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Sarah Ray — Fri, 23 May 2008 17:33:25 GMT

God bless you Ann! Your bravery and will to invite others in your life during this difficult time speaks volumes as the kind of woman you are. I enjoyed the story about your father and pray you and your family are continually comforted with God's help. Like you, I only have my mother now, but will make sure I take the time to cherish every healthy moment with her as she is aging and is 73 years old. Thanks for sharing.

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L Celia, Middletown DE — Fri, 23 May 2008 18:13:07 GMT

Excellent Story!

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Susan Van Blarcom, Clifton, NJ — Fri, 23 May 2008 18:38:15 GMT

I just think Ann Curry is one of the best. It was so heartwarming to see this about her father and her relationship with him. I know that it is a tremendous loss to the entire family.

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Diane Candullo, So. Salem, NY — Fri, 23 May 2008 18:48:32 GMT

What a beautiful piece. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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Leona Lucas — Fri, 23 May 2008 18:48:35 GMT

As I listened to you Ann, talk about your Dad, I cried with joy, your experience was so familiar to me. I lost my brother last month to brian cancer (like Senator Kennedy), like your dad my brother was a jokester and the days leading up to his death was truly a journey and funny. He yoddled in ICU, he danced holding a chair and the funeral was hysterical, show time at the Apollo or American Idol. His funeral and wake was truly like his character, a great time. Folks that attended the service are still talking about his home going. Ann you are RIGHT, we celebrated each day with him and he was afraid and cried at times. He had comfort in knowing he would see my father and family that had passed before him. I want to share one piece of information with you that may also help you at this time, believe it or not, before we left the hosptial after his final breath, there was a smile on his face. We did not touch his mouth, God is good he did not suffer and he is whole again and that smile gets me through the day and the what "IF's". My brothers is talking loud, telling jokes and dancing. So celebrate, appreciate and remember the good times wiht your love one's, you will see them again.

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Louisa Roberts, Cupertino CA. — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:00:49 GMT

I was moved to tears by the report. It must have been very hard for Ann to be on live TV after it was shown. I lost my father 16 years ago and my mother last year. I do not have any video of either of them but I do have some precious pictures. It is so important to do what you can for family and friends while they are alive so you will not have regrets.

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ron gillespie rancho cordova, ca. — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:02:09 GMT

My Dear Ann,
I really do know you,for I have watch you and listen to you for many years. My heart goes out to you for I understand your hurts about looseing someone like your Dad. Let time be your friend, what a wonderful man,laughter,jokes,smiles,goodtimes,partys,dinners, and just plan old Dad,your story was wonderful, God Bless you and your family, for he left stories and fun things behind for you to remember, he'll live through you and you have his smile, remember, for we all go on and his life in heaven as just began and believe me I know that there was a party on the other side to welcome him in. We love you in our home, bless you,Ron Gillespie

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L. A. Craft, St. Louis, MO — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:34:13 GMT

beautiful life lesson!...thank you!

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Maura Hobart, Albany NY — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:35:29 GMT

Dear Ann,

Thank you for sharing your Dad's last days with all of us. Anyone who has lost a parent knows about the empty place created in our lives as they go gently into the night. As a friend said to me when my mother died, "there's never been a moment in your life when she wasn't there for you." I remember that often when I find myself missing her, nearly 15 years later.

We all need the witness of a life well lived, right to the end--a life lived with love and joy, even in the face of diminishment and sickness. Your Dad gave this to us in spades. Thank you, Ann.

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Deanna Sheppard-Thompson, Union, Missouri — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:57:08 GMT

I was so moved by this mornings show. I lost my father in 2001 suddenly. You reminded me of the wonderful sense of humor my father had and what a perfect weekend to "remember" our loved ones. Thanks Ann for this wonderful piece. I cried but yet I laughed at such a joyous and loving man. Just like my dad. With Much Love and Respect: Deanna Sheppard-Thompson

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Bev Wood Bluffton,Sc — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:14:13 GMT

Ann,
I was moved by your segment with your Dad. I too lost
my mother on April 13 to ovarian cancer, however it was 24 years ago. I was 34 at the time but it seems like yesterday.
Like your family we all tried to
keep our smiles and sense of humor. One of the things
I remembered (how could I foget) was my brother had a
golden retriever at the time named Stridor whose birthday was April 12th. My mother laid in her bed
and we all put on birthday hats including the dog and
sang Happy Birthday!!!
My thoughts are with you and your family during this
time of sorrow.

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Felicia Cromer, tifton, Ga. — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:22:28 GMT

I was moved by your story.Your family has a lot of courage. God Bless You!That for you story heart touching. my grandmother is 85 years old and has altimer's so we try to cherish moment.

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Kathi Lucas-Johnson — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:28:20 GMT

Dear Ann,
My mother left this life the same week as your Dad. We placed her with hospice in the short weeks before.My brothers and I had some uncertainity about if we had done the right thing for my Mom. There was a certain comfort that seeing your story brought to our family, a knowing that we weren't alone and that other families go through the same thing. having the time before she died we had a better grip at the funeral and we're able to reflect on the legacy she left us.
Thank you for sharing your story.

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Mercedes, Montclair — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:32:35 GMT

God Bless you Ann! I was watching the video last night . You are such a sweet person. My heart goes out to you and your family.

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Barbara Wilson, Wellsville, NY — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:42:47 GMT

Ann
You are an incredible individual. The poise, care & dignity you show are so admirable. Not just for this story but everyday. Hats off to you for such a wonderful story. What a beautiful way to honor your father. I don't know if I couldve had the strength you showed to get through that.
It's no wonder I consider you as part of my family just from watching you each morning.
Thanks for doing this piece - reminds me what I need to do.
God Bless You Ann.
Barbara Wilson
Wellsville, NY

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Heather McLean, Mt Pleasant, SC — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:12:50 GMT

The story last night and this morning was so moving and hit very close to home. February 24, 2008 my 4 sisters and I lost our Dad (one month before his 70th birthday) after a 16 month battle w/ lung cancer that spread to his brain and other areas. Although it was very, very hard for me to watch due to my own feelings of great sadness and grief, I HAD to watch it! Ann, you were so right in everything you said for, about and with your Dad. We made sure my Dad's last year was one of the best of his (and our lives). He and I had our final private conversation three days before his death at home - he asked me why I was crying and of course my only response was "because" and he said "Honey, there is nothing to cry about, everything is going to be ok" I kind of stared at him w/ a dumbfounded look, he gave me a wink and I knew what he was saying. Yes Ann, I agree with you that it must be horrible for parents to watch their children suffer as I know it was extremely hard on my Dad not being able to comfort "his Girls". I am so sorry to you and your family for your loss. My very best to you. Heather

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K Drake, Columbus, Ohio — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:17:04 GMT

Ann,
How fitting that we saw the piece about your Dad so close to Memorial Day. He served his country well and had it not been for that service, we wouldn't have the gift of YOU. Your father had an inspiring spirit, and though it lives on in you now, you inherited it long before he died.

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Doris Asbell, Summerville, SC — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:32:12 GMT

Ann,
I hope you find comfort with your loss by looking in the mirror and seeing the gracious and generous human being that your parents raised. Your Dad had to be proud of your accomplishments but moreso of your human compassion which is conveyed daily on the morning news show that I have watched for I don't know how long. I watch you all because of your human side-that you share your lives with your audience. I lost my Dad in 1983 and still miss him daily. I also lost my sister that same year- to cancer. It is a horrible disease that strikes too many. Thank you for sharing. May God hold you gently when you are at your lowest point.

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April, Ashtabula, OH — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:47:32 GMT

Hi Ann,
I enjoy watching you. I lost my grandmother last week. My mother did a wonderful job of caring for her and being with her during her final year with us. I am a Hospice volunteer. Thank you for embracing this topic!

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Anne Hagan, RN North KIngstown, RI — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:49:07 GMT

Dear Ann
I loved your story about your dad's final days. What courage you have to share this message during your time of sorrow and loss. My eyes were filled with tears as I remembered my own experience with my mom. Our final weeks together were priceless and changed the way I live and view life. I am also a Hospice nurse that embraces the message you were sharing today with this special video. I believe one's death is as special as one's birth. Americans don't understand this concept. My passion is to spread this message throughout the US. Thank you again for sharing your special story. I know you touched many by sharing your experience.

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Deborah Hill — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:51:53 GMT

Ann, It was touching watching your story about your Father. It is difficult at any age to say goodbye to a parent. I also know that remembering them and the happy times you shared with them is so important. After the loss of both parents within one year, both unexpectedly I had to find a way to let others know what special people they were. And as you may know a "tribute" is one of the most loving ways to remember them. I created one for both parents online as a place to share their life with others.

Thank you for sharing yours,
Debbie Hill

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Barbara Babcock Albuquerque, NM — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:04:34 GMT

I was so moved this morning Ann with your shareing of the time you were able to spend with your Dad at the end.My Mom died in 2003. I lived out of state and I had the joy of spending her last three months with her. We shared so much at that time laughing, joking and remembering stories.

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Tammie Higginbotham, Bath, Illinois — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:06:56 GMT

Thank you for having the strength to do your father's story.. Our circumstances are very similar and I felt and immediate bond with your story..It was as if, I were reliving those days. Those last few weeks, days, moments, are the most precious to us..I know, I wouldn't of changed a thing. Often times, people don't have the chance to face what the future will hold when they loose a loved one.. They don't get the chance to say "goodbye". I can't imagine, never having that chance.. You done a wonderful thing in sharing your story with the world Ann.. It was done with great honor.
Thank you...

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Theresa Baker, Cedar Rapids, IA — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:09:26 GMT

Dear Ann,

I watched you this morning on the Today show and my favorite part of the whole story was when you said your dad taught you how to live and how to die. I have been fortunate that both of my parents are still with me. But I realized that my time with them is fleeting. One of the things that we are doing this summer it that my siblings, their spouses and kids and I, along with Mom and Dad are going on a big family vacation to a resort that they took us to as kids. My little sister was not sure if she was going to join us and I had to reminder that we may not have this opportunity again and that she would regret it. Your story was an affirmation of that.

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Norma Burson, Shreveport, LA — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:19:47 GMT

Thank you for sharing this beautiful story of your father with us. My children could learn from your story. I have lost my parents several years ago and it still hurts.

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Victoria, Seattle, WA — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:25:47 GMT

I wish you peace. On Monday, May 26, Memorial Day will be the one year anniversary of the burial of my son. A story out of the northwest Puget Sound of three canoers who went missing last April 29, 2007. The first body being recovered May 15, 2007, my son. I never got to see him again...even in finding his body. I am happy for you in having those memories to look back on of your father. I would give anything to have held my son one more time, seen his face one more time...to whisper in his ear "I love you".

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Kaila Geurin, Grants Pass, OR — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:30:36 GMT

Hi Ann, I loved your segment about your dad, it made me cry again :) Hope your holding up well along with the family, I miss him just as much as you do.

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ALAN BRANCHEAU ,AUSTIN,TX — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:38:08 GMT

VERY SORRY I KNOW HOW YOU IT FEALS HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH,AS A FATHER I KNOW HE THOUGHT OUT OF ALL THE GIRLS IN THE WORLD YOU WERE THE BEST.

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Aundrea Cuffee, Chesapeake,Va — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:44:40 GMT

Ann, thank you for sharing your story about your wonderful father. You and your family are so blessed to share and treasure those last days. My father passed away a month and one day prior to your dad, and it's been really painful. My family did not have the opportunity to make his last days, his best days. The day before he passed, I surprised him with a special little girl who always bought a smile to his face, and the last smile on his face, just priceless! It's a smile that will be never forgotten!

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Jenelly Shaw, Abingdon Maryland — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:46:13 GMT

I was so touched by your story. I lost my dad when I was 18 and it was very sudden. My life was changed forever. I always wish I could tell my dad that those little things that drove me crazy are the things that I miss about him the most.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this life changing experience.
Thank you for sharing

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kevin baltimore md — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:11:11 GMT

dear ann the story about your father made wish i had a better relationship with my father before his pasting be strong and may you and your family be blessed always

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Kristin Rubach, Colden, New York — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:20:57 GMT

For my english class we have to write an informative speech. This report has inspired me to write about how special life is and how we need to live to the fullest each and every day!

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N.Y.,Ma — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:24:38 GMT

Dear Ann,

Thank you for sharing your story on caring for you elders. My family is going through this right now with our mother who has breast cancer that has metastasized to her bones. Having your family come together is so important at this time. I saw how hard it was for your mother in the video and we have to think about our other parent also. My mom relies so much on my father, and I see it taking a toll on him (mentally and physically). You mentioned hospice, which is uncomfortable to some families. My siblings and I have been taking turns helping out which hasn't been easy. We all have work, family, and other obligations. We all feel stressed, but this is our mother who has worked so hard to take care of us and it is only right that we take care of her now. Thank you again!

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Nikki Martin, San Diego, CA — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:34:13 GMT

Ann,
I was late for work today because I had to watch the story about your father. That was so moving and emotional. After losing my mother suddenly five years ago and a brother to suicide a year ago, you just reminded me once again, how precious life is. All I can say is, based on what I know of you from the Today Show, is that your parents raised one amazing woman. Your strength blows me away. Thank you for sharing your story.

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Julie Burnett, Akron, Ohio — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:52:32 GMT

Ann, I can't tell you how much your story meant to me today. I am a hospice social worker and count it an incredible honor when families allow us to walk those final months, weeks, days with them. I referred to your piece as, one hour later, I met with a daughter to sign her mother onto hospice services as she struggled with thoughts of losing her mom. Please continue to educate the world about how hospice can be a support during those difficult times. So many families wait too long to choose hospice. There is so much we can do to help when given the opportunity. Thank you so very much, Ann, for your transparency in the midst of your grief.

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Dana Cohn, Miami Beach, Florida — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:11:25 GMT

Hi, Ann.

I am so touched with your relationship with your dad, and the family closeness your shared. I can most definitely relate, and while I am sad for you, I am happy that your were able to share, and recognize the good in your father, and had enough gumption to know what to chronicle so you could go back and look at it at a later time. I would like to share with you, my mother’s obituary(which I wrote, and am very proud to share with) perhaps it will make you smile, and find some more peace with whatever decisions or thoughts you may have had in your Dad’s passing.

If yu like, refer to my webpage; included in this message, so you can see pictures of our family....ALL 3 of us!!!!

with warm regards,
Dana Cohn

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Ann Polise, Whippany, New Jersey — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:12:23 GMT

Dearest Ann,
What an extraordinary women you are to share your father's last days before "going home". This tribute to your dad's memory may help others cope with impending death of a loved with dignity and respect. I lost my wonderful husband of twenty-five years a year ago to cancer. Like your dad, he lived life to the fullest right to the very last breath. We never gave up hope although his cancer was progressive and uncurable. He continued to make plans and made the best of every day. It was fortunate for us that I was able to care for him at home until his "falling asleep". I know how much you and your family miss your dad, but he is only a memory away and is with you always. My deepest sympathy and may you father's memory be eternal.
You were very impressive and gained my respect when you spoke at the State Theater in New Jersey several years ago. With deep admiration and respect, love and peace be with you, Ann Polise

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Dana Cohn, Miami Beach, Florida — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:13:18 GMT

My Mommy...To Ann....

“Tootie”

October 2005 Mom was complaining about breathing after returning from one of my parents awesome summer trips. You see, the planning of the next trip immediately began when the plane touched the ground from the previous trip. My Dad would gather the brochures from all parts of the world, weed threw them, and say to her, "Moyn..."( that is his nick name for her) what do you think of going to, uhhhhhhhhhhhh...."with his famous Ted pause. So that summer they decided on Italy (which was there favorite home away from home vacation country. Only this year Mom had some difficulty walking through some of the streets, when they were away. She thought that she was just tired, or my Dad was pushing a little too much (which is so not his style....)she went to the Dr. to check out her breathing, never knowing this would be the start of a journey that pushed not only Mom but all three of us to limits we did not know we had. Mom would say every so often “I want to wake up and realize this is all just a bad dream, and everything will go back to normal “(and so did we).
"Mom's initial diagnosis of lung cancer was a real emotional hit. Her closest and most special relative, Uncle Paul had passed of this disease, and I know it really saddened her to see Uncle Paul, so sick, and weak...and here she was handed the same fight. But, Dr .visit after Dr visit, Mom kept plugging along. Her acceptance words after every visit was "It is, what it is." Or "You are basically just keeping me alive; on a low day." ( but the truth is, she/we did much more than just stay alive during the 2(+) year fight, and we dealt with this together. Every doctor office visit, every chemo treatment, every night in the hospital just to make sure my Tootie was taken care of, and we were always together to make sure we understood her treatment as clearly as we could. We gave her a kick in the tush when she was low, or a distraction to not focus on the negative or things she had no control of.
My mom only wanted a smile from her Dr. as she entered the dr. office (hoping that he had pre read her scans and they would be good news, and that she was beating the cancer) but a frown, well we knew that was not good news. This entire disease had been like a roller coaster ride. Mom’s will, strength, and humor, have all been traits that helped her fight this ugly disease to the end.

So, now that you understand how we got here, let me tell you about my Mom. My Mom was full of piss and vinegar. She didn't put up with crap from anyone, she didn't mince words, and basically if she didn't like you, you knew it. There really wasn't a diplomacy factor involved with Tootie's personality. When I started to stay at the house last December, which was initially only to make sure she was comfortable after her chemo treatments. I started to see parts of my mom differently; with a better understanding of just how special a lady she was. Her insistence of doing certain things for herself (like cooking a gourmet meal, even though she was not feeling her best, which was her gift to us...like a good Jewish mother she was constantly cooking, but Tootie ‘s cooking was more sophisticated than the norm . She was on the recipe swap finding the newest and most knock your socks off spice or infused oil, or something you can't spell condiment, to order from the other side of the world. It was a constant surprise.
And I have to say up until the very last 3-4 months she picked herself up every morning took her arsenal of vitamins and supplements, and other stuff, and fought the fight, and we had fun. We cried. Not too much though(crying would not accomplish much and I never wanted my Mom to see me sad, that would bring her hopes down, even though we both knew this was not forever), and we talked. I learned a lot of things about the dimensions of my family that I didn't know, and this time helped me understand the dynamics of my parents, and how that affected me, and us. We took care of every thing together. I became her second hand, but make no mistake, she was ALWAYS in charge! She was very particular and organized about a lot of things. Dinner had to be made before we went out each day. We both hated looking forward to making it later, as it would eat into our Oprah, and Judge Marilyn time...and that was sacred time.
I will really miss our Friday date. It was Tootie and Cutie's day (I was cutie...Mom was Tootie, and together we were CutiePatootie) Every Friday was our day. We went to lunch and shopping. We tried to choose a different place to have lunch every week to keep things interesting. If we wanted to dress up for good people watching it was Bal Harbor, but mostly we were just happy having the day together with no chores, just pleasure. I could gauge how Mom was feeling by the number of discount haunts we would visit on a day. 3 stores, well, Mom was feeling unbelievable. 2 stores- she was pretty good, but a little low on the real steam. 1 stores….well, she was trying to keep me happy.

I will miss our morning emails too. Although this little morning email thing started when I lived in my apartment, it continued when I was staying at the house, even though we were sharing the same computer. (I would wake up early and write her a morning note, and she would wake up an hour later). It was sort of a daily pick me up. If Mom had chemo I would say something like "good morning my strong sunflower." Some of the emails would say; good morning my Adorable Azalea,Or good morning my, “Perfect, petite Peach,” or good morning my "radiant rose." Some mornings we were both pretty hard pressed for coming up with words and adjectives that had the same first letter and made sense. Good morning my magnificent matzoh ball was clearly a stretch. But my favorite email was on Sunday morning September 9. Mom wrote “Good Morning to you, my best, best friend...”

Mom had, and taught me about class. I am going to share my mantra which is actually from an Ann Landers column that my Mom gave me many years ago, and describes pretty clearly what she passed to me.

Class Never runs scared. It is sure-footed and confident, and it can handle whatever comes along.
Class has a sense of humor. It knows that a good laugh is the best lubricant for oiling the machinery of human relations.
Class never makes excuses. It takes its lumps and learns from past mistakes.
Class knows that good manners are nothing more than a series of small sacrifices and minor inconveniences,
Class bespeaks an aristocracy unrelated to ancestors or money. Some extremely wealthy people have no class at all, while others who are struggling to make ends meet are loaded with it.
Class is real. You can't fake it.
Class is comfortable in it’s own skin. It never puts on airs.
Class never tries to build itself up by tearing others down.
Class is already up and need not attempt to look better by making others look worse.
Class can “walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch.”
Everyone is comfortable with the person who has class because he is comfortable with himself. If you have class, you've got it made. If you don't have class, no matter what else you have, it won't make up for it."
I am certain I am going to miss a lot of things as the days go by.
I will truly miss my mom. But I don’t know that we would have ever enjoyed the friendship we had, if she had not gotten sick, and we had not had this time together. So, while I am truly sorry that she is not here today physically , the time we had together was truly a gift(and I knew that while it was happening) , and I am lucky enough to have a gift like this for the rest of my life in my heart.
I hope my Mom is with her mother, Dorothy and Uncle Paul.
I love you my beautiful Tootie.
July 19, 1941-October 29, 2007

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Betty Gilbert Suffield, Ct — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:15:19 GMT

Thank you for your touching story. On March 8, 2008, I lost my mother to ovarian cancer, 12 days after she was diagnosed. Her last days were spent with family reminiscing. I told her that where she was going, she would have no limitations, she'd be able to see again after losing her vision 15 years ago. She'd finally be able to see her own face and the face of her two great-grandsons ages 6 and 2. I do believe that she is reunited with her loved ones who went before. With the help of 24 hour care, Hospice and my wonderful cousin who dropped everything to help take care of her, Mom died peacefully, pain free and at home.

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Barbara Martinez, Colton, CA — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:28:42 GMT

Dear Ann,
Something made me stay in bed just a little longer than usual today and now I know why. Last night I went with my parents to attend a family dinner. It was during a discussion at table that my dad, just diagnosed with ALS, quoted something from the Bible and added his thoughts to it: "'A people without hope shall perish.' I have ALS, but I still have to have hope that there will be a cure and that I will get better. Otherwise, I may as well give up." I was just thinking this morning, before watching the segment on your father, that I should write this down and start writing down the thoughts he shares with everyone as he struggles with this disease. Watching the story about your father just confirmed that I should do this regularly. I found that our fathers have many things in common and I want you to know I found great comfort in your story. My condolences to you and your family. A beautiful story, Ann. Thank you for sharing it with us today.

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Trish Seidle, Mt. Penn PA — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:41:22 GMT

Thank you Ann. My Dad is battling cancer. Your video made me realize that I need to take more pictures and spend more time with my parents. I keep putting it off because I'm busy and so far away. Now I realize I will never get this time back. Thank you. I will be praying that God comforts you and your family like only He can do.

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Chris Tumminello, St. Louis, MO — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:47:20 GMT

Ann

After watching this I can now see that yuou are definetly your father's daughter...you are so much like him facing tough challenges with grace and a lot of laughter. I doubt that there is even a 5 min span that your laughter is not recorded on Today. You are an incredible person just like your dad. I am truly sorry for your loss. I am glad you have such great memories to share.

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Kevin Hanan, Seattle, WA — Sat, 24 May 2008 01:03:21 GMT

Hello Ann,
I lost my dad on April 8 just a few days before you lost yours, from an 8 month battle from cancer, so I know what your going through. May your happy times and memories with your dad help you get through this tough time. I hope your family, especially your mom, is getting through this difficult time. Its been very tough for myself and my mother. Hopefully time will heal the pain.
With Father's Day fast approaching, let's remember our fathers for the great men that they are.
God Bless and Thank You Ann.

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Elvia Rucker, San Diego, California — Sat, 24 May 2008 01:06:41 GMT

I wept with emotion as I watched your loving tribute to your wonderful father. I lost my 88 year old father in August. My very large family also rallied to provide the best care we could. It took a 2 year "tag team" family effort and hospice support to take care of our father at home. When he took his last breath, we, his children and grandchildren were at his side. I miss him terribly especially his humor.
Thank you Ann for sharing. I admire you so very much!

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Ruth Ann Sesler, Greenville, SC — Sat, 24 May 2008 02:09:42 GMT

Thanks so much for sharing this story, I lost my dad on April 29, 2008. It's still so fresh in my mind. I miss him every day.

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David Lather, Traverse City, Michigan — Sat, 24 May 2008 02:18:32 GMT

Dear Ann:

I watched the moving tribute to your dad on Nightly News and then again on the Today show, this morning. I am not ashamed to admit that your story brought this 73 year old man to tears both times. I know how strong and brave your dad was, because I was a caregiver to my wife of fifty years as she fought a similiar battle with leukemia, from 2003 to 2006, which included a stem cell transplant. We both ultimately lost our loved ones to blood cancer but we also know that the cancer did not conquer their strong spirts, their love for us, or the legacy and memories they left for us. When I look at that beautiful picture of you with your dad, it is easy to see the aura of love that existed between you and your dad. When I reflected on that beautiful picture of you nestled up to him, it brought back the same deep emotions and flood of tears I experienced that afternoon when my sole mate died in my arms. I cannot thank you enough for sharing such a wonderful and personal story with us. What a tribute to the both of you. God bless you and your family.

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Barbara Miller, Placerville, California — Sat, 24 May 2008 02:35:06 GMT

Dear Ann, Thank you for sharing your father's story with us....It was a touching and beautiful story filled with family love and affection. You are just the best...

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Nancy Gresbrink — Sat, 24 May 2008 02:56:54 GMT

Dear Ann,
Your story about your father was so tender and beautiful. i can identify with you as I lost my father a little over two years ago. Like you, I was blessed with a wonderful father who was always there for me. Our fathers will live in our hearts forever. God Bless you and your family.
Nancy Gresbrink, Portland, Oregon

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Cathie Vargas, Wellington, Florida — Sat, 24 May 2008 02:59:29 GMT

Dear Ann,
I want to Thank You for sharing your story about your dad with us. He sounds like he was a great man and you have so many loving memories of him to share with your family. Thank You for making my day every moring you are truely a wonderful person.

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Margie Silvestrini, Omaha, NE — Sat, 24 May 2008 02:59:33 GMT

I lost my dad three years ago and it still hurts. Thank you, Ann, for sharing the story of your dad's last days--it not only brought tears to my eyes but also made me laugh and smile. You are one of the best! Hang in and God Bless!

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Michele Davis, Tavares, FL — Sat, 24 May 2008 03:21:04 GMT

Thank you, Ann, for sharing the story of your Dad's last days with all of us. I found myself smiling through my tears while I watched the film and listend to the interview. I lost my Dad from lung cancer in April of 2007 and my Mom from breast cancer in July of 2002. Like your Dad, while their memory is alive, they are never far from us. My heart goes out to you. I've walked the same path on which you now find yourself, and I understand what you are feeling.

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Wendy B. Bethel, MO — Sat, 24 May 2008 03:29:38 GMT

Thank you Ann for sharing a piece of your heart with us all. I lost my dad much the same way in March 2007 and not a day goes by that I don't think about him or something he did to make us laugh. He so much enjoyed life and that was the hardest part of letting him go. I look forward to the day when we will dance and laugh again in heaven. I know you look forward to that day, also. Wendy

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Connie Scarlett, Madisonville, Ky. — Sat, 24 May 2008 04:16:58 GMT

Dear Ann, Thank you for sharing your heart warming story with the public. I know it must have been very difficult to sit and watch this article so soon after his death. I know it has brought you comfort and peace to share his life with others. As I watched the story, I had tears in my eyes since today marked 13 yrs. since I buried my Dad, so it was bittersweet. I lost my Mom 5 yrs. ago and although I miss them dearly, I know they are no longer suffering and are together! Spend as much time with your family as possible and tell them often that you love them! God Bless you and your family!

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Cassandra Kittles, Port Orange, FL — Sat, 24 May 2008 04:19:26 GMT

Thanks Ann for the wonderful story about your dad. I lost my daad three years ago to colon cancer. I know how difficult it was to see your father in agony. I didn't get a chance to see my father before he died because he had sent my husband and I on a cruise to the Bahamas. I didn't know even know my father had taken a turn for the worst until I got back and found an email from older brother. There isn't a day that doesn't go back that I wished we hadn't gone on the cruise. The other sad part about my fathers death is that he died on my mothers birthday. Ann, your father will always be in your heart just like mine. I will continue to pray for you and your family. We wish you the best. God Bless you Ann.

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Irene Bustamante, Barstow, California — Sat, 24 May 2008 04:51:43 GMT

Dear Ann, I cannot tell you how timely your very unselfish sharing of your dad's last days was for my family and me. I am currently going through Chemo for melanoma that has reappeared after 14 years. My daughters especially have had a hard time with the news of my impending death. While I am as prepared as anyone can hope to be, I was able to relay to them my thoughts and hopes for the future. Your article added to these thoughts and hopes for my family. Thank you so much and may God bless you and your family.

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Laraine Michaels Coconut Creek, Florida — Sat, 24 May 2008 11:39:20 GMT

Dear Ann so sorry to hear about your loss you are one of my favorites and you always keep a smile on my face I know how you loved your father he will always be in your thoughts with much affection Laraine Michaels

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Donna Rollier, Schenectady, NY — Sat, 24 May 2008 11:57:00 GMT

Thanks for sharing the special time your shared with your Dad. I lost my husband to a rare Non Hodgkins Lymphoma in 2000. I wished at the time it hadn't taken his illness to make us treasure every second we had with together. Hopefully you have saved people learning this lesson so late in life.

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Lynne Nelson , Fayetteville, Georgia — Sat, 24 May 2008 12:55:30 GMT

Ann -
As I sit here and watch your story tears start pouring down my cheeks...my Dad passed away almost 4 years ago and we were very close. We all encouraged my Dad through this difficult time too - just as he had encouraged us our whole lives - cancer is very hard - but God uses hard times to make us stronger and closer to Him.
Just as you documented - we all met with hospice too -a meeting we never wanted to have - but they were so gracious and guided us through every step...we felt and still feel the most incredible peace about my Dad - we will all be together forever one day - that peace is how I keep going every day...at the time my Dad passed away my girls were only 6 years old and 7 months old - the pain I felt of them not know my Dad hurt so much - but I talk about him everyday and have many wonderful pictures and video of him when he was so healthy. Thanks so much for sharing your heart with so many - I believe sharing with others helps you to heal too.

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Rhonda Gifford Mechanicsville Virgina — Sat, 24 May 2008 13:36:14 GMT

Dear Ann,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I am 36 years old and just lost my father 5 months ago to brain cancer.He to was also a man of strength and compasion and who was more concerned about us than himself when he was diagnosed, but we knew that he was scared of the unknown of what is to come. But my dad was a fighter because they gave him six months and he lived for two years. I have been watching you for many years and I felt your pain and saddness watching this wonderful but at the same time painful to watch our loved ones go through something that we have no control over and can't take the hurt and pain away!!! Thank you for sharing and you are in my prayers.Take oneday at time for as we know when we go through something like this every breath and even the wind blowing through our hair we know that it is a blessing each and everyday!

Rhonda

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C. Pye — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:00:32 GMT

Ann, The story about your Dad was beautiful. It brought many fond memories back to me of my own parents. My mother died at 51 from breast cancer & my Dad at 64 with lung cancer. When we laughed & joked at the funeral home with each of them, people who did not understand, scoffed at us. My parents wouldn't have wanted it any other way. My Dad was the last one to go at 64 and by far harder to me handle mentally. I felt as though all of my ties to this earth had been severed and I was free-falling through space but I got through it (it's been 12 years). After his funeral, the hospital where he had worked for 40 years sent over a huge ice chest of his favorite beer (Budweiser) and two huge trays of sandwiches and his first class of X-Ray students (Daddy started the X-Ray school at that hospital) came over & we sat & reminisced & laughed for hours. I can't think of a better way to honor my Dad.
I know you will miss him, but I also know you that he is still with you & that you will see him again.

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Tracie Gettysburg Pa — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:12:50 GMT

My Dearest Ann.
Your Today Show Family & Viewer's Been Sending you Some Great Thought's to you & Your Family. But There's One Thing. How Did your Kid's Feel about There Grandfather. It Hurt's to Lose a Love One. I Would Love to Be There Setting Next to you on The Studio 1A But Matt is There. I Know you all Will Celabrate Father's Day Week But If There's a Hard Part you Hold on to AL's Hand & Grip it & also DO That Matt also. Because in The Last Few year's Matt Has Lost His Father. SO Matt & AL Know to Take Care of There Friend That's you. If you Can't Hold it in Just Tell Wave it to The Cameraman to Then That would Go to an Break Till you Get a Change to go on. But I'm alway's Will Be Here for you. I Have Lost Two of My Grandfather's Both of My Parent's Has Lost There. We Took in My Mother about 5 Year;s ago after She Tried to Go On But My Grandfater Died about 10 Year's ago. It's Got to Be Hard to Be Brave for you & Your Mom to Hold a Smile Now. But Has Year's Go My you will all Remeber The Great Year's. If you want to Call Katie to Talk Because She also Lost a Love One also.

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Jennifer Jacquet-Murray, Bronxville, NY — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:15:05 GMT

Thank you Ann, this was useful and helpful to me. My father was diagnosed two days ago with Stage IV pancreatic cancer, which is uncurable. He is only 58 and I am 27. I feel blessed that he and I have such a good relationship (after some strain when I was a bratty teenager) and that I was lucky enough to have him walk me down the aisle. I will cherish whatever time I have left with him. He's also a big fan of corny jokes and sarcasm so I especially related to your story. Thank you!

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Sue Goldstein — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:29:10 GMT

My dad died 10 years at 86, after playing 18 holes of golf, eating his favorite yogurt and being with his favorite gal. Being far away, I talked to him while he was being transported in the ambulance and all he say was, "How are you, honey?" That was a typical response as he always was looking out for others. Ironically, he passed on the same day he scored his first hole in one. He was driving a used Cadillac so he could pick up all of his croonies to take them grocery shopping and out to dinner with his coupons, of course. But during the eulogy which I delivered at his house, folks poured in to pay their respects and each and every one of them said, "You know, Susie, Bill was my BEST friend" He had lots of them. He had two wishes for me...that I should find a husbnad after 30 years of raising my son alone and that he should has himself scattered on one famous golf choice. I am happy to report that his wishes have been granted.

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Ellen Ringle, Merrimack, New Hampshire — Sat, 24 May 2008 15:55:01 GMT

Dear Ann, Thank you for your dignified, honest, sincere, and loving portrait of your beautiful dad. My own troubled relationship with my father has been a difficult part of my own journey. I mourned him long before he passed away last May. It has been a year now - I still feel empty. Your witness of a powerfully meaningful relationship with your own father helped me to see the importance of being the best person I can be for my children so that they can learn, as you did, how to be the best person they can be. God bless you and I thank God for your voice, and example of dignity and grace.
Peace be with you.

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Bobbie H. — Sat, 24 May 2008 16:16:22 GMT

I too lost a parent, my mom, just over a year ago. I cried when watching the story. My dad died when I was 5 so my mom meant everything to me; and it gets more difficult every day. God Bless you Ann; keep all those memories in your heart. I believe we shall be with our loved ones again.

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lynn best — Sat, 24 May 2008 17:23:42 GMT

we honor our parents by becoming all they had hoped you would be, ann you did your father proud.

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Karen Gerrity, Oswego, Illinois — Sat, 24 May 2008 17:36:02 GMT

Dear Ann, I too was blessed with a dad whose sense of humor and warmth I will cherish always. My dad passed away two years ago. Audio, video and pictures are a wonderful way to keep memories alive. You are my favorite on the Today Show. I also enjoy watching you on Dateline. God bless you. Karen Gerrity

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Sue Procko — Sat, 24 May 2008 20:53:52 GMT

I have always admired and respected Ann Curry and this story is just one more reason why. I have buried both my parents. One when I was not yet a teen and the other about 25 years later. Taking care of and being available for elderly parents is truly a gift and yet one of the toughest we will ever face. My dad, too, died with dignity and I am glad I was available for him. Thank you for sharing something so personal Ann.

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Barbara Bowen Columbia SC — Sat, 24 May 2008 22:03:51 GMT

Ann, I just watched this video and was so moved by it. We lost our father in Jan. of this year after a year long battle with lung cancer. We only had hospice for a couple of weeks but they were wonderful. Death is not something my parents would talk about. After losing my birth dad and a husband I really wanted daddy to talk about it. I wanted to share with you this about daddy. He had a cancer spot on his nose that had to be removed. He was not able to finish with the plastic surgery part because of the chemmo. He always felt like he had to explain to everyone why his nose looked that it did and would always say"when I get better it will get fixed." When he passed I watched his nose go back to normal and was so amazed at the time. I knew god was with him and felt so much peace. My heart goes out to you and may god bless.

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Teresa Marchino, Medford, Ma — Sat, 24 May 2008 22:34:06 GMT

Dear Ann, I was so sorry to hear about your father. I remember when your mother died, that was also a trying time. My condolences are with you and your family. Take care. Teresa Marchino

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Mrs. Damean Hurt — Sun, 25 May 2008 01:20:50 GMT

Thank you for sharing your familys' journey as you assisted your father in his transition. My own mother lost her mother over 20 years ago, and she still misses her acutely. I can't imagine being without my mother; but I will always remember what she tells others when they are coping with loss: "You don't ever get over it, you get better at it."

May you and your family have peace, faith and strength.

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Kathy Rogero, Franklin, TN — Sun, 25 May 2008 02:19:42 GMT

I cried as I watched this piece - her experience was so similiar to mine. I lost my Dad in Dec 2005 and I'm so glad I have pictures and memories of his final days. There will never be a day go by that I don't think of something he said or joked about - it's what gets me through the day. Thank you for allowing us to see what a special man your Dad was.
May your sense of humor and loving memories help you in your time of grief.

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Brenda Hiscott, Pinehurst NC — Sun, 25 May 2008 02:27:19 GMT

Dearest Ann, thank you from the deepest inside of my being for sharing your most private, but yet the most precious memories. I lost my dad on the operating table at Duke Medical Center two years on May 19,2006. I thought we were going to lose my mom that night, but God was with us and Dr. Glower told us he could hear us praying the last two hour of dad's surgery after he told us things were not going well. I think I really learned how to pray that night.
Ann, you and your family are in my prayers. When I lost my dad I spent the next 6 weeks in VA with my mom, because dad ask me during the ten days we were at Duke with test etc. to look after my mom. Ann, I think he knew, dad was a minister with strong faith and was very close to God and I think we all have a season and everything is in God's time. Ann, you are a very strong, well balanced individual and no one can take away your wonderful memories. As we both know the hurt inside is just so deep and is so hard to describe and yet we don't have to. We just keep our father's with us inside our hearts and where we go, they will be with us.

My dear Ann, I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.

Take care and be strong.

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Christopher C. Gagliardi, Englewood, New Jersey — Sun, 25 May 2008 02:27:33 GMT

I am deeply sorry for your loss Ms. Curry, I lost my grandmother on May 9th, 2008, So i know how deeply your loss and how painful it can be. I pray for your wellbeing and more importantly, I share your grief.

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Ligia B. Mora Silver Spring, Maryland — Sun, 25 May 2008 03:59:58 GMT

Ann,
God Bless you with your parents and your family.

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Mr. Dana Ence, Rogue River, Oregon — Sun, 25 May 2008 07:41:58 GMT

Dear Ann, While watching this video, I had tears in my eyes and a smile on my face, because it reminded me of how special he was. I only knew him for about 3 years, but he always kept a smile on your face with his corny jokes, stories, and his genuine warmth and high spirit. We almost lost my mother in February, and Bob was 3 rooms away from her at Three Rivers. I went in to see him one evening, and you never would have known he was so sick, because he was so upbeat and cheerful. He truly was a wonderful man with a great love for life, and I know how proud he was of you and your siblings. His loss is a great one to all that knew and loved him. His courage in the face of his illness was truly inspiring. My sincerest condolences go out to you and your family, he ewill be greatly missed.

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Barb Smith, Warwick, Rhode Island — Sun, 25 May 2008 12:26:02 GMT

What an incredibly moving and gracious tribute to an amazing man! This piece is testimony to the depth of the human spirit and to both you and your dear father. My father passed on about one year ago, a highly decorated World War II veteran and a gentleman with a quiet and dignified spirit - one of "The Greatest Generation." Your presentation was so dignified, so gracious and so genuine. I found myself moved almost beyond words. Thank you so much for sharing so publicly that which so many of us feel so privately. My good wishes are with you.

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Gary Wells — Sun, 25 May 2008 16:33:28 GMT

Dear Ann;
I watched your seqment about your father on Friday and was moved by the story. My father, like yours, was part of the "Greatest Generation", strong and never sick a day in his life. He is currently in his last days due to the onset of bladder cancer this past February. Like you, I am blessed to be able to spend what little time there is left with him, but it is not an easy thing to do. Letting people have a glimps into your pain and joy was extremely moving. Best Regards and Thankyou.

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Damon E. Gates, Williamsburg, Virginia — Sun, 25 May 2008 18:26:05 GMT

Dear Ann: God Bless You and your family - I was moved to tears as you allowed us into your personal life. My father was an Army veteran of World War II, Korea and Viet Nam: Dad father passed away in October 1996 while I was travelling out of the country on Business. Sadly, and regrettbly, I did not have the opportunity to spend time with Dad during his final days and hours - I arrived home too late. I have lovely photos and many fond memories of Dad: a very fine father and provider. There is so much I want to say to you: your Dad was a joyous and loving person, just like my Dad; he is watching over you. Thank you for sharing - with much Love and Respect: Damon E. Gates

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Mary M. Smith, Bridgeport, Ct. — Sun, 25 May 2008 22:17:55 GMT

Thanks Ann, for sharing this precious tribute to your dad! You have such a big heart and your compassion for others always comes through in your interviews. My husband, Edward, died from cancer almost five years ago and this piece brought up a lot of the milestones we went through from diagnosis to hospice and he fought this cruel disease with courage, humor and grace, just as your dad did. I asked God for one thing, that I could be at his bedside when he drew his last breath, not in the car on the way home from the hospital, not on my way to the hospital and not where I had returned to work after a brief leave of absence; and I was blessed to be there and to tell him what he needed to hear that he should go into the light, and not be afraid and that we would all be okay!

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Yiya M .Bencosme Englewood,NJ — Mon, 26 May 2008 01:59:21 GMT

My heart goes out to you and your family.

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Debbie Hillyard, Grass Valley, California — Mon, 26 May 2008 05:31:53 GMT

Thank you Ann! I suddenly lost my mom when she was 30 yrs old (I was 10) from an auto accident. The next year I lost my 32-year-old dad when I was 11 - he was severely injured as an on-duty sheriff's deputy and came home only to die of a complication of a ruptured aorta. He and I spoke just minutes before he left the earth.

Then strangely, some odd foster parents immediately threw away ALL PHOTOS and personal belongings of both parents - ordered us to never mention them either. I lost 100% of my memories. It felt SO insane to me that one day I went into the bathroom and cut my hair to look like my dad on top (short), long in the back like a female = I BECAME THE PHOTO OF MY PARENTS!

Twenty-five whole years later, a long-lost aunt found me and provided me with some very young (teen) photos of my dad. She quickly developed a brain tumor and died a few years ago, but I got 11 whole months with her and lots of stories and a dozen or so youthful photos of my dad and a couple with my young mother in them too.

I'M SO VERY GLAD YOU GOT YOUR DEEPLY PRECIOUS VIDEOS, PHOTOS, STORIES, MEMENTOS AND DEEP LIFE MEMORIES OF/WITH YOUR DAD! His essence and yours truly touched! Mine did too, with my dad, for those few weeks after he came home from the hospital when I was 11. He found a deep spiritual connection with God during his long hospitalization, then shared it with his 4 children only 5 weeks before he passed = TRIUMPHANT! Your lovely story was/is triumphant too! I honor you for sharing it! Thank you, Ann!

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Amy, Framingham, MA — Mon, 26 May 2008 12:54:12 GMT

Dear Ann,

You were so lucky to have the opportunity to say goodbye to your father. Not everyone does. My best friends father died suddendly, we were still in college, and that was so very hard on her and all of us. We grew up as a close knit group of 5 families and his death was so sudden at a young age of 50. I admit he was not in the best of health, he had a heart condition but we did not expect his death to happen as it did. Likewise with my own father 11 years ago when I was pregnant with my second son. After his surgery I came down with my sister to spend the weekend him and my mom. My sister chose to stay down in Long Beach with them when I returned. After his discharge from the hospital he was not 100% and my mom brought him back to the hospital and it turned out he had a staph infection. I never go to say goodnight because he passed during that night. I remember when I called my girlfriend to tell her she said welcome to the worst club you could ever be a member of "The No Father Club". Not a day goes by that I don't think about my father and all that he has missed experiencing with all of us. I still miss him but it does get a little easier as time goes on

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Nancy Lowell, Ma — Mon, 26 May 2008 14:38:57 GMT

Ann

I can so relate to what you are going through,last April my family lost my dad and there is no way to explain what that feels like and how final it is. My Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. We did exactly like you spent every minute we could with him and took pictures and videos every chance we could and I treasure everyone. I will not lie it is still hard everyday but with family and friends and knowning dad would not want us to be sad we go on and talk and laugh together telling stories about him and remembering everything he taught us. I wish you and your family well.

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Kristy Lombardi, Morro Bay, California — Mon, 26 May 2008 14:49:54 GMT

Ann, what a touching story shared to us with your father, Bob and family. To watch this and see how precious our lives are with each other...this truly is what life is all about! May Bob's spirit with you always.

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Jim, Seattle, WA — Mon, 26 May 2008 15:44:22 GMT

Ann
Thank you for sharing such a personal story as the loss of your Dad. One of the things that sets the Today Show apart from its competitors is how you all relate and connect with all of us, through the fun times and difficult. I lost my Dad to brain cancer 19 years ago, when my wife was pregnant with our first child. He never got to know either of his grandchildren, which saddens me every day. I also wasn't with him during his final weeks, which I also regret. Your story has moved me to remember to bring family together during those times, and enjoy the laughs and memories together. Thank you. Jim

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Kelley Herrmann, Palm Beach Gardens, Fl. — Mon, 26 May 2008 17:05:55 GMT

Hello Mrs. Curry,

My wife is a dedicated Today show watcher and I usually find myself checking out the various stories as I get ready for work and read the sports page. Recently there was a heart warming story about your father and his death from Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma.

I do not have any history of Leukemia or Lymphoma in my family nor have I ever been personally affected by these cancers, but I have always supported the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society from "Team-in-Training" events to even donating $50 for every real estate referral in my past profession. I was recently nominated to compete in the Man and Woman of the Year competition here in Palm Beach County. I accepted and I am currently in a fierce competition with a few other candidates to raise the most money for LLS.

I wanted to thank you for sharing your story on a national TV show. Since undertaking this huge fund-raiser I have heard many stories and met many people affected by blood cancers. Your story was moving and hits close to home for many because it was your father. A woman who lives on my street donated $20 because she had a family member that was affected by Leukemia, she is in the process of losing her house to foreclosure, yet found $20 to donate. Another young lady is going to donate her time as a bachelorette in my final fund-raising event on June 4th. She has agreed to be auctioned off to the highest bidder to have dinner. Funny thing is she has a boyfriend, his father died of Leukemia. I have a client who's uncle has been living for 12 years because of the "Magic Pill"-Gleevac that is curing 90% of chronic myelogenous leukemia (CML) patients.

I wanted to let you know that your story helps with fighting these cancers. It is the national attention we need to fight these cancers. I am very afraid of death and can't fathom the day I will lose a parent. Your story helped me personally understand that the day will come so we need to cherish the days we have, but it also gave me a renewed motivation for my fund-raising activities. As a matter of fact, I would be remiss if I didn't ask you if you would like to donate and/or pass this e-mail on to any friends or family that would like to donate here is my fund-raising website:

http://www.active.com/donate/pbmwoy08/pbKHerrma or

www.lls.org/pbmw and click on Kelley Herrmann.

Thanks again for sharing your story, it was inspirational.

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Mindy, St. Peters, MO — Mon, 26 May 2008 17:39:18 GMT

I was so touched by your segment that I was almost late for work. I had to stay and watch. My grandfather who was like another dad to me passed away in MArch. Your segment made me cry, and I haven't been able to cry except at his memorial. I remember in your piece you said that your daughter said it was a great funeral, I thought that about my grandfather's memorial. I think great pepople leave behind great legacies and for that they are remembered when they pass. My grandfather was living on borrowed time, so I rationalized his death as his peace. After seeing your segment I cried in greif. Later that day one of my second graders, who lost their mom this eyar came up to me amiled and gave me a hug. I felt at peace with his death. THe doctors told us three years ago that he was at end stage of emphysema. He sruvived an anuerism, house fire, heart attack, mild stroke, and many bouts with bronchitus. I remember the trip to the ER in which they told my family this was the end and he turned to me as he struggled for air and he said, well kiddo, when's your wedding? I knew what he was thinking I was thinking it too. I said oh pop, you'll be danicing with me at my wedding, don't worry. When the dj announced that it was time for me to have a special dance with my grandpa I walked over to him as he finished his breathing treatment and he smiled. As he heard the bginning to "What a Wonderful World" and said, "darling this is the perfect song." I said I know. We had many conversations about the song, so I knew it had to be. THe night before he past away I brought my IPod to play our song for him one last time in the hospital room. My grandpa was sleeping as I put one of the ear pieces into his ear he woke up and held my hand. We didn't speak, he didn't have to. He and I had already had our good-bye a few nights before. At the very end he sang the "Oh yeah" part. And I gave him a kiss and said "we'll always be dancing in my heart." That was the last time I talked ot him while he was awake. That night I got a phone call at around 2 am. They had upped the morphene and he would be sleeping from then on. WHen I arrived my family was gathered around him, they had just finished praying and said that Papa said "Amen" at the end with them. A few days before the doctor explained that he would not be leaving and if he did, he'd be sent home with Hospice. The doctors were trying to explain that this was it and all they could do was ease his pain. In his true fashion he explained that he didn't want to be put on morphene because he might want to pray with his family before he took his last breath and as he said "JEsus didn't have any morphene, and he didn't need it either." . We convinced him to take the morphene to ease our pain. When the preacher asked him just a few days before his death if he was afraid of dying he replied with no hesitation,no. HE said he was going to be hugging JEsus and his daughter who had died in her 19th birthday. As he took his last breaths we were all gathered around holding him and singing to him. When he took his last breath we wee all struck with sadness, but it was conforting to know that he wasn't sad. In his last wished he wrote "I know we will miss each other, but when we all get to heaven what a day of rejoicing that will be!" Your father and my grandfather seem to teach those around them the true meaning of courage. Growing up he was always my hero, through his death he has taught me the true meaning of courage, faith, and love.

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Althea Rudrow, Charlotte, NC — Mon, 26 May 2008 21:15:52 GMT

Dear Anne,
I have been a fan of yours since you started on NBC.
I was touched by the article published on Nightly News some time ago. Today I was more touched by your final chapter on your Dad.
I have never written a reply to any news story but felt compelled to respond to this article about your Dad.
You did an excellent job, as usual, with this story.
May all the fond memories that you have of your Dad sustain and keep you at this time of your loss.

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pam mashtare spokane wa — Mon, 26 May 2008 22:59:38 GMT

Dear Ann
I just read your story on your dad.BEAUTIFUL...
I recently lost a special person in my life this last Feb. I called her Ma, she was like my second mom.
Anyway, she was diagnosed with Lukeumia and died five day later.We were all shocked. She was a very loving person and shall be missed alot.
Your mom seems like a very strong woman.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK YOU ARE DOING.

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irasema tinoco el paso tx. — Tue, 27 May 2008 00:24:00 GMT

I just lost my dad. Your story made me feel like you were talking about my dad. Ann, your story and everything else you do in your life reflects on how much your dad was a part of you. May the blessing of God be upon you and your family.

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Mr. & Mrs. Everest Whitney — Tue, 27 May 2008 01:22:21 GMT

Hello Ann you have always been my favorete on the today show I too feel bad for you and your family and happy for the times and Memories you,s have that will always be in your hearts Love and the best Ann Everest & Joyce Whitney

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Liz Hutchings, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma — Tue, 27 May 2008 04:15:27 GMT

As both a Hospice and Home Health Nurse for the last 24 years--and an RN for 35 years--I can totally understand the multitude of feelings that you have, and so graciously have shared. I lost my Dad 23 years ago this year, and my Mom 8 years ago this year. I consider my self VERY fortunate to have strong memories of their impact on my life--which I have passed on to my own sons. Their legacies and strengths will assist my family through the challenges we all face. While I still have occasional tears--more often than not, I will break out in a smile and start laughing at some terrific memory---WHAT A TREASURE!

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Lindy, Thornton, Colorado — Tue, 27 May 2008 07:00:18 GMT

Dearest Ann - thank you so very much for sharing this with us, your TV family. I have watched you for many years - being you equal in age - and have fell in love with your human touch to all your "reporting". I think you are the smartest, classiest, on-queue lady taht there is in news reporting, BELIEVABLE TV today. Thank you for being you.

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M. Teasley, Norfolk, VA — Tue, 27 May 2008 08:27:18 GMT

Dear Ann,
My Dad died November 27, 2007. He was 93. I was part of a small team of care givers at his home for years before he moved from the hospital to a nursing home followed by assisted living. It is still hard for me to believe he is gone and that my husband and sons are not needed to provide care. It was a labor of love for his care giver/companion, church members, family and friends. I visited the cemetary today a family tradition for Memorial Day. But what about Father's Day?

My mother died of cancer 20 years ago. She was the joke teller in our family, while my Dad was more reserved. I loved them both and cared and visited daily for the most part.

Thank you for sharing your story with us.

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Sue, Detroit, michigan — Tue, 27 May 2008 12:53:31 GMT

Hi Ann,

I lost my father 8 months after I got married in 1992 and came to USA, never got to see him. It has been hard for me to forget him, even after so many years. You are lucky that you had so many years together and your children enjoyed him too. I am happy for your kids and you that you had the time.

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Linda Muhlbauer — Tue, 27 May 2008 13:39:54 GMT

Ann,
Your dad must have been an awesome person. I know you miss him. Thanks for sharing him with all of us.

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Vikki Hein, Roseburg, Oregon — Tue, 27 May 2008 14:06:35 GMT

Ann, Thank you for this gift of pictures, words and laughs. Memories are so healing especially when a life was fully lived. May God heal the hole in your heart with friends to wrap their arms round you and family to share these memories.

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Maureen Drummond, Ellsworth, Ohio — Tue, 27 May 2008 14:41:51 GMT

Dear Ann -
My mother, who is the primary caregiver for my 83 year old father, told me about your documentary and encouraged me to watch it. How vital it is to document the last years, days and hours of our loved ones lives. You have strengthened my resolve to make sure we have a history of our loved ones. Thank you - form the bottom of my heart. You are truly an inspiring human and journalist. Your stories touch hearts and drive at the essence of what is right and wrong in our world - thank you! I am a big fan!

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Kathie Reddy Port St Lucie Fl — Tue, 27 May 2008 14:43:51 GMT

Ann First of all I am sorry for your lose. I lost my dad 28 years ago and your storty brought back all my memories of my dad. I does get alittle easier but don't ever forget them.I still have my mom and try to get to see her as much as I can but she lives in Ct. and me in Fl. and it's not easy. Your dad seemed like a great guy and him and your mom brought up a very great person in you.I hope your dad knew just how much he was loved, my dad was in coma last hours so I only hope god let him know we were all there with him. It was very hard for me I was in with him when the very end came and that machine stoped. God bless you and your family and you are in my prayers.Again sorry for your lose.