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Alice Peebles, Albany NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 11:46:34 GMT

This was a topic just brought up by Gulianni. I am also a working mom and have had the fortune to get promoted move forward in my career and have a great and balanced family life. My husband and I are a team, and took turns when kids were sick, ect. My kids are now teens and we still have a team approach.

I understand your comments very well. I have also experienced it from the other side. When I do take a day off from work for a field trip. The non working moms have assalted me, for volunteering. Like becasue I worked and they didn't they were more worthy to go on a field trip than me.

My question to the VP candidate would be to talk about how she plans on balancing work and home. Will her husband be in DC or Alaska? Will they have a nanny? When a child gets sick, who gets called? I think having her talk about this, will rally the support of other working moms.

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Sandy Fraser, Ormond Beach, Florida — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:00:46 GMT

I am NOT a Mommy, just s teacher. I'm used to people thinking that I have all the time in the world and sit around eating bon-bons because of school hours and lack of children. Women like me get both ends of that very short, sharp stick, primarily from other women. Perceptions go like this: if I do well, it's because I don't have children to attend to. If I do well, my efforts will never be measured as fulfilling and as miraculous as having a child (according to many of the Mommies I know). Okay, fine - everyone makes choices and with something as monumental as parenthood the whole decision-making process is rarely obvious. Mrs. Palin's family is her business, and so long as she does not presume to lecture the rest of us on conservative family values, including abstinence and sex before marriage then more power to her as a parent and a professional.

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Lisa, Marylad — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:05:30 GMT

I trust that she has a great support base to help her with her five children. What I don't understand is why put your family through the scrutiny it faces as a result of her running for VP? If her daughter miscarries as a result of the stress she will surely blame the media instead of herself! But like the RNC says: God, Country, Family! Now her daughter is the celebrity.

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M. Adams — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:10:19 GMT

I think that folks need to get a grip! As a mother who has had to help my daughter get through a difficult time of having a baby out of wed lock and dealing with all the issues and problems that come with it, I feel for both Senator Palin and her daughter. All that this has done is make Senator Palin more real to me. She understands what I have been through. I have a beautiful granddaughter, but it wasn't an easy road. As much as we try to raise our kids right they are bombarded with so much pressure to grow up to fast. Our kids are a product of a society that does nothing but push premarial sex and inappropriate behavior on tv and in the music they listen to and the video games they play. So if you really want to focus on something, focus on the society that produces a generation that thinks premarital sex is ok and young men feel that they have no accountability of their actions.

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Becky Mikkelsen, Decorah, Iowa — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:10:29 GMT

Yesterday, the press reported that the Palin children boarded the plane for Dayton last week thinking that it was a trip to celebrate their parents anniversary.

Could Sarah Palin really be such an irresponsible mother that she didn't even factor her children into this decision. She didn't discuss with them the implications of accepting this position and what it would mean for their lives - especially a pregnant 17-year-old daughter?

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Jennifer Hoffman, Coral Gables, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:11:43 GMT

Why do you even have to ask those questions? No one asked those questions of Obama. And you would be offended if someone asked those questions of you. Can't you see that she is already handling these challegnes as Governor of Alaska? I do not need to know how she will handle her personal life. I only need to know how she will lead my country. The rest doesn't matter.

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Jennifer Cady, Lewiston, Michigan — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:12:20 GMT

I hate that they ever brought it up, the daughter is seventeen and off limits. I'm sure not everyone in their community knew she was pregnant, and they should have never knew unless she shared it herself. Not only is she just a teenager, she is a teenager of a politician, they deal with enough, the press should have left that alone. There are millions of pregnant teenagers in America. So this new VP to be is normal, like the rest of us. It could be my daughter, she is only five now, but when she is a teenager, it could happen to her. Are we saying as American's that if you are in politics your daughter can't get pregnant? What was the point of telling the whole world about this young lady? Isn't there a law somewhere about privacy and young people that prohibits the media to even talk about this stuff. She is not a celebrity. She is definately not the first teenager to get pregnant. It won't effect my vote. All it does is make me mad that it happened. I would like to know more about Palin, right now, I have heard nothing except that she is a mother of five children and her 17 year old is pregnant. What about her resume'? Another thing, this story, about the pregnant teenager in Alaska, daughter of Sarah Palin, is this supposed to be shocking? I live in a very small town, about 3000 people and at least four teenage girls that I know are pregnant now or just had a baby. Two graduated in May, and two are seniors. It happens everywhere. When I was a teenager, at least six girls had babies while in high school or just after graduation. That was 22 years ago! All this stress my hurt her baby, America needs to leave her alone!

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CH Garst, Charlotte NC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:13:05 GMT

There are many women out here that balance children and work. If you are organized and can build some flexibility into your work obligations it does allow you the opportunity to "do it all". Of course, it can be a real balancing act at times but I manage to maintain a job, volunteer at school events and parent my children. I don't understand how Governor Palen is taking so much criticism over her daughter's pregnancy. A seventeen year old daughter can not be monitored all the time. I think they are making the best out of a tough situation.

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Valerie, McMurray, PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:14:32 GMT

It's ashame that after all women have done to be accepted in the workplace and also raise a family, that women should be the first to critisize Sara Palin. I thought we had all finally come to the conclusion that we do what works for us and our families instead. Suddenly the glass ceiling is guarded by women not men. We are keeping ourselves locked in the past. As for her questionable mothering for her daughter getting pregnant...how about the questionable mothering from the boy's side? We are still blaming and punishing women and totally forgetting that it takes two to tango and someone else is to blame.

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L Robertson, Rocky Mount NC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:41:59 GMT

What Senator Palin needs to say to all the "Mommies" out there, " I am you, you are me, were moms we get the job done, period! So lets band together, mother or not, working or stay at home and put our differences aside and move forward!

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Greg, Media PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:49:55 GMT

I think that women who believe Palin is somehow shortchanging her children by running for VP are quite sexist and ignorant, and are also quite rude to her husband and husbands in general. Perhaps such women do not have a husband with good parenting skills, but they are in the minority.

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E. Lipton, Newton NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 12:51:23 GMT

I so agree with Valerie McMurray. Shame on American women for this personal offensive on Gov. Palin.

It blows me away that many third world countries have managed to elect women to high office and yet, in the most progressive country in the world, we can't get past the shape of our candidates' genitals!

Shame--especially--on the women of the media! Have you forgotten the days before Barbara Walters and what she endured to get you where you are?

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M. Hadaway, Hiram, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:04:55 GMT

I am a dad, with two girls, and live in a household of women. It is a proud day when in America a woman is selected as a Vice President candidate. It is a sad day when American's, including Meredith Vieira, seem to be on the attack, implying that Gov. Palin is not qualified for the job because of this personal matter. When did unbiased journalism disappear? I am especially disappointed in Meredith's biased partisan comments about Gov. Palin, when she is a working mother, who has evidently transcended the glass ceiling in her own industry. Let Gov. Palins family be a family and stop the madness.

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Mary Martin — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:12:25 GMT

Sham Sham Sham on the entire media and press, especially all the high profile women on TV. They have it all and no one questioned if they can do their job and raise a family. Maybe the general public should not watch any morning shows because how can the women do their job and be a good parent. Stop and look at themselves before reporting about others. Maybe we should do away with their job like they would like to do away with others jobs.

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Donald Ephraim, Upland, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:12:33 GMT

What's the real issue here? John McCain's reasons for picking Mrs. Palin is to be questioned. I believe he chose her solely because she's a woman. His pick is purely political. He's hoping to sway the disgruntaled, uncommitted female Democrates who wanted a woman, Hillary, to be on the ticked. John McCain is the real sexist.

McCain says that he'd rather lose an election than lose a war. McCain's pick of Mrs. Palin says to me that he's willing to do what ever it takes to win an election even if it means pimping a female governer.

On the other hand, Mr. Obama had the courage not to use Hillary to gain the vote of so many woman who think a woman should be on the ballot. He could have very well done so. Hillary would have been a great pick to ensure winning all of the Democratic female vote and possibly capturing many of the female Republican vote. Instead, Mr. Obama put the well far of the country first by chosing Mr. Biden a seasoned and proven veteran.

The question of how she's going to be an effective mother and VP is not one of sexism. It's one of reality. What's most interesting about this is how so hypocritical the conservative Republican party is about their own beliefs. They are strong on no abortion, but unwedeness is okay. They are strong on fighting corruption, but hiding your pregnant daughter's belly behind your down syndrome baby son is okay. You know, having five children doesn't mean you are a good mother. She has a special needs child that will require more of her time than usual and she's willing to devote the most critical years of her child's life to being VP. How much does she really care about her family?

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Donna, Knoxville TN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:17:36 GMT

I think the reason working women are being the hardest on Palin is because we live it EVERYDAY.I doubt there is a mom out there that doesn't realize you can have it all, but there are sacrifices and consequences by you, your spouse and your children.Its not fair but its fact, its different for women than men, plain and simple and will always be.

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Linda Morales, Waco, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:17:47 GMT

What is it with the media concentrating on the faults of women running for President or VP instead of the issues that we are facing today? Are you reporting what people are interested in or what you think makes a better story?

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Gay LaBarre, Atlanta, Georgia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:17:59 GMT

I guess women will never be able to get past this maternal so called burden that has been put upon them. Truthfully, I know many men that are basically better care givers then women. I think that if you are strong partners the rolls can change and should. The health of the parents reflect in the children and all families have there troubled times. It is not the problems that bring the family down but the resolve. It seems like the Palins have this under control and that is all that matters. What ever any one else thinks or believes this family looks strong and will work this out in their own way without our help or discussion. Please let's look at this candidate for what she brings to the table because if she can do both she is far better than any male constituant. I give her my support as a working mother and grandmother your job is never over and that is the beauty of being a parent. I look forward to hearing what she has to say tonight and if it is what I beleive I will support this ticket. No matter what her family issues may be or become.

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an — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:24:27 GMT

didn't we just finish crucifying john edwards for his personal life? please keep an eye on the overall picture. this woman is seeking the position of vice president. is she competent for that position? she didn't run in the primaries so is this her dream on something that the party came up with to manipulate the voters? i say pray for her daughter, she is getting ready to marry someone who has said he doesn't want children no matter who her mother is she is in for a bumpy ride

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ge`pennsylvania — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:26:22 GMT

The issue of her being a working mother is not the biggest problem she brings to this country. The biggest problem with Sarah Palin is that she is a Religious Zealot. Listen to her speech about God wanting us in Iraq etc. Every other word coming out of her mouth was God. It is ok if she runs her personal life by 'Her Religion' But this is a free country, and there are many other Religions, and also many who choose not to have a religion, and 'this country' SUPPORTS that too. Sarah Palin is a self centered Religious Zealot and should not be in a position of Power. "it would be a very scarey sitition."

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Lisa, Kennesaw GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:36:48 GMT

I find it hard to believe the media attention that is being given to this issue. As parents, we try to give our children the ability to make good decisions. No one is perfect, and people do make bad choices. How we deal with the consequences of those decisions is even more important. The media wants to lay blame on everything from the amount of TV children watch, to whether or not a mom works outside the home. Is there a Mommy War? Or is this just another media made-up from nothing story? The Palin family is standing by their daughter, and their daughter shouldn't have to become a media sensation just because we have nothing else to talk about.

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Suzette Mocarski, Strongsville, OH — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:37:55 GMT

I am disappointed with the media and with many women out there who keep slamming Gov. Palin for something women have been fighting to achieve for a long, long time. Having a family doesn't preclude having a life outside your home. The rest of us lean on spouses, family, hire sitters, daycare, etc., when we need it, why wouldn't that work the same for her?

As far as "putting her daughter in the spotlight", that's ludicrous. Her daughter made decisions that she now is going to have to live with, period. Nothing about being a mom says you have to pass up opportunities because your children make hard choices in their own lives. If so many people weren't so judgemental it wouldn't matter how many spotlights were on her. So perhaps rather than criticizing Palin for putting her daughter in the spotlight we should be criticizing those that have used the spotlight to take better aim at a woman who has done nothing but try to improve the world her children live in. We all want to make decisions based on our own beliefs so why should she be any different? I don't agree with many of her views but I can't deny that she's a worthy role model for any woman. What's not to admire about being an attractive, intelligent, tough, hard working woman who can still manage to have a beautiful family?

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Donald, Upland, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:38:05 GMT

Why do you belive that were the most progressive country in the world? The fact the we're still struggling with race and gender is proof that we are not. South Africa elected a Black Man years ago. And he did a great job. That's progressive! Elect the best person for the job. And we all know who that is. John McCain is a good guy, but he doesn't have a vision for the entire country. Barack Obama will be a blessing to all people of this great land.

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joan smith, esperaza, france — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:38:11 GMT

The question is not whether Sarah Palin can, with
help,deal with a responsible job and five children. Women can and do do this all the time. However,choosing to have a special needs child involves always putting that child before personal ambition. Similarly, having a pregnant teenager is not a crime, but knowingly throwing that child to the lions of the press to further personal ambition certainly should be.

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H. Neer, Tamarac, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:40:20 GMT

Yes, we are behind other nations in electing a woman, but for goodness sakes let it be the right woman. So she is a 'mommy', why does that qualify her for office? She sold an airplance on ebay. C'mon folks do you know how stupid we look when we take this stuff seriously. I am sure that she will greatly impress the people of Russia, China, Iraq, etc. with this feat. And her next trip out of the country will be her second.
Here is a woman who makes a conscious decision to have a down's sydrome baby at 44, but then does not do what she asks others to do, - stay home and take care of it. Here is a woman that is anti science and anti birth control and anti choice and anti sex education. Now she has a pregnant kid - makes the decision to announce the fact to the WORLD and then says the subject should be off limits. And, her supporters - the very people who scorn this behavior when people are poor and disadvantaged - now embrace this and are actually "proud" of the decision to get married at 17. C'mon people. I believe Abe Lincoln was wrong - you can fool all of the people all of the time.
Mommies you better ask yourselves - do you play with assault weapons as she was photographed doing - do you want your children to be home schooled and non competitive academically - to be pregnant at 17 to carry on the tradition - to disregard science - perhaps we should all move to the Branch Davidian ranch.

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joel embry — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:47:40 GMT

I don't question or bring judgment to the working mother/single pregnant teenage daughter issues that abound here, but my concern is with her being a viable VP. The Vice-Presidency of The United States of America is not a 8-5 job. It is 24/7 as I see it. Is she up for that? If she is, surely there will be great sacrifice of family. That is her choice. I know if elected, I don't want a part-time VP. I am paying for more than that.

I find it ironic too that she wants to be such a staunch Republican, while her family is needing or will need the benefits that Democrats fight so hard to get for us. If not elected to office, her daughters and possibly herself will certainly be needing some public assistance for health care for themselves and their children at some point in the future, public assistance for day-care for their kids while needing student loans or grants to hopefully continue their educations.

It appears to me Gov. Palin needs this job and free housing to support her family because they are outgrowing their spread in Alaska. How many nurseries are in the VP's home...will 3 be a record? Do the taxpayers have to pay for all the nannies? I see this family as being funded by taxpayers for years and generations to come, whether in office or not.

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Working Mom Sabrena, Plano, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:48:57 GMT

We're not talking about any job! We're talking about the world's second most powerful position. A woman can do it with ease but should she if she has a 4 month old with special needs? Should she if she has a teenager who will need her (not dad) for the next 2 years solid, without excuse? Women have been working moms for a very long time. That's not the question. The question is can THIS woman, with THESE issues do THIS job? I say no...something must be sacrificed.

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Debra Mollen, Lewisville, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:49:02 GMT

What I can't fathom is why I've heard so many people on both sides saying that Palin's family situation should be off-limits. Considering that Palin supports abstinence-only education, coupled with the fact that Alaska has one of the country's highest rates of sexually transmitted infections, of course what's happening in her family is important for us to discuss. I could never support a candidate, regardless of gender, who has so little regard for women as to want to deny us accurate, honest sex education and the right to make our own medical decisions.

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Steve Pellegrino, Bangor, Maine — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:51:06 GMT

It is very frustrating listening and reading people talk about how Governor Palin is “trusting” her family into the spot light and how could she do such a thing!!! Let’s get something straight; it is not Governor Palin doing it, she is just doing HER job. It is you the networks and the Democrats looking for something. Both sides say “let’s leave the children out of this” and yet that is ALL you hear and see. WHY? What we should be talking about is how history is being made and not once have I heard the networks talk about it. Regardless what happens people HISTORY is being made. We are going to have either a black president or a female VP. How are they going to run the United States? THAT is what the networks should be coving, NOT that Palin’s daughter is pregnant! Let’s focus on the issues and leave family out please

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Joy, MI — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:51:58 GMT

Why does everything in this country have to be one extreme or another? You're either a virgin or a slut, either an alcoholic or dry, and so on.

You can be a mother and have a demanding and satisfying career. But do you have to have a soccer team of children on top of that?

Both (at the time) of us had very demanding careers and were not really sure if we wanted children but ended up with one anyway. We were thrilled after the fact but I also knew we couldn't really do it all with more children and keep our sanity. This allows me to work (40 hr week) and then spend my available time and resources on the child I chose to have. I insisted on an aminocentesis because I knew I didn't want or need more challenges in life, even one child provides enough of that- at least in this day and age.

These were/are all choices I feel empowered to make and I use all of my rights as a woman to do so.

FYI: The child rearing challenges and demands of the Clintons doesn't even compare with those of the Palins.

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Heidi, MA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:52:26 GMT

Being a mother of three teens I can easily relate to these challenges, however, my children's lives are not being scrutinized worldwide. Certainly having a family should not hold any woman back from reaching for whatever professional level she aspires, however, in Palin's case the timing seems very unfortunate. It is fair to assume that her issues are not short term especially with a special needs infant. I understand the demands of children with special needs and can't imagine assisting to run the country alongside.
I believe it is her choices that resonate with women, not that she is a working mom. Equally, it is sad that Palin's daughter is now living proof that her mother's favored sex education program "abstinence" doesn't work.

As dynamic, beautiful, and accomplished she is, I think it is going to be very hard for American's to embrace her. I'd love to hang out with her, but help run the country, no thanks!

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Michelle Miller, Gallipolis, Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:56:25 GMT

It's nice to see a conversation on this topic. As a working mother, I too have gotten the "Don't you miss your children speech?" as if they can't be away from me for more than a half hour without some kind of irreparable damage. I've learned to ignore the comments and steer clear of situations where I'm alone with certain "mommies", but it is interesting that the majority of judgements on "EVERYTHING" come from women....from you're a bad parent because your house is not clean enough.....to you're a bad parent because you work....women, in general and for lack of a better statement, need to get a life....

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Kathy, Corpus Christi, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:24:54 GMT

Ms. Palin, or her campaign, brought the questions about her ability to successfully combine her roles of mother and national level politician by promoting Ms. Palin as a "hockey mom". Not only would I question the ability of any male to successfully combine such roles, I question the honesty and grasp on reality of anyone who claims to be a "hockey parent" while also claiming to be a ready to actively pursue a national campaign. Are the McCain's prepared to pay to relocate the venue of Ms. Palin's children's games, or to transport Ms. Palin to the games, regardless of where Ms. Palin's political responsibilities may take her? Or perhaps John McCain really is not intending to make political use of Ms. Palin's publicized purported experience and expertise in international relations? Or, can Ms. Palin still be so confused about the daily duties, obligations, and responsibilities of the Vice President of the United States that she believes that if elected she will be able to continue carpooling members of the hockey team to their practices while cleaning up the corruption in Washington via cellphone?

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C. newcomb, East Moline, Il — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:25:54 GMT

Judging by the above comments, women are ready to rally around Sara Palin and her choice to be a parent and vice president! All morning the Today Show has been talking about Sara Palin and her pregnant 17 year old daughter, Bristol. Stop already! According to Barrack and Joe Biden, a candidates children are absolutely off limits, so stop beating the issue into the ground. I am a Barrack supporter, but what about the fact that he has two young daughters and Michelle works as well. Like Sara and her husband, they will find a way to make it work because they love their family and their country and are willing to sacrifice for both. The double standards are terrible. Stop reporting on her children and stick with her credentials!!

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Regina James Farmington, New Mexico — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:30:51 GMT

I think that its bias for people to be so judgemental on Palin, just because she is a working mother. I say good for her. Alot of mothers have to work, even just to make ends meet with the cost of rising gas prices, and what happens if Obama is elected then more moms are going to have to work because of Tax hikes.? I dont here any judgement being made on Hilary Clinton, and shes been in the same spot light, if not more, when Chelsea Clinton was a child, or at the fact that Clinton just cant give it up, and live her life as a mother and enjoy whats left of her daughter being in college. I think people need to look past at the fact that shes a mother, and start looking at the real issues that surround our nation. Her being a mother and having to deal with the same things mothers in middle and lower class have to deal with shouldnt determine how well she will do her job as a Vice Pres. Maybe its about time we have people in office who have things in common with us little people. Maybe then things of importance will be addresed and fixed. Whats so wrong with being a mother, if it were the other way around, and they would have told her no for the job, because of being a mother, everyone would be crying and complaining that she was being treated unfairly. What happened to the beliefs of this country in Everyone is created equally. You all are throwing that right out the door, along with every other thing our country is suppose to represent. I for one admire her. From a Stay at home MOM

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Andy Silver Spring, MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:32:11 GMT

Yes women can raise a family and work at the same time. My wife does it very well and I love her for it. I also believe that the approach Mrs. Palin is taking with her daughter is admirable and the best way forward. However, I think the point is being missed. Teen pregnancy is a social problem and Republicans should stop trying to get everyone to just accept it.

A second issue I have with Mrs. Palin being the presumptive VP nominee is that she is currently under ethical scrutiny/investigation in her own state. Does the party need more questionable ethics involvement?

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Sheri, St. Louis, MO — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:36:03 GMT

What's the big deal???? Did we ask Obama how he was going to be a good father to his daughter's?? No, the Double Standard has to stop. Sarah Palin has already proven what she can do from her record alone. This nasty spin makes me sick. She's a strong formidable women...and that scares a lot of people! I think she's exactly what this country needs.....Her personal life is no one's business, No ONE'S!!!! For all we know her husband plays the mommy role very well and will be helping her every step of the way.......we shouldn't even be talking about this.....

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D Martin, Paducah, KY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:48:30 GMT

I don't have a huge problem with the 17-year-old being pregnant. It is more common now with both parents working and the republicans don't want sex education in schools. My major problem with Gov. Palin is that as a mom of twins with special needs, who is going to give the baby who has downs syndrome the attention he needs? She only took 3 days off for maternity leave and her husband has a full-time job and owns a business.

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Kitty Siegel, Knoxville, TN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:54:59 GMT

As a single working mother, I have to agree that Gov Palin's timing is less than optimal for her special needs baby, as well as for her pregnant daughter. I think that it is crucial to make the best professional choices when it comes to your children above all else, although it is not my place to judge her for her choices. I have not heard much about Palin's husband other than that he is a professional snowmobile racer. Perhaps he plans to be a stay-at-home dad, which would make complete sense and rock the Republican stereotype of the head-of-the-household/breadwinner nonsense.

On a different note, I do think that Palin was chosen in a very obvious attempt to garner women's votes. I am very concerned that she is under-prepared, under-experienced, reactionary in her views on abortion, evolutionary science, and global warming, that she served as a director on Ted Stevens' 527 group, and that she is under investigation for abuse of her public office. These are the real issues. A friend sent me a picture of her in a very tight, extremely short (think barely covering her buns) leather skirt and platforms. I shudder to think what the world will say once the international press circulates a copy. I do hope that her attire can be explained as a Halloween getup and not just her party clothes. And I have to wonder if McCain saw this picture before he chose her as his Presidential running mate.

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Beth Webb — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:55:37 GMT

I work part-time from home(it part time, but a lot of responsibility) and I home school my daughter (I have a friend and tutor who help).

My children are my proirity over my job. I could do a whole lot better at it if I didn't have kids.

I think women need to stop judging each other! On both sides of the apron.

If I had the oppotunity to be the Governor of a State...there are ways to do juggle it. Hire a housekeeper, a cook, a personal shopper....spend all your free time with your kids. And...if your job doesn't pay enough for that, then it probably isn't worth it!!!!

When I HAD to work for 9 months when my daughter was 2 my mom watched her....I was heart broken...but, it was so good for both of them. If your children are being nutured...vs. day care....big difference.

If a mom's heart is with her kids...then let her work it out and stop judging.....we all do things differently.

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A. Peters, Birmingham, Alabama — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:55:45 GMT

I do not see this as being an issue with the VP being a mother or female. I am a mother of four. The problem I have is that as a family we obviously have issues with the 17 year old all over the net drinking. Where are the parents? The special needs that the baby will have, how supportive can the entire family be if the mother is trying to assist running a country. Beyond that what happens if for some awful reason McCain passes - I believe if we all look deeply into ourselves we are not absolutely positively sure that Palin can solely run our country with any amount of advisors. And lastly as the mother of four girls do we really want her putting into law the beliefs she has to rule our daughters... I do not. I do however feel very sorry for the entire family because I do not think they were completely ready for the press that is now covering them. I believe if I were Palin at this point I would have had to say Thank you, but no thank you - maybe next time.

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ph vicksburg ms — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:58:45 GMT

Nobody questionly Hillary's dicision to run for senator......Maybe if she had stayed home and took care of her "WIFELY" duties Billbo wouldn't screw around so much.....

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Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:01:44 GMT

I haven't made my decision on McCain/Palin yet, but I have had similar experiences to Ms. Shamlian... and I'm a stay-at-home mom. There's always someone around to make a comment. If you're a working mom, someone makes a snide comment. If you're a stay-at-home mom, someone makes a snide comment. If you have no children, someone makes a snide comment. From my perspective as a stay-at-home mom of 9 years, it has been insinuated that I must not be that educated or I must have been in a dead-end job when I had my first baby and decided to stay home. I an college educated w a double major. I was making good money when I quit. I was offered more money to stay. I was called by another company when my baby was 2 weeks old to ask me to interview for another job that would have been a promotion in title with even higher pay. Even if I were not educated, my choice to stay home with my children should not be demeaned. Another mom insinuated that I was not setting a good example for my daughter since I was not working and showing my daughter all the possibilites she should be able to have in life. Unfortunately, the comments cut all ways.

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Working Mom of 2 — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:04:17 GMT

You're missing the point! Most families have both parents working and raising a family! Women have juggled this for years!!The point is, she's not qualified!!!!I would choose a Harvard Law Degree over a Jounalist degree any day! She doesn't even know what the job entails!!When she asked the question, "What exactly the VP does", because her job as Governor is cool!!!What kind of representation do you want to have for America!!!People be real!!Also all the ethics violation and the other baggage she brings, the country just doesn't need this scrutiny!!!We look ridulous to the other countries!!! Vote wise, vote Obama/Biden!!!!For the sake of the country!

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Kristie Hinzman, Columbia Falls, Montana — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:27:56 GMT

Working mom of two better realize the sacrifice her children will have to make in the future if you vote Obama- Please think of your children and their future..

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Samantha Prince, Daytona Beach, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:28:42 GMT

I am beginning to believe that the issue of whether or not she can be VP being a mother of five is being overblown as a distraction from the real issue:
Is she qualified to be VP? The spin that she has foreign policy experience because Alaska is close to Russia is a joke. Women of America should be insulted that a more qualified Republican woman was not picked.
Yes, we want a woman to be VP and better yet, President. But let's not lose track of the fact that they first have to be qualified.

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I worked for years, Oregon — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:28:51 GMT

First, 2 of her 5 children are adults, second, she has been working for a number of years and seems to have successfully managed it all. there are downs syndrome children in our "at large" family whose parents work, take the kids to therapy, use sitters. So, what makes Mrs. Palin any less capable of handling her family with the help of her husband?

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Susan Carrazza, Longmeadow, MA. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:29:54 GMT

One question I haven't really seen addressed on this subject is not how will Sara Palin handle the job of Vice Presidency if elected, but how will she then find time to support her 5 children in Alaska...expecially the current and future needs of her "special needs" child and her 17 year old daughter who is pregnant.

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Houston, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:30:14 GMT

"We're not talking about any job! We're talking about the world's second most powerful position. A woman can do it with ease but should she if she has a 4 month old with special needs? Should she if she has a teenager who will need her (not dad) for the next 2 years solid, without excuse? Women have been working moms for a very long time. That's not the question. The question is can THIS woman, with THESE issues do THIS job? I say no...something must be sacrificed."

WELL SAID Plano mom...my only advice to Sarah Palin is "..stay home and mind baby" That child needs its mother. We have enough able people ( men and women ) to run this great country. That child has one and only one mother and it needs her NOW. 5 years later yes we may think of Sarah Palin in a different light. But not NOW!! She neeeds to be home with baby and grand baby..Lets not bring shame to womanhood by sending a mother with a special needs infant to the front lines. That child has only one mother we have enough good people. I say NO to S Palin. "Mommy stay home till your children have grown up and are strong enough to be on their own. You are showing extreme irresponsibity with this decision."

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I worked for years, Grants Pass, Oregon — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:30:20 GMT

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N. Woodruff, Middle Georgia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:35:19 GMT

Mother or not, woman or not, experienced Palin is not. We all should be concerned by the pick of John McCain. He has took a stab at women and men by picking a inexperienced mate. A soul mate in his words on NBC. There are many women in politics that are qualified to help run this country, for McCain to say Palin is the most qualified is a slap in the face.

The debate that if she was a man there would be no debate is absolutely true. If Sarah Palin was man his wife would be holding their infant son not their daughter. Quite frankly I don't want to see her child carring her other child all over the country. If Palin can do the job good, if McCain thinks shes the best person for the job fine, but leave you children at home. The McCain motto of Country First is why I believe he picked Palin. I love my country but my family will always come first.

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Donna Yost, Glenwood Springs CO — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:37:58 GMT

My question for Gov. Palin would have to do with her stance on sex education and her approach to birth control for teens. Is it 'abstinence only'? As this seems to be the stance of ultra-conservatives, including George Bush. I have a 16 year old daughter. I would prefer that she hold off on having sex at her age, but I have talked with her, explaining that I hope she waits, but if she decides otherwise I want her to use the protection necessary to not get pregnant or get an STD and give her the information she needs to put this in place. I do not want to depend on the fear of pregnancy to stop her - it obviously didn't stop Gov. Palin's daughter. This personal issue is therefore very relevant in the political arena because these issues are legislated in our schools. We have a right to know where she originally stood on this and if that has changed.

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DRMOM, Memphis,Tn — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:43:07 GMT

Okay, there isn't a mom war. As for moms working or not working, we all put how children first. They come before husbands, country, and sometimes God! My question with Gov. Palin is "Did she consider the amount of stress and lack of privacy that her young teenage daughther would endure as a result of media inquiries. I am a pregnant mom and have two boys ages 4yrs and 6yrs old. This pregnancy is hard enough being mature and dealing with my normal life. A teen couldn't possibly be ready for motherhood and American politics spotlight!!! So, the question isn't if Gov. Palin is qualified, is pro-life, can she handle politics and family, or what we think about teenage pregnancy, but "JUDGEMENT"!!! Why would you subject you daughther and her boyfriend to this political mess?

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Namuy, Tucson, AZ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:43:11 GMT

Anyone remember DEMOCRATIC PRESIDENTIAL candidate Bobby Kennedy with his 10 children, plus one on the way? Did anyone think it was inappropriate for him to run for THE PRESIDENCY - highest office - with 6 more children than Gov. Palin? If I remember correctly, it was excused to his Catholic faith - they have large families.

AND - Let's not forget that democratic presidential candidate, Barack Obama, does not come from your typical home-town American family - even using drugs at some point. Should that preclude him from running for the Presidency? I think his family did well with the chips they were dealt with and he eventually turned out fine.

It's not what is thrown at you but how you deal with it that breeds success. I'm sure Governor/Vice Presidential Candidate Palin is able and will do the same.

Let's talk accomplishments please.

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Lawrence Morrison — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:46:48 GMT

I believe that that sarah is a great person,But judgement surround the issue of her selection and there decision to guide her kid (17)into marry.I was taught two wrongs don't make it right.I personally deal with a situation like this with my child.We guided and support the kids. Stop having sex and get an education.There current decision is about saving face.Please don't set then up to fail.We're raising our grand child.And both children involved listed and wenton to pursue there education and never got marry to each other.And my grand child has two parents.Something wrong with this family judgment and you want to put her in the white house and a step away to become the president of USA

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Miranda — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:53:02 GMT

Hey, as long as she doesn't expect the other employees to pick up her slack when she goes to school events or when her kids are sick, she'll be fine.

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Working Mom Salt Lake City UT — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:00:39 GMT

I don't think the issue here is Palin's children or her parenting, and yes that should be off limits. What should be discussed is her lack of experience, foreign policy skills, the ethics investigation into her, her controversial views on global warming and other issues etc. There are plenty of reasons for people to be wary of McCain's choice here. There are plenty of reasons to question his judgement in selecting Gov. Palin that have absolutely nothing to do with her mothering abilities or anything related to her family life. I wish the media would focus on her real policy weaknesses not her personal life.

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Maria Briones, Westminster Colorado — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:00:53 GMT

During this week we have heard too much about Governor Palin’s young daughter who is pregnant at 17 years of age. I am extremely disappointed in the media who has continued to barade us with this news. Leave this poor young girl alone already, she is facing a life changing experience and a private matter which should not be anybody’s business but the young couple expecting and their family’s. Why should we, as a society, be involved in a family matter that is not our family matter? We all make mistakes and how dare we discuss this. I understand this is Sara Palin’s daughter and she is currently John McCain’s VP pick however this is a family matter and does not infringe on Governor’s ability to be a successful VP running mate. If possible can we stop talking about this pregnancy and leave her and the father to be alone?
On another note, I was watching the Today show’s segment of women criticizing Sara Palin’s decision to return back to work shortly after giving birth to her son. I believe it is women like the one’s interviewed why women have a harder time moving up. Women should be supportive of working mom’s regardless and be excited that women can and are doing such great things. Who cares how many children she has and that she is working, men do this all the time and may I add that some men have children that they do not take care of. Men work, have families and have successful careers including in the political arena. There should be no discussion about Governors Sara Palin’s ability to have a family and have a successful political career.

I’m a single mother who has had to work, raise two children and continue my education so if single mothers all over can do the same I am absolutely positive Sara Palin, who has a supportive husband, can do the same if not more. Leave the poor family alone and out of politics.

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Bill Charlotte — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:01:20 GMT

I don't care if she has 100 children! She is not ready to be Vice President. I interviewed a secretary longer than she was vetted.
As to her parenthood, that is her business. But if you will watch her church appearance and listen carefully to her... she makes her beleifs a part of her governing, thus MY business... (1) "Soldiers must only be sent to war when it is a mission from God;" (2) Global warming is a natural occurrance, so drill, drill, drill; (3) The world was created by God in seven days, evolution is a farce; (4) The public schools are no place to educate your children, teach them at home---but don't be there; (5) Do not teach sexual education to children or teach protection; (6) Abortion should be outlawed... NO WOMENS' RIGHTS.
These are some of the things that bother me. Don't turn this into a "mommy" thing or a gender thing. That's cop out BS!

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Cowgirl Up — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:01:43 GMT

At best, this attacking both Palin and her daughter is offensive. Mom's who - everyday - balance family and work are good Mom's. At worst it is bigoted and 'hatemongering'.

I have always worked since having children. I have also never missed a game, play, concert or any other school event. It is called priorities and time management. Children of working mothers are just as well-adjusted as children of 'stay-at-home-mom's (this has been researched and studied ad naseum).

In fact, I would saya case for the opposite can be made - children of working Mom's see their parent balance different aspects of life - and a mother's career can institute a work ethic in their daughters that may exceed that of the daughters of stay-at-home mom's. Also teaching their sons that keeping the home up is not only the job of a woman.

I refute those who say Palin is a bad Mom because she has a career. Hogwash. Her children know certainly, that they are her first priority; but that their Mom is a capable and confident woman who contributes greatly to the country.

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Kathy is Troy — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:02:10 GMT

We keep missing the real issues. Yes, there are sexist comments coming out just as there are racist comments aimed at Obama. It is all a distraction to cover up the fact that Mrs. Palin is on the extreme, extreme RIGHT of the party. Sure, at first blush she relates to working mothers, but this is a woman who is so opposed to REAL reform, social reform. Who is their right mind tries to ban To Kill a Mockingbird from her small time library? Do not let the convention spin and the fact that she's a woman distract you from her EXTREME agenda. I am insulted by this VP choice, and ALL women should be insulted - it is pandering; it is desperation; and it is shameful. The McCain camp should be ASHAMED.

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Rob R — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:02:58 GMT

I have no problem with working moms. In this economy families often need 2 incomes to get by. The problem here, is that Palin is not working in an office or some other normal day job. She is running for Vice President of the United States and I don't think you can compare this to someone who works a 9-5 job. I also don't think its appropriate for her to do this while having a special needs newborn. Even if her newborn was not challenged, it still wouldn't be right because newborns need their mothers attention more than their fathers in the beginning stages of life. That's not a sexist statement its a fact. Newborns spend 9 months in the womb and are most familiar with the mother's voice and need that comfort and reassurance when they are born. The first year of life is the most crucial for their development. If she didn't have the newborn and it was just the other kids, I probably wouldn't care so much, but its because of the newborn with special needs that I think this a very poor decision on her part.

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Disgusted with the media — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:03:10 GMT

I am appalled at the attack on the families of any of the candidates. I would like to see NBC take the stance that they refuse to participate in these dialogues. Gov. Palin has obviously been able to do an exemplary job in her roles as mayor and governor. How she handles her personal business is her business and no one elses regardless of her role in government. The only time I would expect her personal life to be an issue is if it had actually impacted her ability to do her job in the past. If she says it will continue to not be a problem, then we have to give her the benefit of the doubt until she proves otherwise. No one can or should try to control their family members; nor can they prevent them from making mistakes. No one can predict if they are going to get a terminal illness or be impacted by a family members illness in the future or any other future event. If Gov. Palin chooses to share her story on how she balances her personal life and her role in government, I'm sure we would all be able to benefit from it....but that should be her choice and whether she does or doesn't should not impact our vote nor our opinion as to whether she can handle her job as Vice President. Stick to the facts as to her accomplishments as Mayor and Governor and be confident that she will carry her abilities forward in her role as our next Vice President of our wonderful USA. President Clinton actually made a point when he reminded us that the Republicans did not think that he was experienced enough to do the job, and I'm assuming most Democrats think that his personal mistakes while in office (as disgusting as they were) did not impact his ability to run our country since they allowed him to speak at the convention. No one can have the experience nor the knowledge to cover all the demands of the job as President or VP because no one can anticipate what they will be faced with (i.e. what candidate has stood down in a nuclear attack?). What we need to focus on is whether they have shown the intelligence and capability to handle the potential aspects of their role and whether we agree on what they hope to accomplish in their role whether it be Republican or Democrat. Please, NBC, step up and leave the families out of this election.

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Audrey, Birmingham, AL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:03:21 GMT

It is a sad state of our country and a very sad state of the media that these questions are even being asked. As a woman and a stay at home mother of three, I am APPALLED that questions are being asked about whether or not Gov. Palin can balance being a mother and VP. Has anyone asked Barack Obama if he can balance being a father and President? NO. Has anyone asked Barack Obama if he should choose fatherhood or the Presidency? NO. Did anyone ask Sen. Biden if he could balance being a father and a Senator after his wife was tragically killed in a car accident? NO. Mothers and women everywhere whether you stay at home or work should unite and let the country and the media know that we will not tolerate this sexism any longer! I support wholeheartedly a woman's right to choose whether she stays at home with her children or decides to be a working mother. It is an individual choice!

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Connie, Cincinnati,Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:03:54 GMT

I am beginning to think we are watching a circus. We are talking about the Vice President of the USA. Not A corporate executive,not a supervisor,not a promotion. This is a job that is 24/7,requires that she be at the beck & call of the American People. If, God Forbid a president dies,this person has to step in as President.Does a Family Person take on such a huge responsibility when they have a Special Needs baby and don't know what that even entails yet? The American People deserve more whether it is a man or woman candidate.

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Cowgirl Up — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:05:33 GMT

Working Mom of 2 said: "The point is, she's not qualified!!!!I would choose a Harvard Law Degree over a Jounalist degree any day! She doesn't even know what the job entails!!"

So, being the Governor of one of the 50 states does not qualify her for the VP spot?

Hmm....Clinton was Governor of Arkansas before becoming president. Regan was Governor of California before becoming President. There are MANY Governors who has then run (and been elected) to the highest office.

I would say that running a state government and budget, employees and laws would qualify her more than Obama being in office as a Senator (no budget; no plethora of employees; no state duties) for 18 months qualifies him for the run for President.

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Todd , rock Island illinois — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:07:45 GMT

It is truly amazing. She is running for VP not her daughter. as a business professional their are only so many hours in the day. your learn to balance home and job no matter what your job. Actually her staff and support network will increase not decrease. Secret service will have an eye on the boy friends as well. Obama does cocaine at a young age the press focuses on her husbands dui. Obamas mom was a single mother and had obama at 18. The press is in a frenzy over the daughter. i hope this back fires on the liberals it has created a tremendous distaste in my mouth for the press and will feverishly support Palin and McCain. if you want to know more about Obama how about his corrupt ties in Chicago - Illinois politics oops he is a liberal.

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Nancy Bush, Menlo Park, Ca — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:08:44 GMT

Why would I want my daughter to work a full time job and have five kids? Isn't there more to life than this? Why is everyone trying to shove this dream on my family? As one other family I know noted, not for us.

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Tammy, Virginia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:09:02 GMT

The issue is not her being a working mother. The issue is her judgment. All of us working moms do the best we can and balance the competing interests in our lives. But does it really show good judgment for the mother of a four minor children, including one pregnant teen and one baby with a disability, to take that much time away from her family to run for VP? What does that say about her ability to recognize priorities? I could see it if her kids were all of school age, like the Obama kids, but she has a baby and has a baby having a baby. Does taking on the enormous task of running for, much less serving as, VP under those circumstances, really reflect well on her judgment? Her husband may be the most involved dad in the world, but he's not mom and, should McCain win, they won't have a mom for the next four years.

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Cowgirl Up — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:09:13 GMT

J: "If you're a working mom, someone makes a snide comment. If you're a stay-at-home mom, someone makes a snide comment. "

J - this is SO true. I myself have been a target - and have then in defense, sadly, unloaded on the other side.

It is regrettable that as mothers - with similar priorities (our children) we cannot support each other rather than tear the other side down for their choice. I am trying - and succeeding in not resulting to this type of reactionary behavior.

In this instance; I hear a lot of jealousy and envy that Palin - a woman - seemingly has it all. I am happy to support her.

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Taryn Cass — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:10:40 GMT

Of course Governor Palin can't raise her family AND attend to the 24/7 scheduling of a candidate or vice president. It's time for her husband to step in and take charge of the home just as candidates wives have been doing for centuries.

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Terry, Disabled Vet, Des Moines, IA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:10:54 GMT

The bigger question is how does one balance the two. Let's be real, the VP job is demanding, being a parent (Mother or Father) is demanding. What can get lost as I have seen with friends and family, the over demanding job tends to weed out the demanding job of parenting. If they win the election all I hope is that her family does not suffer the consequences. America has lost too many families to one thing or the other. As for families being in the spot light, if you don't want the attention then don't run, unfortunately the 2 biggest jobs in this country are in the lime light no matter what, you are a dignitary and a representative of this country (What spot light are you going to dodge from that)

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Dawn, Hampton Roads, VA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:12:30 GMT

I see NO ONE in the MSM asking Brack Obama about his inexperience. That is why this whole display sickens me. They did the same thing to HRC and I see NOT ONE Feminist group coming to her defense. This just goes to show that feminists are not for women, only LIBERAL WOMEN.

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M. Galasso, Stafford, VA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:12:56 GMT

Working mom's have been there and done that or we provide child care for someone who is going through it. The answer is not "We never ask men that question so we shouldn't ask women." The right answer, IMHO, is that WE SHOULD BE ASKING MEN. No one asked but I think Joe Biden during his introduction, included information about how he has juggled job and home demands for years.

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Katrina, Nevada — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:13:03 GMT

Wrong, Janet, wrong.

Working women (like myself, 40-ish mom of 2 teens) are objecting to the mile-wide, inch-deep career of Sarah Palin.

She has chosen to do a lot of things in her professional life BUT she has not performed her duties well.

Sarah Palin mismanaged her mayoral position (turning a balanced budget into a 20 million dollar deficit), mismanaged her Governorship (Troopergate).

It isn't sexist to say to someone, "You're not performing your current duties very well, it's time to refocus and cut back."

And that's what we participants in this particular Mommy War are saying.

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Cowgirl Up — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:13:18 GMT

Beth Webb said: " If your children are being nutured...vs. day care....big difference."

I think there is a time for each. Being in a good (stress on good) daycare can be rewarding for children. They are socializing with peers and learning to compromise and play at an early age. Being able to limit time in daycare - perhaps keeping them home one or more days/week can add to the benefit of early play with others.

Daycare can also build the child's immune system sooner and make for healthier children who can battle simple colds much better than a child who doesn't interact with groups until 5 or 6.

Children who ahve a loving home environment can flourish in most any setting that is safe and supportive.

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Theresa Menzies — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:14:03 GMT

I agree with the previous comment. I've been a stay-at-home mom for eight years, and then a full-time working mom for the next eight years. I could care less what other women do - every family situation is different. The real point should be her way too far-right policies! No woman should vote for her or John McCain. McCain is against equal pay for equal work, he's against coverage of birth control pills (but he's for coverage of Viagra), he's a pro-choice war-monger, he makes jokes about rape, calls Chelsea Clinton ugly, calls his wife a trollup and the 'C' word! Please people, for the love of God and all women, don't do it!

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Lorraine — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:16:34 GMT

After watching the Democratic Convention and parts of the Republican Convention, I think a McCain Palin ticket would take us back in time and move us forward in wars. I am very worried about because I don't want any of my kids to have to go to war. Most of the rest of the world supports Obama and I am starting to see why, they don't want to see us start any more wars.

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Kalyn, Washington DC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:16:52 GMT

I have not heard one - NOT ONE - person question how Barack Obama would handle being president while raising 2 young, school-aged daughters. Both Barack and Michelle have held challenging and demanding careers, and are raising a family. Why is anybody questioning the Palin's ability to do so??

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Cowgirl Up — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:17:06 GMT

Working Mom: " Vote wise, vote Obama/Biden!!!!For the sake of the country! "

HAHAHAHAHAHHA. Please.

Vote for the ticket who thinks it is ok to abort a viable fetus in the 8th month. Right.

Vote for the ticket who advocates raising taxes on singles at $34,500/year and couples at $63,500/year. Right.

Vote for the ticket who will instill windfall profit taxes on corporations - thus driving them right out of the country. Right.

Vote for the ticket who is looking to provide National Healthcare that will make Canada's travesty look good - and will likely result in ridiculous taxes to balance a failing budget. Right.

Vote for McCain/Palin - the right choice for America.

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Tampa — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:17:31 GMT

http://bravenewfilms.org/blog/41461-why-do-women-give-mccain-a-zero

All women need to watch this video. You should be very scared of John McCain.

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Aaron, Brooklyn, New York — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:18:05 GMT

Um, I went to Yale and let me tell you, a degree from an Ivy League school is no indication that anyone is brilliant.

There are plenty of college dropouts (Bill Gates anyone?) that are brilliant business leaders.

I don't care what school someone went to. I care about their accomplishments. And Barack Obama's leadership accomplishments - other than being the figurehead for one heck of a campaign - would be what again?

One interesting point - people are able to criticize Sarah Palin because she's actually been the leader of a state and a city. Barack Obama is simply one of the crowd in the Senate and has hid from tough votes plenty of times by voting 'present'.

I liked Sarah Palin from her first speech. The attempts by the media to crucify her have disgusted me. No one delved into Barack Obama's background with nearly the same fervor. He gets treated with kid gloves and given the Hollywood Treatment, especially by the glossy magazines and the newspapers.

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Mash, Louisville, KY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:18:14 GMT

Women can do anything men can do. ANYBODY would be challenged to balance all the drama in the Palin home (special needs infant, pregnant teen, ethics investigation) with a 'regular' job that you left at 5. The VP office is no place for someone who has that all on their personal plate, unless they plan to abdicate some of their personal responsibilities. One is not allowed to abdicate the VP responsibilities. Something has to give. If Palin intends to be the great mom, this is a poor fit.

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Linda Cnota — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:19:37 GMT

I am a Grandmother who is raising my grandchildren.
Sarah Palin will do just fine as VP.None of us know what our children will do. Will they follow our example or go another way they are individal persons.Sarah is dealing with so much that each american family deals with today.She is one of us Mid america all the way.
Anyone questioning her ability needs to take a good long look in the mirrow.Sarah will be looking back at you.

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Vantresa Stickler Annapolis MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:20:04 GMT

Mrs. Palin does not put her kids first, so what makes anyone think that she would put the citizens of the US first especially if it does not advance her agenda. I am a Christian and a Democrat. If Mrs. Palin is suppose to represent Christian values, she would not put her family and children through the ordeal that is coming their way. The Bible is very clear of our role as a parent. Your child and family always come first. It is not some crazy doctrine but it is about "where you hear lies" and where your love is. My heart is always with my child. I left a 6 figure job and an Executive position to ensure the welfare of my child. His needs always trumps anything else. And, I would not force my 17 year old daughter to marry someone to save my career. That is just child abuse!!!

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Sonja — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:20:32 GMT

Sarah Palin is neither qualified nor fit for the VP spot.
- Sarah has a BS degree in communications, and lacks the necessary critical thinking skills that Political Science requires.
- She admitted that "she has not really paid attention to the war in Iraq" how pathetic.
- If Sarah Palin were a woman of color, the Republicans and "soccer Moms" would be outraged by her lack of experience, as they would find it difficult to identify with her.
- Many women are suffering from the bias "similar to me" and are ascribing intellectual attributes that are absent in Ms. Palin.
- Most women of color have been “working mothers” for eternity, as they have never had the luxury of being a stay-at-home mother, so Sarah Pailin’s accomplishments is not new.
- If McCain were serious, he would have selected an unencumbered intellectually savvy woman such as Olympia Snowe, or Kay Bailey Hutchinson.
- McCain discriminated against mature women based upon age; apparently the dog in McCain still likes very young women.
- Palin exemplifies the most egregious form of AFFAIRMATIVE ACTION.

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Linda Cnota — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:21:02 GMT

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Karen, Easton, Maryland — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:22:24 GMT

I'm not attacking Sarah Palin, just questioning her judgement. At a time in her life where her family needs her more than ever, is this the appropriate time to be spending more time away from them? And, what are her intentions if she is elected? Will she uproot her 17 year old daughter and take her and the baby away from the father? I blogged about this over on http://findingme.typepad.com

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Robert Colo Spgs CO — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:22:55 GMT

Well obviously she shouldn't have taken the job, it'll take too much time from her kids.

You know what else takes time from your kids? researching politics to make an informed vote... lots of time and effort there.

Should we rescind voting right for women? I'm just worried about the good of the children here...

Or, to be honest; why is it that nobody thinks the dad can do the work here to watch the kids? Why are the teenage kids incapable of helping as well? Is this really something that only mommy can ever do properly?

If so, then we need to get mommies out of the workforce and away from politics. Because there is an important job that ONLY they can do, and that requires ALL their time... right?

Or did my sexist century old tripe somehow not fit the current progressive left talking points? They seemed to line up quite nicely... how odd.

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J. Spengler, Hampton, VA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:23:46 GMT

The question of her qualification for the job is the issue, not whether she has five or ten children or whether her daughter is pregnant, or whatever. She is absolutely not qualified for this position, one heartbeat away from the Presidency. I've been a working mom all my life and know what that entails. McCain was looking to appease his right wing at the potential expense of this country. We can't let that happen.

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Laura, IL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:24:06 GMT

Here's what drives me crazy about women - so many of them are so DESPERATELY INSECURE about their life choices that they need CONSTANT REAFFIRMATION from other women ("Am I a good mommy?" "Am I good wife?" "Am I a good lawyer/doctor/CEO/manicurist/whatever?" That insecurity is what drives the nasty remarks. After all, if you're secure about your own life choices, you don't have to run down other people's.

The snide remarks that this author heard I hear about all the time. The ONLY thing that shocks me is that SHE'S shocked those comments come from other women. Sheesh! What planet has she been living on? Women judge each other all the time, in ways they would NEVER tolerate from men. I have found the men in my life (including my ultra-conservative father and stay-at-home hubby) much more supportive of my life choices than a lot of the women in my life.

What Sarah Palin is enduring from the FEMALE commentators is absurd and insulting. I've heard snarky remarks about her hair, her shoes, her clothes. If men were saying this, the women would be up in arms. But it surprises me not one whit that it's the women who are advancing these personal attacks. (And incidentally, questions about her experience are legitimate, in my view.)

Here's my advice for women of the world. If you want to stay home and raise your children, bravo! And stop caring about the women who don't, who don't understand how hard you work, that you don't eat bon-bons or work with a personal trainer all day. Women who have jobs outside the home, do your jobs and balance your lives the way you see fit, and stop caring about the stay-at-homers who might be jealous of your wardrobe, your paycheck, your independence, or your adult conversations all day long.

Women would be a hell of a lot happier if they stopped worrying about what other women think of them.

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Barbara Williams,Chugiak Alaska — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:24:41 GMT

Hey people need to let up. First we have a woman running for the vice president, a long time coming. People need to be thoughtful in their comments about Mrs. Palins returning to work three days after her disabled son was born. She was doing what she had to do. I have first hand experience on this issue as I returned to work, with baby in tow in two days or less, people expected me to be available. I also had to leave my disabled husband at home to provide for my family three times and do my job. That is what Palin has done. People do things for different reasons. We should do what we can to respect others and support who ever is appointed. At least she is willing to serve, what are you willing to do that? The only thing I don't like is that the Palin administration is slow to meet with injured workers and discuss thier current problems with the workers compensation system. We all have things we don't like, but what are we doing to work together and support goverment. The world cannot change until you have that mind set. I still have not decided who I am voting for, but I would not attack either side in such a manner. At least things in her back ground relate to most americans, so those whose life is so perfect should not cast stones at anyone as none of us are that perfect. She needs to do her best and that is all she can do.

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m.r . warthan princegeorge virginia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:25:01 GMT

I belive she is and will be a good VP. I had read about her months before her nomination.MY WIFE AND I HAVE RAISED FIVE CHILDREN and balanced it all out as a team.This bringing up her daughter in politics is a no! no!,this is how dc works keeps your mind off of what is fact. take a read on how they voted and how many days they showed up!( a united steel worker in va.) voteing MACAIN/PALIN.

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Marc, Phila, PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:25:12 GMT

The bottom line is she is NOT QUALIFIED to be the Vice President of the United States of American. If a man had this same resume, it would be the same. Male/Female is doesn't matter. What matters is knowledge, leadership, etc... Gov Palin is not ready for this job at this time.

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Travis, Bluffton, OH — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:25:27 GMT

Obama's mother had him at age 18, out of wed-lock. Obama readily admits he used alcohol, marijuana, and COCAINE. Obama doesn't even give his campaign manager credit, instead saying that HE has run his entire campaign thus far. Why are there all the questions if Palin can balance family and office? Were those same questions asked of Hillary? Nancy Pelosi? For that matter, has anyone asked how Obama will balance being a father and his duties? A father's presence is every bit as important as a mother's presence.

Voting wise is not voting for a dishonest drug addict. Voting wise is voting strictly for the pair that matches your values.

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Olive Dougherty, Philadelphia PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:25:36 GMT

Palin is someone who wants to do a super time consuming full-time job when she has a lot of children and numerous small ones. That tells something about who she is- something that means different things to different people. It says something about her character- and character seems more important to many voters than what policies candidates favor.

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Eric, Raleigh NC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:26:46 GMT

How stupid do you have to be to be McBush's VP? A woman who opposes sex education and is incredulous enough to actually believe that abstinence-only indoctrination works, is parading around with living proof that it does NOT work - her own pregnant teenage daughter. Yet she STILL opposes sex education. Its unbeleivable how Republicans will cling to their false doctrines in the face of reality. As my father taught me: a smart person learns from others' mistakes; a dumb person learns from their own mistakes; but a fool never learns. I certainly do not want a fool such as Palin "one heartbeat away from the presidency".

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Kat, Ft.Myers, Florida — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:26:58 GMT

I think that being a working mother makes you even more capable of handling demanding jobs. I am a probation/parole officer with two adopted children, and am adopting two more children. All are under 11. I have a demaning, high profile job and my husband also has a demanding high profile job. I am handed more responsibility at work, can handle being team mother to three teams, have time for myself and manage to get everything done every day with time to spare. I think being a working mom has made me more organized, more balanced and even smarter, if I dare to say. I salute her decision to be a working mom. her daughter is pregnant, who cares? Bill Clinton had women in the office and was impeached. Barak has never led anything at all! She is a heartbeat away, yes. But Barak is the heartbeat. Let us get our heads on straight, leave her alone and listen to her. She is an intelligent woman. No law degree- even better. Congress is full of lawyers, look at how screwed up we are right now. maybe we need less lawyers and more plain folks in Washington

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LGH, Jersey City NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:28:36 GMT

First of all, if all of her children were older kids, it would be less complicated. Older kids are in school, etc. But to think that she has this INFANT, and a SPECIAL NEEDS *INFANT* as she is contemplating a job where she will be working a CRAPLOAD of hours is just SAD. And I don't want to hear about the double standard, WHO does this? And it's absolutely voluntary, she's already got a high profile job that I'm sure pays well, what, does she WANT to spend less time with her baby?! But that's the least of it.

McCain has pulled an incredibly shallow and pandering move in selecting this woman as his veep option. She is laughably unqualified. Let's face it, they were looking for a walking vagina, and it looks like there are women out there foolish enough to fall for it, god help me. Evidence already suggests that the little experience she has as governor is already filled with a lot of high-handedness. And she's got awful ANTI-WOMAN politics. Oh, and is yet another Republican who seems to think we are/should be living in a theocracy. Ms. Shamlian, you and others like you are a fool for thinking the job this woman is up for, is somehow like you and your job. Please!

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JulieRae71 — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:29:36 GMT

Yes it was Palin who thrust her daughter into the spotlight. Her job was Gov. of Alaska, the national media would never have known if she would have told McCain "Now is not a good time for me to accept this offer." And yes, it is a parents job to love, protect and teach thier children how best to navigate the world. Yes, often parents have to sacrifice opprotunities because it is not what is best for the family. Of course the media is going to look into the life of a canidate the the lower 48 never heard of. As Hillary said,"If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen."

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Randa Perry/Kokomo, Indiana — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:30:49 GMT

I've been on both sides of the fence also but who even cares. That is her business and her daughter's pregnancy is their business. The media acts like oh noooo, she's pregnant and 17teeeeeeeen. Whoooo even cares, doesn't mean Palin can't do her job. Doesn't matter what kind of education her daughter had, it has been hppening for thousands of years and this is not the end. And it is a primal instinct that not all can win the battle over. Their hormones are triple the norm right now, some win some don't but it is not the end of the road. The girl just took a major detour, she will survive as many already have. And who cares if her husband got busted in 1986, helloooooo. What are her issues to help us. Go Girlfriend Go if she wins.

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Angie Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:32:22 GMT

I respect the fact that Palin is a working mom like the rest of us. But we are not running for the Second Highest office in America. There is a difference. I also don't like the double standard,it was ok to Bash Hillary, she is a wife and mother. What's up with the kidd gloves on Palin? Also McCain has made it pretty clear that he is using her to get elected, other than that she will only be needed for funerals and ceremonies as VP. I find that insulting.

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Justin in Orlando — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:32:33 GMT

What's disheartening is that you and others seem to perpetuate this notion that somehow there's a massive assault against Palin's parenting ability just because she's a woman. Leaving aside her hypocrisy here (she's a very active member of a group of Republicans--evangelicals--who very strongly believe in certain things regarding gender roles), the real issue is the deplorable way Palin and the Republicans have politicized her family to pander to the far-right, extremist religionists in their party. Any OTHER mother, regardless of her career choices, would be considered bad if she used her pregnant 17 year old daughter and the daughter's recalcitrant boyfriend to peddle "family values" politics or a newborn infant with a severe disability to peddle "right to life" politics.

Claiming these questions regarding Palin's character and parental qualities are sexist is intellectually bankrupt.

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char wilson — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:33:08 GMT

I could not have said it better as working mom of 2 stated. We are talking about possibly the most important job in America if somthing should happen to McCain,she is not in any form ready and with all she has going on in her life,I think she needs to focus on her family. I blame McCain for this and it clearly shows his judgment..

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Carla, Blue Grass, IA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:33:57 GMT

We are not talking about managing a JOB and a family, we are talking about being the VICE PRESIDENT of the United States of America where the (slim) possibility exists to be President. VP is not a 9 to 5 job. We're talking MAJOR decisions that will effect millions and millions of people. These type of decisions are not made in the scope of an 8 hour day. And all the travel. For the next 4 yrs she would be a face on TV to her children. Don't get me wrong, I am a working Mother. A single working mother several times because of my husband's deployment to SWA, and THAT is the most important job in the world. If there is ever a conflict between job and family, it's a no-brainer, my family and my children always come first. Who is Ms. Palin putting first here? If you're extremely patriotic and easily influenced, you would say her country. But reality is that she's thinking of herself and her own ambitions.

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Tappy McWidestance — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:34:59 GMT

Hey Sarah! How's that Abstinence Only Sex Education plan working out for you?

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Susan L., Redmond, WA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:35:39 GMT

As a woman and a Mom, I could care less about Sarah Palin's parenting or how she manages family and work. It is irrelevant to the question of how good of a Vice President she'd be. The true criticism of her is that I do NOT want a person who was Mayor of a town of 8000 just a few years ago and that experience is her biggest claim to fame. 20 months as Governor of one of the smallest states (by population) in the Union is also FAR less than impressive.

Then there is the fact that she is as far to the right socially as Phyllis Schlafly -- another do as I say, not as I do extreme right wing social conservative woman who has it all herself, but criticizes other women for even thinking about trying it. Sarah Palin is a creationist, radically pro-life to the point of not allowing abortion even for rape or incest or for the health of the mother (or even to terminate a non-viable pregnancy such as an anecepahlic baby -- how cruel can you get?!?!?!?), anti-gay, pro-prayer in school, and as anti-science and anti-environment as you can get. She also shoots animals from airplanes, which is as un-sportsmanlike as you can get. I don't mind hunting, but her way is barbaric.

This Mother says NO. No to John McCain. No to Sarah Palin.

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Denise, West Warwick, RI — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:35:43 GMT

As a working Mom, this is what I think Sarah Palin needed to say: "I am the Governor of a huge state and am still learning that job. My eldest child is headed for Iraq. My youngest, still an infant, has Down's Syndrome. There is no reason why my 17 year old daughter's pregnancy should make international news. My plate is full, so thanks, but no thanks for the VP position." There are times when being a Mom trumps political ambitions. That does not mean that Moms cannot hold very important positions.

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D.Jacobs — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:36:03 GMT

I consider myself a feminist and Sarah Palin has put women's rights back thirty years. They are boosting that she boarded a plane three days before her due date. No doctor or reasonable and caring mother would do that. Second, she said she went back to work THREE days after the baby was born.This provides ammunition to employers that women do not need the time to recuperate after a pregnancy. This is a joke in the age of computers and web cams. Talk about meglomania as well as indifererence to her child. There is such a thing as a Lt. govenor even in Alaska. The Family Leave Act was put into place to protect working families during their times of need. I have a child who was ill and I know how many doctor visits I had per week. If this precious child is going to be his best, he will need physical,speech, and occupational therapy. Palin bragged that she got rid of the cook, housekeeper, etc. Who will nuture this baby? I do not know any mother who did not cry when they returned to work. When I returned to work, I had a cot in my office so I could care for my child. Her daughter's pregnancy is a whole different matter; it is none of our business but to make a 17 year old get married is archaic. I am also a devout Catholic. When the doctors wanted to screen my baby I refused since I do not believe in abortions. Palin said she knew that she was carrying a child with special needs and choose to have the baby. My question is: if she had such strong convictions about abortions, then why the test? Ultrasounds can detect any abnormalities that could be corrected in-utero. She used this sweet baby as a political ploy. Shame on her. She is a disgrace to women and the women's movement!

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linda cnota — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:36:37 GMT

What is this Mommy wars?Women unite once and for all. Sarah Palin has a chance to break through the glass ceiling. Lets do it.Quit this arguing she is more quailified that Obama to be president.She has run a town and a state translate that to a country.
It is just bigger that's all.
We have to unite now and elect John Mc Cann he is giving us our chance. DON"T BLOW IT. NO WAY NO HOW NO Obhama

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Terry Douglas, Elizabethtown, KY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:36:46 GMT

Obviuously, It seems several of you don't have a clue about our country. IF it wasn't for the liberal media and the distraught democrates these private matters would never of became so improtant. Comments like she is not qualified is ludicrists comparing it to a Harvard law degree. Journalist are trained to find the truth. Lawyers are trained to hid the truth and make their lies sound like the truth. We don't need a lawyer and a blow hard loud mouth representing our country. We need a proved hard willed ethical president and a strong backboned vice president to support him. Even the democrates are turning over their loyalties for the betterment of our country and backing McCain. Wake up America,
The democrates have been in control of the house and senate now for almost 2 years and already have been labeled the worst since the existance of them both.
Vote for the McCain ticket and have the peace of knowing that you can sleep at night without another 911 happening.

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Amber — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:37:05 GMT

I am normally at home with my kids, but I am also an Air Force Reserve officer and a p/t consultant (I work from my home office) while my kids are in school. I have worked hard to find a fantastic balance that works well for me and my family.

But that doesn't stop the snide comments. I had just returned from 5 weeks participating in Asian tsunami relief and attended a Valentine's Day party in my daughter's classroom. I was jetlagged but happy to be there. One of the PTA queens made the comment, "It's nice to finally see you here...I usually see your husband." The irony is that I had chaperoned more field trips that year than my husband...he had chaperoned only one. I turned around, smiled and said, "I'm sorry I wasn't at the dairy farm last month. I was in Asia helping with tsunami relief. I had a little bit on my plate." You should have seen the look on her face! Some of these womens are dweebs. Let families find the balance that works for them and leave them alone. The passive-aggressive comments that women on both sides make are completely unacceptable.

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Chris — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:37:19 GMT

She is out of touch with reality, has created a repressive value system in her family (that's why her daughter is rebelling), and most importantly, is not prepared to be president. That's just glaringly obvious to anyone with half a brain.

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Ursula Myers, Columbia, MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:38:09 GMT

I can't believe that anybody is talking about Palin being the right person for the VP position because she has a "compelling" story. If that is the criteria, man I'm over-qualified. Not only did I live in Europe which borders lots of other countries, I have not aborted my child when I contracted German measles. I'm pro-choice but that was my choice. It doesn't mean I deserve more consideration than another woman who made a different choice. All this spin about how qualified she is compared to Obama makes my head spin! If McCain wins, I want 24-hour medical care because if something happens to him, god help us.

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Lainie M., Laredo, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:38:16 GMT

I am completely energized by the Palin nomination! Americans are more like Sara Palin, and much less like Hillary. Get em' Sara!

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Shirley, Chardon, Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:38:33 GMT

I would like to understand how Ms. Palin has utilized Child Care in her family.

I am (was) a full time working single parent of one child. She is now an adult and I am proud of her. I was able to do this, attend all the programs etc because I have a family friendly workplace. And I made distinct choices in my career. Although, not making the average salary of a CPA, I own my own home and was able to put my daughter through college.

The women I know in the successful roles of business and medicine (EVPs Partnerships, Drs,) have a well ingrained child care system. Either their spouse has made career choices that would enable some flexibility, have a hired nanny that lives in, or they have family to help full time. Most people do not have that luxury.

I am not pleased with the choice of Gov. Palin, not because of her career ambitions but because of her policies and practices.

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Chris — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:39:25 GMT

You cannot compare Palin to Clinton. There is NO comparison.

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Kate, Birmingham Alabama — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:39:31 GMT

I am a little annoyed at the implication that just because Sarah Palin has 5 children and juggles her work and home life relatively well that she is qualified to potentially be the President of the United States. I know lots of moms (including myself) who work full time and manage to keep their heads above water who I think are fantastic, but not qualified to be a VP. As an independent voter, she has a lot to prove to me. I think she is way out of her league.

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Patrica, Fargo — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:40:31 GMT

Have to respond to Lisa Maryland -- if for some reason her daughter does miscarry, how dare you say she should blame herself!!! Not that the conclusion should be stress from the media either, but shame on you for even hinting miscarriage is the "mom's fault".

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Swing Vote, Atlanta — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:40:51 GMT

Well.. This is simple enough to solve.
QUIT HAVING CHILDREN. I mean you sinned if you do and sinned if you don't (If she didn't have children the arguement would be that she is not qualified because she can't even lead a family).

The arguement is absolutely rediculous. The fact that the media is stuck on the fact that this woman has children is three shades past comical.

How about the media do it's JOB and report something about her POLITICALLY?? I have to tell you, I have not made my mind up yet - but in my mind this is hurting the democrats seriously. The only thing they can keep saying is that she is not prepared to lead a country because she has children and one of them is handicapped. Is that SERIOUSLY an arguement?
Also, did Hilary Clinton not have a child? Granted she was older than Palin's children but does parenting automatically stop when the child turns 18?
You could go on forever with this arguement, which is why it is so absolutely absurd.
Until the democrats start putting out anything but pure trash, my swing vote is leaning right.
Eventually, the media/democrats will be forced to talk about Palin the POLITICIAN.

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Jan in San Mateo, California. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:41:00 GMT

So are you asking the same questions of the men? She is more qualified than Barack and she is only number two on the ticket. Executive experience counts for alot as making decisions not just talking about them is tough. She was making decisions in elective office when Barack was a community organizer. Judgement is what counts most in this job and we have repeated examples of her good judgement and the bad judgement of the other ticket. Has everyone forgotten Biden's plagerism, plans to split Iraq into three by unilateral actions, etc. etc? That doesn't even count Jeremiah Wright, William Ayres, etc. But back to the point. Why aren't you asking this same questions of the men??????? That is sexism in it's most basic form. Being a working parent is tough for both but it seems to only be discussed as it relates to her. Barack has the same problem but no one is mentioning it.

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Joanne Bamberger — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:41:17 GMT

Like I said earlier today ... Mommy Wars 2.0
http://punditmom1.blogspot.com/2008/09/sarah-palin-and-mommy-wars-20.html

PunditMom

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Jeffrey Compton, Forest Hills, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:41:29 GMT

The question is not how much time a mother of five can devote to her children - some mothers ignore one child, other manage several and a career very well.

My concern is this - based upon what I have read from legitimate news sources two of Palin's children are going through a particularly tough time. Her young baby is dealing with serious developmental issues and her 17-year old daughter is about to get married to a 17-year old man and have a baby. This is not the time to move this couple to Washington and put them under the spotlight or leave them in Alaska to "go it alone."

Palen and her husband have serious parental responsibilities at this time that are more important than a serious career move.

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Val Alice, Denver, CO — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:41:36 GMT

After reading some of the previous comments about this story, one question comes to mind: If Todd Palin was the VP pick rather than his wife, would there be any concern or discussion about his ability to commit fully to the demands of the job? He also has 5 kids, a Downs syndrome child, and a pregnant 17 year old daughter. I have not watched much of the TV coverage of Sarah Palin, but what little I have seen shows Mr. Palin beaming with pride that his wife has received such an honor. If he is willing and able to deal with further demands on her time, who are we to question her ability to manage a job and a family?

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Kelly Harmon, Kansas City, MO — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:41:55 GMT

Where are all the other full time working Moms out there wondering how Sara Palin is going to raise 5 kids (with extenuating circumstances) and be a 24 hour public servant? I think it is apalling that she is putting all her kids, and especially her 17 year old pregnant daughter through the lime light, for her personal gain. Teenage pregnancy is very unfortunate, but what is more unfortunate is that Sara Palin will be out campaigning when her 17 year old daughter needs her the most. It's hard enough being 17 and not pregnant-but Sara Palin is applauding this and promoting marriage between 2 teenagers? Where are those good old fashion family values? I am a woman who has it all, 3 kids, husband, great career. But my first priority is my family, then my career. I would love to run for public office, and might one day-when my kids are grown up and don't need to be tucked in at night. I would never leave my kids night after night to go all over the country campaigning. I think Sara Palin is selfish. To say nothing of the rush to judgement John McCain made in asking her to be the VP. Guess who I will be voting for?

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Jeff, NY, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:42:41 GMT

I think what bothers me most about this argument is that nobody acknowledges a common truth, a mother is the single most important person in chid's life. The truth is that fathers are no where nearly as vital on so many levels. There is a truth that for a woman, a mother is the single most important job they'll ever have, not so true for men. We are socialised to be bread winners than exceptional fathers, infact, fatherhood is measured on how much we provide (materialiscally) to our children. This is what society says, even if we want to argue or deny it. So, yes, when I look at Sarah Palin, I think there are either 5 children who will not get their mothers attention or 300MM of us who will not the get A VP doing her job.

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Daughter of a working mom & Working mom — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:42:56 GMT

All these years of women fighting to do exactly what
Sarah Palin is doing has been for nothing. As it turns out women said one thing but actually believe another. No one has ever asked a man who has five children if he can handle the job. I am very dissapointed that so many women who claim to believe in equally for women have such a double standard for their own sex.

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Elaine, High Point, NC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:44:25 GMT

The fact of the matter here is the McCain is trying to play the voters. He couldn't careless about who Palin is or her background. All he cares about is getting the Hilary voters. If he truly cared about this country or Palin, he would have thought long and hard before asking a woman with a baby with downs, 4 other children and a grandchild on the way to be Vice President of this country. I don't think there is ANY woman or man on earth that could be an effective VP while having the personal responsiblities Palin has. It is impossible. Either the VP position will suffer or her family will suffer and that is not fair to this country or to her family. Get her out!

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Cheryl, Columbus, OH — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:44:45 GMT

Would all of this be an issue if it were a man running for VP and he had a pregnant daughter? I think not! Would there be a question about who would be called if one of the childern were ill? NO! Would there be questions about if there will be a nanny? Are people assuming that because he is a man, that Mr.Palin can not handle the same responsibilites that the wife of a male VP could?
I beleive that because she is the mother of 5, and has faced many of the same issues that we, the everyday people in America, have faced that she is better connedted to the reality of living in the US today than most other politicians. Are people afriad of a fresh outlook or someone who may think outside of the "good ol'boy" box?

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BRS, Atlanta, Ga — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:47:02 GMT

No one is asking Donald's question to the male candidates: How much does she really care about her family? Please. It's time we all come out of the cave; the days of hunting and gathering are over.
The time commitment for the presidency and vice presidency from Obama and Biden is the same as for Palin -- yet no one is accusing them of being bad, uncaring parents.

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Conservative Democrat — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:49:18 GMT

Let's be real here: Being the VP is not just a regular working Mom's job. It is a job that can literally erupt at anytime (remember those 3 a.m. ads). You don't get off of work at 5:00 PM and go home, okay! Palin is going to have to travel to distant countries, work with foreign leaders, manage natural and man-made diasters, study world intelligence reports, and she has a huge learning curve to meet. She simply will not have time to be a mother to those kids, especially one with special needs. Even in her position as governor she didn't take any maternity leave after having her youngest child. She has not (to date) even bonded with that child! Ask doctors and child psycologists how important that is in the first months after birth.

I've never heard of a mother behaving like this. I was appalled at discovering that she decided to fly to Texas at eight months pregnant. That was the first thing my doctor told me after becoming pregnant: No travel after 22 weeks! Palin was sitting on the plane leaking amniotic fluid for goodness sake!!! She didn't even inform the piolot or flight attendants of her condition! If these are the "sacrifices" that must be made to be a successful working mother; I say it is not worth it. My children come first and I'm sorry but nobody does it like a mother when it comes to small children. It is not like men can breastfeed and men are also not natural nurturers. Even the courts have recognized that women are preferable gaurdians to men when it must be one or the other.

Don't get me wrong, I do not have anything against working moms, I am one myself. I just think that my families welfare comes before my job and I would never put them in a situation that would require this kind of scrutiny and sacrifice while they are so very young. When I was most aggressivley pursuing career, I waited to have my children so that I could be there for them when they most needed me. Most other mothers I know do the same or wait until the children are older (certainly older than 4 months).

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Sandy, Fort Smith, AR — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:50:00 GMT

For those of us with grown children, most of us have heaved a great sigh of relief that our children grew into adulthood, period. They made mistakes, they did some things they shouldn't have done. And anyone who says that their children "will never do that" are crazy. Kids are kids. We often forget the things we did when we were young. So Sarah Palin has a daughter who is pregnant. At least she didn't push her child to have an abortion that would have been more politically expedient. They are supporting their daughter - isn't that what we as parents are supposed to do.

I don't know how I'm going to vote, but I am sure that my choice will depend on what the candidates have to say about all the issues that matter and not on what a teenage girl did with her boyfriend. We need to try to remember that this is a private family matter and not an issue of national security.

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Tired of all the woman bashing — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:50:28 GMT

If John Edwards was still in the picture would the same questions swirl around him? Things like how can he be President when his wife is dying of cancer? or How can he be President if he still has kids he's raising? or Who will take care of my illegitimate baby with my campaign videographer?

I grew up as the feminist movement was just gearing up. My future opened up from the narrow conscripts of SAHM, teacher, nurse, or secretary to you can be a Scientist, a doctor, or President. I watched as the press bashed Geraldine Farraro to Hillary Clinton based on the fact that they are women.

Is the message then changes to as a woman I can only be anything I want to be if I don't have children. I certainly can't expect that my mate will help me with these kids and I must either deny myself children or put off doing ANYTHING with my life until they are grown with kids of their own. I thought the Dems were all about women's lib. Guess I was wrong. How they treated Hillary should have taught me that. How they disrespected Geraldine should have made their beliefs quite apparent.

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Sarah — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:50:46 GMT

Her working and being a mother is not an issue to me. It's her working as the 2nd most powerful person in this country should something happen to McCain? The question is timing. This is NOT a good time for her to take on this responsibility and her children pay the consequences. Most of us mothers who had a 17-year old daughter get pregnant would want to be there to show her how to be a mother. I don't think Mrs. Palin will be within the same state, or within 4 thousand miles unless they are going to move her and her new husband to D.C. also. Even then, when does she spend time with 4 children? Whoever posted earlier about Barak not picking Hillary because she is a woman to get the woman vote is a fool. She is better qualified than the both of them. Oprah is the fool. If she would have kept her butt in Chicago instead of campaigning in 3 states, Barak would have been in Hillary's dust. I haven't liked her way of thinking lately and I sure don't think nothing of her now. I'm not alone because her viewership is declining. I'd like to see her gone off the air with all her homes and dogs retired with Stedman.

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Mike, Phoenix AZ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:50:54 GMT

Never ceases to amaze me when I read the comments on these blogs. I'm not sure how it happened but there is no middle ground in this country any longer. There is no compromising, no working through the issues listening to new ideas or even looking at old ideas that may work now. We have one side "in love" with their candidate because he is young, maybe because he's black, maybe because he is Harvard educated, and because he offers everything to everyone at no cost. Then you have the other side who has an old man but they like him because he is a assumed patriot,long term conservative, a "Maverick".
From what I see both sides offer great choices but the rhetoric and the press are going to choose who is the next President.
As far as Gov.Palin is concerned, he family life is off limits, this would have not been an issue except for the press reporting on a blog from a admitted "left wing" group. In the blog they accused Palins daughter of acutally being the mother of Baby Trig. When faced with untruths, what would you have them do, say nothing? I am not defending anyone here, just want to make sure someone on this blog gives a little background that has some truth.
As far as the experience issue, maybe we should compare apples to apples when it comes to the candidates, Compare Obama and McCain, then compare Biden and Palin. This comparing Obama and Palin is a sham since they are running for 2 different offices.
As an Independent I'm sickened by the process and the people involved on both sides. Lies, innuedos and half truths and popularity have taken over. Do anything to get my man elected is joke. You get what you deserve.

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Rick, Newbury Park, California — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:50:58 GMT

Working moms *CAN* make it work. That in and of itself should not be the issue, especially to other moms.

What should be the issue is Palin's basic ability to parent, period.

She flew to a governor's convention at 36-weeks pregnant with her child that has Downs Syndrome (that's right folks, pregnant women should not fly after 35 weeks), and lo and behold, her water broke. That provides risk of infection and injury to the baby. Did she go immediately to a hospital? No. Did she have the baby checked out? No. SHe went and gave her speech at the governor's convention.

After her speech, did she go immediate to a hospital? No. Did she have her baby checked out? No.

She got on a plane and flew 11-hours back to Alaska.

THAT is what people should be up in arms about. Poor judgment and poor parenting. NOT being a working parent.

If that's not pro-life I don't know what is!

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republican mom of 2, Quincy, IL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:51:06 GMT

The media is biased. If the Palin women chose abortion then the media would have rejoiced in this action. The democrats showed what a great father Bieden was (and is) when his wife died and he did not resign his Senate seat and traveled by train to and from Delaware each night. The media anchors, women especially, have high powered jobs and travel a great deal and have families; babies through teens. Yet no one is questioning their abilities to do both. This country has a double standard. Being politically correct--that is the far left is the only correct way of thinking; according to the mainline media. The democrats are especially afraid that they will lose the election that is why the media is playing hardball with the Palin's family decision of running for the VP seat in this election. If Sarah Palin is elected to the VP position along with McCain for President, the drilling for oil and natural gas in a conservational safe manner; this is a win-win for the United States. Economically it is good for Alaska. Planned Parenthood and the pro-abortion group are losing ground and they aren't happy.

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Kelly, Buffalo, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:51:24 GMT

Some of the criticism that Palin is taking is due to her previous comments and policies that she has supported. For instance, she is a strong supporter of an abstinance program that would eliminate sex-ed from schools and did not allow her children to participate in the activities when presented in the Health classroom.

On the other hand, I agree that we are our own worst enemies. Women are, and will continue to be, very critical of one another. Just remember: For every critical comment you state about another mom, about five are being shot behind your own back. As long as we do what we feel is best for our families and our own sanity, I think we will all make wonderful lives for ourselves.

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barry, las vegas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:51:50 GMT

How does anybody substantiate the 'most of it comes from other moms' comment? Is Howard Fineman, Jann Wenner, Mark Shields, Maureen Dowd, Chris Matthews, Sally Quinn or Campbell Brown 'mothers of five' or even 'mothers' at all?

I'm not buying it. This is just using whatever is possible to attack her because she is pro-life, pro-gun, pro-moose eating and unapologetic about it (imagine that!). If she were black, she would be called a race traitor. Because she is a mom, she is being called a bad mom.

It's shameful, despicable and unfortunately too typical of the media. There is nothing that won't be done to promote their own views.

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Tom, Rutherford, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:52:50 GMT

The picture on the Home page of MSNBC is a disgrace to journalism. You are trying to make it appear that Palin is a puppet. This is why no one watches MSNBC. Your bias is hurting this country. Why not be objective and let the public decide?

Where are the stories about Obama's linked to a terrorist? Where are the discussions of Obama's drug use? Do you realize that you are backing a man who is not qualified, who does not love America, and who is a fraud?

I know you don't have the guts to post this.

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Vote for what is real — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:53:10 GMT

You know what burns me is that mommy wars are even being discussed. I am sorry you do not like the teachers comments but everyone, especially women get judged by others(especially women) for their choices. Get over it, I do. It is a great distraction from the real troubles our country faces. Man or woman VP, I do not care. Family or no family VP, I do not care. What I care about is if for some reason the VP steps in can he/she take over as President. A 20 month Governor of a state of 660,000 does not instill much confidence. I think what she has accomplished is wonderful, but that does not mean she can step up and deal with the economy of our country and world. She has had a republican house and senate in her state to work with so it's been easy for her. I feel he picked her based on her gender and I think it is a slap in the face towards women if McCain believes we vote for someone because of gender. I for one am voting on issues. I have serious concerns about our economy and how we have little production base (we do not make much). I am concerned about oil and our foreign dependence on it. I am concerned that as our debt goes up while other countries that our not our allies are amassing huge amounts of wealth. Russia is becoming a bigger threat then we want to believe. I am sorry but Palin and John McCain's judgement are not what I want for the future of my family. I want thoughtfulness, diplomacy and strength not a maverick. We would be a much better country if we stopped judging everyone for everything. She works, she has kids, she's not around much, she is a Christian, she's not, she wears her hair up, she uses big of words, blah blah blah. I am tired of us falling into arguements that do not solve our country's or world problems. I would advice anyone that really cares about our world to watch the Fog of War. It is facsinating and you will look at our foreign policy as it has been over these Bush years more questions and hopefully understanding.

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kdl, smithville, tn — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:53:11 GMT

That's the beauty about choice. Women should get off each others backs on this one and respect each other for the choices they have made, no matter what it is. However, I am no fan of Sara Palin. She is a black widow if I ever saw one. She uses people until she gets what she wants and then tosses them away. Sound familiar (i.e. Dick Cheney). Ironic-because of women before her who made choices possible, she is now against them.

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Angela, Springdale, Ar — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:53:51 GMT

I was pretty lukewarm on this election until the past couple days. I was pregnant at 19, have three children, and have worked their entire lives. I have a great paying management job for a Fortune 100 company - proof that a teenage pregnancy is not the end of the world.

I have been utterly disappointed and SHOCKED to hear working women in media question Sarah Palin. Sara Quinn even went to the extent to say if she had less children then five - maybe the VP candidate could handle it?? Really???? Is this the same Ms. Quinn whose previous articles I have ready touting working mothers and not putting a glass ceiling on those moms? She is not just looking to put a glass ceiling on Ms. Palin - she want to suffocate her in a glass jar.

I have a supportive husband who also works, three lovely children and I am now a 100% full - in McCain/Palin supporter!! If this was the reaction the media was looking for they have it from me. I am truly disgusted with the conversations I have read and heard. I hope other women - both working and non-working join me. This is really about having the CHOICE to work - not whether or not we do.

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Dave, Dallas, Tex — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:56:28 GMT

The reason it is such a big issue, and rightfully so, is that Palin is a social conservative and therefore is anti-sex education and anti-contraceptive. She and her daughter now become the poster family for these ill-guided policies. Thank goodness Barack/Biden will drag the U.S.A. out of the dark ages.

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Sara, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:56:44 GMT

I am sadly disappointed to see female news reporters across the board in a vicious frenzy over Gov. Sarah Palin. In the days since the announcement, I've searched for stories on her credentials, professional background, education, etc., but have found nothing but stories focused on her 17 year old pregnant daughter and whether or not Gov. Palin can be a "good" mother and VP. The harsh criticism of Gov. Palin on this issue is disgusting, disheartening and low. Please, tell us a story that will help us make a decision about whether she will be a successful VP, not mother of the year.

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Stephanie, Fairfield County, CT — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:57:06 GMT

Did anyone know that Michelle Obama has for years worked an intense full-time job with a salary of $300,000+? Yet somehow the Obama's children were clothed, fed and nutured thus far. The Palin children will have the best care imaginable and Sarah Palin will have aids to do all the things most working moms AND dads do on their own everyday instead of being able to spend quality time with their kids (cooking, laundry, etc).

And as far as the special needs...that child will have access to care most moms could only dream about for their children. It's as if people want her to stay home and feel bad that she has a child with special needs. HER CHILD WILL THRIVE AND SHE WILL BE A BETTER VICE PRESIDENT BECAUSE OF HER SPECIAL NEEDS BABY!

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MC, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:57:26 GMT

That shows you that the world really hasnt changed much. Those questions would never be asked to a Male VP.

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Beckka, Wisconsin — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 16:59:44 GMT

I truly believe this to be a political smear on a woman, who happens to be a working mom. The OBAMA camp has done a good job of smearing this poor family, and I believe it will continue until either the people ( BOTH men and women ) quit putting up with the smears or, the elections are over. I believe this is a horrible smear tactic being used by the Obama camp for a couple reasons, the big one being, look, since Obama announced his choice of Biden as a VP, and we all know Biden has a loose mouth that they want to contain, they have kept the negative focus off Biden, and instead they have smeared Palin, and the fact that she is a working mom, she has done a wonderful job as a working mom to this point. Let's not forget, her husband is also a father to those children, and also shares the responsibility.

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maha — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:01:24 GMT

No one has a problem with Sarah Palin as a person, the problem is does she support the rights of WOMEN to her reproductive decisions. Should she be a heartbeat from making decisions that will condem women to the dark ages? What are christian values...sex before marriage and supporting prolife over all other health rekated issues STDs etc. Is she a role model for moral values??????

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Jan in San Mateo, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:01:25 GMT

I am with Daughter of a working woman and working mom. This is what we were fighting for. It is setting womens rights back 30 years to have the women treated differently than the men! She and her husband will figure out a way to work it out, just as Barack and the others will. Can women only run for office if they have no children - or maybe only if their children are perfect? If you were really for women's rights, you would celebrate this and fight if you want to over her views. How do you know anything about her family, which is private I might add. Even talking about her 17 year old's private issues is sickening. What happened to it takes a village??

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Carmille, Dallas, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:02:30 GMT

Moms, do you remember the day you gave birth. Besides your husband, who did you want to see? Your mom of course. And you were most likely an adult! What if on the day Bristol delivers her baby mom is halfway around the world? Now, that's not fair. Oh yes, these things happen some will say but it has NEVER happened because mom was VP of the Unitied States. The sacrifice is too much.

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DENISE — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:05:15 GMT

Sarah Palin position right not should be of mother wife first. The call of the women, by God, is as head of her children and home. Proverbs 31:10 -31 Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband do safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seek wool, and flax, and work willing with her hands. She is like the merchants? Ships; she bring her food from afar. She rise also while it is yet night, and give meat to her household and a portion to her maidens. She consider a field, and buy it; with the fruit of her hands she plant a vineyard. She gird her loins with strength, and strengthen her arms. She perceive that her merchandise is good; her candle go not out by night. She lay her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold distaff. She stretch out her hand to the poor; yea, she reach forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for all her household are cloth with scarlet. She make herself coverings of tapestry, her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sit among the elders of the land. She make fine linen and sell it; and deliver girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honor are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She open her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She look well to the ways of her household, and eat not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praise her; Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excel them all. Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman that fear the Lord, shell shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
Grace and peace

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Gene Edwards, South Haven, MN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:07:21 GMT

Man or woman, think what would happen to this country if John McCain were elected President and died. Here is a Vice-Presidential candidate that knows nothing of Washington or the world for that matter, at the helm of the most powerful nation in the world. Her ties to extremists, her spending habits, her get-back attitude toward opponents in Alaska alone disqualify her. Get smart America. Do more taxes scare you more than a National Debt Republicans are running up in other countries, when there are no dollars for Americans? Dump their ticket and get on with saving this Country!

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Ann, Denver, Colorado — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:07:38 GMT

I am sorry, I know it is unfeminist but, I think she was a bad choice because she has five children, one of which is an infant. I think that woman can't have it both ways. I am glad I have a choice and opportunity to have a career, but I don't think that means I should. I would not be as good of a mother if I worked and my kids deserve to be raised by me not a nanny. You can't do it all, and you can't have it all. I bet your kids would agree with me.

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Lezlie Rovnanik, Brandon, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:07:41 GMT

Working women can have families and careers. This has been proven over and over again. My problem with Palin is that she is sending the message to women that it is possible to have five children, including a special needs child, and have the time needed to campaign for the second highest position in U.S. Government. For those mothers without decent (or any) health care, without an excellent support system at work, without child care, with positions that pay less that the male equivalent, this is not the reality. Affordable health care, businesses that support families, affordable day care and equal pay are all imperative to working women everywhere. These issues are NOT at the top of the republican ticket. Mr. McCain should not insult my intelligence. I vote the issues, not the sex of the vice-presidential candidate.

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marsh — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:08:13 GMT

It is sad in this day an age that we have carried the 1950s mentality of a "women's proper place" into the 21st century. This mantra originated in the post WWII economy, where Rosie the Riveters were expected to put down their tools and become domestic engineers in order to leave jobs for returning men. I thought we had gotten past this in the 1960s-70s where women declared the freedom to shape their own destiny and the 90s where domestic duties/divisions of labor were a private manner between husband and wife. Looks like the stay at home domestic godesses of the 2000s are reinforcing their own lifestyle choices by claiming the moral authority to pass judgement on working women. Sexism is most pathetic when it comes from your own sex.

As for me, I am voting for Governor Palin. I think she provides a great role model for my grandaughter. I hope they both will reject the out-dated societal barriers that reach out to hold them back from realizing their own human potential. America needs their talents, experience, perspective and insight.

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Ann J Utica NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:08:39 GMT

I do not think that there is a Mommy war going on. I think it has to do with all the news about AIP, her pastor and the pork that she had received. They are selling her us as something she is not.

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Beth Schroder, Goldendale, Wash. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:08:43 GMT

Here is my question: When was it asked if Sen. Obama could handle the duites of being PRESIDENT and still be a good father to his daughters? Is this meant to imply that a father's role in the family is less meaningful and necessary than a mother's role? Or that men are able to handle the struggle that comes with juggling work and family better than women can?
I can identify with Gov. Palin's quick return to work - I went back a week after my son was born and I was only working as a newspaper graphic designer - not the govenor of a state. Do I feel that my son has suffered from that decision? No, he was in the care of someone who loved him very much and benefited greatly from the arrangement. That was eight years ago and I would say he is as normal an eight-year-old as you could find.
Perhaps we should be asking Sen. Obama these same questions, but I doubt we will because it's not as sensational a topic when it involves men. In my marriage/family there are two parents, not just a mother.
Focus on the issues that really matter instead of how one person's family life is run. If it works for them then that is all that matters.

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Janet M, Portage MI — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:09:05 GMT

Political women in America still have to prove themselves, and that is appalling in this century. What really makes me angry here while the media is focused on Ms. Palin and her family members is why nobody called foul when Hillary Clinton was in the same spotlight. She was the butt of every late-night joke, the bloggers, the commentators and editorial cartoonists, not to mention many of my own friends who were just nasty about her. That was OK because she is a Democrat? Shame on all of us. I will stick to my concerns about Ms. Palin's qualifications, her positions on issues and her ethics difficulties as I consider whether this McCain-Palin ticket is worthy of my vote. Even in my job a "wife" who can do the family part of my life would often be handy - and I am guessing a female VP can hire the support needed to maintain a busy family.

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Christine, Charleston, WV — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:09:34 GMT

I'm a working mom too. I know what it's like to multitask and juggle household responsibilities with work. Wiping a snotty nose while sending an email is just normal for us working moms. But I will NOT vote for McCain/Palin for that very reason. I don't care how supportive her husband or her nannies are, she cannot possibly do a great job at everything. I don't want to settle for "good enough" for the Vice President (of a 72 year old man with recurring cancer.) And I am so tired of hearing about how "heroic" their family's decision was to keep the baby of her 17 year old daughter. They haven't even uttered the word adoption. Adoption is a PRO LIFE option that no one wants to talk about. No one is a hero for keeping a baby that they didn't intend on making. It's selfish and I believe in this case it's exploitive. Our family has been touched by adoption and I can tell you the real heros in the pro-life world are the birth moms who have made the difficult and loving choice to give their children to loving families.

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Betty, Chicago, IL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:11:59 GMT

Children need their mother and since she is such an evangelical, the Bible puts women in charge of the family and men to provide. This woman needs to be at home taking care of her 5, soon to be 6 children. Seven if you add in the soon to be husband. These children are two immature to be getting married and never should have been having sex in the first place. Apparently, she wasn't home enough to instill her values into her daughter. Hillary only had one child and Bill is an adult and is responsible for himself. This family is highly disfunctional and needs lots of help and prayer. Shame on McCain for putting her out there and double shame on her for accepting.

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DENISE, TEXAS — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:12:26 GMT

Good afternoon,
I like to take the opportunity to congratulate Gov Sarah for her accomplishments as a political figure. I heard the dynamic introduction by Sen. McCain, and the speech by Gov Palin herself. These accomplishments can be achieved by any woman, or man who has an education and desire to achieve goals. You can take on and win battles with lobbyist, corrupt government officials, and zealots business owners, if you have determination. My concern is that fact that mothers were given a greater charge, and that being Chief Executive of the home, first and foremost. The VP of the United States is a very demanding position which requires the individual to be in many places both domestic and abroad with little or no advanced notice. Gov Palin is the governor of a small town in Alaska; her home is probably within a few miles of the office. She has five children with the youngest being less than a year old. One of the children has a medical condition. I am a mother of four and was home until my youngest graduated from high school in 1999. Now, if Gov Palin- VP Palin is on an assignment over seas and one of her children, mainly the one with the medical condition; take sick, will VP Palin be able to concentrate on the Government mission that is at hand or will her mind be divided by the sick child at home. My concern is who will be caring for her children while she is on assignment. The picture I saw at her introduction speech was not reassuring to me. Sen. Palin was at the podium, the father was in line with all of the children along his side. The thing that bothered me was the fact that the Father was not holding his own infant son, the oldest daughter was. While the chief of the home is away attending to business that is not ordained by God, her home front is in disarray. I do not feel comfortable with Gov Palin being the VP of the United States at this time. I feel that she needs to go back to her position as Gov of Alaska and attend to her family as she is ordained by God. Gov Palin needs to complete the task that she vowed to take on, her own home, and family, before she attempts to take on the position of the VP.
Grace and peace

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Jason, Hartford, CT — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:13:08 GMT

Is there any reason to believe that her husband would not be there to support her and take up the majority of the parenting responsibilities? Since im a team with my wife I wouldnt hesitate to drop everything for my wife to have a shot at the 2nd most powerful position in the US....

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Davia, New Berlin, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:13:33 GMT

As a stay-at-home mom, I am disappointed in my peers for attacking Ms. Palin for her desire to balance both worlds. It is a personal decision to either stay with your children, or to pursue a career. Just because we have decided to focus entirely on our families, doesn't make those who work less of a mother. She is a wonderful woman, with strong values, and I salute her desire to run for office. If her husband had been nominated, we would be focusing on his politics, not on his choice to work. So, lets stick to the politics.

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Wendy — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:14:21 GMT

I've been on both sides of the Mommy Fence (working outside of the home and now as an at-home mom), and have no issues with any woman who chooses to run for either the presidency or vice-presidency over staying at-home with the family. I have issues with Palin being the next VP, but that's only because I strongly disagree with her politics, not her life choices.

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Kathy Wright, Chesapeake City, MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:14:21 GMT

I don't really care if Sarah Palin is a working mother or not. It's still bad parenting. She should have been a mother first-a job that no one else can substitute for. Yet, as president of PTA, Mrs. Palin surely told others how to be better parents. Apparently didn't follow that advice herself. Maybe if she hadn't been so busy climbing the ladder...

No one spared Brittney Spear's mother when the young daughter became pregnant. I don't understand why the press is handling Gov. Palin's role with kid gloves. A pregnant junior in high school is not normal for well-raised kids. Just as Gov. Palin was neglient in her duties as a parent-she could be equally neglient in her duties as VP, or worse, President. As VP or President, not only would Gov. Palin serve as a (poor)role model, but she'll have the ability to help legislate how the rest of us raise our children. Her personal beliefs may lead to elimination of birth control for minors. Her personal beliefs may lead to elimination of alternatives to birth for pregnant minors-or even adults. Gov. Palin is not fit to be a position to tell others how to raise their families when she's not doing such a great job at raising her own.

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Kim, Warner Robins, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:14:45 GMT

I'm a recently retired military mbr,married,mother of 5, working, entrepreneur. Sarah P. may be a nice lady, and good mother, and a great governor. In her small town it may be okay for her to bring her infant to the office. VP and possibly Pres does not and would not lend to such familial leniency if you will, especially when the well-being of this country is at stake. She and others have now made she and her family to be a model of what the "typical" American family is and I think most disagree with that. Now the situation with her daughter's pregnancy is personal and should be off-limits. But what I found interesting in her release statement about it was, she said they were pleased Bristol "DECIDED" to have her baby. That sounds Pro-Choice to me.

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Susan Tobin, Osterville, MA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:15:11 GMT

I like Sarah Palin and I like her spunk. My daughter became pregnant at l9 after I had divorced her father. She had my total support and lived with me through the experience while I ran my own business, moved into a new home, dealt with every imaginable issue you can imagine. The press is absolutely horrible the way they are talking about her. It's no ones business except for she and her family. I actually think the intrusive questioning is mean spirited and says to the world that we are a judgemental and unforgiving country ...which we might be.

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Susan Tobin, Osterville, MA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:15:43 GMT

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Julie, Kennewick, Washington — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:16:12 GMT

Geraldine Ferraro spoke about the sexism in politics, particularly in relation to Hillary Clinton's run for the Democratic nomination for President. She said we will be watching to see if the same thing happens to Sarah Palin. She felt that Ms. Palin should be treated just like a man running for office. A difficult task, at best. Joe Scarborough, of MSNBC's "Morning Joe" show said when he ran for office against a woman and had a debate with her, he clearly won. The next day, he was trashed in the media because he "wasn't nice" and was too tough on her. Well, so much for equality. They are already talking about how Joe Lieberman has a tough task ahead of him when they have the vice-presidential debate. Equality for women? How can this happen if Lieberman has to worry how he handles her in the debate, if he can't go at her as if she were a man standing at the podium? We want to whine about the sexism, but then play the "sex" card when it suits us? We can't have it both ways.

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mare — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:16:28 GMT

I am more interested in her lack of judgement, inexperience, and neanderthal world view then if she is a good mother or not. She is a moron, and that has nothing to do with her being a mother or not. I guess that could be called progress in the "Mommy Wars".

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Jody, LA, California — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:17:10 GMT

I just have one question for gov. Palin and republican women. If you want us to respect the privacy of Palin's 17 yrs. old pregnant daughter because it is a private family issue; why can't you respect our daughters' peivacy and let them choose if the want to terminate an unwanted pregnancy?

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Christine, Charleston, WV — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:17:41 GMT

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Ed, Woodbury, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:17:54 GMT

D.Martin, Paducah,KY 10:48, in the comments asked:
My major problem with Gov. Palin is that as a mom of twins with special needs, who is going to give the baby who has downs syndrome the attention he needs?

well, The answer is: The Tax buyer or some illegal immigrant or some foreign born nanny will take care of these babies, while the VP mom making here rounds of speeches . There is a price to pay for everything we do.
Now, as for the 17 year old daughter being pregnant , out of wedlock kid, The republicans and their conservative supporters, take pride in this teen ager having a kid while unmarried. May be, they need to show her a "Role Model" for all teenagers. have sex at 16 , get pregnant at 17 , have a child out of wedlock and we are " proud of you" Go figure ..

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Miffed in Jefferson City — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:18:07 GMT

I want to know why everyone continues to rip on Palin as an ineffective mother, therefore making her a pushover as a VP candidate? That claim is simply ridiculous. I think what people here are failing to realize is that Palin's daughter is 17 years old and will make her own decisions regardless of how she was raised. She is 17 people!!! Unless you are going to lock her in the basement, it should be no shock to anyone that something like that can happen. My advice is to get over it. Why doesn't everyone focus on something more serious than this? Maybe it is because they don't have another angle on Palin, who knows? I laugh at what a stupid controversy this is and how ignorant Americans have become.

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Judy, State College, PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:18:19 GMT

Give her a break! We haven't even heard much from her yet, and all of the media (except FOX news) are blasting her, her children, her husband, her past, her church, her beliefs, etc.!! I am ashamed of the journalists and news groups (especially CNN!) who are saying such terrible things w/r to Gov. Palin. (Kudos to Barack Obama for saying children are off limits).....get a life, people!

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Dee Dee, El Paso, IL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:18:30 GMT

After reading some of these blogs, I see a huge elephant in the room. She is not trying to be a working mom.....she is trying to be the 2nd most powerful person in the world. This is no ordinary 40 hour a week job that she is trying to make work. She has an infant that has special needs and will require more attention than normal circumstances. I think working moms deserve much respect. We all make choices that effect our families, and as any working mom knows.....THERE ARE SACRIFICES!!! I as a mom, choose to sacrifice my needs as opposed to my children's. Is she using the same judgement for her children???

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Bill Hoffman, Princeton, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:18:57 GMT

Talking about the whole mommy/pregnancy issue... last night my wife raised a concerning issue regarding Gov Sarah Palin that neither of us have seen vetted in the media. What if Sarah Palin gets pregnant during her term as VP or gasp, as Pres? We have two young children for which we are eternally grateful, and both were home-births. We know what's involved with getting pregnant, dealing with hormones and the limitations (medical, physical, mental) of a pregnancy. Sarah Palin is still of child bearing age, does not seem to use contraception as that would conflict with her religion, and has not promised abstinence with her husband as far as we know. Hillary Clinton is beyond this issue, so it never entered our minds with her. However, I have to be honest here... there is no way I want a pregnant Sarah Palin in the White House making any kind of decisions.

Is this subject taboo to the media, has Gov Palin promised abstinence... what do you think?

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Maria Hanson — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:19:17 GMT

Let"s face it,the problem with Sara Pallin is that she is a heartbeat away from the Presidency and she has very little experience in national politics or foreign policy. John MacCain is very elderly and he has had heart trouble. Stop the attacks on Mrs. Pallins family it is unseemly.

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Grant, NYC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:19:28 GMT

I think it is extraordinary sexist and hypocritical of people who are criticizing Gov Palin. No one is asking if Sen Obama can be a father to his young daughters while being President. No one is asking how he dare put them in the spotlight.

This is nothing more than a hack job by a partisan media and liberal Kool-aid drinkers who will sink to any level to attack the other side. How incredibly sad, but not surprising to the least.

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Stephanie, San Antonio, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:20:44 GMT

AMEN to all of you who commented on Palin's POLICY of Abstinence Only for so called sex education. She is adamantly opposed to any kind of COMPREHENSIVE sex education in schools and chooses to force her own religious views on every one else. The reason her daughter's pregnancy IS relavant is precisely because of her political position. We've got LIVING PROOF that no matter how much you preach and believe than abstinence works, you still get teen pregnancy!!!!! I ask you this... man or woman--if this were the Democrat's VP pick with a daughter who is pregnant, don't you think the Republicans would be all over it? IN A HEART BEAT of that tiny baby they would!!!!!!

I do not want anyone to give that young girl a hard time. (The fact that her parents are letting her marry this boy means life will be hard enough.... teenage parent and married too young!!!) However, it is totally FAIR GAME to question Mrs. Palin about her beliefs and policy on sex education. It is totally FAIR to say to her.... then why did that not work for your own daughter????

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Marly, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:21:31 GMT

As a professional, working mother, having my child and raising him was more important than making the leap up the career ladder. I've seen more working mothers in my fortune 500 company ignoring the needs of their children to focus on their careers only to have their children suffer at home. And yes, I've seen some who have put their children first and then pursued the career. While most working women will not be Vice President of the U.S., given the background and issues that Palin has brought to the discussion, she is a poor choice for VP. This is a different argument than just the battle for the mommy wars. Should somehting happen to the McCain, Palin will have to step in and run the country. It's very questionable and doubtful that she'll be able to juggle her family, which obviously need her now very much, and manage the priorities of the country as well. I'm all for working women as I am one myself. But young children at home, especially a child with very special needs, should be her focus now. Clearly, it's wrong to bring her pregnant teenager into the spotlight but it does bring into the question her own values and how her decisions with her own family will effect decisions that will impact all of our families. And as men don't get asked the same questions as a woman, women are still the first point of contact if there is a problem or issue with a child. That's reality. Ms. Palin is young and can certainly pursue her political career when her children get older.

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S, Cleveland, Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:21:31 GMT

According to Michelle Obama's biography. She has cut back her work hours from her position when Barack Obama announced his canidacy in order to be there for the children. Has Mr. Palin done that?

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Cathy Moyer 2522 109th ave Allegan, MI 49010 — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:22:09 GMT

I was seventeen when I had my first child and than raised three children. My husband and I know we did not make the right decisions in life and tried to teach our children what is right and wrong. We knew someday we would have to answer to God for how we raised our children and did try to teach them. We talked to them had rules for them for dating. Yes we did have kids that turned to sex before marriage even though we talked to them and taught them what was right. Kids get to a age and make decisions on their own no matter what kind of parents you are. I think the Media and the Today show is being very hard and bias on Sarah Palin and her husband. I have watch the Today show for years and have enjoyed it over the other stations. This last week my eyes have been open to what side you are on. Your job is to report both sides of the story and not be bias. This last week it has not been that way and you have been very judgemental on this family. You also have children growing up and will go through trials with these children. I just hope others do not judge you as hard as you have judged this week. Cathy

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Loretta, Sacramento, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:22:18 GMT

Why aren't people asking Obama how many days he took off after each of his children? Or would anyone like to talk about Bill Clinton's role as a father while govenor in Arkansas and president in the White House while Chelsea ws growing up? Let's ask some other parents how they juggle their careers and traveling while their children are being raised - Meredith or Matt - would you like to comment? I suggest keeping your stories to the facts and ignore the sexist issues. To Jeff of NY, NY - I pity your wife, if you have one, because I bet you use every excuse in the book not to be nuturing or an exceptional father. Real men AND women are there for their children and manage a career.

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TINA MECHANICSVILLE VA. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:22:37 GMT

SARA PALIN HAS LOST HER MIND AND SO HAS JOHN MCCAIN. WHAT WAS HE THINKING? I WAS CONSIDERING VOTING FOR MCCAIN,BUT NOT NOW!!!!! THE BOTTOM LINE IS SHE IS NOT QUALIFIED FOR THE JOB!! THIS IS PRETTY BAD THAT THIS WAS THE BEST CHOICE THAT MCCAIN COULD COME UP WITH. THIS IS A SCARY SITUATION FOR OUR COUNTRY!!!!

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Stephanie, San Antonio, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:22:54 GMT

To those who think this is only a question because Palin is female.... NOT!!!!! If this were any man who stood against comprehensive sex education and preached abstinence only, then it would be fair game!!!!!! This is not about who takes care of whom... it is about decision making that affects all of our lives.... And Palin is dead wrong on sex education.

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Obama Supporter; Oklahoma City, OK — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:25:11 GMT

{"My question to the VP candidate would be to talk about how she plans on balancing work and home. Will her husband be in DC or Alaska? Will they have a nanny? When a child gets sick, who gets called?" "Alice Peeble; Albany, NY"}
Really?? Would be asking a working father these questions? Who cares.... if the canidate is qualified and can do a better job running this country or helping to run this country then it has been the last 8 years, who cares? Really?? Why not ask her what she plans to do about education, tax, health and environmental issues, things that effect this country, not who will get called when the kid gets sick or where her husband will live..... Why is it that we would even think to ask her about it? If her dad had stayed home and not worked would her daughter have not got pregnant? Why is it all put on the mother when there are two parents in the home? Can we please do two things in this country, if your not registered to vote, then please do so, if you are, then educate yourself about all the canidates and vote for who you think will benefit this country, not who's daughter is pregnant and who should have stayed home with the kids or not.

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Traci, Wasilla, Alaska — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:25:32 GMT

I cannot believe the sexism that is not only alive and well, but thriving, in the US today. We have not come one step forward since Geraldine Ferraro in 1984. I too have children and a full time professional career. But, I have friends that are stay at home moms and friends married to stay at home dads. We are all trying to do our best to raise our children. Some mothers need to get over themselves and realize that they are not the only ones to be able to provide care to their children. My husband does a fantastic job as a parent as do several other fathers that I know. It is time to be supportive of working women instead of tearing them apart because their circumstances are different than yours. Ms. Palin's 17-year old daughter did not get pregnant because her mom has a job. She got pregnant for the same reasons that a plethora of unwed teenagers get pregnant every day. These girls come from diverse backgrounds: sex education, abstinence only, two-parent households, single family homes. We need to stop beating up Ms. Palin in the media and be supportive, or we WILL be transported back fifty years into the women's rights movement.

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zorba — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:25:47 GMT

Sorry, but you CAN'T be all you can be as a mom and work a 12 hour day!!! There is NO substitute for a mother rearing her own children. Mothers are irreplacable. Period. And teen girls need their moms more than ever. All this nonsense about being able to be vice president while raising 5 kids, one a pregnant teen and one with special needs, is just plain ridiculous. If you choose to breed children, you should take responsibility to raise them yourself. -- Sign me, An Appalled Social Conservative

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Kathy DeVault, Nashville TN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:26:05 GMT

I would like to hear how the Palins plan to care for their children while she would be second in command of the USA. I DO think it's my business, as I'm being asked to vote for her. This is not just any working mom job. Also, I think it's completely valid to ask myself if Gov. Palin let political ambition trump her own family by her choice to push her pregnant teen into the national spotlight. For me, it speaks to character. This is especially pertinent when it comes from the party constantly claiming they're the party of "family values."

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M Langton Orlando Florida — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:26:50 GMT

Can anybody out there with a least modicum of intelligence vote for a ticket that has a VP with a good chance of taking over the top job when shes clearly incapable of managing her own family let alone the most powerful nation on the planet. These ultra conservatives would plunge this great country back into the dark ages.Lord knows, Bush has already had a good go at it!

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Lenore, Los Angeles, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:26:56 GMT

I don't care that Palin is a mother. If she and her family are OK with her having a high-pressure job, then good for them. What I DO care about, though, is her anti-abortion, pro-book-banning, anti-sex-ed, anti-teen-mother-funding, pro-aerial-wolfgunning, pro-ANWR-drilling, Creationist beliefs. This is more of the ignorant, selfish, arrogant, anti-intellectual belief system we've suffered under for the last eight years, and it has damaged our position in the world. Palin is not a maverick or something new just because she's a woman. She's a member of the old guard of anti-women's rights, anti-environment thinking that has damaged our country under Bush. I hope that all women, whether they're mothers or not, will keep that in mind come election time. If any vice-presidential candidate is pro-women, it's Joe Biden, who helped write the Violence Against Women Act. Don't be fooled.

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diane b, concord massachusette — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:26:59 GMT

I believe Eunice Shriver said it best, "Woman can have it all just not all at once." As a mother and a business woman, I curtailed my hours when the kids were in school - espcially in high school. Another area in question is the ability in corporate america to have a 3 month family leave - Palin returned to work in 3 days following the birth of her son. While fathers are picking up the slack, mothers still are faced with the majority of child rearing. I question this woman's judgement. Family comes first.

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Sam in Austin, Texax — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:27:26 GMT

Ya know, all political positions aside, I think that if Gov. Palin (not Mrs., she's famous for her political career) were elected VP, the US of A would somehow manage to set her up with the FINEST TEAM OF NANNIES IN THE WORLD. I mean, we can destroy the site of the oldest known civilization in the world, but we can't get a lady a nanny?

Wouldn't you be the envy of the neighborhood if your Johnny's nanny was an ex-marine, spoke 5 languages, graduated summa cum laude from Vassar and was authorized to carry carbon fiber glock in the presence of the president of the united states?

Good Lord, people, its not like she's taking on the #2 job at a meat packing plant in Denver! Shame on you for your smallmindedness. Its an honor and a privilege to serve at any level of the government.

Not only that, thanks to Johnny McCain, her family has instantly risen to a very high level of prominence in one of the 2 dominant political parties in the most powerful nation in the world. I think the Gov. is doing just fine for her family!

If you want the role of women to advance, maybe you shouldn't be so eager to take her down. What are you gonna do next, criticize her hair?

Understanding that its pretty hard to balance work, family, motherhood, etc., maybe its time that instead of just pointing fingers at each other we advocated solutions to the problems FAMILIES face raising children in today's society. Like cheap childcare for working families that we can trust.

For instance: I work strange hours in my job as a Computer Network Engineer; when you all are asleep, people like me are in rooms with lots of computers getting the Internet ready for you guys to be able to blog all the next day. People like me get the happy, happy choice of literally choosing between career (working all night on the weekend) and family (hosting my daughter on the weekend), and my company DOESN'T offer family services for me, at all. So who's the better family man, me or the guy that gives up the good job so he can spend more time with his family, but take in less money, huh?

To all of you who are complaining about who's a better mommy, I say your wasting your energy when you should be banding together to come up with solutions.

Oh, yeah, that's kinda the whole point of the Obama campaign...

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Molly Kelley — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:28:07 GMT

The media has stirred this up and they are also obviously for Barack. Let's let Sara Palin do her job and let the daughter do hers!

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Steven, Sparks NV — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:28:26 GMT

Donald from Upland:
Every descision that a candidate makes is designed to win the election. To think otherwise is naive and foolish. Kennedy picked Johnson to win the South, even though they hated each other and had been at odds in the senate, just so that he and the Democrats could win the election. So, are you going to start saying that Kennedy was pimping Johnson?

McKain picked Palin to appeal to a group that could win him the election. It's what the smart politician does. Obama didn't pick Clinton because he's smart politician. If he had picked Hilary, he risked alienating the very base that he was appealing to.

No one can question how much she cares about her family. There are parents with special needs kids who work everyday. If her husband is at home taking care of the kids, it shouldn't matter what she does for a living. Would we be asking the same question of a male candidate? Did anyone tell Obama that he shouldn't run because he has two daughters? Should we ask the same questions of Biden, who continued in office after losing his wife and young daughter in a car crash, leaving his two sons motherless? No, we shouldn't and to do so is in my opinion dispicable. Biden is a great example for how a politician can do his job and still raise a family.

As to your other comment, about how South Africa is more progressive than the United States, why don't you check your facts. South Africa was controlled by the white MINORITY, so when free elections did come to the country it was almost assuredly going to be a black man. Progressive will be when the black majority learns to trust the white minority in office again.

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Claire Jenkins, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:28:41 GMT

I have been surprised and amazed by the sexism that has come out of this election first towards Hillary Clinton & now toward Sarah Palin. And most of it is coming from the liberal media!

My own mother was a business executive in the 60's and managed to raise 5 children. My father was a supportive partner and both took an active role in their children's lives. We all turned out just fine, thank you very much.

The Palin's seem to make it work. Sarah Palin appears to be a woman who isn't stricken with the "I can't" disease of so many in our country. She has figured out how to have a marriage, kids, and a wonderful career. We should be applauding her, not vilifying her.

As for her daughter - she is the one who made the decision to have unprotected sex with her boyfriend. Now she is dealing with the grown-up repercussions of that choice. She is very fortunate that her parents are so loving and supportive. Her situation could be much more dire - as many unwed, pregnant teenagers know.

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Claire Jenkins, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:28:50 GMT

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diane b, concord massachusette — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:28:54 GMT

I believe Eunice Shriver said it best, "Women can have it all just not all at once." As a mother and a business woman, I curtailed my hours when the kids were in school - espcially in high school. Another area in question is the ability in corporate america to have a 3 month family leave - Palin returned to work in 3 days following the birth of her son. While fathers are picking up the slack, mothers still are faced with the majority of child rearing. I question this woman's judgement. Family comes first.

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Claire Jenkins, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:29:09 GMT

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HorHey, Las Vegas NV — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:29:13 GMT

She is being attacked because she is a conservative woman. If she was a liberal none of these attacks would be happening. Palin is what Liberals hate most a beutiful, accomplished woman who does not buy into Liberal ideology. Edwards cheating on his wife was ignored by the main stream media for months. Even after she was sent out there to campaign for him and say how supportive he was etc. Al Gore's son, AL Gore III, is a drug addict arrested twice for possession never talked about in the media. Also, themedia hate the fact they were caught flat footed on her selection. They are so arrogant they think her name should have been "floated" to see how they like it to give them chance to prepare coverage of Palin.

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Family Physician, Indianapolis, IN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:29:13 GMT

to: Palin said she knew that she was carrying a child with special needs and choose to have the baby. My question is: if she had such strong convictions about abortions, then why the test? Ultrasounds can detect any abnormalities that could be corrected in-utero. She used this sweet baby as a political ploy. Shame on her. She is a disgrace to women and the women's movement!
D.Jacobs Mechanicsvile VA
Jacobs, you are as ignorant about medical tests and the multiple reasons for them as you are a practicing Dark Ages, psychotic witch hunter. Gov. Palin's choices are HER choices, not yours. Get a life, but first get an education.

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Brandi< minneapolis, MN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:29:51 GMT

Joe Biden was as single father for 5 years while in office, he was sworn in next to the bedside of his critically injured 4 year old son after his wife and daughter had died. He rode the train back and forth 250 miles to and from Washington to be their father. The issue is not her ability manage 5 kids and be the VP, the issues are her policies, the Presidential nominee she will support that will increase the damage to every piece of the American pie. Not to mention dragging women's rights back to pre Roe v. Wade days. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she is a feminist and is supporting womens rights. Its disgusting and insulting to think that a woman like that would even pretend to represent women like me. My sons played hockey too, I belong to the PTA too, I have dinner with my kids every night, I don't make a decision about what kind of milk I buy without thinking of the impact to my children, and McCain picked Palin after one meeting to potentially be the leader of the free world. Disgusting, irreosponsible and a political gimmick we cannot afford to take seriously.

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N. Wright — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:29:53 GMT

After reading the majority of the posts before this one, one thing is obvious... people are doing exactly what McCain's crew want... they are talking about personal issues about Gov. Palin and not the fact that this was a shoot from the hip, hail Mary choice by McCain.
As an independent, leaning away from Obama, this "choice" moves me away from McCain. I have lived through 8 years of this kind of governance and wish for a return to ethical deliberations, civility and cooperation.
Afterall, I put my country first.

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Claire Jenkins, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:30:12 GMT

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Minerva Ramos, Ridge, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:30:21 GMT

I am a working mother of three and I have a husband that helps with the children. It has been, however, extremely difficult because we both have to work. I've had to take jobs that normally i would not have taken, work shifts that I don't particularly enjoy working, and give up a career that I worked hard to get. Parenthood is one sacrifice after another and you make these sacrifices gladly if it means that you have happy, healthy children as a result. Many families may fool themselves into believing that careers do not effect child rearing, but all you have to do is ask the child.

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Jeanne Van Valkenburg, Walden, Colorado — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:30:54 GMT

I am so sick of listening to the Democrat heavy TV media. They didn't pick Joe Biden apart, why are they focusing on Sarah Palin's daughter. TV has lost all self respect and is as bad as the Democrat laden Congress.

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Erik Cottman Chester,Pa — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:31:21 GMT

I am a father of 2 beautiful daughters. Their mothers are great working moms. I know my daughters mothers were excited to hear Obama speak of equal pay for equal work for women. As a father of 2 girls, I want to be able to assure my daughters that things will be fair for them. The question I have comes from what my daughters mothers'(Who are Republican and African American) have said to me. Its nice to see a woman on a Presidential ticket but does she stand for pushing the womans' rights issues forward or just wants to be a "token" canidate for just being a woman?

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Kelli, Philadelphia, PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:33:12 GMT

The problem is not that Palin is a working mom. I think that at this point, many moms are working. The problem is that she is from the "abstinence education only" party that eschews premarital sex and political corruption yet has a pregnant, unmarried child in her household and an ongoing case against her wrongfully using her influence to fire someone. She's also taken plenty of those earmarks that she claims she hates. She also claims that her decision to give birth to a child with Down's Syndrome was this great decsision, but if she won't be there to raise him, how is her decision so much better? She seems to be using her large family as props and yet when people criticize said props, she cries sexism. I think the accusations of sexism are absurd and they really do a disservice to women that genuinely are targets of sexism.

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Paul Barrett — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:33:49 GMT

I don't undersatnd what the big deal is. Barabara Bush raised a severely mentally disabled child, while in politics and that little boy grew up to be president. A horrible, horrible president, but president just the same.

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Pride -vs- Pride — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:34:23 GMT

If we did not try to have it both ways we would not be setting ourselves up for such judgement. Look at it from another prospective. Is it really my employer's responsibility to provide daycare because of a decision that I and my husband made? Should my children wonder why I don't attend any of their functions when other mothers do because of a decision I made? Is it really a man's fault when I act as if they can not provide for a child when I stand in front of a judge and ask for child support? Why not give the child to him?

Can we really have it all and not complain about it? No. We want to complain when he's not present, we want to complain when we want a family and a career. If we make the choice to have a family and a career complaints have to be taken off of the table. If we are to compete and want to be looked upon as an equal then we just might want to be more careful about which choice we make first. And if we are going to use the gender card while competing in politics then we are asking to be given a pass all while trying to act tough and providing tough talk. If we try to come across as Tony Tough Nuts we better be able to handle the punches that are thrown back at us. We can no longer step into the ring with gloves on and act as if you should not hit a woman. That's not equality that's a cop-out.

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Lyn, Atlanta Ga. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:34:59 GMT

I can't figure out how any woman could think that Palin is in any of this to further womens rights! In the long run the mistakes made by her daughter or the (non)issue of her D.S. son make no difference at all in any of our lives. What does make a difference are the beliefs this woman brings to Washington with her! Anti abortion...anti birth control...abstinence only education...creationism taught in our schools...I could go on and on! This woman would be a HUGE setback to womens rights as well as seperation of church and state! The question of how she will take care of her family at the same time as the country is a moot point to me....I just want to make sure she cannot legislate how I take care of mine!

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Jack Lott, Bixby, OK — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:35:02 GMT

The only thing wrong with Palin is shes not a democrat. If she was all this would be off base.

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Amy, Ripley, WV — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:35:52 GMT

...or MAYBE she'll have enough money to hire an army of nannies, tutors, chauffeurs and cooks, and the kids can travel along with her and text her on the road, and maybe they'll all turn out fine. Why aren't you people crying for the children of evening shift Wal-Mart employees?

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Carla, Colorado Springs, CO — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:36:13 GMT

The problem is not that she is a working mother - we all are. What bothers me is the image of her five month pregnant 17 year old hauling around her youngest while Gov Palin's husband stands there smiling happily. Isn't that his job? I think we all have a pretty good idea who is going to be raising that child while she's trying to be a good teenage mom to her own coming child. The seventeen year old who was thrown under the bus for her mother's vice presidential aspirations.

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Anne/Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:36:43 GMT

What difference does it make wether she has 5 kids or 10 kids, it is wether or not she is able to be president or not, that should be the question. As far as her 17yr old daughter, that is none of anyones concern, my problem with that is why would you teach absitnece if your not going to practice it!
She and McCain are scarry folks I have never heard someone speak the way they do about war, since when is it a good idea to get involved in war?

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TWim, Birmingham AL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:37:48 GMT

I am not bashing Gov. Palin for being a working mother but I am sure being the Vice President requires more time than the hours that she is putting in as Gov. I just think that there is nothing to replace a mother. And if I had a child with special needs I would want to give he/she as much attention as needed from me as the mother because they may not be able to relate or feel secure with the nanny or father at all times. That baby has heard that mothers voice for 9mths and that is who there are going to feel more secure with as a newborn. To go back to work in 3 days I don't feel is fair to that baby. My husband and I also take care of the kids together and always have, but most of the times if their is a mother and father living in the same house, the children look more to the mother for most things. I know a lot of you are saying that is not the way it should be, but how can we be Christians and not understand that the bible tells us what a mother's roll is. We like to quote and live by some parts of the bible but not others.

As far as the teenage daughter. I don't think they need to address that situation anymore. I feel that she should be off limits because I have 3 teenage daughters. The only difference is that I am not a Political Candidate that makes this topic a part of my platform and I do not belong to a Political Party that frowns on Sex before marriage and Teen Pregnancy. They think it is too sinful to teach sex education in High School. I think when the announcement was made that they should have reinforced that this is not what teens should do even though they Love their daughter and will be by her side and are still Proud of her. Instead the Family and the Rep. Party are making it out to be trivial.(everybody's doing it, she is not the first one and we have a high number of teen pregnancy in this nation so get over it!) How exactly is this message going to help parents like my husband and I try to make sure our girls don't make the same mistake. How is going to help us as a Nation to combat teen pregnancy when these things are being said by well educated and respected people?

twim

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No Name, Albuquerque NM — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:37:49 GMT

As a disabled from birth 40 year old, I can tell you that Republicans don't support the handicapped. I'm able to support myself working part time because I have health insurance. But no job or less hours would mean no health care and no health care would mean no health. Republicans want the disabled to just die or live on the streets and beg. Even with health insurance, it takes 2 months to get a doctor appointment and a trip to the emergency room means a 5-6 hours wait. I hope Gov. Palin leaves her disable son millions in a trust fund, because if Republicans get their way, her son's prospects will be grim.

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Sarah, Galloway, OH — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:38:39 GMT

so, does anyone know what a vice president does, because many of the comments seem to imply that they do. Perhaps Gov. Palin asked that question because she wanted to know what she was agreeing to before doing so.

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Bentley, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:38:56 GMT

Why do women hate women? I am a male senior executive. As I have moved up in life, I have always been amazed that the talented successful women always had to endure so many mean, vile critics -- always women. Men don't need to be mean to women, because women already do it so much.

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rhonda, indianapolis, in — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:40:15 GMT

I am boiling with anger and disgust at this whole media frenzy about Palin. The women at CNN/MSNBC certainly seem to have a double standard. Or is it their male bosses that are encouraging them to proceed on these topics? Either way, they are gutless. To hear anyone say that she could not handle the distractions because she has a family is just beyond belief. It is no wonder that we, as women, have such a time progressing when we have our fellow sisters, who have sweet, high paying jobs themselves, spew the garbage that they are. Why would she have even accepted the position is now being asked. Why wouldn't she? She's a Governor, for God's sake. She didn't just step off the turnip truck and say she'd take this job. Why did Joe Biden say he would take this job after saying to all of America that Barack Obama isn't qualified? Where are his standards? What is happening to us? Country first seems to be something that all of America needs to get back in touch with before we destroy ourselves.

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my from Boston — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:41:46 GMT

I am a mom who leaves home every morning to go into the coorperate world. Many days, when I return home, I have no energy or time for my two children. I do understand that Gov. Palin have nannies and other help, but where is she going to find time to spend with her kids. She just had a baby!! If she becomes VP, that baby will mostly likely not see her much. A mother's affection can not be replaced by someone else. I would not say that Gov. Palin is a bad mom. I do not know her. I just pray that if she becomes VP, she makes time for her kids..

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Jill Maron, Sharon, MA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:42:52 GMT

From the moment I learned that Governor Palin, with a four month old child with special needs and 4 other children, was running for Vice President of the United States I was outraged. As a working neonatologist and mother of 2 small children, I clearly understand the demands of balancing both career and family and more importantly, I understand the multiple sacrifices it takes to attempt to do both successfully. Governor Palin chose to have 5 children and she has a responsibility to them as a mother. This is not an attack on women, working or otherwise. It is a wakeup call that we are important as mothers and that moving forward in society and the work force does not and should not negate that role. Having children is the easy part. Raising them, caring for them and sacrificing for them is the true meaning of "family values". Governor Palin may be able to be a wonderful and effective Vice President, but now is not the time for her.

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aaron, seattle, wash — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:43:48 GMT

Not once out of all these replies have anyone of you stated "yeah I see your point to that" or "I understand that"....all this is becoming is "I'm right and you're wrong for your opinion". Pretty pathetic.

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Susan, Florida — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:44:04 GMT

The reason why people are asking so many questions about Sarah Palin is because NO ONE KNOWS HER. This is the vetting process. Guess what? The reason why people are focused on the teen pregnancy issues is because this is what we are seeing first hand. But people ARE talking about the other issues (lack of experience, troopergate, AIP, pro-lifer).

I am a registered republican and a working mom to 4 kids. But I am also a swing voter. I will be swinging to the Dems in November because I am frightened for the women of this country that we are one Supreme Court Justice away from losing our rights to be able to have a say in what happens to our bodies. The government will be able to tell you what you can and cannot do and if you break the law, god only knows what will happen to you. To be an effective president requires one to be a great leader and exceptionally smart. We know nothing of the sort about Sarah Palin and yes, she is one heartbeat away.

In addition, John McCain did not just pick her to get the HRC voters..he picked her because his base would have abandoned him unless he picked someone more ultraconservative than he is. Remember, the base is lukewarm to McCain because he is not conservative enough. The party leaders and pundits (Rush etc) made it very difficult for him to pick Lieberman, Ridge, or Romney. McCain caved to the pressure. He didn't want the selection to cost him the election.

For me the clinch was when asked in a debate of John McCain if he knew now about the WMDs would that have changed his vote for the Iraq invasion he answered "no he would have still voted for it" should scare the beegeezers out of you all!

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Chizucc, land of the lost. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:44:08 GMT

I am a married man that is looking forward to having children. I believe that a woman can be equally as good or even better VP candidate. With that being said, Does anyone understand that this woman just bore a child four months ago? My wife and I talked about how much time she wants to take off to bond with the baby and all. She wants to take 2 years off. I don't quite agree with that because times are not that easy and living on one income will be difficult. I understand that Mrs. Palin went right back to work after having the baby. That's doesn't seem too nuturing at all. It almost seems cold. The 17 year old daughter would have to step in as a mom(which tends to happen in large families) to help with the baby. That is commendable. But it comes with consequences. That's why people thought it was her baby. The daughter seems more comfortable with the baby than the mom does. There is nothing wrong with ambition, but I think that priorities are priorities and for a woman to be so pro-life why wouldn't she take the time to be in this child's life at this early stage in his life? She will be on a gruelling campaign for the next two months. What will happen with her child? I haven't mention the special needs the baby will require. Gov. Palin, are you sure you can handle a national crisis and rear an infant? If you were a man I'd say the ask the same question.

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texasvoter, dallas, tx — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:46:23 GMT

Palin has showed repeated reckless disregard for the well being of her family. First, she endangered the life of her high risk son by choosing not to get immediate medical attention when she started to leak amniotic fluid and experience contractions one month early. Instead, she hops on multiple planes over the course of 17 plus hours before visiting her doctor and giving birth through induction the next day. She has admitted that she did not inform the airlines of her medical situation, effectiviely stating "she didn't tell them, but she didn't hide it either." Her choice to delay medical attention was reckless, irresponsible, and life-threatening and she is extremely lucky that nothing went wrong with his birth.

Her "don't tell/don't hide" policy would have been better employed regarding her daughter's situation. If you felt you had to advance your career and serve your country, knowing full well that your family's life as well as your own, would be under an international microscope, you should have had a better plan for handling things than throwing your daughter to the media wolves to detract attention from internet rumors surrounding your own pregnancy. Adopt the "don't tell/don't hide" policy and present your daughter along with the rest of your family, wearing her engagement ring and standing with your future son-in-law instead of hiding behind a baby blanket and her brother. All the media attention Bristol is receiving is her mother's fault - surely there was a better way to dispel viscious rumors than to offer her daughter to the media hounds as proof that Trig was really her son?

Working mother, or not, Sarah Palin has made decisions regarding the well being of her family, that along with many other relevant issues, make me hesitant to place her a heartbeat from presidency even if I support McCain. If she can't make well informed,educated decisions about her family, how could she make them for the entire US?

And another thing, if McCain chose her because she's a "breath of fresh Alskascan air" why is she getting her foreign policy information tutored to her by Bush's advisors? I thought she was the outsider.

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Lisa Wilson, Dayton, Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:46:53 GMT

I am ashamed that anyone, especially other women, would criticize the decision this woman (or any woman) would make to further her career and have a family. It doesn't matter what occupation you have you can be both successful in the workplace and a successful parent. I wonder, where are all of the women's organizations coming out in respose to these horrible comments? Do they only believe in the rights and betterment of women who share their beliefs? As the mother of a little girl, I can say to her "yes, you can be President" and can point to the 2 stong women, on both sides of the political aisle, this year that helped make that possible.

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patricia, portland maine — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:47:15 GMT

aside and apart from all of our personal beliefs on this issue i would like to ask folks out there if they remember back when hilary was looking at becoming the first lady for the first time. if you recall, the republicans and fundamentalist christians experienced serious conniptions over a comment she made during an interview...i can't quote it but it was something to the effect of how she wasn't the kind of mother who stayed at home making cookies. wow, those two groups hit the roof over that and questioned all sorts of things about hilary then. now these same folks are pretending to be huge champions of womens' rights to do as they wish in their careers and in their parenting. it just amazes me...if the concerns about palin were being raised regarding a democratic candidate, i suspect this would be a regular tar and feather opportunity for that candidate from those two groups. talk about flip-floppers!

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John, Clemson, SC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:50:38 GMT

The problem is is that she preaches abstinence only education, and her own family (plus all the numerous studies) is the perfect example that it doesn't work (or at least that teenagers don't listen).

So it's great that she's managed to become a VP pick after being mayor and barely being governor. It's tough for anyone to get that high that quick, but as far as her politics goes, she's a case in hypocrisy (in my opinion).

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Me in Overland Park, KS (Kansas City) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:50:44 GMT

People, if she wins the ticket, she will be more than a working mother. What about long stints of being either out of the country or just traveling the US?

My mom was a working mother and we do not talk at all. I was raised by nannies and at times would only see her once a month because she traveled so much. She does/did love me, but work got her attention. She never saw me play soccer or be in a the school talent show, etc. She was not a mother to me at all other than the person that gave birth to me and paid the nanny's. They were my parents. Palin has more than two daughters like Obama, she has 5 kids and a grandchild on the way. That leaves her spread thin for when she does have time available. And obviously not enough time now to teach her own child about sex out of wed lock and with no birth control. Yeah, great parenting and I say that to everyone that has kids in these conditions. I think it is called stupidity. Mistake you call it??? What ever folks, it is stupidity at it's finest.

I am all for women in the white house, but to be a mother and soon to be grandmother, more than her husband will be neglected and I hope she has a good family support system to help her husband out.

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SC, Fort Lauderdale, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:50:46 GMT

I have read these blogs and comments and I am almost laughing at the hypocracy coming from women who are dogging Sarah Palin for her parenting and work ethic, judging her before they even know her, making snide comments on rumors and headlines engineered by the press to grab attention, but if you took time to read the entire article to the end...near the end, you find she did no wrong. Being under investigation, does not make a person guilty, having a daughter who made a mistake with a man she is going to marry does not have anything to do with the job she can do in Washington...just look at people in Congress now..the ACTUAL people with personal scandals...and we're not even talking about family members..we're talking about the people who are actually IN office themselves.

People can say there may be a small political part John McCain played in picking her, because she is a woman and is trying to appeal to the women who felt slighted by the Democrat men and press bashing on Hillary, but as you look at this woman and her record...80% approval rating as the governor, her incredible speaking ability, willingness to go against corruption, and to stand beside a decent American Hero and very experienced public servant, who is willing to reach across party lines to actually get something done in this country, John McCain, you realize this is the smartest pick John McCain could have made. She is a "she" but she is the best pick for the position of Vice President. Don't look at the fact that she's a woman...can we get past the sexist political attacks for a moment? Let's realize that Governor Palin has an amazing record in public service, and she is more qualified to be Vice President than Obama is, and he wants to be PRESIDENT!

I have to feel sorry for the many women with children who are in the press right now...hearing bigotted men and even bigotted fellow women say to them, if a woman has more than a certain number of children, they should not be in a job that is demanding or even public...they are neglecting their children...women with children should stay home and raise their family...YIKES!!! And the women who say this...do not even know the lives of the women they speak of. The women of the press have extremely demanding jobs and are in the limelight every day, and those comments have to be extremely offensive.

Ok, so she may have some different views on a few social issues than many of these women who attack her, however, that is no right to bring the reign of judgement down on her before knowing all the facts, and before even knowing who she is.

Let's not be so quick to judge, and to condemn.

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Melina, Gilbert, AZ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:50:53 GMT

I too am a working mother. I have 3 boys of my own and we adopted a girl out of foster care. My husband and I manage to have a daughter in dance and 2 boys who participate in sports. It's a choice. I disagree with the comment above that mothers are the most important in the child's life. Both parents are equally important. Her parenting skills aren't an issue with me. What bothers me is the lack of equality. If this had been a Democrat (or Jamie Lynn Spears) they would have been all over it attacking the character of the mother etc. When it's one of their own we get the proud, she made a pro-life decision speech. Great, lots of women make that decision everyday, but ask Jamie how it feels. She certainly didn't get the pat on the back. I agree the kids need to be left out of it. What bothers me is the hypocrisy of the underlying issues. The Republicans can't have it both ways. You can't preach abstinance and then ask us to look the other way when such an obvious failure of that approach from your own party smacks us in the face. I have no intention of voting for McCain. I have seen him abandon my state, why would I do that to the country. I also have no intention of sending a religious zealot to the VP position (did you hear her speech, since when did God have anything to do with the Gov't). Being a woman shouldn't have anything to do with it and you can bet I'd ask the same questions of a man in this position.

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sue dover, ellijay,ga — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:52:12 GMT

Reading all these comments has been very entertaining and very sad. Virginia Slims can take back their ad "You've come a long way baby..." because apparently a lot of people think women should remain pregnant, barefoot, and in the kitchen. As a 59 year woman it saddens me to think people believe that this woman should have locked her child up,because there is no other way to guarantee abstinence), she should stay home and hide her special needs child instead of trying to show her children and the children of the world that a woman can do more than bake brownies. Grow up America!!!

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Mary Garrett, Los Angeles, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:52:48 GMT

Gov. Palin quote posted on MSNBC -- On Alaskans serving overseas in Iraq: "Well, God bless them, and I mean God and Jesus because without Jesus we'd be Muslims, too or Jewish, which would be a little better because of the superior Israeli Air Force."

I don't care how she runs her own family life, but she is a religious zealot and, frankly, sounds a little nuts. I was a supporter of Hillary Clinton, but would never vote for McCain just because he chose a woman as a running mate. It's about the issues, people!

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linda, denver, co — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:53:35 GMT

Palin wouldn't be as criticized about her choice to run as VP while trying to raise a family, if it weren't for her radical right views on abortion and sex education.

I'm more concerned that she chose to bring a disabled child into the world and not take responsibility to raise him. Many women out there do not have the financial means to to make that choice. "Look at me, I'm so brave to have this disabled child, here nanny, take him." If her husband is taking on that job, fine, good for him, but don't deny other women the right to choose and don't deny young girls the information and medical care to take responsibility for their own reproductive health.

I'm a working Mom and the sister to a disabled sibling. It is the hypocrisy of anti choice, financially well off, working women who make judgments on other women's decisions that really make me crazy.

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Jeff, Chicago — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:56:12 GMT

I can't believe there are actually a few ignorant people out there who believe that Palin shouldn't have run for VP just because her daughter is pregnant. No one was critical of Obama and how he would raise his children. Oh wait, Obama and his family are always given a pass by the media. This isn't just sexim on the media's part, it is also blatant political bias.

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peggy Philadephia PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:56:35 GMT

Gov. palin put herself and her family out there for all the country to see and judge. She and the RNC have her on a pedestal as a model of wife, mother and working woman & then people complain about the comments. If you did not want to subject your family to this you should have declined the offer. A special needs child needs alot of attention and intervention. As anyone knows the earlier a child receives support services the more successful he/she will be. How does anyone man or woman focus attention on a special needs child, a 17 pregnant daughter and the rigors of a campaign?

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Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:57:56 GMT

I'm amazed at the number of people who claim to know so much about Governor (a title she has earned) Palin's politics. After reading your comments, it's quite clear that you can't see past the media frenzy in order to examine the REAL issues. I'm sure most of you know what you know based on what you've read in the media. Have you actually researched what she's done in her state or are you basing everything on what you read in a blog? Bottom line: For those of you who doubt her ability to lead, she holds the title of Governor. She is on the Republican ticket as VICE President. Senator Obama has spent a total of 18 months as a senator and the rest of the time campaigning for President. You're afraid of what MIGHT happen if John McCain dies or becomes incapacitated but you have no fear of Barack Obama RUNNING the country with 18 months experience?! When you cut through the smoke screen and evaluate the situation with wisdom, John McCain might not be such a good choice, but Senator Obama would be a catastrophe! Perhaps Barack could sit in the Senate a little longer and learn a few more things before pursuing his dreams. He might not be so bad in about 12 more years. I have no desire to allow amnesty to 12 million illegal aliens, pay for the health care of every American, pay more taxes, or delay off-shore drilling and alternative energy resources. If experience really matters here, please be intelligent and rethink your options.

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Debra, Tallahassee, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:58:12 GMT

Governor Palin has the same 24 hours each day that I and all the other women who run big and small businesses as well as maintain busy families have. She'll probably have a bigger staff and more help to keep things rolling. She'll do very well as VP. And we'll be darn lucky to have someone in the white house who can balance the checkbook.

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Jan, Merced, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:58:51 GMT

I am ashamed and disgusted at the fear-filled desperate attacks being levied against Sarah Palin! I am disgusted that other women seem to be leading the charge and that the attacks become more desperate as the days go on. I am ashamed that other women seem to believe that only liberal women can be accomplished in both their career and at home.

I am a conservative working mom. It wasn't our first choice, but it became a financial necessity.

I have been successful in my work, I have been promoted, I got my bachelors and masters degrees and am now in a management position. Our son served in the military for several years and is building his own family. We also took in a high school-age girl who had been abused by family members. She has also built a healthy/happy family.

I don't appreciate those who would second-guess my choices or my reasons for making those choices. I've heard the comments many have referred to here directed toward me. They are made by thoughtless people with no idea of the reasons behind the choices we made.

I wholeheartedly support Sarah Palin. She is human, a woman like me with good and not-so-perfect parts in her life. Through it all she has proven herself to be intelligent, character-filled and capable in her chosen field of work. She has also proved she is a loving, supportive and family-oriented wife and mother.

I don't see anything to criticize but rather something to celebrate. What I DO see are a alot of people displaying their fear and desperation over the possibility that McCain and Palin just might pull off a win in November. I, for one, am voting for just that result!

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Scott Learnahan Ono Ca. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:59:53 GMT

I think its a shame that the media keeps on talking about Mrs. Palins 17 year old daughter she is not the one who is running for VP. The only reason these kids are in the spot light is because the media put them there by going to their school, their home town, and asking all them silly questions of everybody. As Dr. Phil said today on the today show I hope the media leaves these kids alone and drops this subject. Everybody else on both sides of the isle has said the samething. So all I can do is hope that the president of NBC puts out the word to the NBC news media and the Today show to drop this subject and take these kids out of the spotlight. Lets spend more time on the politics of the race and not the kids.

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TWim, Birmingham AL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:59:57 GMT

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IslandWalker, Naples FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:06:49 GMT

No one has a right to judge another on how they manage the work/home life they have chosen or must, in some cases.
Put the soap boxes away. We have larger issues to deal with.
It's just so petty and quite frankly, caddy!

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Yolanda, Newport News, VA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:09:39 GMT

As a woman, I am truly insulted by the decision that John McCain made. Did he really pick some random woman (although she may be govenor, no one has ever heard of her until last week) to be VP in order to grab Clinton's votes? I truthfully believe that no woman, at least educated, is going to give a flying flip if the VP is a woman. Who cares? Do the republicans really think women voted for Hillary for the mere fact that she is a woman? Give me a break! I appreciate the fact that she is a mother of 5. That has nothing do with the fact that as the next in line as the VP, she has only had a US Passport for 2 years!!

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Sa'ada Abu Bakr, Portland, Oregon voter — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:09:49 GMT

YES! it would be an issue if a man were running instead! I would say how dare he leave his wife to cope with all of that. shopping, paying bills, doctor's appointments, school functions, cooking, cleaning, and, oh yeah, the children themselves. my fifth is almost three weeks old and all five of them need to see their father, talk to him, go places with him, eat dinner with him. not to mention the help and companionship i need from him. if my husband said he wanted to run for any national office or even hold any appointed national office i would vote no. you can have some of the things some of the time but contrary to popular belief you can't have all of the things all of the time. a large family with small kids and special needs, some time and a history making career another time. the Biblical teachings of moderation and everything in due time need to make a resurgence with the Christian right

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Rosemary, BAltimore, MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:11:20 GMT

FYI the other party was not a boy! He is a 30 year old man. Therrefore he should be in jail, this is child molestation so much for for the young man is going to marry Sarah Pailin's daughter, give me a break!! Imagine if all this was on the other ticket, this would be the end of the game, Hypocrites....
so much for family values from GOP, goes to show that McCain and his group were rushed into this decision, no vetting done at all and we can see the chain of lies growing each day.

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Sara Please, Corona, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:11:29 GMT

People, we are not talking about one or two but FOUR school age kids at home and one with a baby on the way. If the kids were all grown and she had an empty nest or nearly so, kids wouldn't be as much of a factor. I was shocked to see a VP pick with an infant. I raised 3 of my own to adulthood, leaving them with caregivers at 6 weeks to return to work fulltime. I know what I'm talking about here. That infant needs his mother for large periods of time on a daily basis. Picture this: Mom has to meet with the Russian PM while juggling a fussy baby. Ummmm, I don't think so. She's definitely a bright star on the Repub horizon, but if she were a woman of noble character and a Godly woman as she purports to be, she would wait a few years, take care of job one and pursue her globe-trotting ambitions in say, 2016 at the earliest. Her timing is way off. No one forced her to have all them babies.

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Maire, Seattle, WA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:11:52 GMT

Lets be fair!
Are we just making snap judgements about a 'female'and her role as wife, mother and domestic goddess? Yes, we did exactly the same to Hillary and other women. How about the snickering sign regarding Hillary's ability or willingness to iron her hubby's shirt! Amazing there were never any comments about a males ability to perform his 'job'.
Mrs S. Palin has to prove to us that she is qualified to be a stand in for the executive office of US President and be ready to assume the security of our country. Her disregard for her family privacy leaves me with the feeling that she is a loose cannon in our countries security. Her motto must be" Do as I say not as I do'.
On the other hand, Vice presidential choices by the Republican party have been disasterous-Quail and Agnew. I think change is not their strong suit!Thinking outside the box is a notion that evades them. Poor Mrs Palin is just another Rove ploy to get headlines and distract us. We are just fodder for their miss-information; ie,listen to 'W''s speech last evening- Iraq caused 9-11. Are we suffering from loss of hosest thought and memory? Let's not abort our reason and decision making ability, just to be lemmings of the 'good feeling and righteous' religious right.
Please vote for anyone except McCain.

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Dave, Columbus, oh — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:13:52 GMT

As a SAHDad with two girls, what is the matter with Todd Palin watching the kids??? Who needs a nanny? What's all the talk about the mother working? I took a back burner in my career to let my wife excell in her career. Maybe someone should interview Todd Palin instead of assuming Sarah HAS to watch over the kids.

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Anise NYC, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:14:57 GMT

This is not about her family, but about her politics. I would attack her politics. Her family to me is not important. Sorry, women but it just isn't. I have heard Andrea Mitchell ask how does a man attack her? Give me a break. Biden can attack her political history, she has so little. Just because she is a woman means nothing to me. She has chossen to be in the political arena at a national level. All bets are off. If the Hillary voters are going to vote for McCain because of Palin, then it was never about Hillary's fights, strengths and causes. It was all because she was a woman. What does it say about McCain if his choice is against everything that Hillary is for. Women reporters have to be careful because of one thing. You want equal pay for equal work, then it should be equal vetting if you are running in a national election. Just because you are a woman does not excuse you from the criticism. Yes, I am woman.

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Jenifer, Nashville, TN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:16:02 GMT

Sarah Palin was introduced by the McCain campaign as a "hockey mom." She then took the time in her stump speech to introduce her children and talk about her child on his way to Iraq, and her pro-life stance in regard to her youngest. If she doesn't want us talking about her parenting choices, then she shouldn't present her parenting choices as her political credentials. This opens her up to lots of perfectly fair questioning. The scrutiny that Obama, for example, is seeing is different precisely because he doesn't include time on the PTA and ability to run a large household as qualification for the most powerful position in the world - McCain surrogates are doing just that with Palin's family.

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Liz Moritz, Tuckerton, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:19:58 GMT

I've been involved in environmental issues and local politics for over 20 years. My reputation is similar to that of Sarah Palin. My husband had the BEST answer to this criticism. He was asked - why can't you keep her at home? His answer (you're gonna love this!...) Well, when she's on your back, she's off of mine!!!!!

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Glenn Gould, Walnut Creek, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:20:06 GMT

It was my wife, a working mother, not me who noted that it was a legitimate question to ask whether a mother with a 5-month old child with Down's Syndrome should be seeking an office with as intense a time demand as being vice-president. If the father is also working, it is clear that something has to give. Everybody can't have it all. At some point, the children have to come first.

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Henry Boyle, Kansas City, Missouri — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:21:46 GMT

it's always great to see hysterical liberals....

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Rosemary, Baltimore, MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:25:10 GMT

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Anthony, Tallahassee, FL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:25:18 GMT

There are a couple of things that people seem to missing:

1) Palin has a 4-month-old SPECIAL NEEDS CHILD, among 4 others. Her daughter is a minor and a new mother whom Palin is responsible for (in both the legal and maternal sense). This is far from the typical households of most working families.
2) Palin was the one who announced to the media that her daughter was pregnant to quell rumors about her own baby--so yes, she did "thrust" her daughter into the spotlight and put politics over the well-being of her family.
3) Palin is for abstinence-only education, which has been proven to be counter-productive. That's one of the main reasons why her daughter's pregnancy is applicable.
4) The talk of families having to take second/third jobs because of Obama's taxcuts is absolutely ridiculous. Even a modicum of research would show that unless you're making $600K+ per year your taxes will not be increased (in which case you don't really need another job, do you?)

In any case, the focus should be on:
- The flippant way in which McCain chose his VP (especially given McCain's medical history and age)
- Palin's wacko-conservative views (seems like women are just ignoring these)
- Palin's "executive experience"

"Country First"? What a joke.

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Coffeee Irvine CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:25:25 GMT

WOW !! Amazing ! McCain got what he wanted all of you are concerned about this VP Pick and her family .. He Nailed it ! What you should be concerned with is if she can run a country!! All of a Sudden experience is not needed Why you say? because McCain Team said so *Double Standards* Remember most of the the 18 months McCain Screamed *Experience* over and over again Now All they have to do is get Tutors for her .. I'm sorry you can say what you want here but the McCain Camp is not dealing with a full deck. You elect these people and you will get worst then what you are seeing in the White House now .. However, go ahead you gave Bush 4 more years and what happen !! So be dumb and do it again .. You will never learn until they actually come to your home and tell you to give them your entire paycheck.. It's a shame

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Martin Greene, Roswell, Georgia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:25:31 GMT

Thanks for the great discussion on this topic. If only John McCain and his Rovian handlers weren't totally manipulating this process to take the focus off the economy and his lack of answers on how to get it back on track by attempting to divide and define women right at their most vulnerable point. This is just the 2008 version of Willie Horton

Really, if this process of Obama's and McCain's to vet and pick running mates had been reviewed as projects in Donald Trump's "The Apprentice" boardroom, whom do you think would be getting in that taxi at the end of the show?

Let's all hope for the country's future, that this Hail Mary pass drops safely in the end zone.

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nesnej, chicago IL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:27:57 GMT

You have five kids? Unless they are adopted you are completely socially irresponsible. That fact alone should disqualify Palin from being VP. And no I am not a Democrat nor from the left, I just know we have too many people in this world already.

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Martin Greene, Roswell, Georgia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:29:40 GMT

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Jessica Dean — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:30:35 GMT

The point is this: ANY parent (male OR female)who willingly puts his/her pregnant 17 year old daughter through this kind of public scrutiny is a guilty of both bad parenting and being very selfish..

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Pam, Houston, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:30:40 GMT

Part of our job as parents is raise our children so that they will make responsible decisions. But the reality is that like us, they don't always do so. It then becomes our job to support them and love them through the consequences of their unwise decisions.

For me, setting your child up for world-wide scrutiny through what is a difficult and private time in the child's life is inexcusable.

I've been a widowed, working mom for 23 years now. I have never felt that the price for reaching my dreams is my children's well-being. Neither did I go into motherhood with the mindset of having a nanny to raise my kids.

Perhaps if we spent less time worrying about shattering the glass ceiling and more time on the quality of our lives and what's best for our children, we'd be raising a generation of children with better manners, respect for authority and less self-absorbed. I know, this kind of thinking makes me old-school.

One final note. Yes, her family should be off limits from the media. But Gov. Palin deserves no kid-glove handling because of her personal story. We all have a tough story. She decided to "run with the big dogs" and stepped into the ring willingly. So she doesn't deserve any softer treatment than any other candidate. Wasn't that what Women's Lib was all about?

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Mom of 5, kennesaw, ga — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:32:32 GMT

Why are people even questioning whether a woman can possibly perform the duties of the VP and still be a mom? She has a husband. Is it that they think men can't parent as well as a woman? Or is it that they have no idea about the daily role of VP?

As a mom of 5 myself, I resent an earlier post's derogative statement about 5 children being the equivalent to a "soccer team" of children. Just as she said 1 child was her family's "choice", families with many children have made other "choices", and there is no need to resort to such petty belittling.

FYI
According to the wikipedia website:
The formal powers and role of the vice president are limited by the Constitution to becoming President should the President become unable to serve (e.g. due to the death, resignation, or medical impairment of the President) and acting as the presiding officer of the U.S. Senate. As President of the Senate, the Vice President has two primary duties: to cast a vote in the event of a Senate deadlock and to preside over and certify the official vote count of the U.S. Electoral College.

The informal roles and functions of the Vice President depend on the specific relationship between the President and the Vice President, but often include drafter and spokesperson for the administration's policy, as an adviser to the president, as Chairman of the Board of the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA), as a Member of the board of the Smithsonian Institution, and as a symbol of American concern or support. Their influence in this role depends almost entirely on the characteristics of the particular administration.

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Cy — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:32:43 GMT

Abstinence and pro life are archaic ways of thinking, sex before marriage is perfectly normal and has happened for thousands of years. Religion getting mixed up in politics is what the repubs stand for. Religion has NO place in politics, that is how the middle east runs.

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Thomas Quartermont — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:35:07 GMT

Palin belongs back home with her PTA group, her small town politics,taking care of the local teams, and taking care of her home. I find all of the press on her worthless anyway, come November this will all be wasted breath. Trying to compare her experience to Barack Obama's in ridiculous. This is far too big an arena for her. McCain has shown just how far the GOP has fallen. Personally I am far more at ease now with her on the GOP ticket. Obama has smooth sailing from here.

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cattuslavandula — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:38:37 GMT

i couldn't care less about this woman's family life or the fact that she is a working mom. most women work these days, plenty of kids get pregnant.

what annoys me about the palin choice is that she wants to tell the rest of us how to live our lives and stand in judgement of us. she needs to get her own life under control before she presumes to thrust her beliefs on the population.

seems like palin is standing in a big glass igloo whipping stones at everyone. neither she nor the republicans have any room to complain when the rocks are thrown back.

on a side note, i do wonder about all those values voters who say they support the mccain ticket now that palin has been added. have they considered that palin is being used to pick up votes and secure the turnout of the base? and that maybe palin will be 'quayled' if mccain wins, attending funerals, doing appearances that cindy mccain doesn't want to do, and otherwise relegated to performing other non essential tasks? mccain will likely keep his current circle with him in the white house...which really does not include palin.

what a shame. palin is being used, the values voters are being used, again. ever play with a dog, pretend to throw the ball but really hide it behind your back?the dog will fall for this several times before it gets annoyed and walks off. look behind the candidate's back. he is faking people out.

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Tulsa, Ok — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:40:13 GMT

Would all you mothers get off your high horses. It is my right and duty to question the motivations/qualifications of any candidate running for highest office in the country. It is time for this country to get real about the state we're in and the future. It is not a question of Gov. Palin's responsibilities as a mother. It's not even a question of her being a woman. But I ask, WHY THIS WOMAN? As a 23 yr old woman myself I am outraged at the show of support on this page. Sure, Gov. Palin and her pregnant daughter do not deserve this scrutiny and I wouldn't wish it on anybody.... but I'm looking at the bigger issue here. This country is headed in the wrong path. I'm not about to elect someone simply because they are a good mother. Heck, I had the hardest working, caring, mother in the world who raised 2 very bright young women now 26 and 23 (and who as teenagers, never got into any trouble and graduated top of their classes). It can be done. I don't care what type of family situation this has found herself in. She is unqualified for this job and I am ashamed that these shortcomings are now taking a back seat to the ridiculous "scandals". Grow up America. Come on mothers out there. McCain knows exactly what he's doing here. We are brighter than this. After Sen Clinton's historic battle for the democratic nomination women are itching more than ever to break these boundaries. Now is not the time. Our country must come first. We can do better than Gov. Palin.

-Concerned citizen

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Dave, Columbus, oh — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:40:52 GMT

{The problem is not that she is a working mother - we all are. What bothers me is the image of her five month pregnant 17 year old hauling around her youngest while Gov Palin's husband stands there smiling happily. Isn't that his job? I think we all have a pretty good idea who is going to be raising that child while she's trying to be a good teenage mom to her own coming child. The seventeen year old who was thrown under the bus for her mother's vice presidential aspirations.
Carla, Colorado Springs, CO}

--Can't you see that was intentional to cover up the pregnancy of her daughter????? Hello.

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Judith Sato, San Jose, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:40:59 GMT

Let's look at her priorities: She has a 4 month old baby with Down's syndrome, a son in Iraq, and a pregnant teenager who is planning a wedding, and as Vice President - she would have to throw in the priority of Country. The GOP Convention slogan is Country First. That means her children will take third place (behind God and Country) - not sure where the husband will be in line for her attention. I don't think she has balanced her priorities very well so far. When will her son bond with her? She has also thrust her 17 year old daughter, the father of the baby and his family into the national spotlight. Did she ask them if that was okay? How much everyone in this picture has agreed to this is one question I'd like asked.

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G Lucas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:41:05 GMT

There are two reasons McCain picked Palin and one doesnot have to be a psychiatrist to see them. For one McCain is a grumpy old man who is really too old to be president. When he talks about Iraq he seem to be reliving America's humiliation in Vietnam. He talks in gradiose terms about never surrendering or giving up. I would wager that in the last couple of weeks, as support for his position on Irag has dwindled, he has come to realize that the world has somehow passed him by. What better way could he undo this perception than by by picking an inexperienced attractive woman ,young enough to be his daughter, to be his running? It is somewhat like the rich old geezer try to turn back the calender with a trophy wife. It doesn't work because no matter who he surrounds himself with he is still just that. Secondly, McCain has no real issues that are trending in his favor. He has to continuously attack Obama because he has nothing else substantive to say. His picking Palin is another example of him not having anything substantive to say. She has no resume worth noting. Remember, Alaska only has 640k people in the whole state. That is about the same size as medium sized city or suburb. What he did was grab some media coverage for a few days as another example of shouting loudly and saying nothing. I beleive that McCain is trying to run the clock out befor the American public realizes that the only thing he has going for himself is the fact that he was a prisoner of war. He does this without taking up the cause of the thousands POW/MIA's, by the way a serious oversight to those of us who served. This begs the question: Maybe if he had been a better pilot, he might not have been shot down in the first place!

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Charice, Oakland, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:41:43 GMT

I don't think anyone is attacking her morals. However, it is Sarah Palin who is a staunch cold Republican and who preaches abstinance, who refused to fund sex education in Alaskan schools. She's against Abortion, she has five children and one needs special attention. This is absurd and the Republican party talks about family values well some women need to be at home raising a special needs baby not child but a five month old baby.

Also to discredit Obama by saying Sarah Palin has more experience is absurd. She is the governor of a state with only 700,000 people and the Mayor of San Francisco is doing the same thing. She was also a mayor of a town with 7,000 people.

However, Obama has taken the high road as usual and asking the press not to even indulge in this type of rhetoric.

Also may I remind everyone that John F. Kennedy was only a Senator when he took office and also it's impossible not to know the facets in the Executive Office as a U. S. Senator as well as even an education can give you this.

Nothing personal but Sarah Palin only has a B. S. degree in Communication and Journalism at that.

I hope McCain loses!!

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Dennis Keith, Phoenix, Az — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:41:46 GMT

I just can not believe the spin I hear from the female media. Most all have children, state they work long hours and travel all over the world and make big money. They have us believe they have all the awnsers and knowledge but do not like it when we ask personnel questions of them. They want equality except when it does not agree with their own political opinions. Instead of saying go girl, they want to put her down and draw only on the negative side of the issues. There are a lot of women who have worked very hard at their jobs whether it be in executive positions or on the assembly line that have had to juggle work and home responsibilities. Families and friends seem to help most of the time if they can not afford day care or nannys. Please let us not attack her family.

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Suzette, Flagstaff, AZ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:45:01 GMT

The fact that she is a mother has NOTHING to do with the questions I have concerning her ethics, her politcal judgment, her stands on issues I care about, and her qualifications for being this nation's second in command. I really resent people who say she is qualified because she is a "mommy". I am a mommy: I know what is involved in it. I resent people who claim we, who ask questions, are being sexist, or too hard on her, or are just being bitchy women.

This is sexism at its worst.

I have been just as hard on every other person who said they wanted my vote, no matter what they packed in their jeans.

If we, as women are going to be taken seriously as people, as professionals, we need to get over this. Palin accepted her place in the Big Game. She needs to be able to take the attention - good and bad, that comes with it.

I disagree that a male VP candidate with a pregnant teen daughter would not generate the same attention, particularly if he was an advocate for abstenance only birth control.

News Flash: We live in a sensationalism loving culture. The difference is, no one would cry sexism because of it - THAT is what is causing this issue - the people claiming that poor Sarah is being picked on because she's a "girl".

Get over it, ladies. I am a girl. Nay - I am a WOMAN. I have been functioning in a male-dominated profession for over 20 years. I am a mommy, too. When my children were small, I found a way to work at home to give them as much as my time as I could. That was my choice, and I had a spouse who was right with me on it.

I have never used my children, or my ovaries, as an excuse. I have taken heat. I have put in long hours - both in the boardroom and the kitchen, and I never whimpered that people were being mean to me because I was a "girl".

Oh, BTW - I have been a card-holding Republican since 1978.

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Rawlings, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:45:36 GMT

I love and seriously believe in the competence of women. I have benefited immensely from their contribution and my two daughters will get the best my boys gets. But the only problem I have with Mrs Palin is on her beliefs. 1. Anti-abortion 2. Gun control. Is she saying that if a woman is raped and gets pregnant she should keep it because of her christain belief? Then why didnt she parent her girl to avoid pre-marital sex? Secondly, what is Mrs Palin teaching her supposedly christain children about carrying guns around? Hopefully, the more you believe in Gun the more you trust less in God. I think the whole thing amuses me. John McCain has been very critical of Obama on judgment and experience plus his country first slogan, but see how he has messed up everything by this single decision. I am left with tears and overnight Obama is getting everything right while Mccain is so desperate. Finally, how come Gov. Palin is putting this young woman through this spotlight just to satisfy her ambition?

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M. Bogard, Fullerton CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:45:59 GMT

I think Senator Palin would be a wonderful Vice President. I say who cares if her daughter is pregnant that doesn't have to do with me and my voting. It doesn't have to do with our country. I see the comments from othere people stating that she is puting her 17 year old daughter in the limelight with her pregnancy...Palin isn't doing that, the media is, shame on the media! Our country needs competent leaders. I know McCain and Palin would do a great job.

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James G, San Antonio, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:53:23 GMT

Why are you giving less coverage of the RNC Convention than you did the DNC Convention last week? During President Bush's address to the convention, why didn't you air the audio from the convention floor? Is it because you didn't want the viewing audience to hear the thunderous applause during his comments? Your bias is obvious and your agency should be embarrassed. I want to see all the speakers. Thank you.

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MaureenF — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:55:44 GMT

I have been a working single mom in the real estate industry for 15 years. It is difficult and exhausting to balance work and mothering. I think the media is creating the wedge - no mother wants to be excluded from opportunity because she brought children into the world. It shouldn't even be a topic for discussion. How she manages that balance is her business as long as she commits to it. What we should be questioning is her experience - city council and mayor of a tiny alaska town, then 20 months of experience as a governer with no campaigning previously for the candidate, no exposure to the natural vetting process provided by the fourth estate, probably no more than the 3 hours of interview she received last week??? Then to have the GOP say with a straight face that because of her 20 months as governer she has more experience than Obama and Biden???? - I question McCain's judgement and temperment on this pick - I think its purely political. If he wanted to pick a woman there were several who were on his list who were well qualified. I can't vote for McCain base on this reactionary and irrisponsible decision - and I was on the fence.

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Kathy Snitker, Big Lake AK — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:55:53 GMT

Sarah Palin is all mothers everywhere! Those who protest too loudly will bring questions in their directions. The old glass house routine.....but for the Grace of God there go I...
I'm sorry for all Alaskan women, that the few that were interviewed who had neg comments were simply looking for their own 15 min of fame. So let's put away the old SNL "church lady" routine, you don't have the clothes anyway....she would never have been caught dead wearing a ball cap.

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Mark H; Costa Mesa CA. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:56:09 GMT

It appears the people in the USA can't even agree on the time of day.

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Toni Bourlon, Warr Acres, OK — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:57:07 GMT

We women are our own worst enemies. I am skipping our annual trip to my in-laws for Thanksgiving this year, in part because my college-age daughter will be working and not able to go. I just hate for her to be here by herself. But I know if I went my in-laws would be all up in arms about this woman, and her pregnant daughter and new baby, and what a terrible mom she is. And we'll just end up in another fight about working moms. I am a working mom, and all this crap about what a terrible mom she is for choosing to run as VP when she's got a pregnant teen and a Downs baby just drive me crazy! And to think it's coming from women, no wonder Hillary lost!

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Donna Price, Milwaukee Wisconsin — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:58:30 GMT

There are some very valid arguments being discussed here. Full disclosure: I am a stay-at-home Mom who gave up a successful and lucrative career to be so. I did so because I did NOT WANT to be in the middle of the constant tug of war between job and family. To be clear, I COULD have if I had wanted to, and will if things change and I HAVE to. Just so you all are aware, this issue has been brought out and is being forced center stage by the Republicans. They want us distracted from the bigger issues that we are facing right now: War, Economy, Healthcare. You are discussing an important family issue that affects all of us with children or without. HOWEVER, it is not a campaign issue! If you want to stay home, do it. If you want to work and have kids, do it. Your ability to choose for yourself is not in jeopardy, (although some will argue that you getting paid equally is.) For those of us who have children, we know whether or not we are being good parents and we know if they are turning out okay. If we are proud of them and satisfied with our lives, then no one can take that away from us. Do not be distracted! The best thing we can all do right now is make sure we are debating and finding solutions to the real problems that affect us all!!!

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Marie Aberant, Los Lunas, New Mexico — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:59:52 GMT

I only know working mothers. My mom worked, I work and everyone I know that has children works. I am having difficulty with the whole argument that this is somehow an issue. What I do take issue with is that there have been other women, before Sarah Palin, who have “cracked the glass ceiling” who are not even being mentioned in this discussion. Ms. Palin is being treated as a person who is achieving something for the very first time. This is false. What about Shirley Chisholm, a black woman who ran for the presidency and was vilified? What about Geraldine Ferraro, who ran as Walter Mondale’s running mate, and was ACTUALLY the first woman on a national ticket for a major political party, who could have become president and was vilified and really attacked? What about Hillary Clinton, who ran a spectacular campaign and underwent considerable scrutiny and attacks, was vilified early in her career and stood toe to toe with several male candidates on a national stage? As I recall, all of these women were also working mothers, so what makes Ms. Palin’s experience so special—except the she is a republican? Frankly, I am disheartened by all the folks who are coming out in support of her who begin their sentences with “She is an amazing woman, a working mother…” then they express their opinions that “we” should not go into her personal life, or discuss her family. It really irritates me that folks are bringing it up, and making it a straw man (or woman, in this case) issue and then telling everyone else that it is off limits for discussion. If you don’t want it talked about, then quit using it as a selling point. Get real, get over it, and get on with it. John McCain made his choice for VP. It happens to be a woman with a family. Big deal. She is not the first, and won’t be the last. The bigger issues at stake in this country are being lost in the discussion of working mothers. Things like the economy, the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, oil and gas prices, the housing crisis, the credit crisis, etc… As a working mother, Ms. Palin’s motherhood or gender are not the issues for me. I am interested in her positions on the real issues.

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James, Huntsville, AL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:02:21 GMT

Got to love the religious zealot argument against Palin. I suppose this person didn't listen to Jeremiah Wright. He makes Palin look like a pagan.
Back on topic, did anyone ask Joe Biden to stay at home with his small kids when his wife and infant son were killed in an accident and he was left with two small children? He was sworn in by those surviving kid's hospital bed for heaven's sake. What else is telling is how quiet feminists are on this. If the feminists believe their own rhetoric they should be angry as anything at these attacks on Palin. The sheer bias of the media for Obama is just incredible. It's like what Pravda did for the old Soviet Union, demonize the opposition and glorify the party with Obama being the party here.

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Deb, Denver, Colorado — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:03:13 GMT

I'm a mother of two who works full time outside the home, but I am sick to death of the parents (both men and women) who put their career ahead of their family, neglect their children and then pat themselves on the back for having it all. Every weekend I have about three such children who practically live at my house because mom and dad have such "fulfilling lives." One of my daughter's friends has never had either parent attend any of her sports event. It makes me sick, and Palen is another example of how our society has accepted this this lousy, selfish parenting in the name of two career couples (I don't caer which parent is involved, or if is a team effort, but if neither person is willing to make children their top priority, don't have them.)

In addition, Palin holds typical Republican views on children. She says she loves babies, but acts as though they only matter as long as they are in the womb. She talked about being "chosen by God" to have a child with Down's, and then endangered his life by flying from Texas to Alaska after her water broke.

Then she returned to work three days later and based on the campaign schedule will spend little to time with the child. True parents make decisions based on family first. Being the superChristian she says she is she should be familiar with the proverb "To every time there is a season." but she certainly isn't living her life that way.

Now she is forcing her daughter to marry a self proclaimed uneducated redneck who states on his web page that he doesn't want children. I just heard that daddy-o has a DUI, which, if true, makes him a criminal(he's under 21) as well as a drunk. Great father material. Again, Palin is more concerned with the fetus that her daughter's well being.

I really don't care if people think I'm judgemental. I'm old enough to know that if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck.

Palin's a religous zealot (Can you say Pharisee?) a hypocrite and has a history of seriously bad judgement in terms of her family. Her political resume is so thin that this information is all we have on which to judge.

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Barbara Okeson, Kentucky — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:06:52 GMT

I think the media and all thoses that are involved in harassing this young women should be ashamed of themselves..There should be some kind of law in my opinion as to who the media can harass..Including a 17 year old girl for Gods sake..

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GeorgeB, California — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:06:53 GMT

Be a mom, be a politician, be successful. But DON'T lecture us.

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Karen, Crown Point, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:07:46 GMT

Regardless of whether or not you agree that Gov. (not senator) Palin is a good mother, and who is qualified to judge another person's family - the real point to be made is whether or not she is qualified to be our next VP! This country is broken in so many ways - war, health care, job loss, economy -just making it through each day has become an ordeal. The thought of Gov. Palin being one breath away from the oval office is enough to make me shudder. Doesn't matter that she is a woman - some of the male choices that were considered are in the same 'scarey' category. However, since being a woman and a working mother seems to have become the issue surrounding Palin, I can only hope (I will NOT say pray) that the real issues of ending the war, fixing the economy and presenting a workable health plan become the primary focus for voters and that the state of the country becomes more important than a glass ceiling, or race, or whether or not 'God' is on our side. We cannot have four more years of the 'status quo' and both Democrates and Republicans better figure out how to fix what is broke! For me personaly, I cannot and will not vote for McCain and whoever becomes his VP simply because of his platform. Hillary was my choice - and not because she was a female - and I now support Obama.

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Kay, Eufaula, OK — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:07:58 GMT

I don't have a problem with a women V.P., but Palin is no Hillary Clinton. After all, Palin has not paid her dues. I hope that the women of American are not going to hand this position over to Ms. Palin that easily. Importantly, it just "Scares the Hell" out of me to think that at American's most vulnarable moment that we would intrust the V. P. position to this unknown person. I think Ms. Palin has enough on her plate and I'm not sure if her multi-tasking skills in reality are up for the challenge. What in the world was John McCain thinking?

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Mary Anne Tillman — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:12:32 GMT

Nora O'Donnel has no right to continue to bring up Governor Palin's daughter. Her children are young - but she doesn't know what lies ahead in their future!!! Their is KHARMA!!! Senator Biden's daughter was arrested and it was treated as a private family matter by MSNBC. Nora is gloating about a young 17 year old's problems and it is pure evil.

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Sara, Rockville, MD — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:12:59 GMT

What hurts me the most is the message we send to our business leaders. If we say Sarah Palin can't do the job because she is a mother, it tells my (male) boss, that I can't do the job because I am a mother.

She has a husband, he can take care of the kids can't he? My husband does, and I work. Why isn't anyone asking what kind of father Barrack Obama will be? Who's going to take his kids to the doctor? Where will they live? Is his wife going to give up her job? Let's face it, the VP is not nearly as critical to the everyday job of running the country, as the president is.

Why in the 21st century do we still expect woman to bere the load of raising the children, while giving men a free pass?

And, for those of you who think, women can't "have it all" - you're wrong. I do. I work from home, 85% of the time, I have a great job in a fortune 50 comapny that gives me much professional satisfaction. However, I just ate lunch with my kids, and make the time to go to school events and meet with teachers. But, most importantly, I have a husband who supports me 150% and is my partner in raising our children.

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Christina, Scottsdale, AZ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:13:47 GMT

It surprises me that because Gov. Palin is a working mother people think she should have the support of all moms, working or not. I am all for women's rights but Gov. Palin sets woman back years in where she stands on policy. She doesn't stand up to the good ol'boy network, she is the good ol'boy network. She is not Hilary Clinton and woman who supported Hilary should be offended by McCain's pick of Palin. Clearly a pick to get women's votes. This was not a Country First pick this was a Campaign First pick.
The comments I am hearing from working mothers is amazing. We are not talking about any job here we are talking about Vice President of the United States of America a position that could eventually put her in as the leader of the free world should anything happen to McCain. I don't think this "working mom" job allows room for sharing sick days and field trips with her husband.
I am all for a woman VP and even President however it needs to be the right woman. Not a woman that has chosen to have 5 children, an infant with downs and chosen to help raise her grandchild. McCain's campaign is to put Country First. Aren't we as moms supposed to put Family First. I don't see how Gov. Palin is putting Family First here. She is being selfish by putting herself and her career ahead of her family in order to break a glass ceiling.

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George D Lake Oswego OR — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:13:50 GMT

First off, let's not promote the Gov to Senator here, folks. SHE IS A GOVERNOR.

Would somebody please QUOTE, you know, PROVE, that there is an effing 'Mommy War' going on? Just one quote showing ANYBODY in the Obama campaign or in the media saying the Gov can't be VP and be a mother. Anybody?

You can't. This pack of lies the GOP is spewing about the blogosphere making things up about Gov is BS. All you have to do is go to the Anchorage or Fairbanks newspaper and read articles from months or weeks before the nomination to find the SOURCE of the questions about Gov Palin's pregnancy. IT'S IN THE FRIGGING NEWSPAPER! Doesn't make it true, but THAT is the source. There is also much stuff about her almost being recalled as mayor, the ethics investigation, her lies about being anti ear marks, etc, etc. But in the end it is not about Gov Palin. She is a symptom. A symptom of the lack of judgement of McCain. It also shows that his advisors & staff are NOT ready to become a White House Administration. Please don't lose sight of what is important. This is the first big decision of a Pres candidate and McCain blew it.

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Caroline — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:14:42 GMT

You all are falling right into the trap the Republicans were hoping for. They have nothing to offer on the issues. McCain is for pretty much leaving things the way they are, but polls show the country wants to go in a different direction. So what do they do? They dangle a shiney (Palin) object in front of you, and let you all fight over non issues like mommy wars and children out of wedlock. Keep it up and we'll be swearing in a 72 year old Bush Jr. with a second in command that holds a BA in journalism.

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Bob, Santa Rosa, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:15:46 GMT

It sad that if you believe strongly in a particular faith that you are called a religious zealot. Please keep in mind that she was speaking to a Christian School. Of course she will speak about God, and she should. This was not a political speech.

Besides that issue, secularist, humanist, and darwinist push their religion on the masses. THEY are the zealots that cannot accept someone else's belief accept their own. They are blinded by their own ignorance.

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Claire, Ashburn, VA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:16:12 GMT

If Sarah Palin were a man with a 17-year-old pregnant daughter and a 4-month-old son with Down Syndrome, I would question why his dedication to his career seemed to be greater than that to his family. End of story.

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Cindy, Wood Ridge, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:18:38 GMT

All of you who keep mentioning that Ms. Palin has more executive experience than Mr. Obama need to get your perspectives checked. Ms. Palin was a city councilwoman and mayor for a town of less than 10,000 people. She has been the governor of one of the least populated states in the union (670,000) for less than 2 years. Mr. Obama has spent 8 years in the Illinois State Senate and about the same amount of time that Ms. Palin has been a governor, Mr. Obama has been in the US. Senate -- thats experience on the national level, for those of you who aren't sure. Saying Ms. Palin has more experience is like saying "you drove a big wheel for a year right? ok, you can drive my car better than someone who has an actual driver's license." You same people were fooled by Mssrs Bush, Cheney, Rove, etc. for 8 loooooong years. Lord help you if you get fooled again.

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Noel Mick, Bronxville, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:20:26 GMT

First of all -- Sarah Palin is a Governor not a Senator and I think that if people are going to write about her they should at least know who they are talking about. Secondly, I think that it is very hypocritical for people who have been discriminating against working mothers all these years as being less than dedicated to their children and putting career before family as opposed to just wanting to earn enough to raise a family to now be the champions of Sarah Palin. Now the family-value right-wingers are serving up big plates of double-speak. I guess now the party line is what is good for Sara and her daughter is good for all women in this country. I do have one question for the VP nominee however...now that Bristol Palin is in the national spotlight as a poster girl for teenage pregnancy...what does she advise that I tell my 11-year-old daughter in terms of making the right choices? I think children having children and raising children is a very big burden and not necessarily a cause for celebration. If Senator McCain thinks that women in this country are so easily swayed by his "bait and switch" game and that Sarah Palin who has absolutely nothing in common with Hillary Clinton will garner the same voters -- he is insulting every voter in this country, not just the women voters. His selection of VP in terms of qualifications tells me that he doesn't think much of the position or the candidate he is asking to fill the job. And in terms of him finding a soul mate....I thought that was his wife.

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Jan, Indiana — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:21:57 GMT

I have never in my life heard such garbage as some of the things spouted in this blog. It makes me sick to think that there are women in our country that still believes a woman's place is either in her husband's bed or in the kitchen. Stupidity speaks!

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Rick Goldin — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:28:12 GMT

OK ... this one is pretty simple, folks. It doesn't make any difference if the nominee were a man or a woman. The choice of Sarah Palin was a HORRIBLE mistake. What makes it worse is that it IS a woman ... someone who most of us honestly believes is closer and more deeply tied to family ... especially to their daughters and what they're going through in their lives. What's so horrible about all this is the FACT that Palin chooses to breeze right past all that as she accepts the nomination for Vice President of the United States. I suppose John Edwards might have done the same. After all, what's a little infidelity? Come on, folks ... she had a child at 44 while in office, she chose to give a speech, ride a plane for 8 hours and take a car ride for another hour after leaking amniotic fluid, she didn't give anyone the heads up about her pregnant daughter, Toorpergate, and now this mess about sexism? Would anyone with any real desire at all to see the RNC prevail have jumped up into the fray? I don't think so. This shows so many weaknesses on McCain's and on her behalf it's silly. Or, it would be if it weren't so, so sad. Sexism has nothing to do with it. It's a MESS and uncle John stepped right off in it ... all by himself. I guess that is guts for 'ya ... If you really want something to scream about, how 'bout this one ... Sure they aren't both true blondes?

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Vince — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:29:11 GMT

I have no problems with Sarah Palin having 5 kids and wanting to be a working mom. More power to her. What I do not like about her is her sheer hypocrisy. Republicans such as Sarah Palin have made it a habit of forcing their so called "family values" down the throats of American. She has been a ardent supporter of "Abstinence Only" programs in School, but for all that talk about upholding family values and high morals, how did she then end up with an unmarried pregnant teenage daughter. That is the real question??To me it says that Sarah Palin failed as a parent, and more importantly as a Governor, her policy of "Abstinence Only" is a failure (just like the ideologically driven failed policies of Bush). There are far better qualified women in the Republican Party than Sarah Palin. McCain is desperate and willing to gamble with the country's future to further his own interests.

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Dawn Spencer — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:29:28 GMT

I think its up to the individual what they want to do. I was a single mother of two and I worked very hard to make sure that my children had everything that was necessary.Then came along this gentleman you know the kind you pray for,and ask me to stop working and I couldnt stop solely because he asked.I had been an independent women all my adult years and I couldnt visualize not working,and by that time my children were just about out of high school.I was accustomed to working and coming home cooking,cleaning,ironig,ect..,
So I believe a woman is capable of doing anything that she put her mind to whether its working on a car or working or a budget for the state of Alaska,because I dont think she is ready to lead this nation.

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ALM — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:30:05 GMT

I agree with most that the issue should not be about her daughter but if you agree with her for V.P. of the United States. I am no longer of the child bearing age but I tell you all that I would not want no woman or man telling me that I can not make the decision to end a pregnancy if that is what I want to do. How long did women fight for this right and now electing a "person" into office who could make the decision of a Supreme Court Justice who would do just that makes me crazy. Abstinence is such a nice thought but what world is she (they)living in. Another thing that bothers me is that I wonder how many adopted children or foster children do these people against "choice" have in there homes? How many abused children do they go to see in hospitals and homes during the week? I bet that the percentage is low but they want to tell you how to live your life. Seeing her with that assault weapon also sent chills down my back. What kind of image is that to be flashing across the country - across the world? Not very appealing.

John McCain did not thoroughly investigate her and that is evident. So now information is becoming available to voters and we should continue to take all that we learn and realize what type of decision maker he really is. So far not so good.

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Vicki Walker, Eureka CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:32:08 GMT

I think Sarah Palin adds a new dimension to the higher-level politics. The fact that she's a working mom with 5 kids goes to show balancing it all (not having it all)is the key. As a working mom myself, we often wrestle with the "can we have it all" attitude. Which is better (or worse), the Working Mom who sometimes misses the field trip or the Helicopter Mom who can't let go?! I am cheering for Sarah Palin. I wish her and her family all the best through this next chapter of her life. I think that what really seems to floor people about this whole selection by McCain, is that nobody knew ahead of time. Brilliant.

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Jason, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:32:53 GMT

The simple fact is that this woman who is effectively unknown in most aspects will have immediate access to America's National Security Secrets, will be briefed each day and be privy to the Presidential Daily Brief (pdb), one of the most sensitive documents produced by our country, and will have the authority to declassify these secrets. What about her and her background can provide us any assurance that she is up to the challenge to protect national security. It turns out that even Gonzalez, and even previous CIA Directors were incapable of managing and handling sensitive documents and information despite decades of previous training. There is no way with this candidate for the nation or its leadership to be persuaded that she is tested and sufficiently capable to be given these golden keys to our kingdom. Her nomination is a breach of our security, and the media needs to focus on this aspect of her role as VP.

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Jill C. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:34:32 GMT

EXCUSE ME, but the person who first brought up Sarah Palin's role as a mother was John McCain, in his introduction of her: "People are going to love her when they get to know her, and she's the mother of 5 children." When you put someone up on the mommy pedestal you had better be sure she belongs there. And when you want to praise someone for going ahead and having a special needs child, you'd better be able to answer the question, "Who is going to raise this child and help him with his many challenges while his MOTHER is helping to run our country." John McCain brought her role as a mother to the forefront, not the media.

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Mad at the Double Standard — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:35:00 GMT

I just don't get it.. When its a teenage black or hispanic girl everyone has a field day with how poor her choices were and how her household must have been broken or her parents didn't raise her right and so on and so on.. Its comically amazing to see all this sudden support and demands to back off now that its a teenage white girl. What type of double standard is that??

I'm just saying....

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JohnWinNC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:35:41 GMT

As Obama and Biden have both pointed out, family matters are not political fodder. I am more disappointed in McCain's choice of Clinton's mirror image, not someone who has promoted women's issues her whole life, but a female version of a male TV evangelist.

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Michael C.- Irving, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:38:06 GMT

I hope Sarah Palin is the (Washington and lobbyist) untainted, uncorrupted, courageous politician that I think she might be. If so, she is the type of person we need at the top leadership spots in the nation to hopefully break the deadlock of congress and get something done for this great country. Improvements in healthcare, child care, taxes reform, etc. will help ALL of the country's children.

If this means she has to sacrifice the quality of her home and family life to serve, then so be it. It will be a noble sacrifice. I have served in Iraq with outstanding women (mothers and grandmothers)that have sacrificed their personal and family life to serve this country. Nobody has been calling them bad mothers. Its all about personal sacrifice for the public good and if Sarah Palin is willing to make it then she is to be admired!!!

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Columbus, Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:38:53 GMT

Regarding the Palin pregnancy...the media continues to link it to 'abstinence only' education. While that may be one factor, there are other factors ignored by the media, one (a huge one) of which is the MEDIA'S glorification of teen sex and the pregnancies of single celebrities.
Most parents will probably tell you that it's harder to raise kids today because the media sees "crossing the line" as "pushing the envelope" (a good thing in their eyes).
Media personalities pride themselves on being "nonjudgmental" and attempt to prove it by glorifying sexual activity and sexualizing kids at increasingly younger ages.

The media also takes pride in playing the watchdog role, but who is watching the media? The answer is: the public. And they don't like what they see.

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anorth, san antonia, texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:40:12 GMT

The position as Vice President of America is not to be compared to the every day executive position that many women hold.
This is not a "promotion" for work well done but whether or not this women is properly qualified to govern at the executive level necessary to take care of surmounting issues. One of those being, as ironical as it is, "TEEN pregnancy" in America.
I could care less that some woman choose to have 5 kids and also a 17 year old who is pregnant (getting pregnant at 16 - isn't that rape in some states?) BUT as the V.P. of America it does matter in every single aspect.
What kind of message are we sending out to our children and to the world?
SHE IS NOT THE EXAMPLE OF WHAT AMERICA IS ABOUT nor are her family values.
I do not want a women that is "promoting" TEEN PREGNANCY in this 21st century to be in our White House.
I do not want a woman who puts her family second to her own political ego and agenda.
Again, this isn't a regular job but one that has high security affairs, international dealings, and a commitment to the American public.
I do not want a woman in office that honestly can not make this her number one priority.
She can not juggle her 5 children, grand-child and be an effective 100% governing official as we need that person to be (wait another 20 years when all of your chidren are adults).
I do not want a woman that has not even completed a full-term as Governor (and I do hope that something is changed so that in the future this does not happen again) to be appointed to this position.
It is a very sad day for our political process because "gender" is attempting to used as the key political pawn by McCain.
If she were a man this would NOT even be happening.
It doesn't matter to me what either McCain or his V.P. say or promise at this point, I have lost respect for both people.
Alike does attract alike; for neither care about anything other than getting elected especially considering that the "teen pregnancy ordeal" was a known fact (which is an even greater concern).
Why would anyone in this country want these two to be overseeing and creating legislation for the American people while also going forth internationally?
It is disturbing and sad for women across America because she is not the American ideal.
I want the right individual as President and V.P. "not based on gender" but based on individuals who will fight for our freedoms and the daunting issues that face us (including 'teen pregnancy' and our deficit and the wars we are bank-rolling).
I am amazed at the way the Republicans are towing the line for McCain's hypocritical charade.....
He doesn't even hold her 'values' on very serious issues but he has nominated her???
That is what most people don't even know?
PEOPLE please - especially women - do your research.
All women, please remember that there were many, many, many women that came before who suffered for our rights.
The Republican party would like nothing greater than to take our individual freedom to choose away from women....government has no business in our personal lives.
This woman does not represent the "American" woman or our American values of living in a free country but instead, just her own.
Another very important reason why she does not deserve to be in the White House.

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Ellie, Las Vegas, NV — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:40:53 GMT

Yes, Sarah Palin, is the mother of five, one a special needs infant and a pregnant 17 year old daughter. At this particular time, she should be giving her undivided attention to this family and defer any run for the VP or President for 20 years. She has plenty of time. Furthermore, with her concern for privacy, why in the world would she parade Bristol and her boyfriend on the world stage for all to see and scrutiniez. Yes, these things happen to everyone, but the truth of the matter is, that when you opt to put yourself and your family in the limelight, you become models for the rest of the world - like it or not. For parents trying to instill values in their young daughters, what kind of example does this set? Keep it behind closed doors please. This whole scenario is hypocritical.

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Robert, Greenbelt, Maryland — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:41:32 GMT

Ok I understand that children should be off limits to such scrutiny. When will the daughter be 18? We can all pile back on then. The boyfriend is 18 (Adult). His myspace page says he doesn't want kids. The repukabens need to understand that they can't run a nasty campaign and expect it not to come back on them.

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Lisa, Painesville Twp. , Ohio — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:43:35 GMT

I would say that we citizens are asking if she had been vetted throughly. It's my understanding that she met with McCain's staff once and only the day before the announcement was made. I think the decision to choose Gov. Palin was either because others in the Republican Party were not pleased with the choice Sen. McCain wanted to make or it was a very hasty decision to try to get the female vote.
Either way it sure did get everyone's attention!

As for the media's response to her and her family, I must say that both McCain and Palin had to know that with little national knowledge of her and her record there was going to be quite a bit of digging into her life including her private life. We've this seen done to almost every candidate, Democrat and Republican, and everytime we end up being sidetracked from the HUGE issues we face!!

I wonder if the McCain team would rather be talking about this or the last 8 years?

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ge`pennsylvania — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:47:06 GMT

Since one poster stated `Not once out of all these replies has anyone of you said "yeah I see your point and I agree with you. == Well I am saying I agree with Susan, Florida (sent Sept. 3, `08 1:44pm) Even though she is a republican, she is going to vote for Obama because when Mccain was asked in a Debate if he knew now about the WMD would he have change his vote for the Iraq invasion he answered "No I would still vote for it. She said that should scare the beegeezers out of all of you--> And Yes it does scare the beegeezers out of me..And ALOT of things about Palin scares the beegeezers out of me too.

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Gi, Fort Worth, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:50:02 GMT

I found it particularly amusing that one of the earlier comments referred to "Senator" Palin. Nobody knows who this woman is, yet they jump to her defense because she's a woman? Please.

As a single, disabled, mother of a special needs teenager, it is hard for me to decide which aspect of this debacle is most offensive.

John McCain ALWAYS introduces her as a mother of 5 withinthe first 60 seconds. He has made motherhood one of her primary qualifications, and as such, opened the international floor to debate said qualifications.

She has been the mother of a special needs child for 4 months, I've done it for 16 years. No matter how much my son's illnesses have caused him to suffer, Republican red tape has made it infinitely harder. Just wait until her son is in need and she runs face first into her own party. Has anyone heard her promise to improve the plight of the disabled in this country now that she is vested?

Have any of you proud working moms ever tried to get on an airplane after your 7th month? Yet her best "judgement" was to fly from Texas to Alaska while in labor. Now having only one child, I may not be the expert but don't 5th babies come pretty quick?

John McCain has made her mothering a national issue. He can't have it both ways. If it qualifies her to be VP (or God forbid President)then her poor judgement in this speciality also diqualifies her.

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Carol McFarlane, Yakima, WA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:50:26 GMT

What I find interesting in all of this is that when Obama was being attacked horribly for his pastor's words, no one was 'backing off' for any reason whatsoever! Why should anyone back off a particular criticism for any reason for Ms. Palin? I find that an unequal expectation. People are interested in all aspects of a candidate's life - be it religion, cultural background, home life, you name it. If they can skewer Barack Obama or democratic candidates, then they may do the same with other candidates and other parties.

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J. Kingling — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:51:11 GMT

I think she should not have accepted the VP candidate position for two reasons:

One - Down Syndrome babies have medical problems at a higher rate than other babies early on. Most are born with a heart condition. That baby needs both his parents.

Two - To throw her daughter and now the father of the unborn child into the national media spotlight is cruel. These two had enough pressures. And, I wonder if they feel pressure to get married at 17 & 18 - so young.

It's ironic that an evangelistic anti-sex education mother has a child having a child. No one should be denied the knowledge that can save his or her life -sex education is not just about preventing pregnancy - it' also about preventing STDs, such as HIV / AIDS. No one has the right to deny that knowledge to another person (mother or not).

I worry about McCain's judgment - for no one can be properly vetted if all they learned was from the person herself the day before accepting the job. She is quite a lightweight, and she does not put her children first.

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Debbie, Saratoga, California — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:51:39 GMT

I have no problem with Palin, a working mother, with a large assortment of children to raise. What I do have a problem with is her INEXPERIENCE for the VP position, knowing that McCain is old and has a history with cancer...yes, she is only a heartbeat away from the title of PRESIDENT. This is a woman with a resume that does not qualify her to take on our nation's GREAT problems, nor the complicated and serious troubles all over the world.

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Timothy King, Huntington Station, NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:52:06 GMT

Anyone happen to know if Karl Rove was in on this? Just curious, when was last time he was in Alaska. Almost cannot believe that he was the Vet(ter).

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nasm — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:54:43 GMT

I don't care how many chidren etc. I do care about here core values which reflect who she is and how she would govern. I disagree with all of them and strongly believe in seperation of church and state. This has nothing to do with her 'family'. The issue is how long is America going to be run by the hypocr1sy of the christian right

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Diana, Pittsburgh, PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:55:29 GMT

Please keep to the specifics of Gov. Palin's situation. It isn't about working women in general. The VP of the United States is NOT your average 40 hour per week job!! This is about a 24 hour a day position that would consume one's mind, body and emotions and a mother with a newborn infant. At least give the child the first year or two. It's not sexist or against women to ask if it's fair to a 4 month old infant to be away from his mom for such extended periods of time. The first year of development is critical, especially for a child with special needs. As far as the seventeen year old daughter, it's heartening to see the example of loyalty, love and support that the Palin Family are giving their daughter. A seventeen year old may need her mother at this time, yet it is not as critical or as valid a discussion as the newborn and how that life situation might impact one's desire/ability to be an effective VP or President. Is it fair the Gov. Palin's newborn son? Is it fair to the Country? Both are valid questions... Given this choice, how will John McCain pick his Cabinet Members? Lottery? I spend more time interviewing babysitters or boys asking out my 16 year old daughter than John McCain spent interviewing Gov. Palin... Then again, "Hey, It's only the Presidency!"

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leeann, seattle, wa — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:02:58 GMT

I find it odd that the same people (women especially) that belittled Hillary for working and saying it "takes a village" now seem to think it is just fine because it pertains to one of their own. The fact she is working and has children is not the point - we deserve to know all about ANYONE who could possibly hold the highest office in this country. We know everything there is to know about the democrats and I expect the exact same for the republicans.

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CL, California — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:04:40 GMT

I think that Gov. Palin and husband don't know what they are up against having a child with special needs, but they will soon find out enough on their own. I would say they probably have help anyways and someone who is not in the spotlight! And what about Hillary? We didn't question her running for President! Are we worried that Gov. Palin may actually become President?? After all, the Vice-President seems to get lost in woodworks once they are in office, unless they are illiterate like Quayle!!

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Christina, Dodge City, KS — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:07:53 GMT

Seriously, ladies....what gives? Is all of the bickering and the mud-slinging towards Governor Palin out of jealousy? So she's a SUCCESSFUL working mom!! Many successful working moms have SUPPORTIVE husbands backing them up and helping out at home. Even if Governor Palin or her husband were "helicopter parents," there would be absolutely NO WAY they could monitor their daughter 24-7. I, in no way, fault Governor Palin for her choice to accept the VP nomination: I APPLAUD HER!

The double-standards that some of these working women who are attacking Palin with are absurd. These same women scream for equal rights in the workplace. Equal pay. Equal opportunities. Then, when one of their own goes for the 2nd highest office in the nation, they attack with anger, disbelief, and hatred. Exactly like some MEN have treated working women for YEARS.

I used to be a working mom...in a sense, I still am. I work from home, working for 2 employers 85 miles away. I am head-room mom for my children's school. I help run the music at the school and at work. I volunteer with girl scouts, local music groups, and at my church. I work just as much as I used to in the office except now I don't get paid for most of it. I am successful because of the support of my husband...we are a team. Don't automatically assume that Governor Palin's husband is in some dark hole somewhere without the ability to help run the family, too.

Everyone (ESPECIALLY THE MEDIA...ALL THE MAJOR NETWORKS) needs to focus on Governor Palin's credentials. Her abilities. Her drive. Her record as an executive officer. Everything that is required of a public official. The news that her daughter is pregnant is irrelevant...if anything: it makes Governor Palin a HUMAN BEING. A hard-working parent who has the same problems most of America has. She's a real person. I applaud her for having the guts to stand up and be unapologetic to most of you. How do you know that she's "abandoned" her young infant? How do you know she didn't have a "cot" in her own office for him? As a devout Catholic, I'm proud to see that she's supportive of her family and embraces the family values and moral life decisions that I do. Break that glass ceiling, Sarah!! Those of us with common sense are behind you 100%!

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Pamela Monk — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:08:02 GMT

I think everyone is missing the point. Governor Palin is a creationist,who doubts that humans are causing climate change, who believes that (unless I've misheard) a 12 year old raped by her father should bring a baby to term, that the war in Iraq is a holy war, fought with God's blessing. I also understand that's she's voted against funding for unwed mothers. Those are the issues that should be discussed and broadcast. That's what we should be talking about. Is this the kind of person we want running the national government?

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JM, Philadelphia, PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:09:03 GMT

Deciding who to vote for just got harder! I do not like McCain's Veep choice. I could care less that his choice happens to be a woman. I just don't feel Gov. Palin has enough experience to be VP. Should something happen to McCain she surely IS NOT qualified to lead this country. The problem is that Obama right from the get go is also not qualifed to "lead" this country. Sure he can be the president, geez I can think of a bunch of great folks that can be president, but, can they be leaders? This country is in serious need of a leader that can look ahead and see the big picture. Bush couldn't do it. Is it too much to ask for a great leader to step up and lead a great country. McCain/Palin vs. Obama/Biden just doesn't offer much hope.

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Anita — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:10:14 GMT

I am outraged. Single parent, this woman hasn't impressed me as a person that has any communication with her girls. She hasn't had time. We teach our children marriage before sex. We teach them safe sex. If she wasn't power hungry she would have turned down the offer. If she cared about her family, she would not have exposed them to all of this attention. I feel sorry for her 17 year old. I am not at all impressed or swayed. Where did she attend college? She hasn't earned the right to be an example for me or my daughter. This is absolutely insulting and anyone that thinks this is cool is no better than she is as a parent. I would be impressed if she has balanced her family life and EARNED the position rather than allowing someone to use her and her family to win an election. There are a lot of us that work extremely had to raise our children, communicate with them. Her child is a poster child for unwed mothers, so it's okay to get pregnant at seventeen? Is this the message we are suspose to send our children? I don't think so.

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Erik Chester,Pa — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:11:15 GMT

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cher, las cruces,nm — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:11:16 GMT

If she where a member of the other party all her issues whould boil down to the lack of moral values. Where is the republican right wings voice now--supporting unwed mothers? Really it is not the issue we vote for the person not the problems their family brings them. And for once the Repblicans MAY?? really get it, or perhaps they just want to keep power and pass it on to oil of course.

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boston — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:12:21 GMT

not trying to be mean but does anyone ever noticed that Gov. Pallin is never holding the 4 month old.. Usually one of the girls is holding the baby...

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Jane Lewis Boulder Colorado — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:12:57 GMT

It is Sarah Palins "CHOICE" to accept the offer to try to advance her political career in the demanding position of VP of United States. It is her "CHOICE" to put her pregnant Daughter out on a stage and in front of the media (I would have never done that to my daughter - especially a teenager and pregnant) She is the sacrificial lamb, now let's add Levi in there - That was HER CHOICE to talk the talk - not allowing Sex Education in the schools, possibly they didn't talk about it at home either, Kids have sex - wake up America - and Bryce - it was HER CHOICE to have sex, and now HER CHOICE to have her baby. CHOICE CHOICE CHOICE - Sex is one of the most natural human activities - it happens, by CHOICE. Her daughter made a CHOICE as well to indulge. DO we think that possibly she is taking the position to HELP McCAIN get elected and then a few months down the road - backs out due to FAMILY OBLIGATIONS - oh, yes - she made a CHOICE to have s Down Symdrome Baby - and now to leave that baby to pursue her career - HER CHOICE. Funny how she wants to TAKE MY CHOICE AWAY. I would never support her or McCain or any party that would consider taking away my CHOICE.

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Lynette, Northfield MN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:13:28 GMT

Feminism is about choices. I don't walk in her shoes so I will never judge her choices. I'm just happy for her that she has choices. That doesn't influence my vote. However, she is anti-abortion under any circumstances, anti-science (humans don't contribute to global warming???) anti-life saving research (stem cell research)and she thinks creationism should be taught in schools. Wrong on every count and wrong for America. This is the 21st century. Try to keep up. Because I do expect that from a vice-president.

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Nancy Philadelphia PA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:16:16 GMT

Actually it is Palin's repressive social views that would set women back 100 years. Her lack of support for anything other than abstinence only sex education and her obvious dereliction of parenting in not providing it at home have resulted in the pregnancy of her 17 year old daughter. Her vehemently anti-choice views even in the case of rape and incest are appalling and will take us back to the days of dirty rooms and wire coat hangers. Calling women bitches on a public radio show is very very mature and harkens well for her ability to lead.

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Dr. Ron Nelms, Breckenridge, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:17:05 GMT

Only one of all of the bloggers above is talking about the real significant issue. "ge`pennsylvania" noted that the real problem for this country that Palin brings to the VP position is her fanatic religious beliefs. If anyone doubts this, please copy: http://firstread.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2008/09/02/1327574.aspx and paste this into your browsers address slot. You will get an article explaining her fanatic views and be referred to a source where you can pull up the exact video of Sarah Palin speaking to a group of students at her Assembly of God Church. If this is what you want making executive decisions based on her religious beliefs, then you deserve just what you'll get. She will make Bush look level-headed.

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Adrianna M., Miami, Florida — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:18:22 GMT

I think that there is a political and gender double standard. For the Republican Party to complain about the critism Palin is receiving because she is a mother and a woman is outrageous. This is the same party that has tried to control women's rights to control their own bodies and have always touted themselves as the MORAL Party. The truth of the matter is that Palin as well as so many Republican politicians, have talked a big talk, but live a totally different standard in real life. Hillary Clinton has had to take nonstop, mean spirited attacks most of her political career. I've never heard anyone say "Poor Hillary, they are just picking on her and she's doing the best she can." Why because she is democrate? Because she only has one child? The truth of the matter is Palin may be a great governor (most of us have never heard of her), but is she the right person to be second in line the PRESIDENCY of the United States? We don't know much about her and her political positions on the issues that are affecting our country. So she's a working mom....big deal so are so many women in this country. The question is, is she the right PERSON for this position and I don't believe so. The Republicans have selected her for one reason only.......to get the female vote from OBAMA. To make women feel bad if they vote for OBAMA and not another woman. We can't fall for this, do they think we are STUPID?

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Shangar Nandra, Hillsborough, NJ — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:18:58 GMT

It is a shear hypocrisy on the part of the Republicans to almost sound like holding the moral high ground in defending a pregnant teenager who happens to be a daughter of the presumptive VP Sarah Palin. If elected what example would we be setting the world that it is ok for teenage girls to get pregnant? Most of the world believes that such things only happen in dysfunctional families where the parents fail to keep track of their children. I feel sorry for the fifth child born with a disability, if the Palin parents would be able to provide sufficient attention.

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E Edwards — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:23:43 GMT

I'm childless and voting for Obama, but this ridiculous arguing over how other women spend thier personal lives has got to stop. It diminishes us all and makes us sound like a bunch of pre-teen busybodies. Please, let's stick to the issues of government spending, foreign relations, immigration, education, health care reform, the banking industry, etc. Oh yes, and women's reproductive rights. Let's see how she fares when faced with these topics.

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Retired teacher & mom, Scottsbluff, NE — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:27:32 GMT

There is a lot of difference between a working mom like most of us and the Vice-President of the United States. By the nature of the job, family would NOT come before country. I think Palin needs to take a reality check.

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Bria, Durham, NC — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:31:00 GMT

The mommy thing and work...a real non-issue for me. I have managed to do work, be a mom and a wife for years. In fact, women have "worked and maintained the home" for ages and it remains a thankless job. We still have to get up each morning, get over the unfairness and do what we have to do. What concerns me...yet again, is that the focus is turned off the issues that effect the quality of life of the working mother...or working family...the family facing foreclosure...can Palin contribute to the conversation? Can she move this country in a better direction? I think not! I will listen to what she has to say, but what I have read and researched the only thing she contributes to the ticket is her gender. I am sorry, when I have to worry about whether I will have to send my son off to war, or what will be on my table next week...her gender is not enough.

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deeppeace, PacNW — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:31:44 GMT

I only wish it were another woman bringing this important discussion to the fore. It is dead wrong, IMO, to ask how she will perform her work while being a mother if we don't ask the same question of men. Okay, so I nursed my kid longer than 4 months, but that is the onlyonlyONLY gender difference.

So I find myself defending Gov. Palin as a woman and a parent - but that's all. I disagree vehemently with her stands on abstinence, creation and weapons, and the thought of her a heartbeat away scares the bejeezuss out of me.

Her 'will someone explain to me what a VP does all day?' video should be a red flag to people everywhere who contemplate public service.

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Kathleen Y, Texas City, TX — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:33:20 GMT

The odd thing about all of these comments is that no one is addressing the fact that women are now serving in combat. Has anyone raised as an issue that women with pregnant 17 years old daughters should not serve or mother's of disabled children not serve? Women can serve in many capacities from journalist to President with chidlren of all ages and circumtances. No one would be having the conversation if Governor Palin was a man. Governor Palin has entered the cult of celebrity by choice. Politics is celebrity, sadly. Media has to focus on something and for today it is Governor Palin. Tomorrow it will be something else. I hope we can all focus on the important issues facing this country very soon. Maybe we all can try to speak with our votes and get on with discussing issues until November.

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Cindy Weikel, Roanoke Virginia — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:35:36 GMT

I must applaud John McCain for choosing Sarah Palin based on her governorship in Alaska and her desire to be involved and dedicated to our country whether it be in the state or national level. And certainly when anyone is vetted for a position within our "Presidential" election we all should not under estimate our governments ability to know anything at anytime about any one of us and certainly someone else in a major political position. With that being said I am supporting the McCain-Palin ticket for the November election because of the experience they both have had in government affairs, moral values, family emphasis, dedication to our military, conservative views and most of our that they will protect our constitution of the United States of America. I am excited about Sarah Palin being the next Vice President of America and glad that she decided to join John McCain to serve our country. I will be praying for her and her family as they are being faced with many hurtful words and hope that our horrible "media" will leave the family out of this election. God Bless American!

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Donna, Potomac Falls, VA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:37:55 GMT

I see this as a single issue. The GOP says hands off. I wonder how hands off it would be if the Obama's had a 17 YO unmarried pregnant daughter. There would be tons of condemnation, no charity and forgiveness and all of the talking heads would be spouting family values rhetoric.

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Rod Tanner — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:43:37 GMT

Sara Palin puts her political career ahead of her family. Good ole Republican family values at work here.

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Linda J, Jericho NY — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:43:38 GMT

Two points:
If moms react negatively about other moms' choices to work or stay at home or other women's choices to have or not have children, it often comes from a deep insecurity about whether the choice we've made is the "right one." We defend against the opposite choice so we feel better about our own choice.

The fact is that the limited choices we have as women are very influenced by the deep, fundamental consequences of those "choices" because many of the consequences are out of our personal control - like how much paid or unpaid leave we get after welcoming a new baby through birth or adoption, how accessible and affordable quality child care is, how flexible our work life can be, how flexible our partner's work life can be, whether a good part time job with proportionate benefits is available to us, etc. And some of those consequences can be devastating.

It has been reported that, for women, motherhood is the biggest risk factor for poverty in old age due to the economic impact of being a caregiver. While the Census Bureau reports that women now make about 77 cents compared to a man, a 15 year study of women's & men's earnings showed that the women made only 38 cents compared to the men - because of caregiving responsibilities that erode their earning power and retirement funds (from the Institute for Women's Policy Research.) And framing the debate as working vs at-home mothers makes it sound like this is a vocation that sticks for life and defines you. Women do different things at different ages and stages of their lives and may need to switch from one category to the other as circumstances dictate. That's why their income is so affected.

Secondly, let's frame this debate around what women CAN begin to influence. What structures and policies could level the playing field for all human beings who have caregiving responsibilities? We talk a lot about family values but caregivers (still predominantly mothers) get it in the neck financially. Women should be asking candidates what they would do about paid family leave (we are one of 5 industrialized countries that does not require paid leave for their citizens, along with Liberia, Lesotho, Papua New Guinea, and Swaziland.) Women should be asking candidates about subsidized child care that is accessible and good quality. Women should be asking candidates about how our whole national mindset leaves out a huge portion of unpaid work that caregivers of all kinds perform within their families and communities that allows our country to function. In other countries this kind of work is counted in the total evaluation of the work that country accomplishes, the Gross Domestic Product. We've made that work invisible and unvalued (except for a Mother's Day card & flowers.)

If not women and mothers stepping up to ask these questions and voting accordingly, then who? And if not now, when these issues are getting play on both sides of the aisle, then when?

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T Dolson, Port Charlotte, Fl. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:44:23 GMT

I DO NOT care that her daughter is pregnant (Thousands of families deal with it everyday). I DO NOT care that she is a mom at all. I DO CARE what her politics are. I DO CARE that she is under an investigation. I DO CARE that it looks to me like McCain is pandering. (By bringing in some one nobody knows or has heard of but very to the right. And the cherri on top, a woman.) I DO CARE that we will again have a president that doesn't understand the middle class. (Not rich until 5 million. Please, I would be rich at middle class.) I DO CARE that we will stay in a war for all the wrong reasons. I do not believe that her being a working mom or the the mother of a pregnant daughter puts her politics anywhere near my beliefs and that is what determines how I vote. And it won't be a republican. I can't afford four more years of the status quo.

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Ebie King, Houston, Texas — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:46:23 GMT

For all of the young girls indicating that they know of x number of girls who are pregnant or who have just had babies, how many of them had mothers running for the second highest position of our land; how many of their mothers have so little faith in the family that they do not discuss with their children parental choices that will affect the whole family; how many of their mothers were running around preaching abstinance to the rest of the world; how many of their mothers are using community positions to forbid basic sex education in the schools that will enable their children to make a sound choice; how many of their mothers have kept pregnancy a secret so as to further personal ambitions. All I can say is that when we look at the role and history of the Republican Party, and their attacks on the morals of society, the Republicans have been masters of the morality smear; Remember Dan Quale and the Murphy Brown Saga; The smear tactics of the last Bush Campaign when there was the horrible inference that McCaine had fathered an iligitament child by a Black Person. How long did the media serve us the John Edwards Family. You could go on and on.

If you dont want to be in the media, be careful of preaching one moral value and then presenting the world with a major violation of that value. And further, what ever happened to "Shot-gun" weddings. Wouldnt it have been easier, say 4 months ago to have had a private wedding and then present this young couple to the world. Give us a break. All of this is just a sick pattern of desperation for a party that sees loss inevitable in November,

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Anita — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:48:07 GMT

Again, she can't control her family affairs, she wont be able to control our country. What are her qualifications? Did she attend college? Shall we give her a pass for being a woman? Our country have been in the "Bushes" too long. Our economy is near depression, people have lost homes (still loseing them) Our credibility as a nation is gone. Sure McCain is a war hero (if that's what you wan't to call him) he served his country, thank you Mr. McCain. However I don't feel that his good judgement has be excerised in choosing Ms. Palin as a running mate. She would be a heart beat away from being president and I don't think that she is qualified. Let's face it ladies...fair is fair, she has a full plate that is running over.
Thanks,
Anita Birmingham, Alabama

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Dawn Spencer — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:49:07 GMT

I dont think they should invade Gov.Palin personal life as it relate to her daughter's situation.But if this was Michelle Obama's daughter the republicans would have a field day with this.They would say that Barack & Michelle dont have time to run a campaign,because they have unfinished business at home.Or they would imply that is common in the African American community.Or, how about this one,we dont need any illegitimate children in the white house.

According to the young man's blog he doesnt want any children nor does he want to get married.But Gov.Palin said that her daughter and this gentleman will be getting married.Now that's a shot gun marriage if I've ever heard.

So lets just vote on the candidate and not worry about their children playing hide & seek.

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Mr. Shawn T., Chicago, IL — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:51:31 GMT

It's funny, women complain that we live in a "man's" world. Yet we have an opportunity, right now, to help shatter that myth. It seems that many women are out to knock Palin down before they even get to know her. I think that many of these women who complain about living in a "man's" world, but don't vote for Palin, are chicken. They're scared because then women will start assuming more of societies responsibilities, something many of these critical women don't want. All they really want is to sit at home and watch Oprah, all while eating ice cream. They know that assuming more responsibilities requires work and they don't want to have anything to do with that.

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Robyn, Los Angeles, CA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:52:20 GMT

Palin's inadequacy as a candidate has nothing to do with her mothering choices and everything to do with her lack of experience and (scanty) past record.

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Ken Edwards, Memphis, TN — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:52:22 GMT

The issue here is not whether this is a busy working mother. She is, like millions of others.

This issue here is hypocrisy, whether this was a woman or a man.

Asking folks to lay off the pregnant daughter (no problem with that...hundreds of thousands of unmarried teens get pregnant...) while planning to parade that same pregnant teenager and her teenage boyfriend to somehow portray this as "family values."

What an odd state we are in. McCain leaves his wife for a prettier woman, yet he is the family values guy. His VP pick preaches abstinence and no sex education, has her teenage daughter get pregnant, the somehow, because they do not choose to abort the baby, they are family values.

I am not bashing teenagers that get pregnant. Just perplexed at the spin that somehow a conservative's pregnant daughter makes a family values message more than the thousands of past pregnant kids that have been ignored.

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Addie, Toledo, OH — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:52:45 GMT

Ms. Palin may be a very nice lady but she needs to keep her religous views to herself!! Because she will be a hyprocrite if she started spouting family values and God and she does not really understand "why" she was picked. To win an election, not for country or politics. She was picked because McStupid is losing and he needed a "wow" factor. Well he got it, and he does not give a hoot what she or her family will go through with this election. He can kiss all the babies he wants. Any why did he hug her longer than he did his wife when he got off the plane. He had to go back and kiss his wife, he was in too big a hurry to get to his "wow" factor. He cheated on his first wife, you know what they say, if he did it once he will do it again. Ms. McC is starting to look a little old, hummmm? If you cannot stand the heat get out of the kitchen.

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ks, danbury, ct — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:53:32 GMT

The question up here is how can a mother throw her pregnant 17 year old daughter to the wolves to further her own career? No matter what happens, win or lose, Bristol Palin is now tabloid fodder alongside Jamie Lynn Spears. It may be taboo for the media to ask the question, but I can assure you many women out here in the real world are.

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Bethie, Boston, MA — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:54:53 GMT

I have not heard one person in any offical capacity suggest say this. I have only hear this from the Republican attacking Dems for saying it. I have heard no one suggest that she can't do both execpt for the McCain campaign. I would like one person quoted in any offical Dem positions for that person will never get my support again.

I don't care about her daughter, that is Gov. Palin's problem. I just wish in her offical capacity that she would provide support for other people's daughers that find themselves in the same unfortunate situaiton. And what is more, she will not provide information to help prevent them for getting into this situation either. I wish she would stay out of my business like they are asking me to stay out of hers.
I wish she had not cut funding to a clinic that helps women in the exact sort of situation that her daughter now finds herself.
No one is questions whether she has the right to be VP, we are question her professional ability to do it. And the only people that are telling us we need to back off is the McCain campaign. Now that is insulting Do you think that Bin Ladin will back off? How about Putin?
And for Mike Huckabee to suggest that Republican's did not do this to children of Democrats...I have a joke for him...Why is Chelsea Clinton so ugly? Because Janet Reno is her father..compliments of John McCain (said when Chelsea Clinton was 13yo). And don't get me started on Limbaugh.

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lyni, new jersey — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:57:42 GMT

Why should the boyfriend of an unwed and pregant teenager been even greeted by a PRESIDENDIAL candidate, during a time of international tension and persistent economic recession and mother nature's threats?

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Nirma, West Hartford, CT — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:59:42 GMT

Is one of the qualifications to be a VP nominee to be childless? I understand that previous VPs have had children, or not? Sarah Palin has a spouse. The burden of parenting is not the sole responsibility of the mother. How many families are there where both parents work? Who is perfect without any faults? What did ex-president Bill Clinton do with then intern Monica L. in the White House? Morally, I would be more afraid of a Clinton in the White House.

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R. Boyd Absecon N.J. — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:00:29 GMT

If Obama had chosen Hillary Clinton as his V.P. do you think McCain would have still chosen Sarah Palin??

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Janet Weston, Louisville, KY — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:31:53 GMT

All the world portrays the wife of John Adams as a great woman of history, which indead she is. She was very intelligent and as the mini series portrayed her was probably a wonderful mother, but less we forget she spent years away from her children and that was a time that we had no cell phones, internet, jets or busses to take our children along with us. Also she still had to do hard labor to take care of her children. Sara Palin probably has more quality time with her children that most any working mother does because she doesn't have to do the oridinary tasks of a mother and isn't that what matters. I know of stay home mothers who plop their children in front of the TV and feed them junk food and spend little time with their children. Not all by any measn but some. She can handle anything that's thrown at her, probably more than a man. Men can't handle that much stress, that's a proven fact!

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Alicia, Seattle, WA — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:50:34 GMT

Cracks me up. NO ONE ever asks a male about his parenting skills. Truly amazing. I'd love to see how well Gov. Palin's critics have done in their own home. And of course Gov. Palin had help writing her speech. Why is that such a concern? Every politician has had help. Even Meredith mentioned it this morning. Give me a break. Do you guys really think that Sen. Obama wrote all of his speeches? Come on!
I was already planning to vote for Sen. McCain but last night affirmed that decision, yet again.
And you 'stay-at-home moms' and 'working moms' criticizing Gov. Palin should get off your high horse.

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Mary, Colorado Springs, CO — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:00:40 GMT

I am a stay-at-home mom who is tired of the debate over how Sarah Palin can juggle being a good mom and a VP! Why don't we ask how male candidates can be a good dad under the same circumstances? Shouldn't parental responsibilities be equally important to BOTH parents? Yet our society continually attacks women who make the choice to pursue both careers and motherhood. How often do we discuss whether or not successful or ambitious MEN are good fathers? Are women required to ignore their skills and abandon their ambitions when they become mothers?
It takes the commitment of the entire family, not just the mom to raise children. It sounds like the Palin family has a strong support system in place and I applaud them for recognizing that Sarah Palin has talents and abilities outside of motherhood that can be shared with our country. I would rather be discussing how can our country better support all types of FAMILIES. Maybe we should hear what her stand is on the important issues facing our country before we rush to pass judgement?

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Stacie Gebo — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:05:24 GMT

I don't think ANY mother should solely be judged on their teenagers behavior or choices. Teenagers want to be adults and make poor choices - it's called growing up. That is often why they do the opposite of what we ask! I'm sure the father can provide just as much nurturing as the mother - and it is unfair to question whether or not a woman with 5 kids can do this job when it wouldn't be questioned if a man could. What I do question is this and let's get to an issue -she has a pregnant teenager daughter that she did not believe should take birth control and is pro-life. "What are Sara's beliefs when it comes to public aid for the kids who have kids?". Should our hard work go to pay taxes for others beliefs and decisions? I paid my own way through school and WAITED until I could afford kids. Suppose Sarah was lower middle class - who would pay the doctor, medical bills and followup care? - US. Who would then help pay for her to get technical skills? - US. Why does are system pay for teenage unwed mothers medical bills, school and daycare on our tax dollars? I was stuck with $30K in tuition bills for making good decisions just to hear non-stop that I may face higher taxes because I've educated myself and work non-stop for my businesses. When do we QUIT supporting these bad decisions and start REWARDING good ones? I don't question others beliefs - I do question when I get stuck with the bill. I'm truly tired of paying taxes to support poor decisions when I see no rewards for GOOD ones.

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Wendy, Colorado — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:07:44 GMT

As a business woman and even just as a woman, I was offended at the Republican selection for VP. It has nothing to do with her being a "mom". I am a mother too. And I have worked full time while completing my MBA and raising two sons. That was hard enough and the only people depending on me was my family; not the entire country. I am offended by the blatant pandering of the party to try to attract women. This woman simply does not have the experience to handle that job. She is being used as a ploy and she is being set up to fail. I shutter to think what would happen to our country if something should occur and she had to step in to the presidential role. I would hope the women of this country are smarter than that.

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S Britton, DFW Texas — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:12:38 GMT

I have a couple of things I would like to add... One is to Donald. Do you really think that women are so closed minded that they would vote for someone simply bc they wear a skirt (or pantsuit in Hillary's case) I would hope that someone who is going to run our country would look at issues and values and beliefs when choosing a canditate.

I really have no idea who I am voting for this year, the jury is still out on that one butI can assure you it will be the candidate that I feel will help my adult children afford healthcare and college. That I feel will keep my grandchildren's generation so dependant on foreign oil and manufacturing.

Now as for Sarah Palin's family, I firmly believe whatever happens on this earth is God's plan and there is a reason that baby is going to be born. There is a reason that her baby has special needs.

When my daughter told us she was pregnant 4 months before graduation I was devastated, her dreams I thought were gone. What I didn't know is bc she was pregnant she wasn't in a car load of her friends that wrecked where one of her best friends was killed.

My grandaugher is a blessing, a true gift. Her Mommy's road to a college degree is taking longer and has been much harder but we wouldn't trade any of it for the wonderful addition my grandchildren (2 with one on the way) or my son in law has made.

So before the media and others who have probably never been in that sitch throw stones..... Take a REAL long look in the mirror and if you must say somehting say it sweetly because you will eat those words in your lifetime that I can promise.

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d jones, park forest illinois — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:24:50 GMT

Who cares? Once again, you the public have fallen for a non-story. All parents have to live with the decisions and choices that make regarding their children, believe me the only ones that suffer from our decisions as parents are the childre, but we all have to man up and woman up and face those head on. Now, to the real issue. I don't want to hear us (women) whining about she's being mistreated because she is being challenged on her record as a mayor, governor, or candidate. She has stepped into the major leagues and she should be able to withstand whatever comes her way. All of the other candidates have had to endure scrutiny. Giulani got hit from the top of his head down to the sole of his feet regarding his children and marriages. Romney got criticized about his religion. There's no crying in politics, woman it up. We have some real critical issues facing us as a nation, we don't have time to banter about parenting choices. Let's tackle the hard gut issues: education, wars, terrorist, healthcare, immigration, the national debt, rising energy cost, lowering wages, missing children, aids/hiv in our communities, meth labs on the rise in rural communities, oh we have plenty to debate that is actually worthy of our time and energy.

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Mary Stock, Mineral, VA — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:56:06 GMT

Ladies,

I am so sad.

I am 66 years old. I have fought all my life for the rights of women, in every area.
Now one woman has a CHANCE for this opportunity.
To see, other women trying to take away this chance and make decisions for her based on their own jealously and pettiness.
Guess all the grief and heartache was for nothing.

Mary

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Melody Saunders — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:58:06 GMT

First of all, Sarah's speech last night was not what the democrats were expecting. Sen. Biden this morning was so tongue-tied he didn't know what to say. And to the Anchors on the show - Matt, Meredith, and Campbell - could you please be alittle less obvious on which side you prefer. The Democrats speak, you have fellow democrats to critique - then the Republicans speak - and you get democrats, liberals, conservatives, anti-this, anti-that, harvey the rabbit, and santa claus. Ok, OK we get it, yall are democrats - that doesn't mean we are, so lighten up!

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Evy Lewis Spokane, WA — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 20:41:00 GMT

Sarah Palin may be looked upon as a special mother,herself, but many women in America are facing the same issues. I myself raised 5 boys myself. The youngest was 3yrs and the oldest 11yrs. My profession was an RN and I worked full time.My sons have become very succeassful with their professions and family's.This took a lot of work, sleepless nights and excellent management. I would Never consider the position of V.P., and I do have potential and political and issue knowledge.I strongly feel that to be an effective parent, one has to be available. My profession did not allow that luxery.I did have eye opening experiences during the their teen years when I was blinded by other committments.

I am not saying that Sarah does not have the potential, but I do believe she needs to be politically seasoned.

She is young and needs several years to evaluate her special needs child and evaluate stability of her daughters parenting skills. Many situations appear in life that need a mother's total attention and to be able to open that special spot in
her heart that God made for "mothers & children".

I do NOT believe that this is being sexest, it is a females reality and a blessing.

Being talked about as a "Red Hot Mama","Pistol Pack'en Sarah" and "a Republican's Charm on the Arm" is more disturbing. These statements came from "men" standing outside the convention center.She is beautiful, however this should not be looked upon as a only requirement. She needs to speak issues.

Let us not "Eat our Young". This is so disturbing!!
We must Get a Grip. Things are what they are and will turn out as a destiny. Being artfully wise and accomplish the art of HEARING THE ISSUES will be our greatest accomplishment toward keeping America Great!
We need to stop the attacks and character assinations.
(Rep & Dem)
Evy Spokane, WA

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Been a stay at home mom and a working mom, Staunton, Virginia — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 20:43:58 GMT

It's all about money! To sacrifice family time you either need it or are greedy and want more of it. A true public servant would be happy with a modest salary. And with a modest salary, it's hard to cook, clean, and take care of children even when the spouse shares the duties (of course there would be no money for hired help). Also just curious.. did she, or does she still, breastfeed the baby?

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cj from los angeles, ca — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 20:49:46 GMT

Thank you to those who are seeing the big picture. Keep her family out of it!

But how in the world can anyone say she is qualified for VP? And who cares about her personal story! What about what she can bring to her potential position?
She gave very misguided and inaccurate facts about Obama and Biden during her speech. The current investigation of her abuse of power as Alaska Governor is enough to persuade me.

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Sonja Huffman, Palmer, Alaska — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 20:59:24 GMT

I live in Alaska and know the Palins. Sarah is a great mother and Governor and I have no doubt she will make an outstanding VP. I am very disappointed in the criticism towards her because she is a mother. When she was elected Governor, her husband, Todd, quit his job to take care of the kids and to support Sarah. He is very much a hands on father. I am very disappointed that in the year 2008 in the United States of America that a woman is criticized for running for high office because she is a mother of young children. If the roles where reversed and her husband was running, there would be no issue at all. A man can be a good father and hold a high political office, but a woman can't be a good mother and do the same thing? What blatant sexism.

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Devoted Mother, Farmington, CT — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 21:36:33 GMT

I am a 24 year old, working, single mother to a beautiful 2 1/2 year old girl. I understand the demands of working full-time, attending graduate school and trying to raise my daughter to the best of my ability. My daughter comes first in every decision that is made in my life, because it ultimately affects her. And because I want to give my daughter the best life and furture, I nurture her emotionally and expand her mind mentally, and if that means calling out of work for the day or not going to school for the night- then that is what needs to be done. Having children means you need to be unselfish.

Mrs. Palin should have thought twice before accepting the VP position- I understand how much attention and devotion just one child needs in order to thrive ...and I can't imagine how she does it with five and a soon to be grandchild (whom she'll have a hand in raising). I feel that Sarah Palin has taken on a selfish mindset at a point in her life when she can't afford to be selfish. Children come first, some people need to keep that in mind. And unfortunately Mrs. Palin won't realize the effects of her lack of presence until it's too late. I feel sorry for her children.

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an american — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 21:36:34 GMT

it a shame did anyone think that maybe the reson she agreeded to go ahead an run is becasue she does have a baby with downs. She knows that she can make a difference. She actually has a stake in the well being of parents with differently able children. I am thankful she is going for it.

And as far as rights both parties have there agenda and its not to give rights

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Elaine Medeiros, Falmouth, MA — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:33:53 GMT

Tonight Obama is in PA and his wife is in New Mexico...where are his girls tonight.? Ask Katie Couric or Meredith Vieira about working moms.. both had/have terminally ill husbands at home, with small children did anyone question their job ability. When you're the VP of the US don't you get some domestic help? She'll have quality time with her family because the house will be clean and the food will be cooked.

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Elaine Medeiros, Falmouth, MA — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:34:59 GMT

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D. Kanon — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:56:40 GMT

Wait... wait just a second here.. is the only reason she should noe be VP is the children and a husband at home? Seems to me there is a LOT more here that she needs to be qualifed for. However this is probably a good way to take it off center stage. How can she even begin to thing she would be ready to run this country?

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Terry, Simsbury, CT — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 12:16:32 GMT

I was a stay at home mom for eleven years. Being a mom is tough enough. My youngest was a special needs child who passed away at four years of age. In my wildest imaginings can I see where Ms. Palin can be Governor, never mind Vice President, with five children, one being special needs. Support systems are there, family may be there. With all that, special needs kids are a huge challenge. I have been told that I am a very strong individual and was a great advocate for my children. Ms. Palin may be strong and driven. But I think the family will pay dearly, especially with her husband running back to Alaska to "do his thing."

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Robby, roanoke, VA — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 12:17:34 GMT

OK so I was completely amazed at some of these comments. Why any of you think you have the right to judge is amazing to me. I think Sarah is an amazing women who is in her prime right now, loves what she does and loves her family. I don't think look mistreated and abused! They look pround and amazed that it is their mom on that stage.

I am a working mother and have since my children where infants. I am still a good mother! I don't think my family has sacrificed anything for me to be able to work. They have a great life and are very happy.

How you can say she is not a christian becuase she works is crazy, because her daughter is pregnant, it is all amazing! You should be ashamed of what you are saying. why aren't you saying Oboma can't run becuase he does not know how to vote, he can't make changes, he can't even follow his stance on fianance reform. Why does he need to have so much money to run??? If he cares so much about the needy raise that money and give it back to the needy and just use what the government says you are suppose to like McCain? Why go overboard on spending....He could have taken all those "poor" people he claims he is fighting for and helped almost all of them for the extra money is he is raising...
think about it!

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ladygirl — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 12:22:06 GMT

I resent Meredith Viera's comment this morning regarding the press and Sarah Palin's daughter. She noted that it's the press' job to ask questions. Yes it is, if it's the NEWS, and not gossip regarding a minor. The press needs to discover the difference. If we wanted to know dirt on an underage child who didn't ask to be put in this position, we would purchase the National Enquirer. The mainstream press has stooped to their level. More and more, the mainstream press LIVES on the level of the National Enquirer. It is sickening.

I am also outraged that the 'liberal' press is criticizing a woman for making choices that men make all the time.

By the way, I don't consider myself Republican or Democrat, so my feelings cross party lines. It is just bad manners and bad public policy to touch the lives of minor children.

Mainstream press, give the American public something to admire instead of being embarrassed about!

Or apply to the Enquirer for a job. Just because you make the big bucks doesn't mean you're any more respectable.

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Pam Ator, Fort Worth, Texas — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 12:30:02 GMT

Sarah Palin....well, the scariest thing about her is she could be a hearbeat away from the presidency. What does she bring to the table besides being a woman? She has been governor for 2 years of Alaska, population around 800,00, less than the poplulation of the city I live in. Before that, mayor of a town of 5300 people. She has a degree in journalism. She is a soccer Mom(I guess that is some badge of honor) and likes to hunt. She is a woman running for VP, who doesn't believe that women have the right to make decisions about their own bodies and lives. Please!!!! Forget about her children....her stunning lack of depth and experieince are what make her a poor choice.

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Kevin Brown — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 12:54:29 GMT

As a husband and father, I have worked to provide for over 25 years allowing my wife to choose whether or not to work outside our home. Sometimes it was neccessary for her to work outside to help make ends meet, but we always tried to allow her to be full-time for our children. I believe that the Palin family has also had their fair amount of challenges and that Governor Palin is an outstanding person and a great choice for Vice-president.
I am amazed at the amount of coverage of daughter Bristol. I personally have a belief system which would lead me to be upset if I had a teen who became pregnant.
But let me say this Meridith V, The tone of your voice reveals much more than the content.
I am surprised that people who often express empathy, etc. when dealing with often tragic news stories related to children, teens, families, and predators, would pounce on a 17 yr old who made a bad decision but is being responsible with the consequences. And this is in the name of "newsworthy".
Politicians do not have to paint a picture of the media for the general public to recognize the self-portrait that many media members have painted for us to see. I think it falls under the title...Bullying!
Although I am neutral on the election at this time, you should get some facts straight about Sarah Palin's experience. I believe that Wasilla is part of the Mat-Su Borough as Alaska only has ten or eleven boroughs and not counties. In the last seven or eight years this borough was at some point listed in the top ten of fastest growing counties in the US. There is much more info available than the population and size of the Wasilla city limits which Sarah Palin had to work with.
Time and space do not permit more info here, but get rid of the bias!

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Amy Nashville, Tn — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:08:48 GMT

As I watched Meredith Friday morning, it was apparent her political affiliation. She seemed very defensive when asked about the media's negative coverage of Gov. Palin. I've watched Meredith over the years in admiration of her ability to provide for her family, take care of her disabled husband and raise her children. No one asked her if she should be home taking care of family instead of working, why does it seem ok to have double standards by those in the media? I was disappointed at her defensiveness as she knows all to well the sacrifices that women around the world make to help their families, neighbors, friends, communities, and in this case even their countries. Come on Meredith, you did! Why can't others?

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Nick. Lubbock, Texas — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:20:42 GMT

Becky Mikkelsen??? What are you talking about? You say Gov. Palin is somehow irresponsible because she put her kids on a plane and gave them the surprise of their lives. That comment does not even make sense. I did the same thing with my two kids last year except we ended up at Disney World. I don't consider myself irresponsible and I am a single dad. I love that someone has finally recognized that a woman can be a strong player in running this country. I am glad our party did not pick someone as weak as you, that would not have the courage to teach her children that the love of country sometimes comes with sacrifices. She is a great mother, great politician and will be a great vice president. I saw no proof that her family is in a shambles because she supports her country and her family. I think you are not giving her husband enough credit either to be able to raise their children aong side their mother. I am a single dad with a full time job and my children are doing great because I support them and love them.

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Turned off by Today's unfair coverage of Palin, Wayne, NJ — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:28:48 GMT

I would like to thank Meredith Viera for making it crystal clear this morning on the Today show that she will go to any length to put a pro-Obama slant to her questioning of guests.

My distaste for the obvious bias NBC and MSNBC are showing in this election has been growing, but Meredith's feigned "surprise" about Republicans angry reaction to the tabloid-like coverage of Palin's selection in her interview with McCain's campaign manager was truly repulsive.

I am done with watching the Today show as of "today". I prefer to get real news on my morning show, not personal attacks and tabloid garbage.

Robin Sweeten
Wayne, NJ

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R. Mansberger, Huntingdon, PA — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:37:22 GMT

I believe that while we might think that we can have it all, in truth something does suffer. I have raised two children. One who just got married two months ago and one in his second year of college all while working full-time. Given the choice I would of loved to have had the opportunity to stay at home.

While trying to be wife,mother,and nurse I felt that on any given day one of my jobs was failing. For example, you have a bad day at work so you take it out on the kids by being less patient or yelling. Your sleep is deprived due to the children being up at night and so you are not as productive at work. Your relationship suffers with your husband due to all the above.
Again just because women can have it all I don't if we want it all or if we do it out of necessity. The new VP nominee had a choice and I believe that even though I love her spirit that something has to give in her life and she will miss out in things that I think she will regret.

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DR, San Diego — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:42:31 GMT

ENOUGH! The media is blatantly biased toward Obama and slamming McCain/Palin for having normal families. The voting public is very aware of the Obama camp pushing his wife and children onto dozens of major news publications in slick photos and poised smiles. At what point does the public get to see the networks focus on the real reason for a public election: the economy, jobs, foreign trade, health care, Social Security, the military and national security. I fear the next president will be elected because of the superficial, innane and unimportant private details of a politician's personal life rather than the issues of running our country. And the media is solely to blame. Enough, NBC, with the slanted and selective reporting. Give us what we need: issues of importance and relevance. Leave the families out of this.

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Sue, Palatine, Illinois — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:21:56 GMT

I think that American's are too judgmental and miss the Big Picture! I was an executive and chose to stay home with my kids. But, there are plenty of mom's who stay home, have nannies and housekeepers and are still horrible Moms. I think some women are "go-getters" and CAN have it all. There are also others who CAN'T swing it. I don't however think we should single out Palin as far as the child rearing question goes. What about the Obamas? They also have young children who need a mother and father AND they BOTH work. The real point is, who will better SERVE our country. This position is not for fame or wealth, it's a position that truly SERVES.

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Michele Murphy, Blooming Grove, NY — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:23:58 GMT

Being a working mom myself and running my own law practice, I have heard a lot of the comments- "Why not wait until your children are grown?" "Isn't it enough that your husband works and can support the family- why do you need a career?", etc. As for Sarah Palin, all I could say to all of the comments about her: If she were a man, none of this would have ever been an issue or brought up!

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Leslie, Allen, Texas — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:24:54 GMT

I agree that women can do any job. Being a working mother with a special needs child, I honestly cannot imagine trying to balance the national interests with my family and my child's needs -- no matter how much support I have in the wings to help. It is hard to tell if Sarah Palin is qualified. My question is did she personally consider the sacrifices her family will have to make for her to be successful. A lot of men have commented in the blogs, but I know my husband and I do discuss his promotion options and the impact to the family before he takes them, just like we do when I have those opportunities at work. What I'm missing from the discussion is how she and her husband will handle these issues. I think they are valid questions for someone who might be a heart beat away from the president's office. Especiallty since that potential president is in his 70's.

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R.J. McKenzire Austin, Texas — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:26:01 GMT

I have crossed party lines. I support McCain/Palin ticket. Twenty nine years ago while serving in the Navy I was told I could not have a family and be married. This was told to me when I was 23 years old,My husband had just been honorably discharged from the Navy. He was busy using his GI education bill and working. The MasterChief who was the head of the Photo Lab where I worked and was assigned told me I had a choise to make when told I was having a baby. He told me to get rid of the baby by way of abortion before I came back to work on Monday or plan on getting a divorce. My strong Christian values told me this man was nuts. Well it has been almost 30 years and I am still married to the same man, we have three beautiful children and 1 grandson. My husband went back in the Navy and did 20 years. We have watched many friends on active duty struggle to make family time and have it all it takes good comunication skills, trust and a heart to make hard calls. Durring this time we made the hardest dission and that was I would be the stay at home mom. I wanted to stay at home but it also knew if we did we would do with out on all the material stuff. Also durring that time my husband went back to college and finished his education as a RN was was commissioned in the Navy. I have very strong feelings on miltary service. I said so in 1974 durring my senior year, I believe that all U.S. young people should have to serve our country thru miltary service. Obama lack of miltary service to the country of his birth and lack of honor hurts. I am proud to have served in the U.S. Navy durring a time of peace. I am proud to be the wife of a Desert Storm and Vietnam vet.
The one thing I am very sure of is that Mrs. Palin and her husband did lots of talking and praying, before running for mayor of her home town, running for governor, and before conciving her 5th baby. We as women know the risks that go on in having kids in our 40's. In today's socity we want to make it so that the kids are always taken care of by the mom, but what if it is the dad who wants to be at home? Or how about the reality of everything cost much more. Young people comming up belive I should have everything I had when I was growing up, Or because I work I deserve the material stuff. They fail to remember that some still have grandparents who remmember WW2 and the great depression. These people sacrficed and lived on just what they earned and saved cash until it could be paid for in full. Credit was not an option. Let's give some credit to her parents as well as the adult children she has. Lots of young men and women are serving our country, in a time of war. We are not drafting men to serve. I think that says a lot about how some of the men and women are raised. Freedom is not Free.
How would Obama feel if the press started asking about how soon he and Michelle were going to put his girls on birth control pill or do they talk of no sex outside of marrage. Or more so Why is Michelle working outside the home, she should be at home raising her girls. The reality is kids only have the values we teach them and by the time they are 14 to 17 they will only take what they want to with them. You can still keep the boundries in place, but they will cross them at some point and sometimes they get caught. Our jobs as parent is to guide them and support them, we can't run their lives for them, only love them with out end. My Dad said he prayed and worried everyday of his life for his babies even as old as I am, along with my children and grandchild up until the day he died. He died with out ever meeting his first greatgrandchild.

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Chris L Vail Az — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:37:39 GMT

This comment is directed towards Meredith, every morning my husband and I watch the Today Show, if Meredith continues on with her negative comments about Sara Palins personal life I will boycotte the Today show. How dare her thinking that Palin wll not be effective as a VP of our country because she has a down syndrome child and a daughter who is pregnant. Has Meredith stopped and looked into her own personal life with her husband having medical problems, did this stop her from doing what she wanted to do with her career? My vote in this election will not be based on a canidates personal family matters, it will be based on there qualifications to be able to make changes in our government, starting with digging for oil wells in our own country. MaCain has a military back round that will help our country be a better place for all of us to live in peace . MaCain did not make the decision for our country to go to Iraqu, if so he most likely would have handled all of this in a better way. My husband served our country for 30 years in the army, he had to make decisions for his troops that did not always make higher uppers happy but he did what he had to do to support his troops.

The media needs to be more positive in there comments and remember what this election is all about, not someone's personal family life. It is time for change and I do believe that MacCain and Palin will bring this about in time. As we all Rome was not built in a day and change takes time. MacCain and Palin together will make a great team for changes to take place, so in the meantime the media needs to stay more positve and less critical in there comments. Have a great day!!!

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C Flowers, Colbumbus GA — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:44:06 GMT

I have worked my whole life in the professional world, sitting in board rooms with mostly men, and I am appauled at the people in our country that think a woman cannot be a mother and lead our country at the same time - what year is this??? I am sick of hearing about what she wore, the size of the pearl necklace, her hairstyle, the type of glases (and where I can purchase them), what colors were inappropriate about her blouse, whether she will receive a make-over, etc. Who cares! I have not heard anything about Obama's or Biden's tie colors and why they decided on the suits they wore....Again, Who Cares!!! What I do care about is that we have an opportunity to support a very strong woman who is real, with real experience and success.

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Mimi Citrone — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:48:27 GMT

Everyone needs to make their own decision about their family -- whether we go to work full time, part time or not at all. This is America -- we have a choice. Moms -- stop beating each other up -- respect our choices. Stop judging one another. I have been a working Mom for 21 years...I have missed many events but I have also brought something else home beside my paycheck. My work life has been woven into the fabric of my family. My children see me as independent, able to take care of myself. I always wondered if i would regret working and not being home. I don't -- I regret that my chldren have grow up so quickly -- but we can not stop the hands of time.
I respect other working women (Sarah Palin included) -- it takes an amazing amount of work and committment to orchestrate a simple day when you are a working Mom. Remember there is usually a good man helping out as well. It seems that Sarah has a good partner -- that is why she is able to juggle all of the things she does. I don't know if I could have returned to work three days after I had a baby -- I think this is what makes her extraordinary.

So Mom's stop judging one another -- start respecting your fellow Mom's decision. Don't take it out on another Mom if you yourself made the wrong decision.

I truly believe I was a better Mom because I went back to work.

Thanks,