other, I am sending you much love and many warm, caring hugs from the bottom of my heart.

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Kathy, Centerville, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:25:51 GMT

Hello Hoda,
Would it be too personal to ask you exactly what type of cancer you were diagnosed with? The reason I am asking is because I just got "the call". A bad mammogram report. I am gearing myself up for bad news and I am very scared. I trust that you had very good doctors and if I am told the same thing that you were told, then I will have something to go on as far as treatments. I know this is jumping the gun a bit, but like I said, I am very scared. Bless you for your story and I wish you love and continued good health and a long and wonderful life.

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Sally Chandler, Grand Rapids, MI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:27:16 GMT

Dear Hoda, though I would love to call you Yoda, since my son is a huge Star Wars fan,
I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 45, and never saw it coming, since I have no family history. Two doctors recommended chemotherapy...I am a firm believer that knowledge is power, and went online and did a ton of research...For my type of cancer, early stage (1 or 2), estrogen positive, lymph node negative, there is a test out there called the Oncotype DX, which will analyze a slice of your tumor and give you your chance of recurrence in the next 10 years....I came back with a 6% chance and chose not to put my body through the harsh effects of chemo....what I want women to realize is that they need to do their own research, educate themselves, make a commitment and move forward. There ARE things that will lessen their chances of recurrence....eating organically whenever possible, limiting red meat, exercising, keeping their weight down, and supplementing with vitamins and minerals. I have educated myself about antioxidants and have found a supplement to enhance my body's ability to produce glutathione again. We do have power and control and need to keep a positive attitude and enjoy each and every day!! None of us knows what the future holds but we now know what a gift life is! Thanks for sharing, sister!

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Jo — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:34:25 GMT

Dear Hoda,

I listened to your story this morning with great interest. I was recently told that I had a recurrence of breast cancer in my left breast after being cancer-free for 4 years. I had a double mastectomy one week ago and I'm at home recovering. This is the first time I've watched the show because I work full-time. I feel very fortunate that somehow I clicked on the TV this morning and your story drew me in. I haven't told too many people that I've had a recurrence of breast cancer. For some reason, I want to keep quiet about it this time around. When I was in the hospital, I told a social worker that I was worried that perhaps I am in denial and not dealing with things in a healthy way. She told me that I shouldn't worry because what I was doing would not be described as being in denial, but rather I was being selective about who I disclose this information to. I appreciate you "disclosing" your personal story with us this morning - it was a gift. I'm sure it was an emotionally exhausting morning. I applaud the courage and confidence you displayed today. I will try to take some of the strength you showed today to give me hope that I will get through this as well.

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Mary Jo, Indiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:41:06 GMT

Hoda,

Thank you for sharing your experiences and giving all survivors a voice. I was 36 and pregnant at the time of diagnosis and scared beyond belief. Lots of friends, family, prayers and faith carried me through nine months of treatments, all while caring for my newborn son and 3 year old daughter. It's been two years now and life is so much sweeter!

Thank you for sharing you fear and courage with us this morning. Many blessings to you!

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Lori Friel, Knoxville Tennessee — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:49:59 GMT

Hoda,
I want to say "my hats off to you". I was so touched by your story and "interview" with Ann this morning. I have always enjoyed your stories on Dateline and watching you when you sit in at the news desk. I feel like I know you and was saddened when you were the co-worker they spoke of who was touched by breast cancer. Right after the interview I said I was going to email the show to wish you well and applaud you for speaking about something so personal and still fresh. You did great. I know that was so hard for you but you've helped so many and your positive thoughts will continue to move you forward. I am 36 and haven't had my first mammogram yet but will think about you and your bravery in sharing your story when I do have mine and if I face ANY challenges. I wish you all the best; in your recovery, healing and living. You are a wonderful person and woman and thank you for sharing your story.

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Katherine Jenkins, Seneca, Kansas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:50:46 GMT

Hoda, I just watched today's show and I really want to thank you for being so open about your victory over breast cancer. Your attitude is an example to everyone. I think this show should be shown in a prime time slot so more people have the opportunity to see it and draw strength from it. Anyway you could get this out to the most possible people would be a great service to the public. Congratulations and continued health to you. Live, Love, Laugh!!!

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Teresa McGovern, Detroit, MI — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:54:23 GMT

Dear Hoda,

Thank you so much for your story. I was late to work because I wanted to see your story. I have always liked your on camera personality. I really liked the word "fearless"... I think I may have to adopt that word into my spirit. May the winds be with you as walk this journey.

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Jeri Hershberger, Spokane,Wash — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:55:26 GMT

Hoda, I was so moved by your segment today..I sent you a card and a small letter telling you of a similar incident, like the one you mentioned about the intern. These people dont know what an impact they make on the situation...I hope you are doing well and life is wonderful for you.

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EM, New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:57:37 GMT

Hoda--I always thought you had great style, whenever I saw you on NBC: cool, sensible, a great sense of humor. All of those and more were on display today. I'm not normally a big fan of journalists making themselves the story, but it is obvious from all the reponses on this page that you have done a world of good, in just one day's time. I applaud you, and wish you nothing but good things and good health in the future. Big hugs from Brooklyn.

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Marion Camien, Massapequa Park, New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:58:31 GMT

I saw the show today on breat cancer & thought it was just great & my heart goes out to you Hoda but I know you are doing great....I to am a 5 year survivor....I was wondering where I may be able to purchase the pink ring that I say you wearing....You are in my prayers.

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Marlene Zeidman Tunkhannock, Pa. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:00:47 GMT

Hodu... I am a breast cancer survivor for 12 years... I used alternative methods with Dr. Nicholas Gonzalez in NYC. I had no chemotherapy or radiation... He has a website you can look upand see how he has helped so many people.... My prayers are with you!!!!

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Chris Barge, Ballwin, mo — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:02:06 GMT

Dear Hoda,
My name is Chris Barge, I had some what the same kind of experience as you, you see I have had testicular cancer in both testicles, and lumps in both breasts. the thing that I found out is that you my have the disease but the disease don't have you. By looking at you I can tell that, don't let the scares get you down, I have a bunch, I can since your spirit is a good one, and Let me tell you that on the outside and it seems like from the way you are the inside too you are a beautiful woman keep it up and know that we are all family.

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Debbie, Toms River, NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:02:50 GMT

Hoda,

Did you get breast reconstruction? I too had a masectomy because my tumor was above my heart and the surgeon said that the radiologist could miss the tumor and radiate my heart, so the masectomy was my only choice, of which I am grateful. However, after three years I am still afraid of reconstruction. Any advice? I do not have an ugly scar, it looks flat like I did as a little girl......

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Janet Getz — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:07:53 GMT

Dear Hoda, I also am a breast cancer survivor. I was only 29 years old when I was diagnosed. I like to encourage women of all ages especially young women in their early to late 20"s to do monthly breast exams. I am a RN and I work in labor and delivery and also I work on our medical floor of a hospital. I am now 44 years old and I still preach monthly exams for all women. I was lucky and found my lump, had a lumpectomy, radiation and yes, chemo. But above all I AM A SURVIVOR!!! I wear the pink ribbon proudly and I would like to know where you got your pink ring, I love it. Yes, women with breast scnacer are a special group of women, but we are strong women who fight til the end. I have not had a recurrence and for that I am thankful. Best wishes to you and you are a beautiful person inside and out.

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Brenda Price, Rockford, IL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:08:08 GMT

Hoda,
You went to college with one of my best friends, Deborah Linz, who is also a news anchor. Because of knowing that association, I have paid close attention to your career. I was so moved by you sharing your very personal story this morning. Deborah anchors in the evening and misses your show, so I just e-mailed her and told her to watch online. What that man told you on the plane is a life lesson for all of us. God bless you for having the courage to share your story and help others. Wishing you good health and much happiness.

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Heather Chapman,Boise,Id — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:08:25 GMT

hi Hoda. i wanted to let u know that you're VERY brave! when i saw the piece i started crying but at the same time saying "way to go!" i hope by this by this happening that u DONT feel like only part of a woman. thats ONLY a part of u not the whole package. my brother had hoskins dease(cancer of the lymphs nodes). they took out a small football size lump on the outside of his neck and a golfball size from inside. he's been cancer free for quite sometime. hang in there,keep a positive thoughts and just know that ur NOT alone.

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Marilu - Miami, Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:11:17 GMT

Hoda,
Your courage and strenght to tell the world is very admirable. I was diagnosed at the end of 2002, a six month session of chemo, 34 sessions of radiation and 4 surgeries later, I too had to endure many difficult moments. But we come out fearless, strong and loving life much more. Cancer does not take away, it gives you. I saw you today, you look great. I know that I have been empowered from my ordeal. I have another year to go before I can truly say I am cancer FREE. Stay Strong ! My best to you.

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Ina Schneiderman, Chicago, Illinoisq — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:13:48 GMT

I am a one year survivor of Her2 positive breast cancer. When I was diagnosed with this type of breast cancer, I had never heard about it. It is a very aggressive form of breast cancer because of it's high tendency to recur and metastasize and until recently, there wasn't any treatment to improve those odds. Now with the new drugs, Herceptin and Tykerb,(Lapitnib), there is hope. Whenever I get a chance to bring Her2 breast cancer out to the open, I do so, as in writing here today, so that others can be informed. Initially, I was very afraid of my diagnosis because it was so unusual by comparison to other breast cancer diagnosis' that I had heard of. Despite it being a scary diagnosis, I never once believed that I couldn't beat this. I adopted the attitude from day one that I was going to be victorious in this battle and here I am today to say "I may have cancer, but cancer doesn't have me"! Hoda, thanks for sharing your story with the world and you will never know how many you have helped by reaching out as you have done. Continued good health to you. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, "A woman is like a tea bag, you never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water".

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Carrie, Florence, Al — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:15:59 GMT

I own a salon. My mentor, who had the salon before me was everything I wanted to be. Mother, women, hair dresser, giving, loving person. Making everyone FEEL and look beautiful. At 45 she found out she had breast cancer, she always took care of eveyone else making sure doctors appts were made and kept. Except her own. She let herself come last, and unfortunatley, she waited to long. Thank you Hoda for sharing your experience. I've tried to spend the last 6 years telling everyone, early dectection is the key to beating this. My line of work deals with beauty, vainty, and to me the beauty lies within your soul. I want every women to feel beautiful,no matter what's taken or removed, as long as your inner beauty still shines through. Please know how much your story has meant to me. You are an example of what I stand for everyday in the meaning of a beautiful, wonderful women. My mentor died, but never lost her soul. Your courage and strenght will help so many. I have a small amount of people I reach, but you have the whole world. Your impact can change so many lives. Thank-you so much, once again.

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Joanna Wilhite Wellsville, KS. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:21:27 GMT

Hoda, you go girl. We are the sisterhood. I was diganosed with melanoma of the lymph nodes on the left side, in Dec. 04 and they removed 14 nodes. I did treatment of Interferon for 30 days everyday, and for 1 year, 3 times a week, with self injections in the stomach. Then in Feb of 06 I had nodes removed from the right side, but they were not cancer. In July 06 I had a mammogram and it showed a small spot. It was cancer of the left breast. I had a mascetomy and tram flap reconstruction done in Aug. 06. I did chemo and lost all of the hair and now it's back but very curly, I was straight before. I'm taking Herceptin treatments for 1 year and also Femara for 5 years. Again we are the sisterhood.

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shauna arola madison wisconsin — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:21:32 GMT

Hoda, Thank you! I am a mother of four, my last child Sebastian was born with a congential heart defect called TGA. My life was a blur for the first couple of days after his birth, he had open heart surgury on his third day alive. He just turned one and is doing great. I knew when I was pregnant that I had a lump in my left breast, I had a mommo and an ultrasound before and during pregnancy. This morning when I wathched your story I was reminded that I need to have a follow up mammo done, but I put it off because I chose to breastfeed my son Sebastian for his first year. I felt his health was more important than mine. Thank You for reminding me the importance of my health as well!

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Dawn, Atlanta, GA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:26:09 GMT

Hoda, thank you for sharing your story today. It was heart felt and honest and from one woman to another...that meant so much to your viewers. Stay encouraged and strong. I thank God you are here and healed!

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Sue Shankle, MSW — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:30:23 GMT

Hoda,

I too have been a fan for years and relate to much of your story. I suffered a bad burn seven years ago and remember thinking " I don't want to be just one big accident".

Someone told me that scar are the tattoos of real life. I like that! It means I'm hip!

Take care,

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Sheri Odom, Bend, OR — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:30:32 GMT

Hi Hoda,
I watched the today show this morning and was really moved by your story, I was also in tears. I am usually at work so miss the today show. I am home as I was just in a auto accident 2 weeks ago so am recovering from that. I admire your strength and upbeat attitude. I watch your show when I can and really enjoy it. I lost my husband in '92 to brain cancer and I was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2000. They removed all but a few inches of my large colon which has now led to many surgeries, to remove adhesions and 2 years ago, I had pre-cancerous cells again. This time in my small intestines so another 9" inches removed and then staph infection for 2 months and another surgery to get rid of it. I wish I would have had the positive attitude you do. Keep up the good work and keep sharing your amazing story.After watching your story this morning, I have not had a mamo for 5 years, In fear of finding something else wrong but I made an appointment for one this next week. Thank You and God Bless You.

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Don T., NOLA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:39:35 GMT

Hi from New Orleans Hoda! We love you!

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Dolores DuBois Buffalo New York — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:40:18 GMT

Hoda I am a 18+year survivor. In watching the show today, I was reminded of the beginning of the second part of my life. All that you said is so true. I know that what got me thru it all was a my faith and a positive attitude. That was the most well done, informative show on breast cancer that I have ever seen. I, too was on Tamoxafin- no chemo - but for just over 6 years. Kudos to you and Ann who handled the interview with such tact and love. I am now 72 years old and find I have a new song (Is this my life). Thanks to all for such a wonderful show.

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Peggy Proctor, Catlettsburg, KY. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:44:58 GMT

Hoda's story is very touching, she is very brave for letting the viewing audience into her very private, emotional problem. I am a 16 year survivor. I was diagnosed back in 1991, my boys were 10, 7 and 5. My pray was, God please let me live long enough to see my boys graduate from High School. Well, they have all graduated from college, so I am blessed. I have a granddaughter and a grandson on the way. No family history until I had it. My mother, and two sisters have died from it. Then you ask why! Why me surviving and not them. I must have another purpose, to be here today, something I need to be her for, I haven't figured it out, but believe I am here for a purpose. You are doing what I have wanted to do, but not in front of the tv. Thank you for getting the message out, the do's and don'ts. My biggest suggestion is for women to remember that they know there bodies better than any doctor. You know when you feel a lump. Mine was misdiagnosed the first time. I persisted in another mamogram, and thats when they told me it was breast cancer. Push for answers. Never let a doctor tell you to watch it and come back in months and they would recheck it. Push to get more test right away. This will save lives. thank you for speaking out. God Bless you.

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Troy Gordon, Newport News, Virginia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:50:49 GMT

Hoda,

I am originally from New Orleans, Louisiana and I distinctly remember you when you worked at WWL-TV in New Orleans. I was so inspired by your open and honest display of your defeat of breast cancer.
It was truly an inspirational moment for me and it brought back memories of my Grandmother who "passed away" from breast cancer in 1992. Despite her diagnosis, she was continually prayerful and an inspiration to my entire family.
Thank you for your courage,your strength and your "ministry" to so many other men and women who will be encouraged after having viewed your story.
I will continue to keep you in my prayers as you continue on with the best years of your life that are ahead.
I have to admit....when you were in New Orleans, I had a secret crush on you!!

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Betty Donoghue Las Vegas, Nevada — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:00:53 GMT

Hoda,
I love watching the show just to see your smile and hear you laugh. You are such an inspiration to me. I currently am having health issues and have bouts of feeling sorry for myself. Today, you brought sunshine to my life and woke me up. I so wish I had such an upbeat person in my life. Since I don't, I'm going to try to be that upbeat person for my 17 year old daughter and anyone else I come in contact with. Thank you!

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Thelma E. Hall 839 First St. Lancaster, Pa 17603 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:00:55 GMT

Hoyda.. I too lost a breast to cancer. that was 18 years ago.. I was allowed 22 hours in the hospital and than sent home..No way was I ready and 18 years ago no one talked about what we had to face. thank you for being there for the new patients today.. How may I get one on your pink rings.. what a way to celebrate!! best wishes.Thelma E. Hall

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Patti, Beaverton oregon — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:15:34 GMT

Hoda
I watched your interview with Ann Curry and was very touched by your story. I was diagnosed for a 2nd time on 5/16/07 and having a lumpectomy and radiation 5/7/03 and being on Arimidex for 4 years. I had ductinsitu again on the same breast I had had the lumpectomy and radiation on so my only option was a mastectomy. I chose to go ahead and have a bilateral mastectomy done on both sides for peace of mind and I also had reconstruction (implant expander)done at the same time. I go in Nov 14th to have the expanders removed and the permanent implants put in. When I watched your video of you being helped to bed, I could see and feel your pain as I remember how unbelievable the pain was everytime I moved or breathed. You're a courageous woman and an inspiration to all of us survivors and God Bless you and Robin Roberts for sharing your stories and making a difference. Take care!

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Jackie Puzniak, St. Louis, MO — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:15:38 GMT

Way to go Hoda. You are an inspiration to any cancer survivor. I was diagnosed with Bladder Cancer with metatastis to the liver in July 2005. I agree that your become a more enlightened person and cherish the opportunities you have in a totally different light. Like you music is an uplifting. I made what I called my Cancer CD. I chose songs that were meaningful to me and uplifting for the days I was not so up after chemo. My favorite is Bon Jovi's It's My Life. The songs per se may not be appropriate but most of the refrains say what I need. I Will Survive, Walking On Sunshine, I Get Down But I Get Up Again, Soak Up The Sun are just a few of the songs. It is a great pick me up. Keep up the good work on the extended hour. Also remember we never walk alone.

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Sandy Moreno , Gettysburg, Pennsylvania — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:16:37 GMT

Hoda, Thanks for sharing your story with us. Here is a great big hug from me to you!

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elizabeth — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:45:02 GMT

you Rock!! i just happened to see your dance at the end of the sho. i totally felt your passion.
i cried...........elizabeth

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evelyn g, san antonio, tx — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:48:06 GMT

Thank you, Hoda for sharing your experience. You are moving forward so beautifully and helping so many of us. I agreed with the physician that more emphasis has to be placed on prevention and screening as well. Have you heard of "tomosynthesis", a multidimensional radiological procedure that can detect cancer when mammograms failed? Why are there only 10 centers in the whole USA that perform this procedure? I was at a breast cancer workshop last week and it was the first I had heard of tomosynthesis.
Adelante! (Forward)

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mary fran aunchman smithfield, ri — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 19:54:19 GMT

Hoda, I too am a 13 yr. survivor with two sisters and a mother who are also survivors. We have been tested, as has my entire family, no genes that they have discovered explain why 4 women in one family get this disease. It was the best thing for me, I was blessed with many family, friends and people I worked with who supported me. I never hid it, I feel that it is something each woman faces differently, but the most important thing is that WE ARE SURVIVORS and we carry our scars with honor. It will continue to be something I'm constantly aware of and you were correct, you value and view your life very differently after fighting the battle. I'm blessed to have a wonderful family, they are the most important things I treasure and know that if I were to face the challenge again they would be there for me. The other major strength was the gift of laughter, it got me through a lot and is always the best medicine for all. Good luck in the future, sisters of this disease are always together fighting the fight and supporting one another.

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Sharon Wellington, FL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:03:08 GMT

Thank you Hoda, Ann and all involved in producing one of the most beautiful and MOVING special reports I have ever see on TV. Thank you Hoda, for the courage to tell the world you very personal story. You truly stand alone from most in the media.

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Mary H. from Washingon, DC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:03:31 GMT

I’m a fellow traveler along that same road and went through all the same emotions. “Not me” “Someone else” or “They got it wrong”. Well they didn’t. I was diagnosed last April and one week later had the first surgery. Unfortunately I had to go through chemo, additional surgery – a mastectomy -- and then radiation. After finally completing a year on Herceptin, I saw my Dr. for the first follow up visit just last week. According to my him I should consider myself cured – so that’s my story and I’m sticking to it. You are so right about this being a life altering event. I had a lot of support and prayers which was a big help but it is hard to find normal again. One thing I appreciate from your story is putting a younger face on this disease. While in the chemo room I invariably felt like one of the youngest in the room and I’m in my 40’s. From all the postings it is clear that cancer can strike at any age. Your interview was inspiring.

Your strength, humor, honesty and frankness in sharing your story will help a lot of people. Thank you.

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Ann, Bangor Maine — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:11:26 GMT

Hoda: Thank you for sharing your story...the more 'survivors' sharing, the more we can convince women to get that regular check-up. When I was diagnosed, I told everyone I knew so they could lift me up when I was too weak to lift myself. And when I survive, they know what I survived. My breast cancer was scattered throughout the breast, discovered by a regular mammogram and found pre-lump. A mastechtomy was the only option for the agressive form of cancer I had. That was 5 1/2 years ago. Our bodies don't define who we are, it is only a vessel to carry the soul and definition of who we are. There are, however, still days I look and am sad about the physical loss, but it really doesn't matter - I'm here to contribute; as it should be.

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Tammy, Richmond Virginia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:14:54 GMT

Thank you Hoda,

I was scheduled for a surgical biopsy at 10:30am this morning, your message of courage and hope came at the perfect time for me. Thanks for sharing!

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Monyeen Espeleta, Santa Clara, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:17:18 GMT

Dear Hoda -
I, too am a breast cancer survivor. I was diagnosed in February2007; had mastectomy (right) April2007 and a tram flap reconstruction immediately right after. Had 8 cycles of chemo (AC+T) and currenty on radiation treatment for 5 weeks. I shaved my head a week after my first chemo treatment; lost all the hair in my body at the last stretch of chemo. I thought I will keep my eyebrows, but that went away too. Listening to your interview w/ Ann Curry this morning, feels like I was with you. Thank you for your courage in telling your story.

My doctors at the Stanford Cancer Center are working hard (with research & treatment) to find a cure for breast cancer; which I hope & pray will happen soon.

You will be in my prayers, always.

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Laura Bennett, Bakersfield CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:17:52 GMT

Hoda,Yes first thank you for your bravery and sharing your journey,I had a question and was wondering if you could forward it to one of the doctors, or maybe you know the answer. I have asked this question many times to many doctors each giving me a different answer and today I heard both of your doctors say" that hormone replacement therapy can cause breast cancer' my question is I had to have a hysterectomy 11 years ago and have been on 3 types of HRT, I am now on bio-identical hormones since I have no ovary's nor uterus am i still at risk for breast cancer with the HRT, should I stop, this treatment I am 44 years old and would naturally beginning menopose.
You're a blessing and thank you for speaking about fears that we all think about.

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JoAnna Cespedes Santa Maria ,CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:18:39 GMT

Hi Hoda,
Thank you so much for touching my heart today! (oh, and messing up my makeup...I too needed a makeup crew to touch me up)You do not mention your faith but I know by listening to you that you are a woman of FAITH! Your transparency, your kindness, your geniune spirit came through to me as I was sitting getting ready for work.
I believe that the man who spoke those words of encouragement was an angel sent from God. He wanted you to tell your story (testimony) see testimonies help and encourage people who are going through things in life. God's grace and mercy is all over. He also wants you to move FORWARD....because as Jeremiah 29:11 says He has a plan and a purpose for your life..thougnts of peace not of evil.TO GIVE A FUTURE (FORWARD) AND A HOPE!!!
I will keep you in my prayers...Love JoAnna

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Sherry Moyes, Salt Lake City, Utah — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:22:24 GMT

Dear Hoda,
I believe your beautiful story today may very well prove to be one of the most important things you ever do!! You embody my favorite definition of "courage" . . . "grace under pressure." That quote is carved into a stone that I keep on my nightstand. I'm a breast cancer survivor too (one year Oct 2nd!) and am learning to let go of the little worries and focus on the gifts of life each day.

THANK YOU for sharing something so private with all of us. It was a beautiful gift and you are a treasure.

Be well,
Chetty
(aka Sherry Moyes)
Salt Lake City, Utah

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Diana Blanco, Gilroy, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:24:27 GMT

I just wanted to say how this segment got me crying before work today, but made my son realize that all the times I was so scared to see the doctor for my annual check up meant something. And I got a hug from him and that is rare at his age. And I told him just waiting to find out that you have or haven't is still hard. I always tell my kids that we are here for a reason and Hoda your reason is to tell your story and to know that you are a blessing not just to your family and friends but those who watch you from a distance all the time. God has give you the gift of life. May all your days be blessed. And this makes me want to do more now for the Relay for Life organization that I have been with now for 3 years.
Thank you once again for sharing with all of us.

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Gayle Piroli — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:29:39 GMT

I must tell you that you were absolutely wonderful when I listened to you tell your story this morning before I went to my job as a preschool teacher. I ALWAYS turn the TV down when the subject comes up....Not sure why I didn't this morning.
Almost 5 yrs. ago to the day, I put on my boxing gloves and came out fighting after my official biopsy results were given to me on Friday the 13th! I was 51! It took me an entire yr. to recapture my life.
The hair thing was the issue with me...no hair for almost a year and wearing the wig were the biggest challenges for me to deal with on a daily basis. The boob was just a battle scar...not a big deal to me.
BUT my hair!!!!!WOW!!!!! 2 1/2 months of Round #1 Chemo, a 1 wk stay in CCU due to a massive lung infection, surgery (lumpectomy), 4 more more chemos in round #2 and 6 wks of radiation. BUT I DID IT!!!!!!I returned to my job in Sept.a year after my diagnosis. I finally took off the wig in January ...16 months with that thing on my head!!!!

I do have a different look on life. I do take one day at a time. I do live my life to the fullest.....enjoy every moment and I do take my Aromasin every day!!!!
One of your comments that will remain with me is Don't hog your story....I rarely discuss my cancer with anyone, family included... but perhaps this will change....I cried when you cried, laughed when you and Ann laughed....I am coming to realize that I maybe I can help others deal with their breast cancer ...I'm going to try and be better at that, Thanks to you......
I'll be 57 in Dec. and I am still trying to learn how to NOT HOG MY STORY....

I am curious as to where you got the pink ring you had on....I don't buy or wear any of the pink products on the market, but I was intrigued by the ring.....is it available for purchase?

Stay strong and continue to fight.....it really does get easier to deal with the "BIG C" the further away you get from your original diagnosis.

My husband and 2 sons (21 and 24 when I was diagnosed) were my rocks...Wonderful support is major in recovery and my continued wellness.

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Darryl Knox, Seattle, Wa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:40:57 GMT

Hoda, I've watched you for years on the Today show. Seeing your interview with Ann touched my heart.
I always thought that you were a very classy, sophisticated, loving woman with a big heart. Now you can add FEARLESS to the list.

Keep your chin and head up, you are one remarkable woman and you really did touch millions of people today, women and men.

Stay sweet and take care!!

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Inderanna Odom — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:41:51 GMT

Hi Hoda,
May God grant you continued Health and Happiness.
It is a long road but you have made it better with
your kindness and grace. Keep the faith.You are in our prayer.
Best wishes. Inderanna Odom

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Denise Kreiser Newmanstown Pa — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:45:45 GMT

Hi Hoda, I have always thought you were awesome and after Today, I think you are more than that. Coming forward as you did and showing your true feelings, well that shows your courage!! When you cried, I cried and I wanted to give you a hug and comfort you. My yearly check up is next month and I have been trying to figure out a way to not go in but Im just gonna do it. I admire you and all you are ... thank you for sharing your story with everyone!!
hugs
Denise
ever in Pa, give me a holla!

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Lisa, New Orleans — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:48:35 GMT

Hoda, we here in New Orleans still think of you as our own. I was listening to the show (which I love) on my car radio this morning and I just burst out crying - it was like listening to a member of the family. Please know that you have an extended family here in New Orleans admiring you and pulling for you.

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Barbara Mabary Marietta, Georgia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:59:35 GMT

Thank you, Hoda, for sharing your moving story! I just made my appointment for my mamo.....I have been putting it off....and I know that your message will touch more people than you can ever imagine. Thanks to Ann, also, with her sensitivity in talking with you. It was such a personal scene, and so powerful. Television at its best!!! Blessings to you as you move forward with a new awareness for life!

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Gloria Cummings — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:00:15 GMT

Hoda, You are fantastic, way to go girl. I cried with you today as you came forward with something so private & personal in order to help others. I also laughed with you, as a breast cancer survivor, having been diagnosed in both breast, & after a bilateral mastectomy, I have been asked so many times how does it feel to lose your breast, my answer is, not a good feeling, but they really were not my thing, they never excited me, I did'nt really know them, so needless to say, I loved your answer, & it made me laugh. Thanks for coming forward!!! You are the greatest.

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k sterrett baltimore md — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:03:21 GMT

hoda hang in their girl you are in my prayers

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Debbie Brown Bergholz, Ohio — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:32:38 GMT

Hoda,
Please use your prominent position to urge insurance companies to grant mastectomy patients an actual stay in the hospital. I am a 10 year suvivor and I had a radical mastectomy as an outpatient. Thankfully I was healthy and had a wonderful support system. I don't know how older people with no support network manage. This is a very emotional as well as physical procedure.
I wish you all the best. This is a very conquerable disease in this day and age.
Debbie Brown

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Christa Kendrick, Atlanta, GA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:35:46 GMT

Hoda,
Over the past few months I have grown to be such a fan of yours. I watched you recently learning to 2 step and thought to myself that you seemed so full of life and like such a fun, genuine, sweet person.
Thank you for having the courage to share your story today. I, as I'm sure many others did, cried watching your very candid video. It made me also reflect on my mother's experience with breast cancer nearly 4 years ago. I was so happy to see Jo Dee on the show and singing your special song. I'm sure that meant a lot to you.
Just know many people, to include complete strangers, are wishing you the best. I can look in your eyes and see a fighter, yet a gentle spirit that will do nothing but move FORRWARD just like you said.
Thanks for the work you do and thanks for just being you. You are a beautiful person both inside and out.

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Kathy Ray, Billings, Montana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:38:17 GMT

I was diagnosed with breast cancer in March, 2006. I am a widow so I was scared out of my mind! My cancer was very, very tiny so I only required a lumpectomy and radiation treatments. I credit the radiologist for saving my life! He told me he looked at my mammogram with a magnifying glass because the spot looked suspicious. Sure enough, he was right. I certainly have changed my views on life. My husband died very, very suddently from a bacteria. After his death, everything scared me. The breast cancer taught me to be strong and face whatever comes along head on which I am now doing. I feel so much stronger now. I encourage every woman over 40 in America, please, please have a mammogram. It really could save your life, it saved mine!

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DANA MARSHALL ATLANTIC CITY NJ — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:41:23 GMT

HODA JUST KNOW THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND YOU CAN BEAT THIS CANCER WHAT YOU THINK IS SO MUCH A PART IN YOUR HEALING AS IN YOUR BODY YOU HAVE HELP SAVE SOMEONE LIFE TODAY ALL THE BEST.

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Stacy, New Britain, CT — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 21:43:13 GMT

Hoda, Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. You are a Hero and an inspiration.

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LDR — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:10:01 GMT

Hoda,
You and Ann don't need to wear those expensive clothes and shoes. The two of you in your comfortable clothes and casual hair...on your couch...was wonderful. You both looked REAL.
Best Wishes!

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Barbara, Pekin, IL — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:17:00 GMT

At age 50, I have managed to escape breast cancer... so far. I've watched several dear friends battle the disease, however, and fortunately all of them have won. I keep them in my heart and mind, as reminders that breast cancer need not be a death sentence... that I can survive like they have survived. They are my heroes. And now you, Hoda, have joined them. Thank you for sharing your story, and giving me one more reason to believe that, if it becomes "my turn", I can persevere.

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terry leboeuf woodland,wa.98674 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:21:01 GMT

hello,in 2001 i had breast cancer surgery removed it,infections in the drain,then chemo. the morning of my 2nd. chemo i was called my white cells were to low so could'nt get it,every month the same,one time after my 2 week wait i was told my white cells were 50, a normal person is 3000 to 6000 you need 1500 to get chemo. they gave me injections which i had to do myself to bring up my count.since this took months 9 instead of 4,then 7 weeks of radiation all total i was out over 11 months, i lost my job after 20plus years.no hair no job feeling very down.and when i was just loosing my hair a friend who was just getting her hair back died from breast cancer.it's all behind me now. my best friend now,which she was'nt then came out of the woodwork,called me all the time.just wanted you to know my story.i'm alive and very much kicking! good luck to you.terry

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Marilyn, So Cal — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:36:52 GMT

Dear Hoda, I'm a 5 year survivor (just pronounced cured by my oncologist last week!). Like you, once I was told I had breast cancer, I also checked out. I decided my doctors' knew what was best for me. I had chemo, mastectomy, more chemo, and radiation. I also worked through all the treatments except for two weeks after surgery. When I was through with treatments, I also felt invincible. I felt like "I've beaten cancer, I can beat anything." Sorry to say, that thought does pass (to my daughters' delight! I guess they felt I took some unnecessary chances at that stage.) But, other than being sidelined somewhat by neuropathy, I live my life as full as I can and hope to be around for many, many more years (again, I trust my doctors and they told me I will be!). I've never been shy about sharing my story with whoever wants to listen or ask questions. I'm in "the club" that no one volunteers for. I'm hoping that there's a cure or a preventative "pill" before my daughters have to deal with bc (I'm a 3rd generation). Thank for sharing your story. I cried right along with you.
Best wishes for a long and happy life.

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Mary Ann Riddle, Monroe, Louisiana — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:37:41 GMT

Hoda: I saw myself in you today as I watched you talk of your ordeal with dealing with breast cancer. I too am a private person and did not want sympathy when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in Sept., 06. Most of the people I worked with at the time.....I am now retired, did not even know I went through 8 weeks of radiation. I did not have to have chemo. and I only had a lumphectomy. I rarely talked about it and when people asked I would just respond that all was fine and I felt so lucky. I have attended only one support group meeting because I found I did not want to talk of my ordeal and also I have such a positive attitude, I felt many ladies at the one meeting I attended were feeling so sorry for themselves and I did not want to get into that rut. Having tried support groups when I went through a divorce, I find that sometimes, they tend to bring one's spirits down rather than lift them. God bless you and I am so proud of you.

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rita nixon,arlington texas — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:45:36 GMT

hoda,
your story was moving and empowering. i know first hand what this all can feel like. i am one year out from a stage 2 invasive breast cancer diagnosis and have gone through the chemo, radiation, and surgery, and there are way too many of us out here. i would love to find out where your pink index finger ring came from, as my cancer free twin sister is my co-survivor and we would love to wear that symbol of our bond. as an afterthought--i found great comfort at the worst of times from a song phrase (i think it is jimmy buffet)-breate in, breathe out, repeat. any help with ring shopping would be great.
stay strong.

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Teri Jenkins Huntington Beach, Calif. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 22:50:48 GMT

Great news for you Hoda-----cancer survivors we are. I was wondering did you have the breast reconstruction at the time of the masectomy surgery?
I have had both breasts removed due to cancer...different dates. First one in 2001, second one in 2004. Things have and will continue to be fine for me...so far I am still in remission as the Doctors call it here in California. I used Dr. Susan Love's book as a BIBLE. I think she is great!! So remain healthy and I am glad you did talk about it.
From the sisterhood - Teri Jenkins - Huntington Beach, Ca.

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Helen Foley, Columbia, SC — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:01:08 GMT

Dear Ms. Kotb, I've been blessed to never have experienced the trauma you and others have endured. When I saw you this today and heard your story, three times (Today, Today (later) and Nightly News) I was struck by how brave, humble and strong you were. It would be a pleasure to call a person like you "friend". May God Bless you and keep you always, Helen Foley

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Donna Gallup, Fort Collins, Colorado — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:03:35 GMT

Hi Hoda,
I appreciate your willingness to go public. I'm one of your "sisters", diagnosed in February 2007 and have bilateral mastectomies with immediate trans-flap reconstruction surgery in April. I do have one question which you may or may not be able to answer: are you, or do you know of a fellow survivor, that is dealing with post-surgery scar tissue? I survived the cancer, the surgery, and like you, didn't need the chemo or radition (am on the tamoxifen), but dealing with the pain of scar tissue is almost unbearable. I'm just wondering what other survivors have done to deal with it.

Sending good thoughts your way,
Donna

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Cal Begun, Brooklyn, NY — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:06:45 GMT

Hoda, I am Cal Begun, the Bensonhurst Poet. I caught you tonight. I think you will like my "living With Cancer" poem. I stress that the fear of cancer can do more harm than the cancer itself.
I underwent 41 radiation treatments for Prostate Cancer in 2001. Since I write acrostic poems on many subjects I therefore wrote the following on Cancer. By the way, my wife is also a Cancer survivor.
Living with Cancer
L et's face it, having cancer is never any fun
I t can be a nightmare for almost everyone
V erily, it's the fear of it that will do the most damage to you
I f you can control that, you'll live longer and happier, too
N ever stay with "Crepe Hangers" with their tales of woe
G et together with optimists and keep yourself on the go
WITH God's blessings you're sure to get well
C all on Him, He'll listen to what you have to tell
A nd with the latest technology better cures are always being found
N ow you'll find the one that will get you around
C are for yourself and keep yourself looking good, too
E very day enjoy the pleasures that will come to you
R emember, your fondest dreams may yet come true

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Carol Jella — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:16:21 GMT

Hoda, thank you for sharing your breast cancer experience, especially the reconstruction portion. I was diagnosed in 1998, 7 months after being misdiagnosed by 2 doctors (1 OBGYN, 1 General Surgeon). Therefore, I decided on a mastectomy and the tram-flap reconstruction. For so long, I seconded guessed my tram-flap choice of reconstruction, as opposed to the implant route. After hearing you talk about your reconstruction, I feel that I made the right choice. I also understand the pain you must have gone through, not to mention the scarring. Luckily, my lymph nodes were negative, but my oncologist suggested chemo along with the Tamoxifen, which is what I did (mainly because of the misdiagnosis). So, keep on track with the Tamoxifen. I know 5 years seems like a long time, but, in my opinion, it is worth it. I know you will be fine because you are a determined fighter with a strong support group. Hang in there, sister! Thank you again for sharing. BTW, my song was "I Will Survive." Big Hug to you!

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Evangelist Victoria Milton, Folkston, Georgia — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:20:55 GMT

Hoda,
I was so touched by your story on the Today Show. My mother is a Breast Cancer survivor(4years)and I was with her every step of the journey. I have a special passion in my heart for women who are affected by this disease. Thank you for sharing your story and helping so many people. God Bless You.

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janet northey — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:22:43 GMT

Hoda,
Thank you so much for your generosity in sharing your story in such a warm and human way. I really appreciate it. I've just gotten through my second round with this disease, and when I listened to your honesty today, I felt a real kinship.
I'm wishing you the very best of luck always.
sincerely
janet
PS
I will be visiting NYC in late Nov., and will come to Rockefeller Plaza one of the mornings to see a bit of the show. I will look for you to say hello if you are there that day.

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Dixie Easley Sc — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:23:01 GMT

thankyou for sharing yourself in such a special way-I have never seen anything so real--I know it must have been one of the hardest things that you have ever done-it will help so many - I am a trauma nurse and have seen a lot of people go through a lot of hard times but to share yours with so many was so special--I cried every time you cried -and I will remember if I every have to endure. Thank you --it really will help a lot of people!
Dixie

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D Swanson, San Luis Obispo, CA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:30:34 GMT

Hoda,
And this is for Ann and the rest of the 4th hour crew. You guys are amazing! This is by far my favorite hour of the show. You are all so genuine and honest and you cover topics that matter. The breast cancer interview that Ann did with you was amazing! She said that you helped someone today. Well, you helped me and I'm not sick and I'm not in recovery but just to hear how you handled such a difficult time in your life gives each of us hope and energy and maybe more "life" than we thought we had at the beginning of the day. You make me happy and proud to be a woman! In fact, you're all better than Oprah! Go Girl!

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sarah — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:33:04 GMT

Hoda, You've encouraged so many people, you have for sure made the right decision in sharing your story with the public.
Here's my opportunity to let you know how much I love you and seeing you on the show makes a really big difference!!
You look great with your biiiiggg smile and may you merit to live a happy and HEALTHY life for many many years to come!!! YOU deserve it!!!

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Terri Smith, Metairie, La — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:37:40 GMT

Hoda, I said Metairie because you would know where it is. Most of the time I would say I was from New Orleans. Thanks for sharing your story. I was diagnosed in July and am currently going through chemo. Even though my tumor was level one, I did have some cancer cells in my first lymph node. The thing I want people to know is that I have my mammograms every year. I turned 47 last month in the middle of my treatment. I do not fit in to the high risk group. My last mammogram was not a year old when I found my tumor while showering. It is so important that womem do no solely rely on a mammogram to find a tumor. Most tumors are found by the women themselves. We need to scream this from the rooftops because we both know what early detection can mean. Thanks again for sharing your story. In New Orleans you will always be hugged. That's because you are on of us. Good luck.

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Dee Pierce, Knoxville, Tn. — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:38:37 GMT

Hoda:

I'm surprised that you decided against a chemotherapy treatment. Were your cancerous lumps under one centemeter and non-invasive? I'm 47 with a stage one breast cancer diagnosis and four negative lymph nodes but all of the oncologists who I consulted recommended four treatments of taxotere-cytoxin or adromyacin. I'm getting ready to start one of those treatments as soon as a superficial wound heals on the reconstructed breast. Please write back. I enjoyed hearing your story but I thought you left out some important details. Could you fill in the gaps?

Thanks,

Dee Pierce
a former television reporter

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JoAnn M. Buckles , Altoona , Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:39:22 GMT

Hoda,
Please let me know where I can write to you at.I've had breast cancer and have had 8 surgeries for it.This morning you were talking about scars,I have so many UGLY scars that I don't even feel like a woman anymore.I would like to write you a letter and send you some pictures of my cancer surgery and what I look like now.Please,will it be ok to write to you? I don't really have anyone I can talk to.I would greatly appreciate it.
Thank you and God Bless!
JoAnn M. Buckles

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Penny Richards, North Reading, MA — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:40:06 GMT

I too am a breast cancer fighter and it's my daily mission to tell women to have a mammogram. It scares the he## out of me how many say they can't be bothered. I've been writing since diagnosis, through surgery, and bald and into chemo, in a blog, which is my "sally" ("sally" defined as a sortie of troops from a besieged place upon an enemy). You're right, Hoda, this thing changes you forever. Forward is the only way to go.

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Bertha Stout, Boise, Idaho — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:44:45 GMT

I was so touched by the story about Hoda, it was such a heart warming thing to see Hoda and Ann sharing their tears and thoughts, I too shed many a tear over the story and can only say God Bless You, Hoda, you are a shining example of what a Woman should be.

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Joan ( Waggenspack) Skidmore — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:47:22 GMT

Thank you for being an inspiration - Dr. Waggs's Mom saw you on NBC and told me ( Beth's sister) what an inspirational interview it was. I am a teacher too ( elementary) and wish more of my children could see your positive passion for life and learning.
Best Wishes to you.

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sarah,Florida — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:47:57 GMT

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Jean,Brooklyn, New York — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:08:48 GMT

Hoda,I think you are very brave and an inspiration to all women. I am a 20 year survivor and my words to you is to continue to be positive and live your life to the fullest. I would like to know where you got your pink ring from.

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Pat Raybits, Boardman, Ohio — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:14:53 GMT

Dear Hoda, I saw your story on the news this evening and felt I needed to contact you. I was diagnosed with breast cancer (tubular and lobular) in 2002; had a bi-lateral mastectomy in January 2003. The cancer was in the left breast but since there were pre-cancerous cells in the right, I chose to have it removed as well. I also had reconstruction. Chest expanders were put in the same day the breasts were removed. It was devastating to hear the words "You have cancer." It was hard to accept at first but somehow you get through that stage and move on. I had so much support from my husband and children and friends. Since I had four lymph nodes removed (2 cancerous), the treatment was chemo. I lost all my hair which was the hardest part for me and am presently taking Armidex. Five years is approaching for me in July 2008 and I believe I am a survivor. I applaud you for your courage because I have been there. Pat Raybits, Boardman, Ohio

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Estelle Carlson — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:24:34 GMT

Dear Hoda:

I don't know how to thank you for your wonderful spirit and courage in putting yourself out front with your story. I too was just diagnosed with breast cancer and so far have had two surgeries and am waiting to hear what further treatment I will need. Hoda, I previously had four breast biopsies and all were benign....I suffer from dense breasts and it is hard to tell what is a good lump and what is a bad lump on the regular mamogram. I had to go to a MRI for my diagnosis. I feel very fortunate to be living in this time when I can look forward to being a cancer survivor and living a long, healthy live with my wonderful family.

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Cathy Campbell, Staunton, VA. — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:25:06 GMT

I too was diagnosed with breast cancer in Jan. 2005. I had stage 3, was very agressive and had to start treatments immediately. I had chemo, lost my hair, but never got sick during this time. I also had radiation, then surgery to perform a mastectomy. My family, my church family was so supportive of me, but, my husband was my best supporter. He went to all my chemo treatments with me, stood right by my side and is still by my side. He knew how hard it was for me to lose my hair, so, he came in from work one day after being at the barber and had his head shaved and told me "I'm going through this with you". We had adopted a stray dog before I was diagnosed. This dog wandered up on our street and looked very lost. We took him in and one day while our dog and I were playing, he touched my left breast just in playing. A couple days after that, I noticed a bruise in that spot, I went to the dr., was checked out and that's when the dr. said I had breast cancer. My surgeon AND my cancer dr. told me our dog saved my life. A friend of my husband and me named that dog Lucky and he was named before I was diagnosed. So, that is my cancer "Lucky" story. I am now a breast cancer survivor and was so touched by Hoda's story, it brought back memories, I shed a few tears, but, thank you Hoda for being so brave on national TV to share your story!

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Christy Southard, Tulsa, OK — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:36:05 GMT

Hoda,
Thank you for sharing your story. As Executive Director of the Tulsa Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure, I meet women every day who are dealing with the disease and need someone to talk with and to give them hope. Your story is doing exactly that.

My mother is a 20-year survivor this month. Her breast cancer was found on her first mammogram - that she asked her doctor to give her. I recently talked with her about what made her do this and she said that after she heard Nancy Reagan talk about her mammogram and diagnosis she thought maybe she should get one. Mom's cancer was caught very early and I know she's alive today because someone was willing to talk about their experience. Please know that your courage to be so public with a very personal experience is going to make a difference in people's lives and in the fight against breast cancer. Thank you!

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Trudy Robards, Richmond, KY — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:37:14 GMT

Hoda, I am glad you didn't put on a brave face as you told your breast cancer story. I appreciated your tears, your comment about how hideous the scar was and your desire for privacy.

I shared the same feelings 17 years ago,today, when I had a mastectomy at the age of 35. I was diagnosised with carcinoma in situ, which meant the cells were just sitting in the ducts. To make a long story short, I owe my life to 3 female doctors. If I had listened to the men doctors, I probably would have had full blown breast cancer in the future.

Don't be surprised if you more stressed when the time rolls around for a follow up mammogram. I still do. One day at a time!

Suggestion: You and Robin Roberts should talk about doing a joint story!

Thank you for your willingness to share your story.

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Leigh Faoro — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:57:47 GMT

Dearest Hoda,
Like you, I was diagnosed definitively in February but of 2001. This followed a period of time from the first seemingly crazy phone call the Monday after Thanksgiving 2000 from a doctor I saw only one time, who yelled in the phone 'they found a mass in your breast'. It took that long and several procedures, those eternal and terrifying months which I hope never happens to another woman, to wake up in February 2001 from the surgical biopsy to those words I heard you describe today. I have always been grateful that I was sedated at the time, as it gave me a good reason to go back to sleep and made it not seem real.
The moment this evening which caused me to pull off the road for a minute was when you described that everything after 'you have cancer' you didn't hear. I had that moment when I went to see the radiation oncologist by myself (big mistake) and really couldn't focus on what he was saying because all I kept thinking was why is he talking to ME about this stuff? He can't be talking to ME. After that I took friends with me to everything.
But the good news is that after the lumpectomy, chemo, radiation and years of Tamoxifen, here I am. My surgeon, a wonderful woman who went on to save my life a second time in July of 2001 when the port broke and lodged in my vena cava, has become a cherished friend. I am still a criminal judge and just trying to get on with life. You're right though, it does change you for all time.
I think that thanks are due you, as you are correct that by talking about this, as more and more of us do, it takes it out of the closet and gives hope to other women that you do what you have to do, however you have to do it, and you go on. Then, you pay that forward by helping others along the way. So, my prayers are with you, whom I have always admired so very much anyway. It's just that now I realize that special, unwanted bond that we share as survivors of what another doctor told me was 'life inconvenient'. Carry on the good work, Hoda, and God bless!

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Shelia Ward Lexington, NC — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:03:11 GMT

Hoda, Thank you for your message regarding your breast cancer. I too was diagnosed in June with invasive breast cancer and now am going thru chemo treatments and have been very sick. I hope the show will do more stories regarding treatments...especially the drug taxol since info is coming out that this drug isn't helping people. Also some stories need to be done regarding health insurance when people max out their plans benefits. What are they to do?

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Jann Churchill, Portland, OR — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:07:00 GMT

Hoda, I am so proud of you! Thank you for being vulnerable with us in your very personal story. I also am a survivor, and have started a non-profit sailing retreat for women who have survived breast cancer and who have just finished their treatment. It's all about "paying it forward" and helping others...! Where can I get a pink ring??????

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Sherrie Grizzle, Winchester, KY — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:15:38 GMT

Hoda, Just watched the video online of your interview with Ann this morning discussing your battle with breast cancer. Just over 7 weeks ago, I was diagnosed with 3 lumps in my left breast and had a mastectomy. Lymph nodes were clear, so no chemo or radiation but started on tamoxifin over a week ago. Your word is "forward", mine has been "thank you". Strange to some but sure you can relate as I am thanking God everyday for strength, courage and positive attitude. Thanks so much for sharing with us - we have an unusual bond that brings us together. Keep moving forward friend!

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Olive Streeter Marysville, Michigan — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:17:08 GMT

Hoda, I saw your story this morning and tonight on the news and it brought back all my memories of having breast cancer in 1990, having a complete mastectomy of my left breast. My oncologist wanted me to take chemo treatments but like you, I elected not to and took tamoxifen for almost 6 years. My breast cancer came at the same time of my husband's death. Three weeks after his funeral I was in the hospital having a mastectomy at the age of 57. My husband was 58 and died from an aneurysm in the aorta, a total shock to me and my children and grandchildren. No warning signs or anything, he was gone in a matter of minutes. I have also talked openly about my breast cancer and have tried to help others who are going through the same thing. It was easier for me to deal with the breast cancer than my husband's death as I felt I had some control over the cancer and the treatment choices I made but had a very difficult time dealing his death. So I am a 17 year breast cancer survivor, my doctors also released me after 10 years, but I still go for mammograms every 2 years. Thank you for sharing your story. Olive

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RT, Sammamish, WA — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:33:40 GMT

Let me add my experience too. I was diagnosed on August 22, 2007 while on vacation in Colorado (I live in Seattle). I was meeting my boyfriend's parents. Wow, what a shock! I was fully expecting the biopsy results to be benign. But, after the initial shock. I got busy. I got recommendations for Docs in Seattle and I called. I got a female Surgeon and Oncologist. When we got back I had my appt with both on the same day. They both said the same thing: mastectomy. Ultrasound had shown two (possibly 3) tumors in the same breast. Now, mind you my routine mammo in March was completely NORMAL. I felt a lump and that's what led to this. Anyway, fast forward... I had surgery on 9/12. Four lymph nodes were negative and margins are clear. We weren't sure if chemo or HR therapy was the best treatment option given that 3 tumors arose so quickly. So, we did the Oncotype DX test. It showed 9% risk of recurrence. Pretty low, so we went with HRT. I'm on Arimedex as I'm post-menopausal (surprise to me at 45). I was moved with Hoda's interview tonight. I implore ALL women to examine their breasts. Don't take everything your doctor says as "the absolute truth". It if doesn't feel right, keep searching. Do what's right for you. Never give up. Like Hoda said "Keep moving FORWARD". Don't look back. You will be stronger. I am stronger.

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Diane Salyer, Vienna, Virginia — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:37:41 GMT

Hoda: You are very brave to tell the world the story of your journey. I was diagnosed in April, 2007 and had a bilateral mastectomy in June, 2007. I tell my story to anyone who will listen, hoping it will help at least one person. Thank you for sharing your story. You touched many people today. God Bless You.

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Don Molander, Moline, Illinois — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:39:04 GMT

Hi Hoda,
I'm not sure you remember me from when you were working at WQAD in Moline. I worked with you on a number of stories as photographer and or live truck operator. I happened to catch the show this morning and just had to let you know how much I enjoyed working with you. You were always up beat and that infectious smile would brighten anyone's day. I have since retired from tv and enjoy traveling and camping. My wife and I had planned for the last few years to sell the house and hit the road fulltime. I lost her to colon cancer in June of 06 and we never got to do what we planned. I am just taking her spirit and going ahead with our plans and I know she is right ther with me. I stopped by the station today and asked Chris if she had seen the show, she said yes and that if I wrote to you to say HI. We are so really proud of what you have acomplished and know that God is trully sitting on your shoulder day by day. Bless you and keep up the terrific work you are doing. The whole country is better for having such a great role model as you and I am proud to have known and worked with you.

Your old friend
Don Molander

I'll be watching

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Kathy Washburn Lexington, KY> — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:43:34 GMT

Dear Hoda, I had breast cancer in 2004. I feel stronger than ever. Please take your medicine and you will be fine. You are so beautiful. I love you on the today show. Kathy,Lexington, KY>

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T. Krino, Long Beach, CA — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 01:48:01 GMT

I was so pleased that Today added the 4th hour with Hoda, Ann and Natalie. And, 'today', I know why. What a beautiful story of courage and inspiration. Hoda, by coming forward, no doubt you will help many, many people. And, thank you for turning us on to Jo Dee Messina!
You are an inspiration.....

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Carol, Miami, Florida — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:38:17 GMT

Hoda,
I am a brest cancer survivor of 2 years. Like you I take tamoxifen and simply have the greatest admiration for my surgeon Dr. Frederick Moffit and the radiologist Dr. Moncia Yepes. I really appreciate your taking full advantage of your public position to educate women on this critical issue. In my situation it was through my own reading and asking questions that lead to finding my cancer. I can not stress enough the critical need for women to educate themselves and ask questions no matter what. Additionally it is very very helpful to have a strong supportive family and friends in your corner.

Thanks again Hoda and I will add you to the very long list of survivors that I send prayers and good vibes.

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Katie Gaskill, Yulee Florida — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:42:07 GMT

Dear Hoda
I am a breast cancer survivor too. It will be 5 years in December. I watched you yesterday (10/18) during you interview. I heard you say after the doctor told you had breast cancer that you never heard another word he said. That is how it was for me. My famley has no history of breast cancer and I thought that it would not be bad results.. Thank Heaven my husband was there to hear the rest of the news.

I am keeping you in my prayers. You are a strong woman. But remember to get a buddy if you need help coping with all the jumble of feelings.

Good Luck and God Bless You
Katie Gaskill
Yulee Florida

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P. Brown, Winston Salem, NC — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:42:11 GMT

Dear Hoda, oh how brave you are! I just have a couple of comments. Ask your doctor about this for me. I have done a little research. I lost a 43 year old niece in May of this year to ovarian cancer. The oldest sister who is 48 lost both breast but at different time and now her cancer is back in the liver, lungs and bones. To take it a step further the middle girl who is 45 was diagnoised with anal cancer about a month ago. They caught hers in time and she is now doing chemo and radiation for 5 weeks. I'm praying for you that your cancer does not come back and I enjoy you when you're on the air. You're so professional and beautiful. GOOD LUCK AND GOD WILL BLESS YOU!

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Roberta Cooper Smithtown, New York — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:44:42 GMT

Hoda,
Hi! You brought tears to my eyes yesterday.
I was diagnosed many years ago & had my surgery in March of 1991. For the first time since then, you were the first person that said the same words as myself. I had my life & I became fearless. Many people say I am an inspiration to women that have this disease & you are certainly the same.
God bless you, You are so very special & a beautiful person.
Fondly, Roberta Cooper

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Vicky Sporck — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:48:18 GMT

Hi Hodie!!! I've been watching you grow in the tv business over the years, and have never been more proud of you. What a leap of courage and compassion for others to share your journey. I knew you were special in the third grade, and you continue to affirm that feeling. So many people will gain the strentgh to go on from your story. Great job!!!

Your old teacher from Morgantown.

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Lyn Banghart, Easton, Maryland — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:50:09 GMT

Hoda, thank you for sharing your experience. I am 58 and was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 38. I had double mastectomies and because my cancer was estrogen negative I had six months of chemotherapy. It will always be difficult to not have breasts, but my scars are a reminder every day that after 20 years I am still alive and enjoying life. (I just got two new prostheses, $2700 each. An expensive chest!!!)
As I sat and watched you yesterday and today, I cried with you because I remember all those emotions very well. But you have done the right thing by coming forward and sharing. Your honesty moved me. I am planning to begin speaking to women's groups (and men's as well) about breast cancer and you have inspired me to get moving!! And please, any woman reading this, get your mammogram at age 40!!!

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Lucinda Galley, Lakeside Park,KY — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:56:26 GMT

Thank you, Hoda, for sharing your story. I just had surgery on Tuesday to remove my tissue expanders and receive my implants. I was diagnosed May 8th with Stage 1 Ductal ca. I would like for women to know that there are other risk factors that we have to think about. I had radiation treatment for Hodgkin's disease at age 15 and had no idea that I was at an increase risk for breast ca. I was on my way back to work after receiving news at my mammogram that I had a suspicious lesion and wondering why. Then it just occurred to me that radiation causes other cancers, could I be a risk for breast cancer? I immediately did an internet search and was amazed the number of articles stating this fact. So know your health history, all of it. It may save your life!

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Laura, Ardmore, PA — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:58:22 GMT

Hoda, I admire you for sharing your personal battle with breast cancer. I avidly have a mammogram every year in May, I eat right, do not smoke and also have that occasional glass of wine. I just turned 46 and found a lump myself in February. I also went to my gynocologist who thought it was fibro cystic breast disease. I then had a mammogram and ultra sound. Doctor then said there was density. I cryed but then the nurse said "don't worry, eighty percent of tumors are benign" That made me feel a little better but still I had to have a biopsy. The two surgeons were away and the earliest appointment was April 11th. I received the call 6:15 pm the following day that I had breast cancer with suspicious lymph node
involvement. I met with the surgeon who immediately talked about Mastectamy. My husband brought me to a breast specialist in New Jersey who gave me other options. She is world reknown and called the quarterback of breast cancer.
I felt much better after being there for five hours and meeting her team. I then had a game plan. In my case I had the option of mastectamy but I also had the option to try to save my breast. My tumor was 3.5 cm. It was an agressive cancer. Waiting for the test results was the worst part of this entire ordeal. The specialist showed me various studies and I decided to take 4 treatments of chemo of A/C and four treatments of
Taxol to shrink the tumor. My tumor did not shrink much after the first 4 of A/C but it did shrink down to 1 cm after the Taxol. I then had a lumpectamy last month with no lymph node involvement. I am taking four more treatments of chemo for preventive measure followed by 6 weeks of radiation. Yes, this does seem like a lot just to save a breast. Other than fatigue and some body pain I still try to function as normal as possible and walk 45 minutes a day.
I know it was difficult for you and you did not want to look at books or pamphlets about your condition. I felt otherwise by educating myself with the reading I was more aware that there are different types of breast cancers out there and not every cancer can be treated the same way. I do believe in getting at least a second opinion. If I had gone with my first option I would be less one breast today. My tumor was not HER positive so it would not helped me to be placed on herceptin or tamoxafin as in your case. I think women who are diagnosed need to know their options and become educated. They must also know that whether you have a mastectamy or lumpectamy studies show that the chances of reaccurence is the same. It is clearly the choice of the patient to make the decision that will best suit
their particular case. Sometimes mastectamy is the only option. Even with a mestectamy does not guarantee that you still will not need chemo.
I hope to bring in 2008 with a bang and sweep 2007 under the rug. We must remember there is an epidemic out there. 1 in 8 women are getting breast cancer
and there are more cases of women under 50. This alone is a scary thought. Thank you again

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Janice Conder Bloomington, IN. 47403 — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 12:59:06 GMT

Hoda, thank you for sharing your story. I am a breast cancer survivor for 12 years. I was 39 years old and the mother of 4 kids. I had a surgery removing my right breast. I also went through chemo. As hard it was to loose the breast it was far worse to loose my hair. Even though I knew it would grow back it was so very very hard to be bald. My doctor fould the lump and sent me for a mammogram, but it should nothing. He then sent be to a surgeon for a bisopy and that is when the cancer was found. I owe my life to my doctor for continue to be concerned. I am doing great and am cancer free. Thanks again for sharing your story it is a hard thing to do.

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Barb Thelen, Westphalia, Mi — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:03:02 GMT

Hoda. I was first diagnosed in 2000. Then again in 2001. That's when I had my mastectomy. What a shock it was to wake up and see my chest after it was all over. I didn't have any reconstruction because they had to do so much other work. I tell everyone I should have gotten the other one removed that way I could run around without a shirt on. I guess that's my way of dealing with it. I'm a Survivor and I help those women who are going thru it now. I also am the Survivor chair for our ACS Relay For Life. I was so moved by your story that I am even more determined to help more women.Thank you for your story and together as survivors we are linked by a common bond....barb t

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Mia, Stephens City Va — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:03:03 GMT

Dear Hoda:

I want to say Thank you so much for sharing your Breast Cancer story on air. I'm a breast cancer survivor as well. I also found several songs to get me through. The way I found that got me through the struggle was to accept my cancer as my friend. I still have the scares of my friend to remind me of that time. It has been 6years and I'm doing good and I have a 2mo old that I thought that I wasn't going to be able to have and he's my miracle man. I just Thank God every day for the days that I have. Life is different know. I smile more. So keep the good fight Hoda!!! I also would like to know where you got the pink ring you wear??? I would love to have one.

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Nicole Rundlett — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:03:38 GMT

Hoda, I grew up across the street from you in Morgantown (your brother and I were playmates!!) and am so glad to see you doing so well in your career and, especially, in your fight over breast cancer! I am a transgender woman and recently had a scare in my latest mammogram- breast cancer spares no gender or race! We all must get involved and spread the word as you have. Thank you!!

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Suzanne Greene, Lake Charles, LA — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:09:48 GMT

In January of 1974 at the age of 25 I was faced with the same choices you have also delt with. The same course of action was also my choice. Breast cancer changed my life for the better also. Much like you I also deciced that breast cancer was not going to take away my joy of life. I was going to live each day to the best of my ability.

Now 33 years later breast cancer has not yet defeated me and I too face life fearlessly.

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Diane CANTON GA — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:12:09 GMT

HODA THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR JOURNEY WITH BREAST CANCER. I TOO AM A CANCER SURVIVOR FOR 8 YRS. MINE WAS DETECTED EARLY BUT DRS COULD NOT GET A CLEAN MARGIN AND I HAD TO HAVE A MAST AND RECONSTRUCTIVE SURGERY. I TOOK TOMOX FOR 5 YRS. I FEEL GREAT ABOUT MYSELF AND I ALSO LOOK GREAT TOO AND SO DO YOU! KEEP GOING FORWARD WITH YOUR STORY FOR THERE ARE WOMEN OUT THERE THAT NEED ALL THE SUPPORT THAT THEY CAN GET. GOD BLESS YOU.

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GayeLynn, Moorhead, MN — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:17:24 GMT

You are an inspiration to all cancer survivors...everywhere! My mom was diagnosed with breat cancer about 11 years ago. This was a difficult time for her. I remember shortly after her mastecomy, she started reaching out to others who had been recently diagnosed. My sisters and I wondered how she could reach out while it was so raw to her...when I heard you comment on "Don't hog the journey...it's not all about you"...it brought tears to my eyes...this is what my mom was doing. She was helping others get through a horrible time...just as you are doing.

You are an inspiration to all who deal with this horrible disease.

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ellen kroll, NY NY — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:19:11 GMT

Hoda-
Your story & life is inspiring to me- I had a masectomy 1 month ago & have started Chemo (7 more treatments to go). Next week I lose my hair & start using my wig which is really upsetting. But seeing you running in the park & working so hard six months later helps me look forward to the spring and life itself. Friends say how positive I am during this-people like you make me know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

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Chris Smuck, Des Moines,Iowa — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:35:08 GMT

Hi,Hoda!I just love you!!In July my Dr.found a lump in my left breast.She sent me the next day for a mammogram.That turned into an ultrasound.They told me at the center it was nothing to worry about now, and to come back in January for another mammogram. I am 51.Should I get a second opinion? I admire your strength so much!!!

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Cynthia Demakes Lynn, Ma. — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:36:03 GMT

Dear Hoda:
Thank you for being so open with us. I went for a mammogram in 2005, but they didn't tell me that anything was wrong. I have severe fibroid breasts. Anyway, this August 2007 a big "boil" like leison appeared on my left breast. [I go every year for a mammogram]I was told that I probably had breast cancer and was given an ultrasound that confirmed it. I had a mastectomy with two lymph nodes positive. My cancer was estrogen negative and Her2neu positive. My meds will be cytaxin,adriamycin, taxol and herceptin chemo in doses over the coming year. I am 66 years old and ran my cell phone business from an office at home to care for my 95 year old mother and aunt for years plus my family. I did it all and when it was time for me to get some much needed rest, the cancer knocked me for a loop. And yet as strong as I was when they said the "C" word I "lost it" and just crumbled. [didn't hear a word after they said cancer] My family and friends had to advocate for me.
I have to find myself a little part time job because it's good therapy to be busy. I think I'm going to be o.k. and maybe after this I have to find another career, cause I'm not thru living yet.

Keep talking to us...it helps, it keeps us from being scared.

Signed: Cynthia Demakes a.k.a. Mama Bear

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Linda Young Nebo Ky. — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 13:39:34 GMT

I have had Breast Cancer a year ago and I know what you are going through.I had a mamogram
every year since I was 40 and I am 45 now. Thank goodness for the nurse at our local health dept. She found the lump in my left breast and sent me for a mamogram. Then I went to a surgeon for a biopsy and had to have two. The first one didn't show up good enough. The second one they went deeper and it was 2cm wide. I had my breast removed in a couple of days and went through chemo also.
With the help of the good Lord and my family and friends I made it through this chapter of my life.If you put your trust in God he will bring you through anything. Good Luck

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Michael Bokeko, Williamsport, Pa. — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 02:58:16 GMT

I was so very disappointed to hear you discribe the scottish woman on the English Talent Show as 'homely'
Why wasn't the first word out of your mouth 'talented'? She hasn't had the benefit of a make-up artist fix her 'flaws' and make her the television beauty expected by you and the public.
This was more than a slip or a mistake, it was unforgiveable.

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Aimie Krell Denver, Colorado — Mon, 04 May 2009 05:46:11 GMT

Hoda I love you when I first saw your dariy about Breast Cencer I felt so bad for you but you are a flighter and you got though it I am so pound of you for that I lost a piano teacher to Breast Cencer years ago so I know how you felt. Love Aimie Krell

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faye lazear lake grove, new york — Sat, 16 May 2009 03:47:26 GMT

hoda, keep thinking positive for that always gets me through. my motto always, live love and laugh for laughter is the best medicine. our mind is the most powerful tool, it is how we use it that counts and helps us get through the obstacles that life may through us.would it be at all possible if i could order the pink ring that you wear, for i feel the same way as you do, some how wearing that pink ring makes us remember to be strong. i would so appreciate it if you could get back to me . thanking you in advance and i only wish for health and happiness, to kathy lee also. sincerely faye lazear from lake grove new york