http://allday.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/10/03/393635.aspx TV fans know Susie Essman as the foul-mouthed character Susie Greene on HBO's "Curb Your Enthusiasm." She plays the wife of Larry David's manager, Jeff, and brings cheer into viewers' lives with her venomous rants and profanity-filled insults,en-USCommunityServer 2.0 (Build: 60608.1)http://allday.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/10/03/393635.aspx#394977Wed, 03 Oct 2007 21:16:31 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:394977Bruce Williams Snohomish WA.I think it is a wise decision for young men today. I would suggest the sperm bank option so you can have kids in the right situation. I have raised three sons and am still married to the same woman after 35 years. You meet and read about so many guys getting trapped into marriage and/or child support, sometimes with someone they barely know and they have an 18 year sentence handed to them with no say in the matter. Divorce judges still do not have the courage to do what is right so if I had it to do over, this is the path I would take. I was married at the age of 19 and missed a lot of life being a young parent.http://allday.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/10/03/393635.aspx#395258Wed, 03 Oct 2007 22:18:26 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:395258Loisanne Diehl (9/11 widow -- so glad to have my children)!I think people who decide not to have children are selfish individuals. My husband and I buried two premature babies and were heartbroken.  We adopted a little girl from another country whose mother didn't want her for personal reasons.  The minute she was handed to us, she helped fill the void that had existed in our lives, and it gave her a second chance at life. We had to take out two loans to do so.  While everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I hope you never change your mind down the road.  Did you ever think that you will be by yourself someday if your wife, lover, or significant other predeceases you?http://allday.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/10/03/393635.aspx#396613Thu, 04 Oct 2007 14:40:57 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:396613Carl, Tampa, FLThe selfish ones are those who are overpopulating our already strained earth, just for the sake of carrying on a legacy, or for fear of being alone some day, or to fill some kind of a void in your life, or to create more soldiers to advance whatever cause or religion you support.  Reproducing and raising kids should be looked at as more of a sacred privilege.....not a birth right so that every American can live out their pretentious little dreams of having a husband, and 2.3 kids, and a house in the suburbs, and a dog, and a minivan, and all that nonsense.  Meanwhile, our cities are becoming so overpopulated that we're spending 1/3 of our lives in traffic, and standing in neverending lines to do anything and everything, and burning through our  resources such as drinking water.